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@BXLrules 23 күн бұрын
Its not only the popping sound, but there seems to be an ice-cream truck in the background too, you can hear this melody on endless repeat. Are you trolling autistic people or have you really got no clue about recording? The sound quality of most videos on this topic is ridiculous, which is a shame really.
@rebirthofthecool5619 Ай бұрын
Wtf is that popping sound I can't watch this
@josephwurzer4366 Ай бұрын
Staff turnover is KEY. Yes the state of California has good help but l have experienced high turnover in my help. -3-4 folks in 2 years.
@drtinahahn Ай бұрын
Obscene.
@drtinahahn Ай бұрын
Epigenetics what you described is Anxious Ambivalent attachment. Parenting is Key.
@drtinahahn Ай бұрын
Anxious Ambivalent (or disorganized) becomes Borderline.
@l1ncs 2 ай бұрын
Seriously, who destroys great content with moronic and useless background noises!?
@REGjr 2 ай бұрын
Know what would be a good study, Simon? A study on stomach-sleeping in autism. It's very clearly a defensive posture acquired in infancy against a menacing mother who for whatever reason didn't make SIDS deaths of us. All the absence of strangulation petechiae in SIDS indicates is these bitches probably feel less murderous for not having to strangle their infants, but the only people stupider than the ones who think autism is genetic are the ones who think SIDS is real.
@REGjr 2 ай бұрын
It would be impossible for any test of an embryo to predict postpartum psychosis (wish for the child to become "unborn"), so the eugenicist MDs we should be concerned about are the ones accepting the invitation to sterilize undiagnosed autistic females rather than telling them that transgender delusion is an attachment strategy and that as autism is the result of refused attachment it's unsurprising that autistic girls would develop it as a way of trying to individuate from displaced rage toward their mothers autistic boys (in contrast) do not internalize as self-hatred. Diagnosed autistic kids don't think attachment has been refused because they don't realize an ASD diagnosis forcing a mother to stop ignoring a child she resents for reasons of her own psychopathology (or autistic developmental delay prompted to postpartum [because MD's don't remind them their developmental delay means early adult incapacity to enter into contracts such as marriage) n early adulthood]) induces the mother to Munchausen syndrome as sequelae of untreated postpartum by way of now regarding the child as a viable proxy. It's not real attachment if she only gives you her approval for self-destructive decisions from which her savior complex can pick and choose. Sea "autism fever effect". Is what it is. So stop pretending it's fucking genetic and like we are the only ones who still need to grow up Simon. Our developmental delay is evolutionarily adaptive to surviving mothers who would have found our thriving threatening (and indeed having a harder time seeing boys as extensions of themselves is the reason autism is less-frequent though no less abusive in females). Except in cases of autistic mothers (a social failure more than a personal one) with a developmental incapacity for motherhood THERE IS NO MORE CONCLUSIVE PROOF OF CHILD ABUSE THAN AN AUTISTIC CHILD.
@antoniaszymanek5314 2 ай бұрын
since when is rewarding desirable behavior, with a reinforcer of interest to the child, a negative or abusive thing? That is literally parenting. That is how they learn to behave in appropriate ways, whether they are neurotypical or neurodivergent. My mother used to always say "if you behave you'll get a toy" or a treat, and it was never something I didn't like, then this tactic wouldn't work, even as an adult, I behave at work to make money, or I watch sports with my husband so that I can go out for girls night and leave him with the children, we all behave certain ways to get a desired reward... can somebody explain to me what is wrong with that? My daughter has autism, but even if she didn't, she needs to learn appropriate behavior, all children do, and using reinforcers that interest her is how we accomplish that. Why is this "bothersome" or inappropriate? Looking for explanation, not trying to offend, genuinely would like a better explanation by someone who disagrees to discuss this with me and help me understand!
@My_right_is_your_left 2 ай бұрын
I am 50 and all my life full of anxiety ocd perfectionism ect. Being told I have anxiety disorder, bipolar disorder, major depression. Among other things. I began self medicating with alcohol successfully until it wasn’t successful (bad choices) I have 3 kids on the spectrum and I know now I am autistic! I’ve always been but wasn’t allowed to be growing up in the 70’s this has resulted in me believing everyone else knows better than I and I get abused emotionally and mentally because I don’t feel I’m worthy enough to have any opinions? I can’t explain it. I haven’t been diagnosed though. I’m sober since 2006 though after drinking for20+ years. I just decided that it wasn’t something I wanted to do and stopped.
