This was fun to watch/listen to. It reminds me of me and my husband. I’m going to have to go back and watch the other deep ends. Cheers from the east coast!
@lisabrightly6 сағат бұрын
Why stay? I would be "divorced by transgender" in a flash!
@clarebear7646 сағат бұрын
Everything. screams. female.
@kimwiser4457 сағат бұрын
Can you sue the NGOs and organizations pushing this?? NGOs are causing so many issues.
@drkzilla7 сағат бұрын
Gun control == ok speech Abortion == bad speech. Pay a fine
@chellamia8 сағат бұрын
i had to delete my comment as not only do i not have a computer so i couldnt see the whole of my comment but i hadnt heard the last few minutes so apologize. i dont recall ive ever commented on you tube like this but back in about an hour i expect. sorry.
@oliverhug38 сағат бұрын
Another delusional woman who proudly admits destroying her endocrine system for a fantacy.
@vancoke100018 сағат бұрын
For me this screams female autism pluss adhd,and the obsession on this transtopic is typical.It could happen to be something else,and the result would have been something else.Typical with low sense of self,and not fitting in,but that was masked away by homeschooling..allso when you are autistic and are raised by religious parents,you got kind of groomed into easily molded into kultlike environment.Pair that with homeschooling make you voulnable.That is what kind of kommunity you will surge . On top of that ,when the person is very artikulate and intelligent,its easy to collect a lot of information,to make this seems right,and lot of sense,but it is possible to understand this different too just saying.
@teraronin12 сағат бұрын
Please stop messing up your endocrine system and please don‘t have any surgeries done 🙏, Oliver. You‘re beautyful the way you are 🌀
@teraronin12 сағат бұрын
What a beautyful smile from Oliver in the last minutes 🌟
@sarahharris272912 сағат бұрын
On behalf of the 103,000 girls who live in the UK and had FGM, I give you permission to pick on the UK. Shame on the UK. Shame, Shame, Shame. I had to teach a social studies studies class on this to 13 year olds...but many teachers are not trained on this subject. It's an under utilised resource. The boys were also interested. I spoke of the countries where breast ironing is prevalent. and a boy from one of those countries was shocked and though he's only 13, I told him please look out for girls in your family and community and support them. He vowed he'd never let his future kids go through FGM or breast ironing. But most teachers in Britsh schools don't know the ethnic and country demographics and so the kids in these classes are unaware we are talking about THEYRE family.
@rustyshackelford359012 сағат бұрын
KZbin trying to block me from watching this
@tonyhoffman330913 сағат бұрын
Fascinating that Oliver can see how the "feminine" is championed by progressives, while demonizing the "masculine", and how they (progressives) do not recognize how so many of those attitudes are ignoring the objective material reality of being a male or female, regardless of how "masculine or feminine" you might be.
@tonyhoffman330913 сағат бұрын
Concerning that Oliver is in a relationship with someone which could result in a pregnancy but is not on birth control. Do hope that Oliver's doctors have made it clear that testosterone does not act as an effective birth control method and is a teratogen which endangers both the mother and baby in utero.
@tonyhoffman330914 сағат бұрын
Not at all surprised that taking exogenous testosterone made Oliver feel "better". It's a restricted drug for a good reason.
@oliverhug38 сағат бұрын
I wonder if she still feels great when she becomes incontinent due to weakness of her pelvic floor.
@tonyhoffman330914 сағат бұрын
The psychic "Frankenstein monster" described here, is such a common experience amongst this especially chronically online generation. (Of either sex) Really appreciate being able to hear this guest via your interview Benjamin.
@eleventylevity15 сағат бұрын
Oliver shows a good contrast to the number of detransititioners you have interviewed and a fresh and sure confidence. Here's to things continuing to work out well for him.
