Went through 40 years of my life with a single anxiety attack and then got my first on during covid while inside a MRI machine. Since then I have seen more attacks than I have seen Blades win. I cannot meditate (without remembering all mistakes from my teens, which makes me feel worse). After trying many things I have gone with typing my feelings on a Whatsapp chat to a friend. I have asked him not to speak to me about it and I don't even check to see if it was read, I just write away all my feelings at the time and it has helped me so much just getting it out. I grew up always bottling up my feelings. Despite having severe depression and often having very negative thoughts in my late teens, I always played the joker for my friends. So this was my solution. I am sure you'll find yours. Now that my brain tumour has returned and I am playing russian roulette with my upcoming operation, I have severe anxiety attacks. I am trying to enjoy my life with wife and kids for as long as I can and try to distil some of my wisdom on to my kids, but it can sometime gets too much. I tried to keep working so to distract myself but ended up taking time off at end of July and start of August as it got too much. So ditto in the sentiment, you too are not alone in this.
@stephengrice21532 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear of your troubles Jimmy anxiety isn't on the top of my to do list either just do what makes you feel happy and take your foot off the gas maybe a little more often; nothings actually worth more than your own well being I know its hard sometimes to keep things in perspective, for me exercise helps and watching the ramble of course 😀 hope your soon back to your best pal Utb Utr.
@RyckyGiles2 ай бұрын
I feel like that alot of yhe mime
@RyckyGiles2 ай бұрын
Hope you ok mate I suffer like you
@Renegade_S_2 ай бұрын
Jimmy your a top bloke, I’ve suffered severe depression and anxiety been through rehab which saved me life. I’m really proud your using this platform to promote talking about these issues that many people go through. This year I’ve had days where I’ve not been able to get out of bed due to anxiety and being out of my comfort zone, but I’m powering through and every day is a new day. I try to see the positives in everything even when shit hits the fan it’s better to have a laugh that is what works for me but everyone copes differently. If you’re ever in Finland or if I’m ever back at BDTBL I’d love to buy you a pint and chat footy with ya. If I could support your channel financially I would but I’m currently without work so need to be savvy with spending. Props to you Jimmy UTB UTR and “keep rambling!!”
@Renegade_S_2 ай бұрын
Jimmy your a top bloke, I’ve suffered severe depression and anxiety been through rehab which saved me life. I’m really proud your using this platform to promote talking about these issues that many people go through. This year I’ve had days where I’ve not been able to get out of bed due to anxiety and being out of my comfort zone, but I’m powering through and every day is a new day. I try to see the positives in everything even when shit hits the fan it’s better to have a laugh that is what works for me but everyone copes differently. If you’re ever in Finland or if I’m ever back at BDTBL I’d love to buy you a pint and chat footy with ya. If I could support your channel financially I would but I’m currently without work so need to be savvy with spending. Props to you Jimmy UTB UTR and “keep rambling!!”
@wsockett2 ай бұрын
good video, great to have men talking out about these sorts of topics
@thefxautopilot2 ай бұрын
Jim if Andy is so sorted I would ask two questions: First, Is Andy REALLY free of anxiety? Yeah he's looking after the family etc but is he worrying about what happens when he's gone for example? Second, is a lot of your anxiety based on your need to justify yourself in Andy's perceived shadow? You are your own man mate and you should be proud of yourself and what you have achieved to date. Remember you are only at a staging point on the journey. We have only ever shared a brief handshake as you passed in triple point, but even though I'm Andy's age you have my utmost respect. Keep on keeping on pal xx
@rifatmahmood16702 ай бұрын
I think the older generation were conditioned to keep their emotions in check. It wasn't till my father was bed ridden in the final two years of his life that I realised he was on anti depressant for 3 decades. Prior to that it wasn't till 3 days after his brother died that did I ever see him break down and cry. It just wasn't allowed for men of his generation. Not that men didn't have emotions and problems, they just hid it. I am glad it's now acceptable for men to talk.
@thefxautopilot2 ай бұрын
Stress is the biggest killer mate. Have a look at meditation, yoga and all that mate. Being anxious is real and understandable and we ALL feel it. Find your way to deal with it. You're a top bloke, find your way to ease the anxiety mate. get out in the country by yourself, sit in a quiet area surrounded by green, and just sit and do nothing. You'll thank me. Bless you mate and thanks for the Rambles.
@GrahamDook2 ай бұрын
Jimmy, carry on buddy I,m stateside watch every week original wombwell blade. Keep the faith
@CappySeventyOne2 ай бұрын
Well done Jimmy. Not a fan of your work usually, but when someone does something this good and selfless, you've got to say WELL DONE!!!! I've stuck a link on the S2 forum, too. Good job lad, Look after yourself and well done trying to help others! UTB
@lShawie-mn2xz2 ай бұрын
I feel for you Jimmy, anxiety not something I've suffered with, bit had a bout of depression a couple of years ago that put me in a dark place, so I sympathise.. try to stay strong, your family will support you but it is important you chat to someone you trust... that helped me.. but you have support here from the community here. Take care mate.
