I wonder if she still feels great when she becomes incontinent due to weakness of her pelvic floor.

I hear ya. I have a long running series on sexuality and gender. Not for everyone (or me most days). I try to organize things into topical playlists to target certain interest. They’re on my “playlist” channel tab if you want to explore other types of interviews.

​@BenjaminABoyce Thanks for your reply. I want to be civil, and I wish no harm to anyone, but this is simply not a priority and has been given way too much attention. Life is too short to focus everything on sex.

@@Run.Ran.Run1 I get where you are coming from, and you mention one part of sex. attraction; the other being companionship. Which is for most a significant aspect of their life. The former however is pertinent to discussing the ideology of transgenderism, as it ignores the correlation between gender identity/presentation and sexual attraction: early presenting atypical boys and girls are often same-sex attracted. It would be just as negligent on our part to not recognise this and the role of Western culture to be less rigid when it comes to gender expectations of both the sexes as it may be a contributing factor to people feeling dysphoric and transitioning medically. Transgenderism therefore poses a more subtle but distinct homophobia.

@@GammelfleischGmbH You have spent way too much time thinking about this, as have many. Negligence is exactly what is necessary when dealing with rampant narcissism. NO ATTENTION AT ALL. It will disappear. I'm signing out. This is not a discussion, it's a mere statement of fact.

Yes, people are being led to focus too much on their inner state of mind, instead of living their life. Yet as a clinician first trying to understand where these individuals are coming from is the first step in preventing unnecessary medicalisation. From my experience unilaterally ignoring things for too long, leads to larger issues down the road. But to each their own.

Agree about both points. However, not sure "attention seeking" is a motivating factor, but rather that the online spaces Oliver was engaged with, combined with the family upbringing and boyfriend picked apart the edges where Oliver was vulnerable.

Oliver doesn't identify as AAP. Explicitly states that it does not describe their experience.

and yet…

Wtf are you talking about?

Al so called "gender affirming care" should be banned.

How old do you think the guest was when iphones became ubiquitous?

In fairness to Oliver, sounds like he's got a good job in retail management where he's working hard and is considering a business degree to progress even further, and has a long-term relationship and solid family ties and artistic interests, etc. With some of Mr Boyce's trans guests, yeah I'd agree with you that there's an attention-seeking element with an eye on increasing no. of followers, but not sure it applies in this case. Oliver seems to have plenty going on that isn't trans-focused.

@carolynbrightfield... 🙀🤗How are you and the land of Aussie doing? 🦘I do wish our time zones were more compatible, as would like to provide you one of The Kitty's personalized authentic 🐈bonks and even a * boop * . Maybe one day, you will have insomnia and be awake at 2AM, so as to catch the LIVE chat in progress 🐱

Shouldn't there be a hyphen and someone else's name in there, or is that only for Mrs. Leslie-Benjamin?

@@miroirs-jumeaux ... The correct annunciation of this pairing is the "Ms. Leslie of Reason and Boyce of Mansplaining" podcast. I have petitioned Ms. Leslie on an official channel name change and though assures me that she and I are in complete agreement, Mr. Benjamin remains on the fence about it. Let's call it a "work in progress" 😸

damnit, shouldn't have read comments until I listened again!

Exactly. At 25 i didn't want kids. We got pregnant, best thing by a country mile. There is nothing to describe the elation. Life would be pretty meaningless without. I wished had 5!! So.. yeah I'm sure Bill Gates and the other depopulators are ecstatic they're destroying women but it's so sad. 😢

The switch didn't go off in my brain about wanting to have children until I was in my 30s! Its' completely normal for girls & women not to want to have children in their teens and 20s. Most of the women I've known in the course of my life weren't keen on having babies until well into adulthood.