@everybodyshook16 сағат бұрын
very sweet woman with an interesting life and enlightening POV, though a bit of a slow talker, I found turning up the playback speed to 1.5 very beneficial for this particular episode
@salsamancer20 сағат бұрын
FTM is not the right way to put it. FTF is more right
@DaesoTheOne22 сағат бұрын
Do you think the 2017 incident is the primary reason that Evergreen has been struggling recently? I mean even since this videos release its dropped by another third to 2,110 students which is 200 less than the end of the 2023-2024 school year. For most colleges, the spring semester is always the one with the least amount of students. The fall semester is the time you increase the number of students. Evergreen failed to do this multiple times. The school is now half the size it was a decade ago while most other schools are having record breaking enrollment.
@Run.Ran.Run123 сағат бұрын
If there's one topic I couldn't care less about, and would like to see removed from public forums, is people talking about who they find sexually attractive. How you bounce from one set of genitals to another is insignificant rubbish. I'm new to this channel, but this is definitely strike one.
@BenjaminABoyce22 сағат бұрын
I hear ya. I have a long running series on sexuality and gender. Not for everyone (or me most days). I try to organize things into topical playlists to target certain interest. They’re on my “playlist” channel tab if you want to explore other types of interviews.
@Run.Ran.Run121 сағат бұрын
@BenjaminABoyce Thanks for your reply. I want to be civil, and I wish no harm to anyone, but this is simply not a priority and has been given way too much attention. Life is too short to focus everything on sex.
@GammelfleischGmbH18 сағат бұрын
@@Run.Ran.Run1 I get where you are coming from, and you mention one part of sex. attraction; the other being companionship. Which is for most a significant aspect of their life. The former however is pertinent to discussing the ideology of transgenderism, as it ignores the correlation between gender identity/presentation and sexual attraction: early presenting atypical boys and girls are often same-sex attracted. It would be just as negligent on our part to not recognise this and the role of Western culture to be less rigid when it comes to gender expectations of both the sexes as it may be a contributing factor to people feeling dysphoric and transitioning medically. Transgenderism therefore poses a more subtle but distinct homophobia.
@Run.Ran.Run118 сағат бұрын
@@GammelfleischGmbH You have spent way too much time thinking about this, as have many. Negligence is exactly what is necessary when dealing with rampant narcissism. NO ATTENTION AT ALL. It will disappear. I'm signing out. This is not a discussion, it's a mere statement of fact.
@GammelfleischGmbH18 сағат бұрын
Yes, people are being led to focus too much on their inner state of mind, instead of living their life. Yet as a clinician first trying to understand where these individuals are coming from is the first step in preventing unnecessary medicalisation. From my experience unilaterally ignoring things for too long, leads to larger issues down the road. But to each their own.
@MariamAli-z3hКүн бұрын
I've only been around trans women, and I've yet to meet one who wasn't self consumed and narcissistic which is why ive research the connection. Im surprised at the amount of info on it
@hestercorner-smith7499Күн бұрын
muddying shit by using the term gender… just say “sex” imo. Sad af that Oliver feels she cant be a protector and provider as a woman. In a way transdom is a type of martyrdom. Attention seeking isn't innatley bad, it signals an lack of connection somewhere.
@tonyhoffman330914 сағат бұрын
Agree about both points. However, not sure "attention seeking" is a motivating factor, but rather that the online spaces Oliver was engaged with, combined with the family upbringing and boyfriend picked apart the edges where Oliver was vulnerable.
@philillyКүн бұрын
Kudos to Oliver for recommending that FTMs hit the gym. I think the gym is good for humans in general, but especially for AAPs.
@tonyhoffman330914 сағат бұрын
Oliver doesn't identify as AAP. Explicitly states that it does not describe their experience.
@phililly7 сағат бұрын
and yet…
@vanillamarshmallowКүн бұрын
I looooved this interview. I don't know much about Islam, but this woman's story really touched me. I just followed her on X and I'm going to read her book. Thank you for sharing your story, Yasmine!
@IAmNotAHorseКүн бұрын
The policing of his hand gestures makes me cringe so hard. It’s not threatening, it’s normal! What the heck is wrong with these people?! They’re clearly enjoying the power trip.
@shweefranglais7900Күн бұрын
I really enjoyed this podcast. I like that Benjamin Boyce is broad in who he interviews on this subject. Oliver appears to have landed where he needs to be and I'm happy for him for that. It is nice to see someone who just wants to fit in and be stealth. My personal beef is with the whole trans activism and gender ideology movement who unfortunately are responsible for many people following a path they may late regret due to peer pressure .
