Maybe helpful to get the attention of other successful autistic creators to help achieve your goal. Paul Micallef, Orion Kelly ....
@leosthrivwithautism14 минут бұрын
After several years on the platform I've sent more than 100 emails between so many different professionals and also other channels. Large number of all communication attempts went completely ignored. Few returned back a response saying they are not taking new collabs or didnt show interest in a talk. And others down right considered me a threat in that when i talked to them about licensing their work or asking for permission to use they accused me of being the reason people steal content and said they would report me even when i clarified and told them that i never used anything of theirs i was simply asking permission but after their reply i don't plan on talking to them again. It's why i went my own way and carved out my own path. I knew it would be an uphill battle and a fight to do it alone but hey when you're suppressed and ignored sometimes you have to be louder then the rest to finally get attention. The saying goes "the squeaky wheel gets the grease". The volume of my message is increasing and becoming louder so hopefully one day when the community out their realizes I'm not going anywhere and ive built a true community from the ground up just maybe they will stop seeing me as a threat and decide to work with me. We shall see. 👍
@MVance-k9p25 минут бұрын
There's a lot of people who acquire a degree immediately act as if they've forgotten everything they've learned.
@leosthrivwithautism20 минут бұрын
Agree!
@MVance-k9p32 минут бұрын
Sanity and behavior are judged by a neurotypical standard. Money and success are a big factor in treatment. The wealthy tend to be called "eccentric " while those without success or money are dehumanized and used as income for the facility holding them.
@MVance-k9p43 минут бұрын
There doesn't seem to be enough talk about addressing bullying in the neurodivergent groups. Only complaining that it happens. Bringing people together to make changes is necessary. Large numbers of people are needed to demand change.
@leosthrivwithautism21 минут бұрын
Completely agree! Good point.
@Imagination_lives43 минут бұрын
Hey Leo, I agree. I don't feel sorry for bullies. A lot of them come from bad or even abusive backgrounds, but I don't care-- because so did I, and that doesn't give them the excuse to abuse others. Instead of breaking abusive cycles, all they do is perpetuate them by becoming bullies themselves, and for that, I have zero tolerance. Your story about the rocks is interesting, because when I was about 9, some dude on a motorcycle would come down my street and stop and yell obscenities at me because I was on my Big Wheel (a kid's toy) in the street, and he didn't think I belonged on the same street as him. I mean, good grief, I was 9 and this punk was at least 16...anyway, I got sick of it, so one day I hid in the bushes and waited for him, and I had a handful of rocks which I nailed him with as he came by. He stopped to look around and figure out what had happened, and I hauled butt out of there LOL. As a teenager, I handed out a couple of knuckle sandwiches to some bullies and had no regrets about it. Nobody had my back, so I don't look back very fondly on those days. Anyway, I got your back, brother. You're a grownass man now and a survivor!
@leosthrivwithautism23 минут бұрын
@@Imagination_lives Thanks! I shared this only as part of the new series. And because i started to have a voice and speaking more confidently about my experiences and why i believe somethings need to be said. The hard discussions need to be had. Sometimes it's not easy. Its difficult. But in my opinion having it, going through it, so hopefully the on the other end there is a reasonable resolution that can be agreed upon. It's the only reason i brought it all up in different videos. I appreciate the comment. It's always valuable to me to hear from my community! Hopefully this is the foundation and start if building the impact i want to make. And also i can only hope that it helps! 👍
@MVance-k9p48 минут бұрын
This society has it backwards. A victim that manages to protect themselves should be rewarded, not punished.
@leosthrivwithautism45 минут бұрын
@@MVance-k9p exactly!
@MVance-k9p50 минут бұрын
There's nothing wrong with protecting oneself. I've felt bad for having to fight. I've never regretted protecting myself or someone else.
@MVance-k9p54 минут бұрын
I think many bullies are full of anxiety and fear. They're afraid of not being in a position of power. A bad home life can cause it. Their parents bully them at home. They'll exploit weakness. Not fighting back is not a good idea. Get help from a person in a position of authority if possible.
@leosthrivwithautism45 минут бұрын
@@MVance-k9p i see what you mean. Here is the bad part. Multiple times authority was dismissive. Then at other times blamed me for being the one to cause the problem. So just personally I'm indifferent to that option because while i don't disagree, i dont agree either if that makes since. Its a tough on in my personal situation.
