Easily stated when not the executor.

No but at least yours has a probate judge, sometimes trustees don’t involve the courts and proceed to take advantage of the beneficiaries by not distributing their inheritance. Keep in mind that a trustee Does Not have to abide by the principle’s last wishes being a will trust or both. The trustee can literally keep a beneficiary completely in the dark

Hello Maria how are you doing today?

Hi Ron, do you mean Cyndee Harding?

how are thing now did u get everything like step dads will sed

@@patrickprendergast9589 this is long. But will have things people may want to know. Supposedly, we’re a week away from the end of probate. It has been a year. We’ve had a few hearings and case management conferences. We’re both pro se litigants (representing ourselves). This is both because we can’t afford and didn’t want to spend money on a lawyer. But also because, since my sister would neither renounce executorship, nor want to be co-executor, she utterly stalked the case and I’d have been stuck, living in a home, where I’m a squatter, could neither sell, nor insure. My personal belief is that, even if she didn’t understand that, it would be exactly what she want, because when I die, being the oldest, my house would immediately revert to her ownership, as next of kin and she might wish to accelerate my death, for that purpose. Despite her mostly being gone for 30+ years, because I left 4 years before our mother died, since I do not tolerate narcissistic abuse, my sister “decided” she owned everything, which is not law. Earlier this year, I asked the court appointed admin, if I could change the lock on the door of the house I’m to inherit, they said yes, my sister did not like it, broke into the house and changed it again, damaging the door and I have since changed it again. Both houses are damaged/cluttered. But hers is, perhaps, worse, with a hole in the roof and a raccoon. Mine has a new roof, but a wet basement. If you’ve never been in probate before, depending upon your state, how it has been handled for us, is that the judge vacillated about whether or not to sell the homes. They decided to let us keep them. The admin wanted to get quit claim deeds, but I wanted something with more protection, against my mother’s debt (perhaps) and we’ve instead received modified bargain and sale deeds, after the admin consulted with a title company. My sister submitted receipts to the court, which the court took as investment in the estate. I was never made aware of, nor signed for these expenses. But the court decided I owe her $7K, which the Surrogate office knocked down to $5K. My sister is still fighting for the $7K, gaslighting the Surrogate office, similar to how she was gaslighting and manipulating the judge. Most recent paperwork has not mentioned that I owe anything. If I do, I’d like to know about payments - line $10/mo. Plus, a new door and lock might cost up to $2500, which she should pay for. We have deeds now, which means that, if my sister breaks in again, I can have her arrested this time. One might think I’d hesitate, but I do not want to have her as a neighbor, who is harassing and doesn’t respect boundaries anyway. This weekend is personal property exchange, for which I made a chart for the court, of what we have/have not agreed upon. I will have police presence there. If we do not agree and personal property exchange is not completed, a new judge will be assigned next week. I don’t know what happens after that. Oh and, I am the executor of my stepfather’s Will, which probably means nothing, at this point, although my layperson’s interpretation of his Will is that I’d inherit all. And my my stepfather’s Will has no effect on my mother dying intestate. I assume it’s possible to find my mother’s Will, if there is one, as I continue going through her things. But, I t’s such a mess, it will probably be too late to mean anything. If I find it, I will inquire. Again, I don’t want my sister as a neighbor and I’d evict her. I’d probably sell both homes and buy something else, somewhere else.

My trustee move irrefutable, to incapacitated mother with Alzheimer’s Judge agreed I pay, if wanted. Attorney. Meddling sister, stated the-bad plan gang. PHD should of trumps bad contract, Vulnerable sector, old young disabled Fed act 2005 can’t take decision making it not court order you have right to refuse. getting 1/4 If I had not been born, a rich man. I might of been a great man ( Citizen Cane)

Brought letter of production, you might want to do this, bring me recites I ever had control of funds show me notary both signatures, Pam’s helped herself to my mail ( karma Dan 20 years old) tricks & treachery zero notary zero Dan or Daniel statute of Fraud larger contract need to right, not missing defaulted me for thing I won told you get to choose how you communicate with me, no letter Fast tracking gives me the win (Smart teachers write on board) The power to control IRA mailed to me petitioning court for those digits, ( mine will match)

I don’t know why ANYONE canNOT buy any house. It’s not a matter of being barred from it. Just not given first refusal. Personally I’d hate someone living there automatically being given “rights” to buying it. I’m dealing with it now. But if it’s just about being ABLE to buy it, no problem.

That is a good question. Somebody please answer. Do your siblings have the right to even go over there?

It would be split 5 ways

Hi Dee, I am so sorry that I missed your comment/question. As a proposed executor, if I was in your circumstances, I would change the locks and I assume by now that you already have taken the initiative to protect the home. Hope this helps!

@@Probatebiz Thank you very much. The attorney is sooo hard to get in touch with. I should fire him, but i don't want to start this over.

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