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@MattBelcher-i7p 18 күн бұрын
Amazing advice, not a dad but a freshman in college growing my faith as much as possible. You are really inspiring!
@marianmuscle 18 күн бұрын
Thank for the support! Good on you for starting so early. I’m excited to keep sharing and I hope what I learn along the way helps you 🙏🏽
@CheekyCatholic 23 күн бұрын
You don't know until you know. Welcome to the club.
@marianmuscle 23 күн бұрын
Glad to be here!
@nycetume2605 24 күн бұрын
My man. Thank you. This is a very relatable video. This is exemplary manhood. And this what being manly looks like. Get out there. Grind for your family. Grind for the Lord. Be silent in the background. May the Lord continues to strengthen your spiritual life, my man.
@marianmuscle 24 күн бұрын
Thank you for your support! Its a grind everyday to carry the cross but I wouldn't have it any other way.
@hudsonklscott Ай бұрын
hey man have you considered going to / moving to a place with a TLM community?
@marianmuscle Ай бұрын
Yeah! We have an ICKSP church that offers the TLM. In honesty we haven’t attended because I don’t want to overwhelm my wife. She’s a recent convert and the TLM can be quoted overwhelming. We’re going to start introducing a mass or two though to see how she likes it after advent.
@hudsonklscott Ай бұрын
@@marianmuscle huge congrats on the conversion, thanks be to God!! yes definitely take it slow but it sounds like you have a great plan. but i can assure you that you will find what you need at the institute, they're the best! they changed my life
@mikeshutt8038 Ай бұрын
Have you thought about finding a more traditional men's organization like Knights of Columbus? I know not every council is perfect but there are some good councils out there that foster brotherhood and strong Catholic values.
@marianmuscle Ай бұрын
Thank you for suggesting that. You can’t do it enough. I have! My dad was part of KoC and the equestrian order. I’ve explored some chapters but haven’t quite ‘found’ what I’m looking for. I do participate in the rosary with KoC at my cathedral, which is great. Personally, I’m looking for something more ‘monastic’-ascetic, with a hard emphasis on rigorous prayer and spiritual exercise, and room for dialogue on actionable steps for daily life. I’ve found this in one-on-ones with my deacon and got close with a small men’s prayer group, but sadly, a lot of men don’t keep up with it, and it tends to fizzle out.
@williambarker8790 Ай бұрын
So glad I found this channel
@marianmuscle Ай бұрын
Glad to have you and thanks for your support!
@Spartacus-hc9xt Ай бұрын
Congratulations dad! My first is six months old now. It’s a journey but her birth brought me back to the church. God bless bother <3
@marianmuscle Ай бұрын
The birth of a child is really transformative. My son came yesterday and I can’t not think about How to glorify God to the best of my abilities. So glad you’re back home brother!
@Spartacus-hc9xt Ай бұрын
@ congratulations to you and your wife! So very happy for you both and I hope you all are doing well!
@CharlieGlaser Ай бұрын
I agree with you. The complaining from "traditional" catholic men online is useless and is actually very feminine. Imagine if there was a large increase in men's participation in the church, do we think that the church's response would be to continue down the road it is on or respond to the change. Recently, I have been having the same thoughts about what I can do to create a men's community in my church. So far I am still looking into what could be a good way to get involved with my fellow catholic men in a productive manner. It starts with us, Jesus gave us what we need, he is waiting on us, we are not waiting on the church.
@marianmuscle Ай бұрын
Charlie you NAILED this! Yes! Christ already have us the authority to act. It’s on us. Why wait? I know it’s not easy and there is a lot working against us, but this isn’t a call to moan and complain. We need action, action as “small” as a daily rosary to as big as leading a men’s group at the parish. Thanks for your comment. Glad to know I’m not the only one seeing this and feeling called to do something about.
@thierryfleck546 Ай бұрын
thank you
@marianmuscle Ай бұрын
Anytime!
@marianmuscle Ай бұрын
How has your idea of success changed since having kids? Or has it?
@Themaneman464 2 ай бұрын
Dealing with it now brother. At the end of the day I remind myself this is what I prayed for for so long. Plus a daily rosary always helps.
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
This is the right perspective. The rosary is such a powerful weapon. Stay strong!
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
Nobody ever talks about what Catholic dads go through during pregnancy. What’s been the hardest part for you, and how did you deal with it?
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
What’s the REAL reason you think Catholic fathers struggle with fitness? Is it the culture, the lack of support, or something else?
