Thank you so much. You are a beautogul and kind person for making this video

Thankyou so much for this

THANKYOU

Hi, I didnt really listen closely to anything in your video bc I was crying, but I did hear you say you were becoming a therapist, and that made me happy (i was still crying, but still happy to hear that). As someone in between therapists rn, this video helped me get through the day. You would be a great therapist, and I hope and pray everything works in your favor for you to become one. You have such a gentle presence. (Still crying, but thank you for the video ❤)

dude your hair looks soo good. looks so smooth wish i could feel it with my hand😂

It's possible ❤

You knew exactly what to do without making it worse and making me feel like I had to change my emotional state for you. Thank you for not giving compliments during this time and for giving an option to decline the hug at the end. This is really special. Thank you.

This was really good. I finally smiled afterwards after a long time!

Thank you so much for this video. You make me feel seen, heard and accepted. It means a lot to me. I have BPD and the things you say are so recognisable. The affirmations made me cry. You just say all the things I need to hear. You are an amazing person and I’m grateful that you are helping all of us. It means so much. ❤️

Thank you so so much for this video. Im dealing with anger and fear of abandonment right now and im trying to calm down right now because i feel like my emotions are consuming me. I felt understood for the first time in a while, thanks (sorry for bad English)

Watching your videos have helped me so many times over the years, especially this one. Thank you 💞 I hope you're doing okay

i love the blanket thing, it’s like we’re having a deep talk under the sheets at a sleepover :) really comforting

You are a breath of fresh air ✨ 💕 2 big 👍👍⚖ UP UP AND !!! 🇨🇦 A way

I am Angry all the time but nobody cares

hey, i have bpd thank you for the advice helped a lot im subscribing and i just did this for my channel too :)

this helped me so much with my nightly urges. they were particularly bad tonight and you helped me fall asleep instead, thank you <3

Please make more vids! Hope you are well.

I just found your channel and it’s pretty awesome. You should keep doing what you’re doing. I think it might be saving lives.

i cried. but i needed to. thanks

The video plays ads 🤨 Very disruptive

Omg I hv severe bpd n Ive been anxious asf so thank you 😭

i get so embarrassed when i’m extremely suicidal, i had a massive mental breakdown today because my partner couldn’t comfort me the way i wanted to be comforted- He was trying but i got mad:( i feel so terrible and it hurts me

This video is a treasure for me, thanks for everything you’re doing.

How are you ? I’m hoping you are well !

this actually saved me from some shit i would regret. thank u thank u thank u.

I'm just seeing this in 2024, and thank you. I have BPD, partner of 5 years is so sick of my back and forth, so I'm currently at my mother's for the second night. I don't know what's in store, and I'm so lost. I hate the most that I've hurt her by my inconsistency and intense negativity. It's hard to see a bright future, even for just myself. Not with how much I dislike myself.

Thank you. This means a lot to me

U so adorable

So sacrificial is only a bpd feel huged 😊

Every second comentor has bpd is it even possible xd

Ngl I’m starting to wonder if I might have bpd because I know that c-ptsd can have similarities, but way, WAY too many of my searches related to my mental health over the past 3-ish years end up leading straight to “for bpd” type resources. Maybe both. Regardless, even though I have wondered this since I was ~13 it’s not like I can get diagnosed any time soon :/

Thank you

I know I’m late, but I just want you to know you got me through one of the worst break-ups in my life. I have quiet bpd, and i was suffering immensely in silence - i remember literally bawling my eyes out to the point i hyperventilated over my favorite person’s abuse. it’s about a year later; i’m in a healthy relationship with a boy who loves me dearly. your account came up on my home page again, and i just wanted to let you know your videos got me through one of the most traumatic points in my life.

Thank you so much! ❤️‍🩹 "you are surviving, you are alive" is so right 🥺💪

Thank you❤️ I didn’t know I needed your video - I just had a panick attack two days ago from an exam and I didn’t know I had not quite calmed down from it Thank you so so so much for your video - I didn’t know ASMR could help like this. You are so good at these videos and you have a true talent. All of your words, an explanations and guidance really helped me calm down and make an executable plan - also just calming down my headspace. Thank you so much. Thank you for all your compassion - you deserve all of the praise and compassion the world has to give you. Thank you. I wish you all of the best✨❤️ With love and the best of hope for your future🕊️❤️😊✨