@DWSP1014 сағат бұрын
I like studying mental health history when it comes to that stuff because a lot of it is pretty horrific. It’s actually quite horror movie. Depends on which time period and how barbaric it was back then and it wasn’t even that long ago we were still shocking people in the head with electricity in a way that legitimately was Ock Ing people if they did something wrong in their eyes of perception so the medical field hasn’t really evolved very fast, but it only recently started to stop some of its barbaric practices wasn’t very long ago. And I can quite literally say this for a fact, and I have no problem saying it because I’m better in the aspects I needed to get better but not because of the mental health industry I took more spiritual path to healing. But mental health facilities here in Central America are joke. The one I went to, when I was suffering from extreme depression and trying to end my life took me in the back of the place. It was sketchy is gonna be nobody was there was not greeted got dropped off in the back of the place like some shady drop off on top of that the place had people constantly screaming , and hitting the walls and me and another guy were sitting there wondering if someone was going to stop the person was breaking through the wall and this is not a joke. This is not an exaggeration. This is not to scare you not all mental health facilities are like this just the one I went to was absolutely a nightmare, if you know you have a family member and you’re gonna help them when it comes to extreme situations where they need immediate mental health assistance. Make sure you do your research about what place you send them to you might do more damage if you send them to the wrong place Me, I made it out of there. And if I had to, I would rather choose going to prison then going into that place. I know my story is not exactly a nice story but in all honesty I’m trying to say something here. The mental health system is very flawed, but there is some places that are actually good. Do your reviews understand what you’re getting yourself into when you send a family member or you send a welfare check as a friend concerned about a loved one make sure you understand the rules the regulations the places the ratings of the places before you do these actions because it’s detrimental to the person who needs treatment. a lot of places are horrible. A lot of places are good, but not every places the same and you might just have all bad around you, be careful remember research and the real work at the real psychology behind. Everything is true most of it. They need some refining but I understand things are slowly getting better. I can say this openly as a way to help people understand I have almost died several times by my own hands, but I tell you this now it’s not worth it. Keep living. Trust me things get better. I have amazing kids now they keep me on my toes every single day, and my children are the best thing in this world. They give me so much meaning and so much life , I could never think about killing myself ever again. I got 2 Boys. They Dr. me nuts and up the wall, but they’re the reason why every day is a blessing my two boys.
@leosthrivwithautism4 сағат бұрын
What I've read and studied and the reviews all align similarly in many extents to what you described. I which urban explorers. And many times they go to abandoned asylums. They may not be part of the modern day system and run down but seeing the barbaric equipment still left in them is creepy as hell and makes me thankful i was born in this day and age. I don't believe id be around if i was born back then, the system would taken me out. Appreciate the input and as always thank you for sharing your experiences and message it's always valuable to the channel! 👍
@Djjustb9 сағат бұрын
You know how I learned or am learning to not be overwhelmed. Make a todo list... I have learned just as you know, everyone has an opinion. What you need to do is look at in a positive way. Example: Before someone would say something I didn't want hear and think that's so stupid. But now, I am learning to look at it as a learning tool and talk with them. Try to figure out why they feel that way. Hate is everywhere but knowledge will always be POWER! You are killing this! You giant hike up the mountain is just about over with! REMEMBER! It is always darkest before dawn! I know this! I am the thing that lurks in the darkness. I can tell you are an amazing dude! Start realizing all the good you have and the rest will start to follow.
@leosthrivwithautism7 сағат бұрын
Thanks Jay!
@Djjustb9 сағат бұрын
Another watch incoming! Forgot to comment! I feel ppl are attacking you for 2 reasons. 1 you are giving them attention and they know it bugs you. Which means you are sad or depressed and that makes them happy because misery loves company. 2nd and the more important one. Bro! You are making a difference! Be happy! The more hate you get! The bigger you are becoming! Keep your head up and remember you ARE NOT ALONE!
