The next video should be about the doors in this room and where they go 👀
@JustinRose-h9cСағат бұрын
You’d make a good cult leader
@pestilentanger2 сағат бұрын
never gonna be a social leader fr but thanks for the vid man
@FlyingStoic2 сағат бұрын
“finding a friend group that genuinely loves you” that don’t exist brother 💀
@SLavaluChinang53 сағат бұрын
Author: "I am tired of seeing with titles like this" Also author: has the same title that he hates
@thatguydiego43333 сағат бұрын
I always like watching videos like this. I skip to the reasons / mistakes you make and try to figure out which one of my friends do it. ion do this shit but i noticed one of my friends does like all of these things except #5
@s.j56973 сағат бұрын
ty for making this video, even if I already knew what you were going to suggest people to do because I've seen so many of these I still don't do them consistently, but something about the way you talked about your experiences and new ways made me feel a lot better.
@TheDonDeven3 сағат бұрын
Can’t wait for you to pop off, brother. Love to see it💯
@trololollololol33484 сағат бұрын
good video but the use of "beta" is kinda lame. Makes you just seem like another of these "alpha male" youtubers
@micro_67425 сағат бұрын
You kinda look like Robert Pattinson
@mighty_osaker9 сағат бұрын
: = i 😮
@aaronpareja593110 сағат бұрын
Thank you for making this video. I work as a pca at a hospital and recently I got insulted for being a new worker. The patient called me, "Mr. Beginner" and that "I don't know s***." This made me feel like a failure and not worthy, but I've learned, no matter what throws at me, I have that alternative power to get back up and fail again. Learning this helped me grow and it made become a better person by helping people. There's no such thing as a perfect worker.
@biggest728012 сағат бұрын
I know a student of hamza when I see one🫡
@Luke_Grenoble12 сағат бұрын
@@biggest7280 I don’t agree with everything, but early Hamza was a hell of an inspiration🫡
@Mrevolva13 сағат бұрын
bro you have a great voice , great advice , thank you, you are so right about social interactions
@Luke_Grenoble12 сағат бұрын
@@Mrevolva thank you bro, I hope changes you today🤙
@andreab0413 сағат бұрын
Things that I learned from this video: 3:35 we learn to say the "right" things that are pleasant, creating someone who doesn't take risks and never finds amazing friendships 4:25 the real world is a reflection of your own mind, 4:41 start telling yourself there are cool people you just have to find them (4:31 car example) 6:39 change social scripts, 7:09 stop saying boring things and start thinking in conversation, like 8:00 creating a new script such as saying something more about your day (6:57 house example) 14:30 assume positive/neutral about people, (14:08 approach, 13:28 example) 15:21 People pleasing: you shouldn't want everyone to like you, rather the right people
@Luke_Grenoble12 сағат бұрын
@@andreab04 super helpful timestamps, thank you, Andrea
@andreab0411 сағат бұрын
@@Luke_Grenoble I laughed everytime you called us "dude" or "bro," but just know, for some reason, I found it helpful you said this. I may be a girl, but I gotta man up my skills too. Thank you for this. You said many things that I needed to hear, and situation you talked about with eating lunch with a stranger really had me connecting with you. I just really wanted to jot things you said that held a lot of meaning to me.
@rickysofire13 сағат бұрын
Great vid bro keep going g
@Luke_Grenoble12 сағат бұрын
@@rickysofire thanks Ricky, keep up the beats🔥
@shortvideos-yr9hh18 сағат бұрын
I though you have at least 100k followers Keep the hard work brother u r amazing
@Luke_Grenoble12 сағат бұрын
@@shortvideos-yr9hh thank you brother, I’ll keep it up🫡
@chillblue165019 сағат бұрын
Thank you for this, bro. This deeply resonated with me. You remind me of when I just got out of high school and was trying to improve my social life during my college days. I learned a lot of things back then. I'm in my later 20s now, but I'm still learning as I go. It's nice to be reminded of certain things. What you said about "excessive affirmation" hit me because I tend to do the same. It comes from a place of feeling like I'm less than the person I'm talking to, which just isn't true. I noticed I don't do that when I talk to people I'm less intimidated by.