@JohnLedger-vm7xm2 ай бұрын
3 points on Saturday will make you feel better jimmy
@anneclayton72742 ай бұрын
Jimmy get out there have a laugh with your mates, don’t beat yourself up, talk to somebody if you can, lots of folk are going through things and can’t see wood for the trees so to speak, you are a very special person to us ramblers you lift our moods by talking and supporting our thoughts on the team etc, we had an awful time last season but we are out the other side now clean sheet again a new page and it’s looking exciting for us, it’s perfectly normal not to always feel on top of the world, whatever is putting you in that mood ( if you know ) talk to your dad, your wife, your brother, your bestie get it out yer head mate, oak trees grow from acorns, we need you here with us, we want our Jimmy Ramble fit and well and keeping our hopes and dreams going. Wishing you all the very best for you and your family Jimmy, longing to hear you are back feeling good again very soon UTB/UTR ❤️
@davidmorewood1442 ай бұрын
Its a terrible thing Jimmy as you know i have been in a very dark place still on meds but its great to talk about it stay strong pal
I couldn’t watch your livestream Jimmy because I was at the beach watching the game 😎 but it's the first time I've seen your Dad, yourself and Sophie all together and it was lovely 😁 UTB UTR and C'MON ENGLAND 🏴
@anneclayton72744 ай бұрын
Jimmy you are just a normal thinking guy who loved his mum and you will have times like these but your memories are in your head, videos or photos might cause you to feel more sad about carrying on without thinking of her every minute of the day, I feel our love ones up above are watching over us and I’m sure your mum is really proud of you and is happy that she brought you up to be the lovely guy you are, she will want you to live your life and yes have fond memories of your time together, there will be days that you can’t help but miss her and if you can smile and be happy she was your mum and you were her boy, one day you will meet again and what a day that will be, if you can bring your girls up how she brought you up then she would be over the moon, Jimmy thank you for the time you spend on the Ramble it’s really interesting and great to hear everyone’s thoughts and feelings I listen all the time and the ups and downs of the Blades, we start out feeling down but at the close we feel more optimistic lolol, Happy Anniversary to you and Mrs Ramble go enjoy the day mate UTB UTR ❤️
@mr.vancouver0074 ай бұрын
First of all HAPPY ANNIVERSARY JIMMY 🎉 🍾 and thankyou for sharing your thoughts and feelings 👍🫶
@RussBradbury4 ай бұрын
Me durr
@RussBradbury4 ай бұрын
Hi buddy. It certainly resonates with. Thank you for letting me listen.
@AndrewBrindley-x6d4 ай бұрын
Hi Jimmy you are doing fantastic I'm going through the the same or similar thing and have been for a long time there are times when i have an argument with my self mental issues are not good bereavement is terrible i miss my mum dad sister and grandparent's . to this day just listen to your mum still just keep your head up high and be happy just keep doing these videos you will get something out of them
@lShawie-mn2xz4 ай бұрын
You parents are you rock, they're who we drop back on in times of stress/trouble. So I think you're like anyone, we all have regrets, just remember all the good times you shred and the good times with the family.. we've got concerns about our grandson who were bringing up, but I know in time well sort any issues out, as a family you can only do your best. Take care mate.
@RyckyGiles4 ай бұрын
Congratulations jimmy
@RyckyGiles4 ай бұрын
12 years
@JimmyRambleYT4 ай бұрын
Thank you pal!! 👍🏻
@praisekingjesusforever54944 ай бұрын
John 11.25-26 Jesus said unto her I AM the resurrection and the life he that believes in me though he were dead yet shall he live and whosoever lives and belives in me shall never die believest thou this Amen
@JimmyRambleYT4 ай бұрын
🙏🏻❤️🕊️
@junebolton4 ай бұрын
We love you Jimmy. I've lost both my parents when I was in my twenties so I know the pain it causes. Live for today. Xx
@JimmyRambleYT4 ай бұрын
Thank you June-hope you’re ok ❤️👍🏻
@JimmyRambleYT4 ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you, hope you’re ok ❤
@paulrodgers45704 ай бұрын
Blummin ell you sound like me i lost my best mate n my mum in space of 3weeks my mum 4day after mates funeral .. i fight every day to suppress feelings of guilt i never took the picture of me and i wanted ... lifes tough at times be we keep on going all the best mate utb utr
@JimmyRambleYT4 ай бұрын
Thank you pal, same to you! ❤
@CraigMiskelly4 ай бұрын
Jimmy ur mum wud be proud u a quarter of sheffield knows and ur not even from Here lol i was a mental health Nurse for a bit of time but never had but someone i previosly knew was 25 and been sectioned over 40 times keep ur chin up utr utb
@JimmyRambleYT4 ай бұрын
Thank you pal, you too! ❤
@terrygorman46084 ай бұрын
Your mum would be proud of you Jimmy, she brought you up the right way with the right values in life, honesty humility and love for family. I wish there were more people like you in the world. Up the Ramble.
@CraigMiskelly4 ай бұрын
Jimmy were u came from to were u are now be proud of ur proggresion remember when i told u people will come and listen to you your a likable character and look at all blades ramble members ur gaining all down to youand dedication and behind the scenes hard work were here for you only good luck with ur future endevers utb utr
@sheffsteel74 ай бұрын
I'm watching the Euros to help me forget about last season but there are long moments of these England matches when it's just like watching Sheff United last season. Denmark looked like they had 1 or 2 extra men, where as we're couldn't get out of 2nd gear, the players look tired, demoralised and clueless as though they've just met up yesterday and don't know what the tactics are. Southgate's pre and post match interviews are concerning too, it's as though he's seeing something very different to what everyone else sees.
@eamonnmelia2284 ай бұрын
Southgate out England need new manager England will lose to Denmark 3 0
@stuartblade4 ай бұрын
Southgate not good enough...too negative
@paulburbeary51494 ай бұрын
😅ee you made me chuckle 😂 from a BLADE in Spain
@davidmorewood1444 ай бұрын
This is brilliant Jimmy I was at my lowest point 3 yrs ago and nearly did a silly thing but friends got me to see a doctor who I talked too turns out I had holding my grief in for my wife who passed away in 2007 13 yrs of holding it in took it's toll now I'm getting there but always tell me especially talking to someone keeping it in helps you not one bit talking to someone can save you Love this advice you have given UTR UTB