Hello Jason, in the easypeasy book in a section he talks about the brain and the limbic system, which is where the primitive consciousness is, in other words, according to Allen Car, which forces us to act irrationally and feel desires, I agree with what you say in your videos but then the limbic system does not make us act irrationally at times, which is why many cannot control their impulses even knowing that there is no addiction, and that on the other hand it is always us acting consciously. . To this day I continue to break these beliefs and I want to devalue the value of pmo but I keep trying and I can't, some say it's a matter of time others say it's a matter of a snap to change, I don't know sometimes all this makes it more complex ... I'm sorry, yes my English is strange but I'm using the translator to write. greetings
@JasonRam2005Күн бұрын
So are you saying you believe there’s a part of ur brain that makes u pmo irrationally and impulsively?
@Jesusbull2 күн бұрын
Keep it up j
@hahahdbssi3 күн бұрын
You the man jason, great info. extremely helpful
@JasonRam20053 күн бұрын
@@hahahdbssi nice
@GE0attack3 күн бұрын
It's all about getting rid of the brainwashing nofap and easypeasy method has done. I think easy peasy method copied the smokers book and the guy who wrote books for smokers used a lot of Christian world views and bible way of thinking and that's one dimensional way of doing things. That caused most of the people who aren't Christian to suffer that's my thoughts
@AshishBhagat-tp5pg3 күн бұрын
I need an advice man I always thought perceived pleasure(pp) aspect of pmo is most difficult for me to debunk but if pp before reading tfm was 100 now after reading tfm a few times it is 10 but I still do pmo I think i have the strong habit of seeking my preference of pmo Since i used to do it all day now doesn’t matter what activity i do first thought i have its about pmo How do i clear my mind off such thoughts
@JasonRam20053 күн бұрын
@@AshishBhagat-tp5pg so when u do in that moment, u debunk it and find if ur better off not, try to see benefits in not in the moment.
@endygonewild28994 күн бұрын
Really helpful. Thanks
@MikeV86524 күн бұрын
I've said it this way: Giving up some huge number of future releases (for a time or a lifetime) is never the question. Unless your nickname in the locker room is "Johnson & Johnson," your releases come one at a time. Therefore, the only release that you ever have to give up is the next single one; and anybody can skip just one. That realization made all the difference for me.
@JasonRam20054 күн бұрын
@@MikeV8652 it,’s like eating a steak, u gotta take bites most of the time. Little by little u can realize u dont need it and that is preference change, as long as ur openminded
@dovidschecter86234 күн бұрын
Can you specify what you mean?
@MikeV86524 күн бұрын
@@dovidschecter8623 Since each release is a separate event, whether you can stop having them is the wrong question. In real life, the only decision you face is whether you want to have or not have the one that you could have within minutes. Therefore, you never have to give up more than one at a time, which is a manageable change.
@AshishBhagat-tp5pg5 күн бұрын
How do you thoroughly visualise yourself as mentioned in chapters 23 of master text. Chapter 23 talks about 2 ways to visualise which way you think is better
@AdrianIsaac-w7h6 күн бұрын
Yo my last comment too confusing, my point is to just be mindful and stop caring about these little things like anxiety, thoughts, and patterns, that's how you stop giving it value.
@nikvoci23927 күн бұрын
Hi jason! First of all, thank you very much for the videos and the course on PMO, it was very enlightening. I have a doubt that I cannot resolve and consequently prevents me from finding the complete picture of the situation. Using the mindfulness exercise I came to the conclusion that my fantasy is not so much focused on having a sexual relationship with the subject of the video, but more on seeing him in provocative poses and dances (example: a twerk video of a girl excites me automatically, without me fantasizing about having sexual intercourse). From this I understood that what particularly excites me is being a voyeur and not so much an active person. However, by doing this in this way it is impossible to dismantle the presumed benefits of the PMO. I would like to understand if there was any error in my interpretation. thanks so much in advance
@JasonRam20057 күн бұрын
A girl twerking cant objectively arouse u. If it did, itd do so for everyone but it doesnt. Once you found what u like, dont color rhe screen/video with that fantasy interpretation but rather nothing or sumn elze
@the_viper_mc44048 күн бұрын
So you’re saying we need to constantly question desire. Like should I write down my thoughts before, during, and after pmo, and do this everytime until i debunk myths like pleasure?