@leosthrivwithautism9 сағат бұрын
@@Djjustb thanks Jay! After i made the 1 video i dropped the subject! I made it only as a voice for everyone that has gone through this and where never heard. Think of it as taking one for the team so to speak. Where i weighed the potential negative this could bring me and decided to make the video anyways. And the video found new supporters and even some who thanked me for making the video. You are right man it did have an impact on me but because ive been through this war before i knew i could take it. So it was as if i was telling others who negative " give me your best shot im still standing here and this video will be herd rather they lile it or not its not going anywhere" 😁👍 When i got it out my system and made it a voice yo be heard by others who might or not wanted their voice public i spoke for them. Sometimes hard topics and subjects need to be talked about they need to be brought out and I've always knew that these were the toughest videos to make and handle. But in a way i felt as thought my trauma and pain of the best made me ready yo fight this. Its been a long time now man where i've attempted many ways to drown out the voice of bullies and everyone seem to tell me that bullies have the right to have a voice and i agree to extent where they have the right to have a voice just not bully others. And since i 14 long long ago the concept of ignoring and they to away never worked. And in my experience ignoring just made it worst. I had bullies who drew blood out of me throwing rocks at me and physically attack me to force a response and when i finally snapped i was put at fault oh i lost man. I was thinking to myself so the same is going to turn and protect the aggressor?? Really?? No im sorry but the injuries he has he earned it. And many years i even lost friends over this situation who kept saying i was in the wrong. And i will never accept that. I followed all advice that was meant to protect me and i got physically attacked for it. And I'm supposed to stand there and take it. Screw that im defending myself and its what i did. And after years of feeling all this and more i finally dealt with it. It felt good. And yes i blocked and reported about another 10 people that came to attack me for that video. I made one video and thats all thats needed. So this way hopefully it attracts the haters and i can report them and them kicked out of here or at least out of my channel so i never hear from them again. Sorry for the long response man its a passionate subject plus i wanted to provide context too. I pick my battles and if its one i think its worth fighting and i know i can win i will fight forcefully. Hope all is well man!
@Djjustb9 сағат бұрын
Video idea! Best parental controls for Android and iOS. Think is would go well with this direction.
@leosthrivwithautism9 сағат бұрын
@@Djjustb adding it to my list. Thanks!
@Djjustb9 сағат бұрын
I agree so much with your views! It's why I started my channel and I promote love, kindness, hope, and BLOOD! 😂😂🤣🤣I do love horror. I am loving this series! I realized I forgot to comment on the 1st video cuz I was so into it! As you know! The bigger you get the more hate you will get! Just remember that means you are making a difference! Keep it up!
@leosthrivwithautism9 сағат бұрын
@@Djjustb thanks jay! Glad you enjoyed it!
@YouTubeperson1234Күн бұрын
Thank you! I have autism and every time i bring it up with my friend, he thinks im making excuses when im not even saying "its because i have autism".
@leosthrivwithautismКүн бұрын
@@KZbinperson1234 This here is exactly why i posted that shorts video. Then followed it with a long form video. Ive had family members treat me this same way. And when i got the comment that triggered the response it was the last straw that lit the fuse. At least for me it was. I couldn't stay silent anymore. I needed this to be said and heard because i know i wasn't the only autistic person experiencing this! Im glad the video resonated with you! Feel free to share it if you want! 👍
@kirkbest3238Күн бұрын
I’m on the spectrum ❤
@leosthrivwithautismКүн бұрын
Good to meet you! Thanks for the comment! 😁
@MVance-k9pКүн бұрын
Thanks again. Some of us are playing checkers while others are expecting us to play chess.
@MVance-k9pКүн бұрын
I've stopped trying to be something I can never be. I'm not "wrong", I am "different". This is parallel developement. Humans will automatically segregate themselves to a high degree, no matter their upbringing or education. It's an instinctual process.
@MVance-k9pКүн бұрын
Many times the genetic differences can change a physical presentation. Methylation problems can also change certain aspects of physical development. I think they mainly see that we use our facial and postural communication differently.
@MVance-k9pКүн бұрын
Autism is a spectrum. How a person presents as autistic varies. How a person presents as neurotypical also varies.
@RS474Күн бұрын
I only ever try and take advice from people who have done what I want to do. Also, I don’t take action until I have multiple different opinions and take the average to form my new opinion from.
@RS474Күн бұрын
I totally agree 100% on your view of the Internet. I’ve been in IT for over 25 years and today recently I’ve started to plan my exit strategy and I’m actively looking for a side hustle that will eventually be a change of career.
@danayu3428Күн бұрын
I went on a date and couldn't speak to him. I couldn't explain to him why.i do not do dates anymore,
@MarleeThompson-s3pКүн бұрын
Yes I’m hyper sensitive to noise in profile picture I’m wearing noise cancelling headphones yes I’m autistic
@DWSP101Күн бұрын
I am here dragging my feet to stay busy. Later I will update this comment when I feel better hopefully
@leosthrivwithautismКүн бұрын
Take your time man! Whenever you feel comfortable!
@DWSP101Күн бұрын
I’m overwhelmed right now. I’m having an existential crisis that is literally based in reality. It’s not anxiety it’s not a panic attack. It’s literally being misunderstood. I generally care. I genuinely tell the truth. I fight to the nail and I have nothing in return. 😵💫😞
@leosthrivwithautismКүн бұрын
Im sorry to hear that man. Ive been in similar situations and it was horrible. Still hoping things get better for you man!