@gertborreman5587 3 ай бұрын
I haven't read your books John, but I recognise so much of what you are telling in my own life. Anxiety, not being understood, the social stigma, ..... the absence of emotional reciprocity, etc....the way people see your being different as a form of stubborn unwillingness.... etc.... Also I have been diagnosed very late in my life. I am now almost 50 and I was diagnosed 5 years ago. It certainly put some heavy load in my life backpack. (sorry for my probably sometimes weird way of using the english language, dutch is my mother tongue).
@D0zer122 4 ай бұрын
If genetic research leads to being able to test for autism of an unborn person in the womb, and dropping even the slightest thought of murdering that person in the safest place that person could be before being born, then it is evil!
@reinaequina6588 4 ай бұрын
This hit home thank you ❤️
@Kotifilosofi 4 ай бұрын
I'm not officially diagnosed even though I suspect I'm on the spectrum, so take everything I say with the grain of salt. Anyhow, I strongly related to the deviant motivation of doing things & having interests. All my life, ever since I was a kid, it frustrated, confused and irritated me that whenever I was good on something, people fixated on _me_ as the agent, instead of the object of interest I was good on. No-one wants to talk about the methods of the drawing, how to "see" the animal underneath the fur to draw it anatomically correctly, or what I think there's still to improve. They aggressively brush that aside and keep on repeating how talented I am and keep asking how I'm able to draw so well and how they wish they could draw as well. If they had the motivation to talk about drawing even for five minutes, instead of focusing on the admiration & social compliments, they could in fact improve their skills. But they rather close their ears and keep it as a mystery to themselves. I find that very frustrating and pointless interaction that doesn't satisfy my needs of socializing. In general, I don't like being the focus of any discussion, I prefer focus being on the things I'm interested in, and I don't understand how everyone isn't like that.
@Naida1977 4 ай бұрын
If I may say so, the popping (subscribe like) is really disturbing too! But as usual, Mr. Atwood is always so pertinent! Thanks for sharing this contenu!
@henkvandermeulen1825 3 ай бұрын
I agree and AIMS Global should know better. I love hearing Tony Attwood but after the sixt pop I was out. I could not concentrate to listen anymore. I was only waiting for the next pop.
@kariannefimland1475 2 ай бұрын
agreed. the pop was jarring. and played no positive part.
@mollymcneilly8700 4 ай бұрын
I love Teo!!!!
@MysteryGrey 5 ай бұрын
Too bad i couldn't filter out the music.
@sheri549 5 ай бұрын
My grandson was diagnosed with autism and he gets angry when he can’t figure out something throwing things, kicking, biting, hitting individuals. Also having to have something someone else has or takes, if food is not what he wants he throws it. What advice do you have for these issues. He is very smart, but gets very upset or angry easily. Kindest Regards.
@zacharycadman8226 5 ай бұрын
Unrelated, but why do you need that pop-up sound every minute? It makes a interesting conversation almost unwatchable.
@reynewan999 5 ай бұрын
Its shame that this has so low views. Very much on point, and very valuable for kids and adults. Im both parent, autistic adult, and with special interest in autism, but this short reminder is still very valuable
@josefk5659 5 ай бұрын
VARY NAICE!
@SmallSpoonBrigade 5 ай бұрын
Autistic people being people is part of how autistic people are able to avoid being diagnosed for so long.
@truman3.0 5 ай бұрын
Tony Attwood’s understanding of Autism spectrum is fantastic, he will help so many people on the spectrum including teaching the parents of Autistic children on how to better / properly raise, educate & help them through there often very challenging times ahead (mostly due to other non-accepting neurotypical people). Times & the majorities perception of any people that are randomly born different from a majority seriously need to change.
@cindyeisenberg8367 5 ай бұрын
Now my adult nephew with autism is getting into gambling. This is scary.