@Luke_Grenoble12 сағат бұрын
@@chillblue1650 absolutely bro, even I need to be reminded of these things from time to time. Just remembering things like “no one is better than you” really helped me on my path.
@AnakinBlitz22 сағат бұрын
finally a video that doesn't just tell you to have better posture and make more eye contact. those videos make me act like a robot programmed to just do the things that are supposed to give you "confidence." definitely going to try all of these tips starting tomorrow and i have hope they'll go well. thanks for the video man
@Luke_Grenoble12 сағат бұрын
@@AnakinBlitz anytime my man. Grateful for your support, let me know how it works out for you👍
@bathsaltvendorКүн бұрын
As a 28 year old woman I've never been called bro so many times lol. This video was exactly what I needed. For years I thought I might be becoming a sociopath because of my lack of emotions (and I mean true, resonating emotions - not just mimicking emotion and calling it a day) and growing inability to feel guilt but this video made me realize it was just my childhood trauma and it's not too late to bring myself out of purgatory and into the world. Thanks, bro
@Luke_Grenoble12 сағат бұрын
@@bathsaltvendor anytime bro. Thank you for sharing your story, it means a lot to see comments like this. Keep me updated on your journey🤙
@bathsaltvendor10 сағат бұрын
@Luke_Grenoble Thanks Cap'n, will do! I'll also share this with people who need it
@cocobololocolocoКүн бұрын
Very very cool and so young. A+++
@Luke_Grenoble12 сағат бұрын
@@cocobololocoloco thank you😎
@LoyalCopyКүн бұрын
Good job brother, this channel will blow for sure. You have great CTA’s for building an audience too
@Luke_Grenoble12 сағат бұрын
@@LoyalCopy Thank you bro, looks like you’re making moves too. Excited to rise up together🥂
@Dupeddd3Күн бұрын
I just wanna ask one thing. Why tf does everyone seem so happy around me? like i genuinely do not know how these people have so interesting lives, They post on social media and stuff and seem that they having the best time of their lives. I just dont know how to be that happy. Everyone seems like they got no insecurities, no problems in their lives and idk bro.
@Dupeddd3Күн бұрын
I have kind of a physical disability so i think i am worthy of nobody, I got your point of not thinking about yourself not being worthy and u should always think u are the best but sometimes people just really dont like me cuz i got a disability and that makes me really sad. I am a highschool student right now and i havent seen many people struggling like this in their lives as early as me.
@Luke_GrenobleКүн бұрын
@@Dupeddd3 high school is tough bro, it seems like a lot of people are just putting on face, especially on social media. They hide the harsher parts of themselves. As people get older the less good qualities become easier to see or people tend to just become more honest, not try and look perfect all the time. When I was in high school I had similar thinking to you, I thought it was bullshit to try and look perfect so I didn’t. I hung out with people who were real instead of people who were popular and I don’t regret it. Make some friends who are real, not the ones who seem happy all the time or fake. Once you really get to know people, you’ll see everyone has challenges, everyone thinks they’re ugly or unworthy from time to time. Best thing you can do is focus on you, do what makes you happy. Gratitude journal. Your disability means you live life a little differently and that’s okay, fuck the people who judge you as a person for it.
@Dupeddd3Күн бұрын
@@Luke_Grenoble Really appreciated bro. I think that's the best advice I've got in a very very long time. You probably have changed a lot of people's lives and I'm really impressed and kind of look up to you. I hope u have a great day and keep changing lives!
@Luke_Grenoble12 сағат бұрын
@@Dupeddd3 that means a lot bro, I hope to keep seeing you and your progress around my comment section🤝
@jimj2683Күн бұрын
Just go to medical school and stand next to the cool guys. It will fix all your problems. We are all monkeys and we learn best by seeing others do. Their social skills will rub off on you in no time and there are plenty of women there that will throw themselves at you. You will also be set financially. Everyone will want to be your friend (since you have high status and you are a useful person to society). Law school is also good, but medical school forces you to interact with others more. To earn a lot as a lawyer, you need good grades. To earn a lot as a doctor, you just need to pass the exams. My cousin is a travel doctor (he takes temporary positions in remote areas) and only works 3 months a year. He still makes over $200k a year... let that sink in!