@realMaverickBuckleyКүн бұрын
Man this is so sad. I really hope she finds a way out and recovers as well as possible. Her Drs should be jailed.
@morgondew142022 сағат бұрын
Wtf are you talking about?
@oliverhug38 сағат бұрын
Al so called "gender affirming care" should be banned.
@carolynbrightfield8911Күн бұрын
This is all about attention seeking. What develops a large fan base fastest these days. If they just did it, and got on with the rest of their lives ... doing real adult stuff. A bit like Douglas Maurray - homosexual, but his career doesn't revolve around that. It's tangential to what he will be rembered for - real work.
@miroirs-jumeauxКүн бұрын
How old do you think the guest was when iphones became ubiquitous?
@RaefonBКүн бұрын
In fairness to Oliver, sounds like he's got a good job in retail management where he's working hard and is considering a business degree to progress even further, and has a long-term relationship and solid family ties and artistic interests, etc. With some of Mr Boyce's trans guests, yeah I'd agree with you that there's an attention-seeking element with an eye on increasing no. of followers, but not sure it applies in this case. Oliver seems to have plenty going on that isn't trans-focused.
@NinjaKittyBonks13 сағат бұрын
@carolynbrightfield... 🙀🤗How are you and the land of Aussie doing? 🦘I do wish our time zones were more compatible, as would like to provide you one of The Kitty's personalized authentic 🐈bonks and even a * boop * . Maybe one day, you will have insomnia and be awake at 2AM, so as to catch the LIVE chat in progress 🐱
@NinjaKittyBonksКүн бұрын
Great stuff, Mr. Benjamin. Thank you Oliver for lots of great info and great outlook
@miroirs-jumeauxКүн бұрын
Shouldn't there be a hyphen and someone else's name in there, or is that only for Mrs. Leslie-Benjamin?
@NinjaKittyBonks13 сағат бұрын
@@miroirs-jumeaux ... The correct annunciation of this pairing is the "Ms. Leslie of Reason and Boyce of Mansplaining" podcast. I have petitioned Ms. Leslie on an official channel name change and though assures me that she and I are in complete agreement, Mr. Benjamin remains on the fence about it. Let's call it a "work in progress" 😸
@KramReminКүн бұрын
Full-on Husband-jak noise at the end is precious! "LESLIE!!!!"
@miroirs-jumeauxКүн бұрын
damnit, shouldn't have read comments until I listened again!
@carolynbrightfield8911Күн бұрын
This person says she never wants children. At 20, I never wanted children. Neither did any of my female friends from childhood. At 26, I didn't want children. We were travelling, having fun etc. At 27, I wanted children. It was a switch inside my brain. And my adolescent peer group was the same though we'd had "long since" developed our own lives. As for periods and hairiness, from age 16, I had terrible periods and had to shave my hairy legs every day. (Periods started at 11). I was teased, ostracised etc I was never much of a feminine dresser. We were too damn poor from pretty clothes, sparkly nonsense and jewellery. A warm jumper was a luxury. What a sad situation - a healthy brain and body destroyed before full natural brain development (age 25 +). Life's choices taken away. I was raising my younger siblings from age 10. Family grocery shopping from age 8. Oh, and I wonder what amount of caffeine is in that can this person sucks on? As for testosterone (yes, female "hairy" bodies do have higher levels of androgens. Thanks to my endocrinologist.), a drug high for the wrong body, or linked to aggression in the right body in high levels. Wonder if this person saw an endocrinologist and got her (yes, her) hormone levels checked and sampled over a month or three before imbibing "T". So sad.
@realMaverickBuckleyКүн бұрын
Exactly. At 25 i didn't want kids. We got pregnant, best thing by a country mile. There is nothing to describe the elation. Life would be pretty meaningless without. I wished had 5!! So.. yeah I'm sure Bill Gates and the other depopulators are ecstatic they're destroying women but it's so sad. 😢
@roxytocin8639Күн бұрын
The switch didn't go off in my brain about wanting to have children until I was in my 30s! Its' completely normal for girls & women not to want to have children in their teens and 20s. Most of the women I've known in the course of my life weren't keen on having babies until well into adulthood.