@carolynbrightfield ... Yes. This story is far more common than most willing to admit. Obviously, there are those who say this and indeed never have children and never regret that decision. However, you came to understand the reason why we should attempt to... "never say never". This is a vastly more important issue for women, as your window of childbirth is vastly shorter than that of men. We have all seen too many videos, that may be seen as anecdotal, but are heartbreaking to watch. Most are of women who are early 30's and come to the realization that while quite a number always desired to have children of their own, they "put it off", until such time they were financially set (not just stable) and or often had even purchased a home. So when the "big 30" hits them, that biological clock begins to tick loudly. If at the time, she currently has a very significant partner and he wishes the same, this is easy to address. . However, if she does NOT have this partner, she has but she has quite limited options. She would need to meet the purrfect guy and forgo some of the time most take to truly get to know that person and have fun, prior to (ideally) get married and have children. This is not too big a deal, should they agree that a single child is ideal, but were they to want several children, this becomes a greater health risk to her, as well as the prospect of being in an almost perpetual state of pregnancy for a few years, to ensure the best likely outcome of health for all. . I will not go further into this, as you and I have talked about all this previously, because many women are not always so happy with where that conversation goes. I am glad you figured this all out at a good point in your life and trust that you have 1 or more beautiful healthy children as result ❤

Do you know of Ray Alex Williams, and if so do you have a hot take about his views or character?

@@miroirs-jumeaux - Yes, I have watched many of his videos. I think he speaks a lot of truth about AGP and he seems to be a very intelligent guy. That's my scorching hot take.

Most " trans women " on trans spaces apear to be on the AGP scale. More the fetishistic side . The HSTS dont exist in thosee spaces.

[notifies yt authorities of rebel forces in chat, seeking to undermine the very foundation of that which binds this community together 😾]

@@NinjaKittyBonks ☝️ Kitty's a narc, everyone! Run and hide your stash!

@@NinjaKittyBonks My reply is gone. 😪 Kitty, you narc.

​@@helenablavatsky9136 ... behold ...[size 680 billion font]... The true POWA of ...[even larger font]... The Kitty! ... [insert Macy Parade size helium* filled kitty head as Ms.🍎is seen looking upward toward the rising giant in complete awe]...😼 . *There will be no smirks, insinuations or shenanigans at The Kitty's expense, in regards to any of the following: . 1) Those who would imply that The Kitty's head is _actually_ filled with helium, thereby answering many long held questions as to current state of brain function failure, due to the vacuous cavern of space between cute lil' fuzzy ears. as it may or may not relate to a form of gas that impedes the thought processes 😾 . 2) There will be no frivolous, exuberant or giddy comparisons of The Kitty's meower, as it relates to an unsubstantiated rumors of a very high-pitched vocalization of sound, that may or may not be compared to certain nasally sounding emanations of a certain LooneyTunes "Tweety Bird" character, introduced in 1952 titled..."Aint She Tweet" 😾 . 3) Lastly.... Any daffy, harebrained or featherbrained inferences of any of the above will result into immediate furrball breakdown of emotional panic, so as to force scurried retreat to safe space with multiple stuffed comfort hoomans for a period of at least equal to, but not less than the amount of community hours served by Emilio Estevez who may or may not have allegedly scotch taped Anthony Michael Hall's buns together, as referenced in movie _The Breakfast club)_ 😾 . Is the above purrfectly clear? 😾

@@NinjaKittyBonks (Pops kitty with a safety pin. Waits in triumph to see if kitty can put himself together again)

don't forget the government, the churches, the ____, etc.

I can see your comment but the première's only 20 min through. 🤔

@@miroirs-jumeauxI started watching while it was still live

@@miroirs-jumeauxalso, it has been a very enlightening discussion so far, and I really appreciate it. Do I need to wait until the end to comment that?

Yes. I've made a comment while it is still live. I'm towards the end now. Taking care of our father-in-law? Sad. This person is too young for that.

​@@SnoWhite2420No, and I already figured you might have not intended to summarize the entire thing. I found this one extremely compelling, too.

I don’t know your experience with the algorithm and who comments on what content, but my experience is that “my audience” is heavily variant depending on who the guest is and how an interview is framed by the title and thumbnail.

That’s what I’m going for. Good ear!

Islam is pure evil