@hunterlizyness3943 2 ай бұрын
Emmanuel thank you for this, man! I’ve been struggling with watching all of these rad trad KZbinrs speaking of a marriage as a transactional relationship and I’ve even started to treat my wife differently because of it. This is the type of content we all need as catholic husbands and fathers. Thank you for this and please keep it up🙏
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
Hunter, I’m with you on this. The excessively ‘macho’ attitude has become way too common, and it’s pulling us away from the true purpose of our vows. We should be leading with love and dignity, not turning marriage into a power play. I’m still working on this myself, and I’m committed to sharing a different path: one that honors the real meaning of being a Catholic husband. I appreciate your support!
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
Where do you draw the line between leadership and control in your marriage?
@davidfunk6698 2 ай бұрын
I'll say this, as a new convert one of the things i like about the Church is how old it is. Chants and prayers in Latin so dope, however my family are Baptist, and trying to convert them with Latin mass , i don't think it would have worked. My two adult sons , one just did first communion, and the other is going to RCIA. and my father is on the fence. Had i gone to TLM it would have been a selfish act, when at the end of the day salvation is the name of the game. And the NO helped my family. Like you said, im there for mass, not music
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
Yup, you get it. I love the chanting and the beautiful aesthetics of TLM. Im not there for that primarily, I’m there for the Eucharist. I think the TLM has an important place and I agree that NO is probably a more sensible starting point for a new convert. If we’re not growing in holiness, what does the style of mass matter? Thanks for your comment and kudos to you for giving good testimony to your family with your actions. This is leadership.
@davidfunk6698 2 ай бұрын
@@marianmuscle Stay blessed, stay based.
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
How many times have you heard the same old fluff and thought, "This doesn’t help"? Share your most frustrating example below.
@dransianimox 2 ай бұрын
Hello there! I am Pedro Isnard from the channel Pedro Isnard. This is the acc that i use in my work pc. I am Catholic and from carismatic renewal. In thesis i am an abomination to the tradicional catholics that normally attend to the Latin Mass. My last video is about why i am not going to novus ordo anymore and only attending at the latin mass, unfortunatelly its in portuguese. The reason for my comment is that you are missing the point. You are right about ppl that think that they are superior only duo to the rite they choose. but but but, the traditional latin mass is far more holy and noble to God than the novus ordo. We have a hugely famous priest in brasil Father Wander, he is kind of the mix between Fr Rippinger and Fr Mike. He was the type of priest that oposes to the latin mass, but now he is only celebration at the traditional latin rite. He do explain the reasons so well, the lack of things in the new rite that makes it incomplete in so many levels, but still valid, the novus ordo is still valid, you can get the Body of Christ there, but but but, the rite drives ppl away from God in the long term. I encorage you to look for the differences between the 2 rites. I am still and will ever be Carismatic, but when i have to attend to the mass, i will always try the latin mass. Sorry for my bad english! God Bless you!
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
Pedro, thanks for sharing your perspective, and no worries about the English, I appreciate your passion. I get what you’re saying about the reverence of the Traditional Latin Mass, and I understand that many people find a deeper sense of the sacred there. It’s important to recognize that God works through both forms of the Mass, each with its own strengths. Focusing solely on which is more reverent doesn’t serve those men who feel isolated and overlooked without a community. I’m glad you’ve found spiritual growth through the TLM, and I respect your preference. I grew up attending it too and love it. At the same time, the Novus Ordo can and does bring people closer to God. Ultimately, the focus should be on encountering Christ, no matter the form, so that we can become better leaders for our families. I appreciate your encouragement to explore the differences, and I think all men should experience both, but not because they’ve been pressured or made to feel inferior for their choice. God bless you too!
@bonekstattoos31 2 ай бұрын
Can we still be holy and not receive the eucharist in the hand ? I really draw the line there
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
We all have a sinful nature, and achieving perfect holiness isn’t easy. But that doesn’t mean we stop striving for it every day. The narrow path is about constantly moving closer to God, even when we fall short. Second, don’t let receiving the Eucharist become a stumbling block. The Church allows receiving on the tongue or in the hand, so if you have a preference, that’s fine but don’t let it keep you from the sacrament or cause you to judge others. Reverence matters, but so does unity, especially among brothers in Christ. That’s the mission of my channel. Anything that creates division among men is something I’m actively against-especially when the odds are already stacked against us. Focus on growing in virtue and being present for your family every day. Scrupulosity won’t bring you closer to holiness only a heart set on Christ will.