@JasonRam20058 күн бұрын
U dont have to write down during and all that, im just saying if ur confused, journaling ab it helps & question the things u believe ab porn
@AdrianIsaac-w7h10 күн бұрын
You have to See the exact "thing" your putting value on Let me picture the scenario Situation - Your having that one slight worry sensation in real time, You may have saw something or thought of something that triggered this slight sensation. You have all these Thoughts, sensations, concepts, things, images. Your seeing and feeling EVERYTHING and then you see that line or cord of electricity which is the Value you give and put on to these, and then you just stop caring and chill.
@JasonRam200510 күн бұрын
Im not following wdym
@GE0attack10 күн бұрын
This is the way. Every time I do it I have fantasies that I project onto the video. I think I'm in it with my girl. I'm looking for love I never had a connection and sense of being in with someone vulnerable and not afraid.
@JasonRam200510 күн бұрын
Yea, but theres a objective difference. With a real girl, there r 2 minds, with porn use there is only one (yours)
@endygonewild289910 күн бұрын
Fetishes are totally arbitrary. Just assigning pleasure to something.
@JasonRam200510 күн бұрын
Absolutely, assigning value, we do it with everything
@jamesworley988810 күн бұрын
What's your though on copulation? Is it for fun or procreation? I honestly think if we treat it as the later, we will live longer than believed possible.
@JasonRam200510 күн бұрын
What is copulation?
@jamesworley988810 күн бұрын
@@JasonRam2005 I prefer to say copulation on youtube because of restrictions, obviously I'm talking about the spasm during ejaculation.
@JasonRam200510 күн бұрын
Oh i dont think u need to spazz, idk tbh
@thekillaaffiliate690911 күн бұрын
Naaah Porn Weird Weird As hell n nobody watch porn and respect themselves, fuck moderation.
@mvashi10 күн бұрын
If that is your conclusion you have come to using PDP then only it will work. Do not white knuckle it. It will not work.
Have you read the PMO specifc freedom model? If not can you go through it in a video please :)
@JasonRam200512 күн бұрын
Im workin on it, just havent rlly put in the effort but i will
@mvashi12 күн бұрын
@@JasonRam2005 I have the pdf if you need it
@bb-ke3eb11 күн бұрын
@@mvashi مرحبا اخي , هل من الممكن ان ترسله لي
@ISHOWOP-tg3zh12 күн бұрын
Bro can you also post dropshiping videos on the side and also start your journey to become a millionare pls
@JasonRam200512 күн бұрын
Lmao, what
@juhaier_animates13 күн бұрын
I get three fricking feelings to get over 1. This kinda fiery ambitious content feeling 2. That feeling when you let go of something you forced like playing the game you forced your self not to play 3. it kinda feels like a hug or like some kindda really fullfilling thing
@ScreendoorK14 күн бұрын
Hey you’ve posted a lot of videos, I was wondering which ones/concepts would you say are the most important for quitting?
@JasonRam200512 күн бұрын
@@ScreendoorK addict self image, having a vision for abstinence, persistence, and devaluing pmo
@king_vlad15 күн бұрын
So you’re basically telling us to be more curious about our feelings about PMO and understand why we do these things?
@JasonRam200515 күн бұрын
Yes
@ISHOWOP-tg3zh15 күн бұрын
Bro you look like an indian
@JasonRam200515 күн бұрын
I wonder why
@user-ir9ip3zz1j8 күн бұрын
Oh Fr? 💀
@MikeV865215 күн бұрын
Could anything limit a man's life potential more than the belief that orgasm is his highest possible experience?
