Nice interview with movie and television actress Caryn Ward. LOL@Caryn hair. Caryn should wear black hair. I wanna kiss Caryn feet, legs, lips, shoulders. Caryn Ward, Grace Gealey, Beyonce Knowles, Zaza Ali, Karrine Steffans, Florence Ballard(RIP), Aaliyah(RIP), Jamie Valentine, Iva LaShawn, Keyshia Cole, Lauren London, Faith Evans are hot lightskin black women.
@summerstern6 ай бұрын
I hope Chelsea is ok/healing. The whole experience seemed very traumatizing.
@sarahalysse6 ай бұрын
She's doing really well! When the show was off she started on that healing journey and now she's running her event business & doing some promotional work for products :)
@ReedingBetweenTheLines8 ай бұрын
This is the best conversation! Love you both!
@sarahalysse8 ай бұрын
Thank you! Amber’s extremely inspirational & I’m so grateful I got to interview her!
@smartmarketing1739 ай бұрын
Not Chelsea already patting herself on the back for how adaptable she is in the first question…I’m gonna keep listening but was immediately on pause like, wait, the girl who told her bf he can’t go out for an hour? Adaptable? Her self esteem and perspective should really be studied by science
@emslyfe261310 ай бұрын
Personally I felt as though Jimmy only picked/proposed to Chelsea because Jess made him upset and he was so quick to give Jess up because he didn't really know what Jess looked like and in his head He was probably like you what Jess stresses me out but I have A girl who looks like Megan fox who wants me too so for him I feel like it wasn't all that genuine towards Chelsea tbh
@emanuelaemanuela10 ай бұрын
Funny what words you filtered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@helen.k10 ай бұрын
Good for you Chelsea. I always felt Jimmy was just thinking of his image and thus misleading you. Thank you for voicing your side.
@ReedingBetweenTheLines10 ай бұрын
This was such a great conversation. It's great to hear Chelsea's side!
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm so glad we got to start the conversation and get her story out there!
@candicef963810 ай бұрын
They didn’t respect each other. Jimmy was smart to get out of it! So unhealthy!
@jadesiapno10 ай бұрын
It’s kind of clear LIB is showing the drama the fact that we had so much love and success in this season even though it didn’t go to the altar and it just wasn’t shown. As well as a successful married couple they BARELY showed
@ksteip7710 ай бұрын
You go Chelsea! Believe me we could all see through Jimmy’s bs! He acted so much and gave the answers that he did to make himself look good for the world. Im glad you were given this opportunity to explain everything. Team Chelsea ❤❤❤❤❤
@rosalslara474010 ай бұрын
I knew she had a side to tell and I see it and all. But she didn’t say nothing positive about Jimmy idk why she wanted to still go through with it.
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
She was definitely in reflective mode because this was right after the reunion. Take a look at the Viall Files to see their interview together which came out yesterday.
@augusthaze870410 ай бұрын
They did all of this in 1 month WTH lol Jimmy: This is happing to fast Chelsea & Friend: But you knew this!!!! People need to realize that the idea of something and the reality of it are to very different things. You may think you want to go on the show and get married and when you are in the process it may become to overwhelming!! In my opinion that would be very normal to me if someone felt this way and the fact that he was expressing his feelings and fears is even better!!
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
Yes he did too as he signed up for this. I respect Jimmy for communicating the fears. I'm disappointed in the show for not showing the whole picture of the relationship. On Viall files they even talk about how they felt their relationship wasn't depicted well.
@adress1310 ай бұрын
I felt something was off about the editing of their scenes especially since all the other women seem to have a good rapport and respect for Chelsea. It was hard to see that being the case if she really was a pick me/ shit starter. And Jimmy said some interesting remarks when the got to the honeymoon that would definitely give me pause as to whether he actually liked Chelsea.
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
Right? if I didn't know her I would be confused because the girls and even the guys said how sweet and confident she was with them.
@ruth459310 ай бұрын
Yeah i don't think Jimmy was ever going to get married. If he did show up, he would have said no. He just needed an excuse and he was holding on to you sharing thst stuff about his ex, but she revealed that when you met her when she said she knew he was a crier lol. She wanted everyone to know. Please! Everyone thinks Chelsea mentioned the Megan Fox thing to get Jimmy to choose her over Jess, but i think he wanted to beat Trevor lol. I am glad Chelsea didn't end up with Trevor. But it could still be true that Jimmy wanted to beat Trevor lol.
@mallorymooney164410 ай бұрын
chelsea stan 🫶🏼
@-Lily741510 ай бұрын
I honestly don’t understand if he was showing her off camera he wasn’t into her.Then how were the good times soo good .Was that all for the cameras ?? How were the words and actions not matching if they were having a good time together ??
@-Lily741510 ай бұрын
Trevor the manipulator telling her after day 4 he loved her seems about right.