@RaulRSaenz 2 ай бұрын
Amen brother! great video.
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the support! More to come 🙌🏾
@Spiritof76Catholic 2 ай бұрын
I think you are over reacting to less than 1% of the 1% of Catholic Christians who go regularly to the Latin Mass. I have been to the Latin Mass many times and I have never heard anyone like you describe as elitists. Suffice it to say I go to the NO Mass most often. In fact a lot of your statements sound NOrad to me. Your right though the Pope picked an unnecessary fight against fee Trads. But he’s the one who said, "It is not to be excluded that I will enter history as the one who split the Catholic Church." Der Spiegel 2016.
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
Sure, and your experience doesn’t negate mine just like mine doesn’t negate yours. Not seeing elitism in your circles doesn’t mean it’s not a problem elsewhere. Dismissing issues just because they affect a ‘small’ group is shortsighted.Real people are impacted, and that matters. This isn’t limited to Latin Mass communities either. These attitudes can crop up anywhere. The woman who criticized me was part of the SSPX. I’m not here to downplay anyone’s experience, especially when we’re talking about issues that deeply affect men. My goal is to address real divisions and work toward building something better for men like us. As for the NOrad label, not even close. I go where the Eucharist is, period. Labeling me in an attempt to shift the focus away from issues of division and exclusion is just deflection. It sidesteps the actual substance of my argument. And quoting the Pope on division while dismissing differing experiences is pretty ironic. If we’re going to have a real conversation, it starts with listening. I’m open to dialogue, but only if it’s in good faith. So far, I’m not seeing that here.
@artisanautodetail2314 2 ай бұрын
really enjoyed hearing your perspective. thanks for sharing
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support! Glad you liked it. Have a blessed day today 🙌🏾
@piouspapist 2 ай бұрын
I am the Ultra Papist. God bless you brother.🇻🇦🤝
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
We need more Popemaxxers! Have a blessed Sunday. Pray for me 🙌🏾
@piouspapist 2 ай бұрын
@@marianmuscle I will brother. Pray for me as well.
@javiercortes5232 2 ай бұрын
Great video. I'm Mexican, Catholic. I remember when an American friend asked me (a bit snobbishly) if there were Latin masses in Mexico City. I told him to go to the Basilica of Our Lady of Guadalupe and he could hear masses in Spanish, English, Nahuatl, Otomi, other Native American dialects, French, German, all in the presence of the Virgin. No more discussion.
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
That’s a great response.
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
Have you ever felt judged or alienated in the Church over ‘how Catholic’ you are? What happened, and how did it affect your faith?
@BahamutZero09 2 ай бұрын
Have you heard from Trads that to be Catholic, you must believe in young earth creation and dismissed evolution entirely, etc
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
Yep, I’ve heard that perspective from some Traditionalists, but it’s not a requirement for being Catholic. The Church has never defined young earth creationism as doctrine, nor does it require Catholics to dismiss evolution entirely. What the Church teaches is that God is the Creator of all things, and that He directly creates the human soul, something that no scientific theory can replace or explain. Catholics are free to consider theories like evolution as long as they don’t contradict the key theological truths, such as God’s role in creation and the special creation of the human soul. Even Pope Pius XII and Pope John Paul II acknowledged that evolution can be compatible with the faith, as long as it respects these boundaries. I wish more people understood this. So while some may prefer a young earth interpretation, it’s not the only acceptable view. The most important thing is to hold to the truths of the faith and see how they inform our understanding of the world and how we lead our families, whether through science or scripture
@doublem1971 2 ай бұрын
A friendly reminder: "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ also loved the church, and delivered himself up for it"- Eph 5:25
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
Cant be stated enough.
@doublem1971 2 ай бұрын
@@marianmuscle That's helped me to keep perspective. By the way, please, please come up with something for men. Easy for me to say but it is much needed in these times. Thanks brother!!
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
@@doublem1971 Yes! like the challenge i mentioned. Im working on it. Let me know what you'd also like to see specifically, Thats helpful!.
@doublem1971 2 ай бұрын
@@marianmuscle I'm a recent convert so for me, church history and studies on the saints really helped. That's why using the liturgical calendar is genius. I think it's vital that we understand our roots especially under persecution and use it as a blueprint on how to tackle today's challenges.