@DWSP101Күн бұрын
@@leosthrivwithautism hope so 😞
@LovelysupportIdLovelysupportIdКүн бұрын
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@LovelysupportIdLovelysupportIdКүн бұрын
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@leosthrivwithautismКүн бұрын
Thank you!
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@leosthrivwithautismКүн бұрын
Love the support! thank you!
@jonkas4542Күн бұрын
I travel in my own lane and never attempt to merge with traffic.
@leosthrivwithautismКүн бұрын
@@jonkas4542 i can understand!
@Titash-k7gКүн бұрын
Trust me it's a rare condition only 1 percent of people in world suffer from this, and it's hard to stay clam and be in school at this age. I can relate...
@leosthrivwithautismКүн бұрын
@@Titash-k7g i don't understand. What do you mean?
@user-zr6pl6nb6z2 күн бұрын
One thing I've learned over the years is that most people's opinions are wrong because most of them have a "groupthink" mentality. They don't form an opinion unless they deem it socially acceptable first. I'm sorry, but most people are foolish. The older I get, despite the loneliness at times, the more I want to be left alone and allowed to do my thing.
@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
I see nothing wrong with what you said! 👍 And often times the only way i get over the overwhelm in my life is by being left alone. Main purpose I'm talking about these subjects it was just subscriber requests to give my opinion and how to fix it. And since this is a channel about helping thats why i built this series. Just giving some food for thought in hopes it helps anyone who might watch it. Thanks for the comment!
@user-zr6pl6nb6z2 күн бұрын
@@leosthrivwithautism I wasn't posting that to counter anything you said, necessarily. I just needed to say it.
@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
No worries at all. And to make it clear i didn't believe you were countering anything. So i apologize if i made it seem that way. Some times my own words they don't come out how i want them too 👍 I agreed with your point of view. It made sense to me.
@user-zr6pl6nb6z2 күн бұрын
@@leosthrivwithautism No need to apologize. I'm not offended in the least. As for words not coming out the way you want them to, you ought to see me when I'm angry and feel cornered. All reason flies out of my mind and I just let fly verbally. I think that has to do with my PTSD, though, so it's different than what you're getting at. Know what really bothers me? Being unable to reason with people. You seem quite reasonable.
@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
@ i try to be! 👍 im happy when i succeed!
@MVance-k9p2 күн бұрын
Thanks for your work. I believe you and others like you are needed to help all of us to have a better quality of life.
@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
@@MVance-k9p that means so much to me! I genuinely mean that and it's why this channel was made. So comments like this only help me stay the course! 😁
@MVance-k9p2 күн бұрын
One more comment in interest of being helpful. Autism is marked by intensity. There appears to be low serotonin in the brain and a low cannabinoid called anandamide. They help moderate the intensity. I think they're low due to being used up. I replaced anandamide with cbd oil and tryptophan replaces serotonin. I sleep much better and feel less intensity overall.
@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
@@MVance-k9p interesting ill have to look into that. Im on SNRI medicines. They helped me greatly. But it doesn't hurt to look at other solutions too. So ill be looking into it! Thanks for the comment!
@MVance-k9p2 күн бұрын
Some neurodivergent brains have increased signalling which can cause certain intensities to manifest. I see increased emotional intensity from the enlarged amygdala and sensory input from the somatosensory cortex. We basically never lose the intensity that infants have. With increased connectivity comes intensity in many areas of the brain.
@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
Very interesting!
@MVance-k9p2 күн бұрын
I think neurotypicals take a superficial view of most things and generalize their thoughts. Monotropism and depth of processing in autism and people with high intellectual ability fuels a need for precision that carries a lot of data to process that leads to overwhelm. Similar to over clocking a cpu. It sometimes causes data bottle necks and overheating. In our case all of the brain's resources are used up leading to temporary shutdowns till recovery.
@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
@@MVance-k9p i like this explanation! Thank you! 😁
@coffee59812 күн бұрын
I love the series and am excited to see more of it Leo only 1 thing I disagree with is I always saw the internet as being more regulated and censored now than when I was a kid but am only 28 so you might be know more than me. But either way it is good to challenge ideas and have a discussion because that does not happen enough nowadays. Its hard looking at the past because it is easy to see it with rose tinted glasses but maybe if we all have a chat we can get a clearer view. So it is a good thing youre doing. Cheers!