@NinjaKittyBonks12 сағат бұрын
@carolynbrightfield ... Yes. This story is far more common than most willing to admit. Obviously, there are those who say this and indeed never have children and never regret that decision. However, you came to understand the reason why we should attempt to... "never say never". This is a vastly more important issue for women, as your window of childbirth is vastly shorter than that of men. We have all seen too many videos, that may be seen as anecdotal, but are heartbreaking to watch. Most are of women who are early 30's and come to the realization that while quite a number always desired to have children of their own, they "put it off", until such time they were financially set (not just stable) and or often had even purchased a home. So when the "big 30" hits them, that biological clock begins to tick loudly. If at the time, she currently has a very significant partner and he wishes the same, this is easy to address. . However, if she does NOT have this partner, she has but she has quite limited options. She would need to meet the purrfect guy and forgo some of the time most take to truly get to know that person and have fun, prior to (ideally) get married and have children. This is not too big a deal, should they agree that a single child is ideal, but were they to want several children, this becomes a greater health risk to her, as well as the prospect of being in an almost perpetual state of pregnancy for a few years, to ensure the best likely outcome of health for all. . I will not go further into this, as you and I have talked about all this previously, because many women are not always so happy with where that conversation goes. I am glad you figured this all out at a good point in your life and trust that you have 1 or more beautiful healthy children as result ❤
@alpyhaWQFwefКүн бұрын
Thanks for speaking up, Oliver!
@RachelRichardsКүн бұрын
Oliver hit the nail on the head about online Trans spaces having overtly feminine, fetishistic, baby pink aesthetics. It makes sense, because most of those terminally online Trans people are men with AGP who seem to want to escape into an illusory haze of feminine sensuality. Oliver on the other hand seems chill and down to earth! Thank you for speaking out!
@miroirs-jumeauxКүн бұрын
Do you know of Ray Alex Williams, and if so do you have a hot take about his views or character?
@RachelRichardsКүн бұрын
@@miroirs-jumeaux - Yes, I have watched many of his videos. I think he speaks a lot of truth about AGP and he seems to be a very intelligent guy. That's my scorching hot take.
@honberg1938 сағат бұрын
Most " trans women " on trans spaces apear to be on the AGP scale. More the fetishistic side . The HSTS dont exist in thosee spaces.
@helenablavatsky9136Күн бұрын
I was late to the party.
@NinjaKittyBonks12 сағат бұрын
[notifies yt authorities of rebel forces in chat, seeking to undermine the very foundation of that which binds this community together 😾]
@helenablavatsky913612 сағат бұрын
@@NinjaKittyBonks ☝️ Kitty's a narc, everyone! Run and hide your stash!
@helenablavatsky91369 сағат бұрын
@@NinjaKittyBonks My reply is gone. 😪 Kitty, you narc.
@NinjaKittyBonks8 сағат бұрын
@@helenablavatsky9136 ... behold ...[size 680 billion font]... The true POWA of ...[even larger font]... The Kitty! ... [insert Macy Parade size helium* filled kitty head as Ms.🍎is seen looking upward toward the rising giant in complete awe]...😼 . *There will be no smirks, insinuations or shenanigans at The Kitty's expense, in regards to any of the following: . 1) Those who would imply that The Kitty's head is _actually_ filled with helium, thereby answering many long held questions as to current state of brain function failure, due to the vacuous cavern of space between cute lil' fuzzy ears. as it may or may not relate to a form of gas that impedes the thought processes 😾 . 2) There will be no frivolous, exuberant or giddy comparisons of The Kitty's meower, as it relates to an unsubstantiated rumors of a very high-pitched vocalization of sound, that may or may not be compared to certain nasally sounding emanations of a certain LooneyTunes "Tweety Bird" character, introduced in 1952 titled..."Aint She Tweet" 😾 . 3) Lastly.... Any daffy, harebrained or featherbrained inferences of any of the above will result into immediate furrball breakdown of emotional panic, so as to force scurried retreat to safe space with multiple stuffed comfort hoomans for a period of at least equal to, but not less than the amount of community hours served by Emilio Estevez who may or may not have allegedly scotch taped Anthony Michael Hall's buns together, as referenced in movie _The Breakfast club)_ 😾 . Is the above purrfectly clear? 😾
@helenablavatsky91367 сағат бұрын
@@NinjaKittyBonks (Pops kitty with a safety pin. Waits in triumph to see if kitty can put himself together again)
@natecarney4294Күн бұрын
A collection of peacock s in humor is a tremendous amount of noise and beautiful feathers. They can be relocated to reduce number but will fly and travel many miles to return home. Apologies for distracting comment.