@CamilleChamoun-qn3dq 2 ай бұрын
Loved this. Have you tried Exodus 90? I am currently finishing St. Michael’s Lent with the app, and it has been the “meat” I’ve been craving as a Catholic father for a long time. I only hope I can one day make a real life group to use the app together with
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
I’m glad you liked it-thanks for the support! I’m doing St. Michael’s Lent too. Exodus 90 is a solid starting point, especially for converts or guys fighting tough battles like porn addiction. It’s great that it’s serving you. For me, though, it feels a bit too much like a Catholic version of 75 Hard-rigid, intense, and often unsustainable. Many guys seem to slip back into old habits once it’s over. It also doesn’t speak directly to Catholic dads and husbands who are balancing faith with family and work. I’m considering creating something more tailored to our needs-spiritually challenging but realistic for men managing real-world responsibilities. A lot of Catholic men’s platforms don’t resonate with me either. They lack the grit and relevance we’re looking for. We need something with more energy, purpose, and authenticity. Thanks for sharing this-your comment is a reminder that I need to step up and build something that truly connects with guys like us. I touched on this in my latest video, and I’m ready to take it further.
@porozex3061 2 ай бұрын
religion is old politics, ppl that belive there is a god are mentally weak.
@SotonSam 2 ай бұрын
Is Catholicism for me? I have a Rosary and a crucifix and have been reading my Bible and praying but when I tried to join my local Catholic Church, The lady there told me some really weird things and even told me that Jesus isn't the only way into heaven So, is that the church? Or is she wrong?
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
Hey Samuel, thank you for your comment. I get where you’re coming from and it seems like you got some seriously confusing advice. That lady is dead wrong. The Catholic Church 100% believes Jesus is the only way to Heaven. Anyone who says otherwise is misrepresenting the faith, plain and simple. And there is a lot of that happening out there right now. Of course Catholicism is for you. And ultimately you have to go in this journey to confirm that. You’re doing the right things by praying the rosary and diving into Scripture, but don’t let one misguided person throw you off course. Remember, the Church is built on Christ, not on any one person’s opinion. Here’s the deal: The Rosary and Crucifix? Powerful tools. Keep them close. Jesus as the Only Way? Absolutely. The Church teaches this with no compromise. If that’s not clear, you’re talking to the wrong folks. Here’s what to do next: Find a solid parish or priest who’s on point with Church teaching. Reach out, ask questions, and don’t settle for half-truths. You’re welcome to ask me anything here or on Substack I have a chat. It’s tough out there. But you’re not alone, and there’s a place for you in the Church. Keep pushing, and don’t be afraid to ask for clarity. We’ve all been there. Stay strong, brother. You’ve got this.
@SotonSam 2 ай бұрын
@@marianmuscle thank you mate that's very nice So do you suggest just trying a different catholic church near me?
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
@@SotonSam Yes! keep trying. If you'd like shoot me an email at [email protected] with the area you live and i'll do my best to help you sort though Catholic churches that look the part.
@Joedem92 2 ай бұрын
Those who say we are “single issue voters” because we believe abortion to be the most important issue amongst many are being disingenuous and shallow. Lots of us also care about the right to keep and bear arms, as well as freedom of speech and the right to be secure against unreasonable searches and seizures. The right to life is paramount, and no other rights matter if you are not living. If we had two candidates that agreed on the issue of abortion we would then, naturally, look to their stances on those other issues when deciding which of them to vote for. That being said, in my opinion, Donald Trump is the appropriate candidate that Catholics should be voting for. He isn’t perfect, but neither are any of us.
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
I’m with you 100%. The First and Second Amendments are what keep us from becoming another UK, where freedom of speech and self-defense are all but dead. I’ve seen enough to know Trump is the only real choice for this country right now. Is he perfect? No, but I’d rather back someone who fights for America’s interests than support the most aggressively pro-abortion, anti-family ticket we’ve ever seen. This election isn’t about liking the candidate, it’s about keeping this country from being sold out to globalist agendas and protecting what’s left of our freedoms.
@Joedem92 2 ай бұрын
@@marianmuscle Bingo! You earned yourself a follow! Gunna binge watch your videos today 💪🏼
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
@@Joedem92 Thank you for your support! Its not easy but this is work that must be done. Men are NOT being served, Looking forward to your feedback.
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
What’s stopping you from turning up the intensity in your faith? What’s holding you back?
@michaeldauphin7129 2 ай бұрын
I feel like the Church messaging definitely needs to be stronger to defend the truths of our faith. Strong leadership will attract and encourage strong men. Keep up the good work!