@alejandrailustra896610 ай бұрын
Chelsea looks amazing 🤩
@lovetwins8910 ай бұрын
Chelsea, noooooo, you're still not seeing it. He was not going to move forward with you under no circumstances. He was using the fact you brought up sex with his friend as an excuse. He wan't into you from the second he saw you. It sucks and doesn't make sense (other than he was expecting you to look like Megan Fox), but there it is. You do seem like a super cool person to be friends with and I'm glad you revealed so much about what we didn't see.
@SimplyGaby10 ай бұрын
I love Chelsea. I’m happy she is finally able to share what happened and you can tell how much she has grown
@ashleyj833610 ай бұрын
Watching the show I had a whole different outlook on Chelsea. Now that I hear her side of the story she is such a genuine person. Hope she finds the man for her, she deserves someone who loves her unconditionally. ❤
@audriebrinegar963210 ай бұрын
Proof editing is real. I mean she could have been putting on a mask but she seems like a really genuine person in this interview
@alyssachadney619710 ай бұрын
I love Chelsea. I was really routing for her and Jimmy, but now im just so glad she dodged that bullet. I knew there was more to these intense emotional conversations.
@AngelicatX10 ай бұрын
The way Chelsea was portrayed and her whole ordeal on the show reminds me of an episode of How I Met Your Mother where Mike Tyson says: "Here's the thing about crazy. When a guy sends mixed signals to a girl, it takes a toll on her psychological well-being. You wanna know why a girl acts crazy? Look at the guy she's dating. Then you'll really see some crazy." I feel like this is more often the case than not.
@cattoes160910 ай бұрын
SO... Chelsea looking a certain type of way is Jimmy's and LIBs fault? We all watched Chelsea accuse Jimmy of things that didn't happen. Chelsea says it twice in this interview, that she sees things the way she wants to see them calling it "rose color glasses". Well the other pair of glasses are insecure colored glasses.
@ArenaOcean123410 ай бұрын
She shared a lot that we didn’t see on the show but my question is if jimmy was so bad to her why has there been a bunch of tik toks of them two hanging out together and acting very flirty with one another 🤔🤔🤔
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
It looks like she's going on Vial files to chat about that so you'll find out soon :)
@ca.RICO.le3310 ай бұрын
For the women saying they “don’t get it” just close your eyes, then listen to all the men’s voices from this season. Jimmy is the only one who had that cute little country twang to it 😅 the rest of them all sounded similar IMO
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
lol he really did have a cute country twang!
@barbiru200710 ай бұрын
So glad I was team Chelsea!! This horrible cultural tendency to portray women as needy and insecure instead of highlighting how valid expressing your ideas and emotions is. Sad that Jimmy was a faker, I had hopes they would end up together after everything but I don't know if he's done the work he needed to do. To be fair transitioning from single to engaged isn't easy even when your mature enough. Great and honest interview!!!❤❤❤❤
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
yeah I don't think he was horrible but I do feel maturity and not being ready was the downfall
@LaydinGrace10 ай бұрын
I find this a bit odd that this is a podcast coming from a very small channel that’s she’s obviously friends with in the real world if she were supposed to be coming to the wedding? Has she done other interviews?
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
She just shared on her IG stories how she's going to be on the Vial Files. I was just helping start the conversation especially since so many other cast members go on long press shows early except Chelsea.
@kizzyd206410 ай бұрын
This is a very biased interview
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
Mentioned this to other people most of my podcasts have are about wellness, leadership & making sure people are comfortable to share their story. She will be on the Vial Files. I was just helping start the conversation especially since so many other cast members go on long press shows early except I noticed Chelsea didn't have the opportunity.
@lovelyrabbyt66610 ай бұрын
She does literally have the same eyes, nose shape, lip shape as megan fox. Listen, I will die on the cross over this I see the resemblance. But to mention it in the situation, I would say maybe save it for after the reveal lol
@SarahD198879 ай бұрын
I hope they find a cure for face blindness one day
@GavynGageHudsynGentry10 ай бұрын
This is really bazaar and very contradictory the whole way through… my brain hurts! She asked do you feel you’ve been portrayed right…. Noooo not at all?! But the whole way admits she was insecure …All the stories she told Just confirms yup that matches up with what everyone thought … he wasn’t gonna marry her so what’s the problem… all that portrays what I saw! this is craziness if what she said whole time is true then yes the show showed them accurately. They can’t show everything! But clearly they showed yall pretty great cause people were right. She blames everyone but justifies herself …Don’t say you think he wasn’t ready for marriage but act like you were and put that on him when you yourself say you had to get help for your insecurities and how this show helped you recognize your flaws?!?! Soooo you weren’t ready then ??? We didn’t need to see anymore girl we saw enough trust me we got it!!! It was clear yall didn’t work… The whole talk she contradicted herself left and right. I’m just confused lol! This is a mess! Prob why friends shouldn’t interview eachother they ain’t gonna call you out and they are totally bias! How about the Meghan Fox comment… I didn’t say it to sway him from Jessica cause he had already made his decision at that point? Wait what he just said in the reunion he hadn’t decided even up until that last date with Jessica?! So that don’t make sense….