@recynd77Күн бұрын
Heartbreaking. Wtf are doctors, Big Agra, and social media doing to us?
@miroirs-jumeauxКүн бұрын
don't forget the government, the churches, the ____, etc.
@SnoWhite2420Күн бұрын
Enlightening discussion! Thank you!
@miroirs-jumeauxКүн бұрын
I can see your comment but the première's only 20 min through. 🤔
@SnoWhite2420Күн бұрын
@@miroirs-jumeauxI started watching while it was still live
@SnoWhite2420Күн бұрын
@@miroirs-jumeauxalso, it has been a very enlightening discussion so far, and I really appreciate it. Do I need to wait until the end to comment that?
@carolynbrightfield8911Күн бұрын
Yes. I've made a comment while it is still live. I'm towards the end now. Taking care of our father-in-law? Sad. This person is too young for that.
@miroirs-jumeauxКүн бұрын
@@SnoWhite2420No, and I already figured you might have not intended to summarize the entire thing. I found this one extremely compelling, too.
@vitalyl1327Күн бұрын
what a crackpot grifter filth
@Cleisthenes2Күн бұрын
'Various people have attempted to center themselves and to play victim.'
@SacraTessanКүн бұрын
❤such a good conversation i am relistening on earlier ones ..🎉superbt clear answers to TGrogs ..for example
@LiamPorterFilmsКүн бұрын
Judging by the comments section, your audience hates to see a woman complaining about sexism on the alt right.
@BenjaminABoyceКүн бұрын
I don’t know your experience with the algorithm and who comments on what content, but my experience is that “my audience” is heavily variant depending on who the guest is and how an interview is framed by the title and thumbnail.
@SacraTessanКүн бұрын
Glorify... how to respond to glory if the Baker put the wrong kind of pride in his cake or keeping the cake for himself ? Glory shared is glory multiplied.... the narrative is not enough
@johnnotrealname8168Күн бұрын
44:05 On the Woman question, whilst I agree with Mrs Person that the question of women's political power is WoW! Her description of commentary may be prescient. Richard Milhous Nixon when discussing women and whether they should be in politics in 1983 sayed that women have had a role in politics historically, they were in the salons discussing the recent political theory and events and no doubt influencing policy in the end. Whether for good or ill.
@SacraTessanКүн бұрын
THERE is so many answers in this Yt ❤ "about idol becomes an Island f.ex ..it breaks down because it gets stuck " I would like someone to lift this older PVK :s someone who hawe english at first language .. and then It cant be me
@mindfulmw2 күн бұрын
And there are no boundaries of any kind
@user-jo6jp9td4p2 күн бұрын
the intro seems like an awkward initial meeting at a bar
@BenjaminABoyce2 күн бұрын
That’s what I’m going for. Good ear!
@philospeakNOW2 күн бұрын
Great interview, but I would make the case that observers and commenters of the "Clown Show" are still part of the Clown Show (at the very least the META Clown Show), AA. Much like the Statler and Waldorf (the Peanut Gallery guys) from the Muppet Show are PART of the Muppet Show.
@turquoise38512 күн бұрын
Islam is right about women, never forgetti
@KatMoore-ih6mw2 күн бұрын
Islam is pure evil
@guruprasadf072 күн бұрын
These film and media studies professors really need some therapy.