@marianmuscle 2 ай бұрын
I agree. We need to pray for our priests, that’s a tough job and they need our prayers. And we need to step up our efforts as leaders too. Even if it’s small, but consistent. Thank you for the support!
@marianmuscle 3 ай бұрын
Tired of being left out and underserved by the Church? Do you feel like you’re fighting this battle alone?
@jg-nd4nr 3 ай бұрын
Hang in there, the Catholic church isn't perfect. It has even been downright embarrassing at various times in history, but our Lord promised us that the gates of hades would not prevail against it. You are on the right path, stay the course, and continue to battle and bring others along with you. It is what our Lord would want you to do
@marianmuscle 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for the support! I trust in him and I feel called to do something about it. I’m motivated to keep going.
@MatthewGriffin-y9p 3 ай бұрын
Go to an orthodox Church
@marianmuscle 3 ай бұрын
I’m happily Catholic and respect the Orthodox, and this isn’t about shopping around for the right flavor of Christianity. It’s about building up men who feel isolated, regardless of their tradition. We need a stronger brotherhood in all our churches, not just another ‘grass is greener’ suggestion.
@GiftofGod289 3 ай бұрын
Most Catholics, unfortunately, are unsaved because they believe in themselves-their own effort, their own works-instead of placing their full trust in the Savior. For those passing by, I will now provide you the Gospel, the Good News: if you believe that, Jesus Christ, the living son of God, died for your sins, was buried, and rose again on the third day, you are permanently and irrevocably saved. Once you are saved, you are always saved. Once you are a son of God, you are always His son. No works are required, and nothing you can ever do will ever make you lose your sonship. 1 Cor. 15:1-4; Acts 16:30-31; Titus 3:5; Romans 4:5; John 3:16; 1 John 5:13; John 3:36.
@marianmuscle 3 ай бұрын
Your comment shows a huge misunderstanding of Catholic teaching and is a gross generalization of Catholics as a whole. We don’t believe in ‘earning’ our way to heaven like we’re racking up points in a game. It’s about cooperating with God’s grace for us: Faith and works aren’t in opposition; they’re both necessary responses to God’s grace, working together in our journey of salvation. As Catholics, we believe that Christ’s sacrifice is sufficient for our salvation, but we are called to respond to this gift through our actions, which reflect our faith. It’s not about ‘believing in ourselves’-it’s about living a life of authentic discipleship, which takes more than just reciting a formula. I don’t normally respond to these comments, but since you attempted to use my section to proselytize, understand what we actually believe before pasting oft-debunked talking points. This video was about the lack of support for men in the faith, and that’s widespread in Christianity. Your comment adds nothing to that discussion.
@GiftofGod289 3 ай бұрын
@@marianmuscle I understand Catholicism very well in fact. As you concede, Christ’s grace alone is not sufficient for the Catholic. You have to “respond” with “living a life of authentic discipleship,” which is just a wordy way of saying you need works. Catholics want to boast before the Throne. You reject the Gospel by believing that you must do more than believe. If “living a life of authentic discipleship” was required for salvation, Paul would have told the jailor. Acts 16:30-31. I’ll stick with Paul and the Word; let God be true and every man a liar. “Sirs, what must I do to be saved?” 31 They replied, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved”
@andrewrackliff8223 3 ай бұрын
Not a Catholic, and can say the same thing is absolutely true elsewhere in Christianity. It is deeply pervasive.
@marianmuscle 3 ай бұрын
Sad but true. This problem isn’t just Catholic-churches everywhere are failing to truly engage and challenge men. We can’t sit around waiting for the pulpit to wake up. It’s on us to lead ourselves and build the brotherhood our faith demands. I’m committed to making that happen. Thanks for standing with me.
@michaeldauphin7129 3 ай бұрын
This channel is badly needed. Thank you!
@marianmuscle 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for the support. Motivates me to keep going. Let me know what else you’d like to see.
@marianmuscle 3 ай бұрын
Have you ever felt completely alienated in Church as a man? What’s the ONE thing the Church could do to actually engage you?
@RalphJacob 3 ай бұрын
These are very wise and profound words, brother. I am not a father, yet, but I see this as something valuable for all men to absorb.
@marianmuscle 3 ай бұрын
I’m glad it resonated. Praying for fatherhood for you soon 🙏🏾
@KateKing217 3 ай бұрын
Congratulations 🎉 Great video ✨🙏🏾 God’s Will Be Done on Earth as it is in Heaven, F I A T
@marianmuscle 3 ай бұрын
Thank you!