@QManagerin10 ай бұрын
I must admit, I flip flopped back and forth between being "team Chelsea and team Jimmy" during watching the episodes. But now after the reunion and after other cast members from LIB spoken out about Jimmy...I do feel Chelsea got a bad edit. I felt from the beginning that Jimmy was fake. And the way he broke-up with her was really sinister. I hoped Chelsea would've come to her senses and say "no" to him after that cliffhanger -endig. Also, no shade but I never understood what she saw in Jimmy. He wasn't a looker himself (while being shallow) AND not a good character (from what I had seen on the show).
@mirb209310 ай бұрын
While I appreciate Chelsea’s honesty, I think it’s weird for her to say she’s fine with him having female friends, but there has to be a bunch of caveats to it. Either you’re okay with it or you’re not. If he hung out with his male friends a bunch and got relationship advice from them, it doesn’t seem like she would’ve taken issue. Cishet relationships are weird lmao
@jessicav699010 ай бұрын
The fact that the interviewer is just agreeing with Chelsea in every aspect and saying jimmy’s friend is at fault and essentially deserved what happened to her is so nasty. Even Chelsea acknowledged it was wrong.
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
I was just helping start the conversation especially since so many other cast members go on long podcasts early except Chelsea did not. There sounded like a lot of things that built up to that moment with continuous calls and the red flag was he hung out with his friend when Chelsea was out of town. She admits to not handling things perfectly but he also was not an angel.
@SpottedTiger8910 ай бұрын
Great interview! I saw myself in Chelsea at times and I think many women can relate to her experience. I'm glad she gets to share het side. She seems like a cool person. And to the interviewer, you did such a good job! Not sure if it's because you and Chelsea are friends, but I loved the empathy and warmth you gave off. Also love that you don't interrupt your guest like other podcasters.
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! She's a sweetheart and I really just wanted to start the conversation because watching it I saw the edit and the horrible comments being said about her. Thankful others are picking up her story now.
@monicamendoza400210 ай бұрын
ok but why do I actually see the resemblance with Megan Fox here? lol She is so beautiful regardless of who she looks like.
@Adanwanyi10 ай бұрын
Jimmy brought HIS friend on the show. Him and the friend are at fault- not Chelsea. Is he ok??
@jessicav699010 ай бұрын
Why is the friend at fault?
@Adanwanyi10 ай бұрын
@@jessicav6990 because she agreed to be seen on the show
@Adanwanyi10 ай бұрын
I hate the way Chelsea was treated. Like so much.
@LMCEMUM10 ай бұрын
Chelsea, I've seen you this whole time. And I've seen right through Jimmy the whole time. Excited to hear your perspective!
@azac962710 ай бұрын
He LEFT after you OUTTED his platonic friends… you begged him to stay… he reluctantly returned but YOU couldn’t accept his SUPPORT SYSTEM i.e. his friends… #1 red flag is trying to isolate and try to kill relationships and friendships your partners have
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
She talks about why she stayed with him. Also, there was a lot more build up to why that specific friendship effected their relationship which she shares too.
@azac962710 ай бұрын
@@sarahalysse friends talk every day... secure attachments which Chelsea is not used to... text facetime call socialize etc. also friends/family are your support system... so seeking advice about life decisions like marriage is not unusual... so no REASONABLE boundaries were crossed... Chelsea should have left and NOT TRY to isolate his previous social ecosystem... 101 control red flag
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
@@azac9627 respect your opinion. I just see it a little differently. To me it sounded like his friend was way into Jimmy and still wanted to be with him but he wasn't into her more than hooking up.
@azac962710 ай бұрын
@@sarahalysse yes that is what Chelsea thought as well... which was distorted as they clearly have a normal platonic relationship... but Chelsea doesn't know what secure attachment friendships look like... NB: both girlfriends were a problem for Chelsea not one, so the one he had ONE fling a night years ago wasn't the issue... female friends period are the issue if you are being honest...
@sarahalysse10 ай бұрын
@@azac9627 Maybe it's because I've seen her in previous relationships too and it was never an issue. Both Jimmy & her were on Viall Files if you are interested in seeing their dynamic. kzbin.info/www/bejne/d6Gmk3ujiKyEjcU
@melaniephillips782510 ай бұрын
Jimmy's words did not match his actions and that was clear on the show!
@marianita35510 ай бұрын
Omg, stop making yourself the victim we are woman not endless pits of pity… they did the same for man
@azac962710 ай бұрын
Friends text and FaceTime… that isn’t crossing boundaries lmao… just leave him…
@azac962710 ай бұрын
Set on Jimmy but Trevor was your #1 lol
@Authenticallysandy10 ай бұрын
Chelsea is beautiful, I don’t understand all the hate she was getting online 🤔
@vzee803710 ай бұрын
Jimmy was not giving Chelsea what she needed emotionally and physically so I’m surprised that she still wanted to go to the altar.
@mitragh759510 ай бұрын
This reality show is more unreal than a fictional one