Saying Hitler needs to come back feels like a threat. I was raised Jewish, so comments like that legit scare me. I know I don't need to feel that way, but I just do. I can't help it, just like I can't help being ace.
@IdaDotArt25 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for raising awareness Yasmin. I very much admire everything you have done for the Ace community. I a fellow aroace look up to you and I have mad respect for you❤
@dankeener330727 күн бұрын
A drug addict goes to recovery meetings for help to change. An alcoholic goes to AA for hope of overcoming a life-threatening disease. With God’s help we are overcomers. We can change. Why does it seem that those who label themselves proudly as LGBT want to embrace their lifestyle and not seek help. Life without God is meaningless and dangerous. I hope you can find help in your unique situation.
@autumnwinter529 күн бұрын
I’ve been told “you can’t be asexual, you have a child” and also “that’s cool, you’re ugly anyway”. I was even accused of trying to impose my asexuality onto others by someone who lost her willingness to have relations after her son had unalived himself 9 years back at the time because she wasn’t desperate. What I wanted to say to her was “you know, instead of punishing me and holding me accountable for why you chose to stop doing it, you need to take that up with your dead son in hell”
@omgthisissoawesomeАй бұрын
My own experience re: discovering I was aroace is so similar to yours. Our childhood experiences sound very similar and I too didn't have any angst upon discovering I was aroace... it was, in fact, lovely to find there was a word for it and a community of people who have had similar experiences! However, growing older and having my friends pair off and constantly having to field questions about when I'm going to settle down/what the future is going to be like for me has been exhausting and can sometimes feel so isolating... it is just so validating to see someone openly talking about being aroace in such a public way, and I'm so glad you're presenting the idea that there's no 'one way' to be aroace. Thanks so much for fighting the good fight and bringing awareness to asexuality and aromanticism!
@daysrcdaysАй бұрын
Hey Carl, is this a free country or is it not? Why would a Orange molseter have any more rights then a selfproclaimed Asexual??? Everybody gets the same right to RESPECT Carl! I don't crack wise about a Republican doing massive cobover and calling their hair Strawberry blonde.
@yanawilliams6302Ай бұрын
Wow. Love thi video! I've only recently questioned whether I am aromantic but I've known that I am on the Asexual spectrum for a while. Your thought process was so similar to my own in college. In high school, I was like you, I just didn't really pay attention to how I was because I wasn't being directly affected by relationships so I actually didn't know about asexuality until start of college or a little bit of my senior year of high school. I always questioned the relationships around me. Like why are so many girls obsessed with boys almost to the point of insanity? I've been lucky though because my family, aside from the occasional remarks of "when you are in a relationship" or "you'll meet the right person", they don't really intrude on my relationships too much. I think it's part of the reason why I didn't really see anything odd about myself until college. And similar to you, I established that I was asexual because even when guys have said they are interested in me, I never wanted or felt the need to have sex with them or be 'sexy' to them.
@LCS-l4yАй бұрын
What a coincidence you're not recognized by nine tenths of Americans either
@aidanbarnes4290Ай бұрын
I wish I was both asexual and aromatic. I don't want to get married or have babies but my sexual fantasies keep getting in the way of that
@mirandarensberger69192 ай бұрын
It kind of sounds like the arophobes are the ones who don't know what love is. They think if we don't experience romantic attraction or want that type of relationship, it must mean we're incapable of feeling any kind of love. Well, I'm sorry for them if they don't know how to love their families or make friends, but we aros are perfectly capable of these things and generally value them highly. Why do they care so much about us not dating people? It makes no sense.
@celiafrostborn2 ай бұрын
If asexual people are LGBT, then Athiests are religious and cats are vegans. And none of what I said is true so they arent, we lack the very thing that would classify us with them so no we aren't. Only their because they wanted to claim us and we don't all want that. So by my standards we are just asexual, not lgbt.
@Keensss2 ай бұрын
Rizz
@jamistardust51812 ай бұрын
Thank you! Why can't people just leave us alone? Not all asexuals are virgins.
@pep-cman50702 ай бұрын
so are you j
@ginacalabro81823 ай бұрын
Attention seeker?
@sonianevermindultimateprin6593 ай бұрын
I'm asexual, of course it's impossible to explain how i can be both lesbian and asexual as people assume asexual is the same thing as aro ace
@AssemblerGuy3 ай бұрын
At 4:19 "I am *not* boring, but I am kind of weird, I'll give you that!" I'm beginning to like you based solely on that remark! You go girl!
@elgrigorio13 ай бұрын
As a gay man, I ask this, what right do these asexual people not have?
@Scrabbleship3 ай бұрын
“My piece isn’t on the board.” That’s it. Perfect explanation. I don’t belong there. I don’t want to be there. It might be nice to belong on the board, much simpler, but i don’t, and I can’t. Thank you for the episode.
@ystava6864 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video.
@ystava6864 ай бұрын
The amount of aphobia within the asexual community itself. Because there are sex-repulsed asexuals excluding those who are gray. I wish asexuals would get their own inclusion impulses under control.
@281992pdr4 ай бұрын
So you don't have sex. Who cares? So you're having sex. Who cares? What completely solipsistic rot. However, I knew a bloke who didn't and wouldn't eat pasta. He was Apasta. It was a burden. His life was made utter hell by people who ate pasta. Why is he, and his contingent of folowers not allowed to lead Pride? It is so upsetting!
