wich songs u used in this video? they very chillin

Guard your thoughts because not all are meant for sharing. As Lao Tzu wisely said, 'Those who know do not speak. Those who speak do not know.' Preserve your energy and wisdom for those who truly value them.

I found your video by chance on KZbin, and just wanted to say that it was exactly what you need to hear. I needed this so bad. Best greetings from Brazil!

I am a certified yapper. I agree with almost everything you say here. Specifically what you are saying with sharing accomplishments. Allowing people to influence your dreams, aspirations, or goals negatively is the most detrimental thing to personal growth PERIOD. That being said, I do disagree a little with your argument against 'small talk' or hypotheticals. I think asking interesting and fun questions might seem uneventful and non-impactful to people who are used to communicating complex things regularly, but to people who have issues communicating or opening up they can be a serious gateway to eventful conversation. Great video though!

Hey bro, great channel, keep it going

This is insanely good! You'll be huge in no time :)

Also what mic are you using, ive been looking into buying a new one lol😂

Great video bro, this is really good advice👏 It is really important to carefully pick who you share what with. I've been taking youtube seriously posting every week for the last 9 months but I've only told 3 people I know because I don't want the negative comments of ppl I know crushing the process

bein a yapper is positive, makes others dream, have to be cautious tho hahaha dont want to hurt no one but rather find a place to dream during lifes boredom

Americans love to judge other Americans by the job they work at. A guy I knew was a cashier for 6 years then quit because he graduated and became a doctor. Now he makes 300K a year.

I have overshared a lot in my life and I often walk away from conversations feeling uncomfortable with what I have said.

I’m not a yapper however you made some solid points. Sub to follow your journey 🎉

finally another D1 yapper i can listen to when im working, thank you youtube algorithm!

This was so relatable! I tend to talk too much when I don't socialize often. It's a gift & a curse because sometimes I have no filter and feel guilty af after.I'm a work in progress though 🥲

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❤️‍🔥 this was Fire and enlightening

this is interesting, you should make a podcast on Spotify!

Great video!

i needed this so bad. tysm! subscribed

Just subbed, ur good vibes

Definitely a yapper. But I will say the person who asks those questions help to keep work from being a drag. I ask them and enjoy when others ask, and yeah, sometimes I do remember those small details about them. I agree it's hard to balance for me sometimes, when people provide quick answers with no details, the conversation ends up being dry and boring.

I have a problem with this truly

great video! i def have an issue with oversharing and then i get uncomfortable when people ask about it later like "oh you said you wanted to move to ___ how is that coming along?". i need to remember to share accomplishments, not dreams.

40 subs is crazy. we should get that up

Great video! ✨

This room is vibey

I can tell when KZbin channels with very little subscribers are going to take off, and this is one of them. Keep at it brother.

I can only see 4 videos on yoir channel - this isnt actually your 4th video on KZbin - is it?

just subscribed. i like you! and i like the point of this video a lot, i was just feeling this way as another oversharer and came across this

I agree! When I told people my dreams I never pursued them because I almost got the dopamine telling them and then they’d ask about it and I’d feel awful for not starting it. Great channel looking forward to seeing it grow!

I realized I too am D1 yapper

Super cool video and super dope room

Always been told ima D1 yapper 😅

I would say there is a value to keeping cards close from being judged or dismissed. I will say if you’re a yapper, people may not remember what you said but, will remember how positive you were and struck up a conversation with them. Asking those 3 items questions on slow work day, can really turn someone’s day around.

Great video, I can see a need for this information in today’s society and going forward. This could help mental health and set up proper boundaries for conversations and relationships.

I feel you, I think when I was younger, I would often feel kind of inadequate because I asked questions that I personally would have given in-depth answers for, only to get a monosyllabic response. Sometimes it would even make me a bit frustrated, too. But when I started working in customer service I learned how to interact with people in a polite and short manner, often listening to them yap as well, I ultimately learned to just listen, no yapping. What a relief! when i watch your videos i feel like we’re just having a conversation and it’s so fun, so chill, the lines of thought you go through are so interesting to explore! loved it since the first vid, great job!

my most dreadful day...and you summed up all the points I hate birthdays.

New subbie 🇿🇦

love the transitions, editing and music + true, I tell myself i’m not able to save up money, but i eat out so often and I don’t even stop to think about it. Imma keep myself in check next time I start doubting whether I should or shouldn’t buy something!

Yeah going out feels impossible I just invite my friends over and maybe just cook them a simple dinner or something

so true on the not wanting to kill the vibe when going out. i find myself spending so much money just to not be left out, knowing i really shouldn’t be buying “one more drink”. need to stop that asap

seeing people actively charge ahead despite the very real pitfalls of failure is nothing short of inspiring. much like yourself, I've wanted to create a space online to share parts of myself with the world but always convince myself otherwise. It's like this internal voice in my head protecting me from all the criticisms that, as you said, feel like an attack on my character. Once I have more to say, ill take a stab at it, for now I root for those willing to take the leap. You got this!

I really feel u w this. This whole idea has been on my mind a lot lately. Keep it up I see success for you!!

We all start at the beginning. ❤Welcome! 😊

lets talk about our fear of going offline

being bullied and stuff really leaves an impact. humans are a social species, so our brains have evolved to fear negative social reactions, which makes sense cuz like back in the day, if you piss off ppl in the village ur dead (think salem witch trials). plus we evolved to feel literal pain when imagining bad outcomes to risky decisions, but we didnt evolve to feel literal pleasure when imagining good potential outcomes, which is why it's sooo hard to change behavior. im struggling w this right now and this is inspiring. i think this video was recommended to me bc this year i identified that the reason why i havent acted upon my social media goals is fear!!! and have been researching how to overcome it. i intend to face this fear and make progress toward overcoming it this summer and it is very fricken scary lol. but thank you, this video is empowering for me to continue :) (btw this is account is *not* my "posting" youtube, in case anyone wonders)

You're not alone in feeling this way ( 2:02 ) for sure. I'm a year in to putting out content and still battling hard against that self-criticism. You've got a great mindset with regards to effort = success though. That silly fear that we might all feel at putting something out in to the world is worth ignoring. Because each time we put something out we're taking a step. A step that isn't otherwise taken. A step that can be judged, sure. But isn't that better than a step that isn't taken at all? Good luck on your journey man. The change in mic quality from before the dead cat to after, is really noticeable, i'm buying some dead cats right now. With enough duct tape I could probably fit 10 or so to my mic arm, and that will hopefully make me sound like a real person.

You perfectly encapsulated all my feelings when I started my channel lol

Good video, I have make no posts on social media and never really have despite growing up consuming so much of it. You made me reflect and realize that a lot of this comes from a place of subconscious fear that I never really even knew was there. Good video, keep it up bro.