@JasonRam200515 күн бұрын
Fr
@Younis144614 күн бұрын
@@JasonRam2005hey there, you might find the videos on the playlist on my channel titled 'Purpose of Life?' interesting or maybe even life-changing! Anyway all the best to you!
@JasonRam200512 күн бұрын
@@Younis1446 i saw, im not muslim but u do u brodi
@JustpokerB16 күн бұрын
Porn is horrible for you, your just young and inexperienced
@endygonewild289916 күн бұрын
Great video
@Geblinski4833918 күн бұрын
I understand that the pleasure u get from porn and pics is just me that’s doing it but I tried the mindful experiment and I still get aroused even though i believe that it’s just pixels on a screen so how do I stop seeing value in fantasizing.
@Toni-d9g18 күн бұрын
Yo bro i need some advice, so i debunked everything, i know “urges” “relapses” and “triggers” don’t exist and i did the mindfulness experiment and I know its my fantasies that create innate pleasure but I still feel like doing it sometimes because i want to feel that pleasure. Also another thing I don’t get how you say there no pleasure cause imo there is some pleasure.
@JasonRam200518 күн бұрын
There is no (inherent/objective) pleasure in the sense how an apple objectively has sugar or eggs objectively/inherently have protein. The pleasure for pmo and ANYTHING in life is created
@divkyt879211 күн бұрын
@@JasonRam2005Then how do I create pleasure for other things
@JasonRam200511 күн бұрын
@@divkyt8792 with ur mind, looking for it
@divkyt879210 күн бұрын
@@JasonRam2005 thx bro
@Dzikrullah_99919 күн бұрын
This video is the bomb bro !
@ISHOWOP-tg3zh19 күн бұрын
Hey jason my man, i debunked the pleasure but my mind is telling me to fantasize anyway and do it , what do i do
@Gojosaturo-p8z20 күн бұрын
Yo bro what's your opinion on things like determinism and the your subconscious making choices for you?
@JasonRam200520 күн бұрын
Determinism is bullcrap, out behaviors are not like predictable things. I think what u do mindlessly tho unless brought to the conscious will just be running the show but its easily brought into awareness if u try
@Gojosaturo-p8z18 күн бұрын
Facts
@jamesworley988820 күн бұрын
You got that energy that angers normal people, I can feel it.
@JasonRam200520 күн бұрын
What do u mean?
@jamesworley988820 күн бұрын
@@JasonRam2005 You make people confront their beliefs for one thing. Not just tell them a tsunami of jizz created by demons if forcing them to get horny.
@drivoz238420 күн бұрын
@@JasonRam2005 He feels this way because he finds what you express shameful and annoying, repressing his feelings and judging you rather than understanding. This leads him to see you as cringe.
@JasonRam200520 күн бұрын
@@drivoz2384 oh, he replied sumn different but didnt show up
@MikeV865220 күн бұрын
The realization came to me today what a radically revolutionary act of masculine self-empowerment it is for a man to eliminate his practice of masturbation (by whatever method he can swing it) and to achieve semen retention as his preferred sexual state.
Hey man you mention this mindful experiment, do you have a video on that? I couldn't find it on your channel.
@JasonRam200520 күн бұрын
So basically how you do it is u go to porn, and u watch it and pay attention to objectively what ur doing, whats happening without attaching ur mental fantasy to it
@JasonRam200520 күн бұрын
And remember porn and masturbation have no meaning unless u provide it such
@ilunc20 күн бұрын
@@JasonRam2005 Ok thanks. I have tried that but it has been difficult to do. Well watered paths for habits I suppose.
@JasonRam200520 күн бұрын
Well, the habitual part isn’t compelling, it just takes some mental work to think differently and do things differently
@livefromred960522 күн бұрын
How old ru?