@lafern9588Күн бұрын
Writing down your quote at 9:17 . Great video
@Luke_GrenobleКүн бұрын
@@lafern9588 thank you bro, stagnation kills, let’s keep moving🏃💨
@RantePlayzКүн бұрын
4:50 literally. He ignored her and im like "DUDE SHES TALKIN TO YOUU" its hard to watch.😂
@Luke_GrenobleКүн бұрын
@@RantePlayz always gotta look out for the homies
@ZionSweet-b6Күн бұрын
This guy is the older brother I never had but definitely needed
@Luke_GrenobleКүн бұрын
@@ZionSweet-b6 thank you lil bro💪 excited to see you grow
@ZionSweet-b6Күн бұрын
What kinds of actionable steps did you take to get this socially confident and charismatic?
@Luke_GrenobleКүн бұрын
@@ZionSweet-b6 every one I could think of or read about. I started conversations any time I was in an elevator, I spoke to a stranger every day, I made it a point to smile at people for no reason daily. If you’re looking for resources: How to win friends and influence people - Dale Carnegie The charisma myth - Olivia Fox Cabane Captivate - Vanessa Van Edwards All good books, read a chapter and then immediately implement what you learn THAT DAY.
@brennantodd2 күн бұрын
I'm new to your channel and I already love your vids. I needed social advice and your videos have helped me out so much. Keep posting more.
@Luke_GrenobleКүн бұрын
@@brennantodd I’ll keep up the good work if you do the same🤝
@tanker14252 күн бұрын
great advice bro
@Luke_GrenobleКүн бұрын
@@tanker1425 thank you brother
@malyck2 күн бұрын
Good shit bro, good shit.
@Luke_GrenobleКүн бұрын
@@malyck thank you, Malyck
@selectelectcarlos2 күн бұрын
Never care what another human being thinks of you, they are not your judge, The Lord is.
@pydxq81672 күн бұрын
what a great video , thank you so much for sharing this for free
@Luke_GrenobleКүн бұрын
@@pydxq8167 ofc bro, thank you for the kind words
@Vam3lz2 күн бұрын
right yeah im binging your channel
@Luke_Grenoble2 күн бұрын
@@Vam3lz we lost another one down the Grenoble rabbit hole😩 Thanks for your support bro👍
@Tortl3_32 күн бұрын
My biggest problem is I’m not confident, I’ve had a shit life so far and I’ve been really alone and I’m not proud of the way I look and if anything bad happens I blame it on the way I look, I’ve always been like this, if someone doesn’t want to be my friend or doesn’t text back or whatever I just blame it on myself and it’s quite hard to change that
@Luke_Grenoble2 күн бұрын
@@Tortl3_3 that’s a difficult place to be in bro. I used to be very insecure about how I looked and had some similar mindsets. A huge shift for me was realizing it’s never personal. Life isn’t fair but most times your results come from your actions. This is incredibly important to know because it means you can change your actions to change your results. If someone doesn’t want to be your friend or rejects you, it’s not personal, it never is. They have other shit going on. The first step to changing is acting on that even if you don’t yet believe it. Once you start to see a difference, your mindset will start to change. The world will start to feel almost malleable and that’s such a great place to be because you start to feel powerful again. It first starts with belief you can do better (become more attractive, more social, a better flirt) or if not full belief, doing it anyway until you see your results change. Hope that helped bro, keep up the good effort👍
@Rubindy2 күн бұрын
social mistakes -> insecure. That mindset is already the root problem of people
@Luke_Grenoble2 күн бұрын
@@Rubindy 100%
@yerces7 сағат бұрын
For me it’s been my teeth I’ve gotten better but during hs I wore a mask because if Covid so nobody knew my teeth were fucked up but I got just get through it so just remember don’t let things become a barrier
@horrorshivers13552 күн бұрын
Don’t worry about being weird or yourself. Just be who you are. You have to switch it, your not going to like everyone.