@tommyperez2373 5 ай бұрын
That bottle popping sound has made this video nearly unbearable to watch/ listen to
@xepic665 6 ай бұрын
bad interviewer
@8B.rainman 6 ай бұрын
I dont have to imagine something I already know all of it, like a narcissist' s smalltalk- mind. only narcissist defend cognitive empathy because they dont understand affects. they think they can see the inside of an other person mind by looking into the eyes 😂 and then force people to do that - he forces people to not being intelligent, his worst nightmare. aggressive, pathetic. we dont need that, we have mirrorneurons to communicate. pattern seeker? to seek, describes narcissism. we dont seek, we do not have a theory, we see with eyes closed - we know. narcissism: the virus that stops human being from evloving since beginning, forcing people to answer questions with A or B and call it evidence... it is evident, exactly for narcissism
@turtleanton6539 6 ай бұрын
😊
@turtleanton6539 6 ай бұрын
Yes
@turtleanton6539 6 ай бұрын
Yes😊
@yukisanderson6907 6 ай бұрын
Do you think their perfectionism and poor emotional regulations contribute to anxiety?
@buttercxpdraws8101 2 ай бұрын
Yep. It does in my case anyway.
@user-hu6ep2zg4s 6 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for this excellent video. As an autistic person I would just say it's difficulté to watch because of the music and the sound "pop" of the "subscribe"...
@Will-hr1qq 6 ай бұрын
Yes, it was a completely unnecessary distraction from what was a very informative interview
@ButterflyonStone 6 ай бұрын
Whilst I'm glad this man has moved on in his theories and research interests, I'm disappointed that he hasn't addressed how his own early contributions to the field led to many of these myths in the early days - connection to savantism, lack of empathy, the male brain and so on.
@REGjr 2 ай бұрын
Agreed. Gross AF to hear her kiss his ass
@rachelle8534 7 ай бұрын
“What is important currently in this society” does not mean that it is important to the autistic individual
@rachelle8534 7 ай бұрын
Can someone please SHOW me an example of “good” ABA. Lots of BCBAs use this argument that “ABA has changed.” So let’s see it. WHERE is this different ABA?
@langat77 7 ай бұрын
There needs to be supports throughout the life course, as those autistics and their caregivers are being abandoned or hidden away. And please remove the background music, it’s extremely distracting to autistic people with audio sensitivity.
@dragonmusic_editedtoperfection 7 ай бұрын
Pllleeaassee stop with the irritating pop sound
@dragonmusic_editedtoperfection 7 ай бұрын
The video and conversations are great BUT THE POP SOUND MY GOD STOOOPPP
@a.person1723 8 ай бұрын
all of this is wonderful information until the child turns 18, and everyone realizes that autism is NOT just a childhood issue. edit: autistic adults are nolonger 'cute' and 'helpable'. so we all fall off that advocacy 'cliff', and die early as a result. (our lifespan is also not 'cute': 30-50 years old. average.)
@madfhumitadas 8 ай бұрын
Please share the strategies
@veranichole1981 8 ай бұрын
See, it shouldn’t just be “by what’s acceptable in our society currently,” but by what’s acceptable by any standard. If you think there is a chance people in 30 years will be appalled then don’t allow it. Don’t allow 40 hours. Don’t allow awards or punishments as we know people must be intrinsically motivated to learn. Don’t remove or limit people’s access to any of their needs. Most important; always assume competency. Err on the side of disability justice and not on disability rights. I see no excuse for abuse. Just because the need is great doesn’t allow any other profession to hire minimally trained individuals to do their job. I can’t walk into a school tomorrow and teach because I don’t have that degree. Find a better way even if it costs you money and clients.
@annealbert9490 8 ай бұрын
HELP! I’m in Ontario. My son just turned 17 . He was diagnosed with Tourette’s, ADHD and oCD .During Covid his sleep schedule went reverse and he became addicted to Cannabis. After a broken arm gone wrong many medical professionals finally decided he’s Autistic but he’s so messed up and we have no real help . I can’t even get him up in the day . I don’t know what to do?