@JasonRam200521 күн бұрын
19
@endygonewild289922 күн бұрын
Deserves far more views. Great video
@akitetherapy2423 күн бұрын
:)
@zuvlet23 күн бұрын
yep dont put imaginary chains on yourself
@hahahdbssi24 күн бұрын
How can i make not pmoing pleasurable in the moment?
@ImuBozu25 күн бұрын
Is it because you can't quit corn
@JasonRam200525 күн бұрын
Yes im so “addicted” 😱😱😱😨
@divkyt879223 күн бұрын
@@JasonRam2005lol
@Gojosaturo-p8z25 күн бұрын
Great idea to think about agreed, but I think your literally forgetting the parts of how shitty porn actually is how shitty it makes people feel and the terrible shit people go through cause of this disgusting habit. For me, all the shitty cost actually motivated me to devalue to the shit of worthless video it is and significantly reduce my desire for it and tbh its your channel and I've been finding value in your content but Personally I don't like this "porn is not that bad" so consider moderation angle you've been going at recently there's zero benefit to using that shit and you know that, thats why you quit right? Lol most guys watching actually want to quit, thats all I'll say so you can do whatever its your channel anyway..
@JasonRam200525 күн бұрын
What im doing is trying to bring ppl out of all the nofap nonsense. Porn cant actually make u feel bad and in no way am i suggesting you use it. What im saying is the inflated value and power u put on p*rn only makes it harder to let go of. Also we arent motivated by costs, were motivated by benefits. And im also saying ur free to use porn as u like, not saying u should or advocating, but if ur using it, u like it.
@Gojosaturo-p8z23 күн бұрын
That makes sense
@manne857525 күн бұрын
Didn't watch the video, just read the title. Dislike. Bye.
@JasonRam200525 күн бұрын
Thx
@Dzikrullah_99925 күн бұрын
Jason, thanks for your videos. It helps me so much on seeing the truth of PMO. I owe you so much brother. But on this one I have to add some points, I hope it helps others here. There are biological effects from ejaculation. This is biology, like physics, it happens whether you want it or not. Just like too much drinking has biological effects like beer belly, etc. Here are them from ChatGPT (all over internet, basically) : Ejaculation increases prolactin levels in men. Prolactin's effect on testosterone: Elevated prolactin levels can suppress testosterone production. Prolactin inhibits the secretion of gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH), which ultimately lowers luteinizing hormone (LH) and testosterone levels in men. Psychological and mood effects of increased prolactin: High prolactin levels in men are linked to low libido, erectile dysfunction, infertility, and mood disturbances such as depression, fatigue, and anxiety. Reduced testosterone levels can further exacerbate these psychological effects, impacting overall well-being. Increased prolactin can lead to emotional blunting and a general reduction in motivation and pleasure (anhedonia). Orgasm have biological effects. If you orgasm everyday, of course your prolactin levels is very high and testosterone levels is very low. No wonder if you are depressed, it is because of too much O So, decrease your ejaculation frequency, brothers.
@ScreendoorK25 күн бұрын
Btw have you read Unlocking the Emotional Mind that Jay Quit PMO recommended?
@JasonRam200525 күн бұрын
Nah, i read .how to remove trauma response” by alun parry. Same thing but imo probably simpler and easier read. I have results and i loved it
@ScreendoorK25 күн бұрын
@@JasonRam2005 That's great, well I was thinking of getting it but decided not to because apparently Jay says you need someone else to read it and act as a therapist for you in order for it to work, is this true?
@JasonRam200525 күн бұрын
No, i did it myself and it works
@amog41425 күн бұрын
Keep channel growing homie 🔥
@JasonRam200525 күн бұрын
Thanks
@amog41425 күн бұрын
This is so true, I left junk food and video games without any will power because I genuinely found real life better and clean food same as junk food
@ZinGamma26 күн бұрын
I'm 27 porn isn't as bad as bad self confidence and shame, but it's not good for you either if you use it too much it has the same affect on your brain as using drugs.