@Luke_Grenoble2 күн бұрын
@@horrorshivers1355 great thought bro. Turning old mindsets on their head is a great place to start. Instead of thinking “are they going to like me”, ask, “am I going to like them”.
@horrorshivers13552 күн бұрын
@@Luke_Grenoble Exactly! It’s just the thinking mindset of ‘if I walk into a room, not everyone will be my cup of tea’ - so to speak. That’s ok because you’re your own person!
@rainyday90022 күн бұрын
Wow. This completely changed my perspective. You are so right that the problem lies in my own head and I can't blame anyone but myself, but it feels so good to know that I also have all the power to change it. I can hardly believe you were ever awkward because you seem so effortlessly cool but I guess the coolest people are always the ones who had it rough and learned from it. Thanks a lot :)
@Luke_Grenoble2 күн бұрын
@@rainyday9002 that’s really kind of you to say, thank you. Keep me updated you how things go🤝
@tolmeme41022 күн бұрын
Not a guy but this still seems helpful because I'm new to college and don't really have any friends from high school
@Luke_Grenoble2 күн бұрын
@@tolmeme4102 you got this👍
@theredsaurian3 күн бұрын
this guy cooks
@Luke_Grenoble2 күн бұрын
@@theredsaurian *chefs kiss*
@chaneke9843 күн бұрын
This video felt like listening to a best friend <3
@Luke_Grenoble2 күн бұрын
@@chaneke984 you and me be like: 🤝
@peacetreepoetry3 күн бұрын
Thanks for this. I needed this.
@Luke_Grenoble2 күн бұрын
@@peacetreepoetry thanks for your support🤙
@peacetreepoetry3 күн бұрын
Does this work for women too? 😅
@Luke_Grenoble2 күн бұрын
@@peacetreepoetry yes, most everything I speak on will work for women though I mainly focus on a male POV. Hope you found some value :)
@darkguitar20143 күн бұрын
This is just bs
@Luke_Grenoble2 күн бұрын
@@darkguitar2014 thanks for the feedback. Comments always appreciated
@DarthVader-m3u3 күн бұрын
Oil up
@Luke_Grenoble3 күн бұрын
@@DarthVader-m3u thank you Darth Vader
@Tarunuknowbitch3 күн бұрын
Bro I beg you to make a video on collage like how to get girls ofc and how to make more friends pls.
@cooldude11_13 күн бұрын
I raise my eyebrows in every picture..is it me just me? what can I do to stop doing this?
@Luke_Grenoble3 күн бұрын
@@cooldude11_1 are you uncomfortable taking photos? If so, why?
@cooldude11_13 күн бұрын
@@Luke_Grenoble because my resting face makes me look angry when I’m not😅
@Luke_Grenoble2 күн бұрын
@@cooldude11_1 oh I gotchu bro, I used to practice my smile in the mirror. What I did was get my smile just right, then go back to my resting face. I’d practice doing it over and over until it was muscle memory and I could do it without looking at myself.
@cooldude11_12 күн бұрын
@@Luke_Grenoble oh thanks! do you know how I can eliminate face fat?
@Luke_GrenobleКүн бұрын
@@cooldude11_1 only way is to get down overall body fat percentage, there’s no such thing as getting rid of only face fat. This can look like either doing more cardio than you do now or eating less food, just make sure you’re doing it in a safe way :) I’m making a video about cutting fat soon too, be on the lookout👀
@cooldude11_13 күн бұрын
Love your eyes bro😁
@cool_dude_273 күн бұрын
lol your username's cooldude as well haha
@PlutoBoost4 күн бұрын
Me going up to a big guy You look liek you love food Me after🤕
@karasu_tengu144 күн бұрын
The NPC multiple choice responses are thee worst 😭
@Luke_Grenoble3 күн бұрын
@@karasu_tengu14 truth, I’m just out here trynna not be an NPC