@soozanc 8 ай бұрын
I'm not in Ontario but I'd start with a meeting with just you and the counselor at his school to find out what resources, medical, or mental health professionals are available. Don't stop til you get the help you need. If he turns 18 and you still don't have the help you need, then you can look for services for kids that have a "failure to launch". Prayers for you and he! Good luck!
@carlpanzram7081 7 ай бұрын
He probably uses cannabis because it reliefs some of his symptoms. I'm autistic and I used to smoke weed every day for years. Tho the side effects from a cannabis addiction are comparatively minor, it is very much still potentially harmful, especially for a 17 year old. So, in the beginning what cannabis does is that it relaxes you. It makes things appear novel, food tastes better, things are funnier. It sedates you, calms you down, but for many people this effect eventually starts being less intense, and the negative side effects of cannabis will move to the foreground. For this reason alone I would advice against daily use. Now, the good news is, that the effects of cannabis are not something that can't be achieved naturally. Being stoned is nice, but what you seek when you smoke weed is not some euphoric high, or a energizing stimulant effect, you seek a comparatively mild effect that doesn't create any strong dependency, nor any intense withdrawals. So, the thing I would recommend as a great replacement to cannabis use, or additionally to less frequent cannabis use, is physical exercise. I have done many drugs, and nothing has been as positive and nice as the anti anxiety and calming effects of physical exercise. It automatically builds confidence, increases appetite, improves your sleep, and it's perfectly healthy and thoroughly positive. It sounds a little silly, but working out has pretty much changed my life, if not even safed it. Before I was anxious, had low confidence, low apetite, racing thoughts, bad sleep, low energy, no structure to my life, and no productive hobby that gave me a sense of purpose or improvement. I tried to self medicate with weed amongst other things, but what ended up helping me the most was physical exercise, and because it helped me with so many of my issues, I didn't feel like I needed to smoke weed anymore. Now, I want to mention that I kept smoking weed for quit some time even after starting to work out, but eventually I realized that it wasn't serving me anymore, and that I could and should do without, which I could then do without much issue. So, i would definitely try to convince your son to start doing a sport. Weightlifting, martial arts like kickboxing, boxing, BJJ, or swimming, gymnastics, climbing, cycling, running etc anything. It really helped me tremendously, and it basically replaced what I was trying to do with drugs. Even if it won't immediately cause him to drop the weed, it will be a definite improvement of his life in all regards. It also promotes discipline and a healthy lifestyle.
@pandalove9844 8 ай бұрын
The background music is so distracting!
@puntjepuntpuntje 2 ай бұрын
It is indeed. To bad they talk about sensory adjustments , and don´t get that this kinda thing is a sensory hard thing aswell....
@chloefoster9903 8 ай бұрын
Mr kipping cant provide a cherry bake well tart but can provide a cherry bakewell slice
@MuskanShaikh-ij7wv 9 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@zunamiii 10 ай бұрын
Having this elevator music in the background while a conversation is not autistic friendly
@HeatherGrace 3 ай бұрын
I thought I was the only one
@pawool 10 ай бұрын
Great material thank you but hard to focus with some sort of music as well. I might do a silent one with the captions
@deborahwandel6690 11 ай бұрын
Thankyou for this presentation - are there any other resources like books or seminars or groups who can help the person with ASD level 1/what was formerly named Asperger's Syndrome who is also an addict? I get the impression that the services in my own country Australia are geared to help only neurotypical addicts recover. I am watching my friend, who probably is on the Autism Spectrum, literally kill himself with alcohol. He goes to rehab programs and self discharges saying "I don't fit in".
@ian_occultist 11 ай бұрын
I'm 50 and recently diagnosed as ASP cheese burger , can you imagine half of your life drowning in anxiety with no explanation ...videos like this are very helpful, I made the connection myself, now I'm trying to justify it, lol. Thanks
@charrogate Жыл бұрын
An excellent synopsis to help those with modern day issues from ASD & NT perspectives 👍
@illariaragon7125 Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this interview. Very interesting and useful. Where can we find lego clubs in London?
@AIMSGlobal Жыл бұрын
Hi :) I am not sure, but perhaps if you search for Professor Baron-Cohen’s work, you will be able to locate it? Thank you for your lovely comment!