Luke...do you have any advice on how to remain a chill, relaxed person but not be seen as dry, cold or uninterested
@connoro5550Ай бұрын
You can be chilled and relaxed and show interest? If you're simply uninterested in someone or something then that's fine I don't know why you'd force it, but if you're uninterested because you're trying to adopt a chill persona and / or by trying to be this way you're not fully present in the convo or listening then that may be where the problem lies. I think all it comes down to trying to be present and (really) listening to what others are saying... then you experience whatever feeling you have about that - whether it's chill or relaxed or not. I will say that being chill or relaxed is usually a trait of people who are more sure of themselves. Which I'd say comes about through just thinking about and experiencing life - eg) questioning the opinions and beliefs of others and yourself - why would what you think be any less valid than say what your friends or parents think? Question the opinions of others, form your own, always be open to reforming your beliefs. Anyway idk this turned into a bit of a rant but you get the idea.
@MTGSecrets666Ай бұрын
cool = uninterested always have been
@tasniemalasmar9768Ай бұрын
thank you!
@celestecloutier561Ай бұрын
What you're saying is great but hearing "bro" all the time and you either exhaling or pulling your nose instead of just blowing it when it's stuffy is just annoying and it makes it hard to concentrare on what you are trying to say because the noises you make are distracting.