@pepryan21834 ай бұрын
She's not straight, so she knows she experiences sexual attraction 🤔
@pepryan21834 ай бұрын
Falls under transhumanism agenda with lots of 💲💵💸💰 behind it
@pepryan21834 ай бұрын
Get thee to a nunnery 😂
@rickc14104 ай бұрын
POOR WOMAN IS SICK!!!!!!!
@samsalt91164 ай бұрын
I've gotten threatened with corrective rape for the things that are connected to my asexuality before I even knew what asexuality even was.. This was in my thirties! I first learned about asexuality in 2020 from a KZbin video of all places, I thought to myself that I can so pass for that, wait a minute. This was my queer awakening, my other queer identities followed!
@sonicmario644 ай бұрын
Asexual people should be allowed to be themselves no matter what anyone else says about them, especially if they are not hurting anyone else just for not being interested in things like sex. Considering the fact that I just came out as being asexual myself recently, I never understood the hate that acephobes are able to deliver, and I think it's just because they want nothing more than a reaction for their own sense of enjoyment that is definitely not normal.
@christineburk40264 ай бұрын
It's really sad how so many (insecure) people have nothing better to do than bash others for being themselves. THEY'RE the real attention seekers! Always remember, that "those who mind don't matter. Those who matter don't mind."--Dr. Seuss
@christineburk40264 ай бұрын
OMG, that's practically my experience too! Not into women but not really into men either, at least not into them in a way that would make for a good relationship. Aromantic (and even asexual I think) describes my situation perfectly! I only felt isolated at one time because I had the feelings but didn't even know I was Aro/Ace. I just assumed I was straight because of amatonormativity (read heteronormativity) we're exposed to our whole lives, and thought it was one of several other things, but NO! Once I learned I was Aro/Ace I felt a tremendous sense of relief since I have answers now. :)
@user-oo7ys7mr8c5 ай бұрын
Why does every group have to be 'recognized'? Why do these people feel a nee😅d to blab their sexual proclivities? Wasn't it a better when everyone just kept their personal lives personal? this is ludicrous. Who cares what you are? So why not shut up about it? Your not asked that on a job interview or a college application. People have gotten so weird.
@aronyro5 ай бұрын
thank you, your presence means a lot
@paull.rogers45625 ай бұрын
Should we be included? Yes. Should we force ourselves in a group and spend our money trying to fit in? For me, no. It will be safer for others that I don’t. I’m ace but I’m also that guy people don’t want to confront. If I’m not invited to a party it’s best I stay home.
@QWERTY-gp8fd5 ай бұрын
go include urself. i am ace NOT gay.
@KayleeAmoriell5 ай бұрын
"It's also known as being too good for anybody" "I'm not against that" I LOVE YOU
@richardcheney64826 ай бұрын
I wouldn't want to be next to you on judgement day
@barryledgister44966 ай бұрын
She`s got an insta saying `Teach Asexuality In Schools`...well it is. Anytime you see the dried up English teacher who hasn`t been touched in a century, you make sure you`re not `asexual`. Asexuality is boring and impossible to sell. Her Twitter has little engagement. You should`ve gone `non-binary`, Yasmin. Oh well...
@wynettpearce32356 ай бұрын
How can you be included sexual group when you don't want or have sex???? Make it make sense😮😮😢😢😢😂😂😂. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to have sex btw. #justsaying
@elishaso6 ай бұрын
1:31 "that's not a very nice thing to call your own mother"
@tallwaltjohnson92786 ай бұрын
Once again asexual shouldn’t be part of the lgbt+ community like why does the light+ community always want to high jacks literally almost every sexual orientation smh I want to say that I’m asexual but if they put it with the lgbt+ community I will not be calling myself that word asexual even though I’m not attracted to humans or anything 🤦🏾♂️
@tallwaltjohnson92786 ай бұрын
Asexual shouldn’t be part of the lgbt community, not every fuking sexual orientation have to be in the lgbt+. I finally founded a word that describe me but if they putting asexual in the lgbt+ community. I’ll just not call myself asexual even though I’m literally not attracted to humans.
@daryllinkugel38046 ай бұрын
Sooo, she says they aren't attracted to anyone? Bonus!!! They wont breed! Problem solved.
@LilMissSpeeedy016 ай бұрын
People are already not capable of love or commitment. Hence the sheer amount of people having casual sex and children out of loving relationships. Guess who's doing this? Fucking allos. Guess who's marriages are failing at the rate of more than 50%? allos! Not aroaces! 2% of the world's population of aroaces can't do this on their own lolol.
@LilMissSpeeedy016 ай бұрын
The only narcissists and psychopaths are the ignorant ones who think that romance and sexuality are actually compulsory. I feel sad for people who are so sad and so unsure of themselves and their worth alone... that they would be offended you live your life so unapologetically. They're butthurt you wouldn't be sexually or romantically interested in them. Imagine having more hatred for someone who doesn't feel sexual or romantic attraction, than someone who would sexually abuse children. Or worse. Putting aroace people in the same category as them.
@basiclawprof7 ай бұрын
"...I was born Asexual...." Suggests an objective evidence of Asexuality. Just out of curiosity what is that objective evidence?