@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
You said it perfectly! Thing is that talks never really happen to figure out a way to reach a balanced approached. Back in the days of dial up internet when the everything was starting up and very primitive people hadn't yet fully adopted the internet and digital world. Nor did they see the power it harnesses and try to use for the bad. The internet back then only had very few uses at first. And most things were paid services. Google was all but a thought and search engines didn't really work all that well. Initially there wasnt even this platform we are talking on. I experienced this long ago. And to me it's down right scary how it went from that to what we have so sonic speed fast. Because i knew decisions were being made too fast without consideration's. Without thinking it through. The internet was never meant to be what it is today. It was always designed to be a powerful helpful tool for positive things. It was built to be controlled but not over controlled. You can still have your freedom on the net but just within reason so to speak. Today and this is just my opinion based on what I've seen and also how things are configured to work... its corporate controlled greedy cash grab built to benefit the rich and keep the the tension between those who aren't. It also gives a voice to alot of misinformation and disinformation and makes it really hard for some people. But to be clear I'm not disagreeing with you because i like the points you made. Im just giving a point of view based on experiences you might not have known about. This talk like we are having should of happened long ago but it didn't. Thank you for the great comment. Ans sorry for my long response.
@DWSP1012 күн бұрын
I also remember giving information that was a bit educational to the subject at hand on a video before and you being appreciative of me offering information. I’ve been there too. lol I remember when one of my comments were deleted. It’s OK I cussed too much sometimes. lol So I’ve been in all these categories 😂🎉
@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
Haha. Your understanding and thats what makes talking to you constructive man! Because i had to relax just slightly on some cussing depending on context because when i deleted someone else's comment they unsubscribed. And at that point i realized i was being too restrictive. So as long as its not too out there and within context and part of the conversation ill allow it. But if it gets a bit too crazy than usually ill remove the comment. Its not personal its just that realizing i also had a small percentage of very young audience i didn't want to be reading that kind of stuff and its why ive kept the videos clean too. All i want is a balance haha. 👍 appreciate you man i mean that!
@DWSP1012 күн бұрын
@@leosthrivwithautism Constructive I don’t think I’ve ever had someone say I’m constructive lol but still I absolutely appreciate the remark. I used to talk to so many of my friends when I worked at my old job all of them were different religions, different political stances different races. Trust me all of them got along with me. I didn’t judge them for their opinions, nor do I judge them for what they wish to do always kind of kept in mind to just, respect their opinion, but I don’t have to agree with it. Same as you don’t get me wrong. I’m not like this all the time. I’m not perfect and I’m definitely not a hypocrite at the same time. If I’m a hypocrite, I’ll be willing to admit it paradoxically therefore making me not a hypocrite.😂 Either way I tend to not really take things to personally if I did I wouldn’t be able to handle half the crap😑
@RUredE2go2 күн бұрын
Thanks for the video, well done keep up the good fight! Some times doing the right thing isn’t popular but it’s still right 🙏🏻
@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
Wow you hit it right on the nail! Lol. Sometimes i just want the positive things to be so loud and so strong that it never allows the negativity and misinformation to ever be heard. I was positivity to drown out misinformation and negativity to the point it never resurfaces. But the fight is difficult when negativity gathers a following. And its upsetting that negativity does ever get a following. Im not sure what part of the world you reside in but here in the US we have freedom of speech which should never include misinformation that would make it easier to fight legally. Unfortunately the structure we live in here allows misinformation to live even if said information is very harmful. I really do appreciate the support and believe me I'm not backing down 👍 just pushing forward.
@user-zr6pl6nb6z2 күн бұрын
I had to chuckle watching this, because I do a lot of the same things you do.
@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
@@user-zr6pl6nb6z 😁 i love getting texts like this!! Thank you! I also like it when it resonates with people and is relatable. 👍
@MelanieTheEquestrian2 күн бұрын
Very nice video. I agree with the dislike button but I will admit if they really don’t or won’t get rid of it if people can say in a good way I would love to know why they clicked especially if it could help in future videos.
@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
Normally I'm good at just letting it slide. But it was the thought of my baby nephew dealing with this as he grows up that really got to me. And if I can figured out and find ways to help me not endure the same pains I've been through I will do that. My community, my family and friends etc. All people I care about, I defend them. even if I have to do it alone. I'll do it. And I do it because for example what was said to me is wrong and should never have a voice or be said. Because it is baseless and it is misinformation proven to be wrong in so many ways. It all just piled up on me and I just snapped. But in a way I see that as a good thing because it gave me a fire to not be scared to say whats on my mind. And gave me a boost of confidence I plan to use to really crank out so good sound great information in hopes of overshadowing and drowning out the misinformation so it's never heard. Thanks for the comment Melanie. Always appreciate your support!
@LovelysupportIdLovelysupportId2 күн бұрын
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@leosthrivwithautism2 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for your Support! I'm grateful! =)