This video is genuinely so good for harm reduction. Whenever I feel overwhelmed or like I need to hurt myself I watch this and 99% of the time it keeps me from doing anything bad!! I love your channel so much thank you for this

So great ❤

Thank you❤

I watch asmr everynight to help me fall asleep and tonight I was feeling so bad about myself, ive been crying for more than 4 hours, and really just wanted to take some rest.. its the first time I watch this “type” of asmr and I loved it, if you have bpd you must know how bad it is when you’re alone and have no one to call.. and im so tired, thank you very much sweetie 🥰 going to sleep muchhh better, God bless u! 🫶🏻

I haven’t commented yet until now, but I’ve been coming back to this amazing video for over a year now. It has helped me tremendously through so many mental episodes. It can calm me down like nothing else. Thank you so, so much!

Thank you so much for this video! I don't have bpd, but my combination of CPTSD and autism make for very similar symptoms. I accidently triggered one of my close friends today, which in turn made him mad at me and that triggered me. 😭You're the ONLY asmr channel that has stuff like this, and even though it's old it means a lot.

Oh my goodness I just started and I already feel like I'm going to cry. I have CPTSD and autism (which, put together are similar to bpd) and the hardest part for me is the shame. I know I was a child, but I feel like I could have done something to stop it. If I was different maybe my abuse wouldn't have happened you know? 😭 Lovely video though!!

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how are you? I still watch your safe space videos!

Hey, I saw you haven't posted in a while. Just wanted to say that this video quite literally ground over a very intense emotional moment where I was going to call a hotline. I know things may be hard for you - but know you are changing lives. I truly wish you to be able to continue on your journey, as you are so damn needed.

I find myself coming back to this video each time my flare ups get intense... my BPD caused me, my favourite people, and my family so much distress over the last few days, and I'm currently listening and following along to help myself calm down. I hate that this is my constant, but I am learning to accept these parts of myself in order to love myself a little more. Thank you for giving me hope with your words, compassion, and uploads. ❤

I'm totally speechless... I've always tried so hard to become what I felt like I should be, and told myself I'm doing it because I want to. In a school, in the army, in a college... I've always tried my best to become lovable for others who hurt me constantly. But nothing ever gotten better for me, and only conclusion I could get was that I was supposed to try even harder somehow... and I've eventually completely lost a sense of I, forgot who I am. I don't even know what I'm supposed to be anymore. However... it seems what I truly wanted and needed was being accepted as who I was. I've always thought, if I could make anything happen, I would wish myself to be different, less messy and sensitive, and even get a power or strength to protect myself from evils. But the truth is, I should've just been loved as who I was. I've never meant any harm or evil, always tried my best. I had no reason to deny who I was or blame myself. With this video, I finally got to tell the younger me that he's always been good enough, that he's genuinely adorable. And I realized that he had been hurt by that even I was refusing to see him and sometimes even called him a weak part of me. I shouldn't have been mean to him. I'm the one who knows how good he is more than anyone... I should've heard him and protected him. After I followed the steps on the video, I felt like, a spot on my heart that felt just empty and missing is no longer completely empty. It's probably never been empty but I just had refused to sense the inner child on it. Now I see that he isn't my weak part but actually the best part of me. He has so much joy, kindness, dreams and stories that I've already lost a while ago. It's hard to explain, but it truly feels like I found a missing piece of myself... Thank you. I'll often take time to hear him and love him. And I also wanna show him how incredible I am, how cool him in the future is...

This is something I didn’t know I needed but has helped me so so much. Thank you 🫶🏻

Thank you very much.

I'm someone who's not writing comments very often but I think it's necessary. I found your channel quite some time ago when I got diagnosed with CPTSD and felt like I was exploding emotionally if that makes any sense. And I was in awful denial about my trauma being valid. Since then, your videos have really helped me, especially if I couldn't calm my thoughts at night, had a flashback or woke up from a nightmare. I relate to how you feel about psychology and I really hope you find a way to mentally and financially being able to upload again. It would make me very happy for you and obviously help me (and a lot of other people). But please, if it's not possible, don't stress yourself. I think everyone here understands life's not always going according to plan. I think it would be super interesting to have videos about therapeutic strategies (from CBT, ACT or DBT for example) you can easily do at home. Like a "first aid kit". From what you said about your interest and knowledge, I think you'd literally be the best person to talk about it. Aftee this wall of text, I just wanted to thank you for each second of my life you've made more bearable with your videos. 💗 💗