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@muhammadafifsukiman1246
@muhammadafifsukiman1246 2 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video Edmund. It is something I need to hear today.
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Күн бұрын
I am genuinely happy to hear it from you, Muhammad:)
@matt_alex_
@matt_alex_ 6 күн бұрын
Thank you Edmund, I needed it today <3
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 6 күн бұрын
Happy to hear that🤭🥹
@confusedmeee
@confusedmeee 7 күн бұрын
thanks for the reminder
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 6 күн бұрын
Thanks for your comment🤗
@chesmac
@chesmac 16 күн бұрын
Hello from japan! I randomly saw your vlog. Keep it up! I just subbed :)
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 15 күн бұрын
Thanks, @chesmac Such a lovely greeting from Japan! One day, I hope to visit Japan:)
@confusedmeee
@confusedmeee 16 күн бұрын
hi Edmund, good video as alwas. I also practicing slow living. no rush, enjoy the coffee and the language study ^^
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 15 күн бұрын
Yes indeed @confusedmeee:) Let's love our life!
@Nagemjoyce
@Nagemjoyce 19 күн бұрын
I’ve been to Korea and honestly I have yet to find a restaurant in the uk that makes Korean chicken or kimbap as good 😢 I’m sure there’s more choice in London but do you miss authentic Korean food?
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 19 күн бұрын
Ohh happy to hear you have been to Korea (hope you enjoyed my country🤗🇰🇷) There are many Korean food stalls and restaurants compared to decade ago, but in my humble opinion, not many of them deliver authentic Korean taste here in London..:( I assume its mainly because not all Korean restaurants are owned and run by Koreans🧐 But still there are a few hidden gems! I will keep posting it!
@muhammadafifsukiman1246
@muhammadafifsukiman1246 23 күн бұрын
Ok. Not gonna lie. That pizza looks delish!
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 22 күн бұрын
See?🙈 I did really enjoy my pizza!🤗 thanks for your comment @Muhammada!
@confusedmeee
@confusedmeee 23 күн бұрын
wah your editing skill upgraded. Very nice and smooth intro. I agree, let them break up!!! huahahaha
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 22 күн бұрын
Thanks, (now)@confusedmeee🤗 Your comments and attention throughout my previous videos were also big encouragement to learn more about video editing🤭 Please stay tuned!
@Nagemjoyce
@Nagemjoyce 27 күн бұрын
Managers always have a way of knowing when you’re enjoying yourself too much… 99% sure it’s their secret talent 😂 nice video! As someone that lives so close to London, I definitely don’t go enough but this has given me ideas of places to go when I decide to!
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 26 күн бұрын
Hello @Nagemjoyce! Thanks for your comment. And yes indeed… they know the very exact moment when you enjoy yourself too much during working days😂 please stay tuned to my channel🤗
@confusedmeee
@confusedmeee Ай бұрын
Hi Edmund, SketchyStrategist here change username >.< Peaceful vlog as always, the Foccacia also looks yummy. Have you found new apartment?
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 29 күн бұрын
Hello @SketchyStrategist:) Thanks for identifying yourself otherwise, I wouldn’t know it was you! Yes I have fallen in love with the focaccia…🤭 flat hunting continues…😂
@confusedmeee
@confusedmeee 29 күн бұрын
​@@Edmund30s Thanks for still remembering >.< otherwise, I'd be embarrassed. I hope you find the best apartment and exciting to wait your video😄
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 28 күн бұрын
@@confusedmeee ofc I do remember! Thanks for your encouragement and wishing me good luck for flat🤭
@muhammadafifsukiman1246
@muhammadafifsukiman1246 Ай бұрын
Lovely video as always mate! 😊
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 29 күн бұрын
Hello 👋 there:) thanks mate to stop by my channel. I will keep it up🤗
@TheGretaoto
@TheGretaoto Ай бұрын
The weather was pretty amazing! Hi Ed, lovely video! You look gorgeous! Keep investing your time doing things that add value to your life and make you happy. Hugs!!!👋
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 29 күн бұрын
Helllo @TheGretaoto😆 Thanks for your comment🤭 Nowadays, it is very sunny and hot 🥵 but it won’t last for long time here:( Yes, I will keep investing my time in making better videos and I hope that you can enjoy my videos onwards (Thanks for compliment on me looking gorgeous🫣🙈)
@TheGretaoto
@TheGretaoto 29 күн бұрын
@@Edmund30s you’re welcome 🤝😊haha…
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 28 күн бұрын
@@TheGretaoto 🤭🤗🙌
@disrealnow9664
@disrealnow9664 Ай бұрын
Thanks for the video - Primrose Hill and the streets of Belsize Park always look good. As for Primrose Hill I have been reading that since COVID it has been getting a bit of a bad reputation - illegal raves, antisocial behavior at night, stabbings etc. Its a shame as its such a nice park with a beautiful view. I remember the Gay Fawkes bonfires and firework displays in the park on 5th Nov or thereabouts late 80s / early 90s. Mid 90s they started to get cancelled and then disappeared for good - supposedly because there were too many people coming to the park and also due to safety / crime aspects. Have a good week!
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 29 күн бұрын
Indeed, it has become sometimes dangerous particularly in the evening:( During last year New Eve’s firework, teenage boy got stabbed to death which immensely saddened but also frightened me. This area is genuinely beautiful and I do wish that it would get better and better. Cyclist pickpocketers also began to intrude our area…. However, it still remains safe in overall and feel that it is wealthy(?) compared to other parts of London😊 Thanks for watching my video and your comment encourages me to appreciate where I live but also to contribute to community well-being☺️
@alexanderson1193
@alexanderson1193 Ай бұрын
you buy your teacher gifts? What a brown noser!!!!
@Missjoykathure
@Missjoykathure Ай бұрын
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Ай бұрын
Thanks for your comment👋
@TheGretaoto
@TheGretaoto Ай бұрын
You are getting better and better at creating videos! Amazing!
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Ай бұрын
Hello, @TheGretaoto!! Thanks for your comment which always motivates me to develop my edit skills more and more. It’s such a great pleasure to see your comment. Please don’t forget your comments have been big part of huge strength and inspiration to me🤗 I am sure they will be motivating me onwards and onwards🤓 Hope you are having good summer time!
@TheGretaoto
@TheGretaoto Ай бұрын
@@Edmund30s Hey, Ed! Thanks for your kind words. I won't forget to comment. It's just life that got a bit busier! :) Hugs from Brazil! Keep working hard and working on your skills!
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Ай бұрын
@@TheGretaoto Obrigado, TheGretaoto:)
@disrealnow9664
@disrealnow9664 Ай бұрын
12:11 nice flower in your window and nice view :) If I was to make a guess I would say this is England's Lane, with the houses of the other side of the road being on Chalcot Gardens.
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Ай бұрын
Thanks for your comment and compliment on my flower! I d say a nice shot in the dark🤗
@disrealnow9664
@disrealnow9664 Ай бұрын
@@Edmund30s As for England's lane - the Starbucks on the corner used to be a Barclays Bank branch before - got robbed at gunpoint sometime in early 90s I think. There was also a Chinese restaurant on the road - forgot the name but I think it had 'moon' in the name maybe - owner disappeared and it was widely reported in the local press - Camden New Journal etc - some mob related doings. There was also a launderette - later on in life I used it a few times because UK is such a civilized country that washing machines are not necessarily available in rented accommodation lol. As for pubs check out if you already haven't Sir Richard Steeles on Haverstock Hill - spent many happy evenings there in the late 90s / early 2000s, then it closed but has now supposedly reopened. If you are out and about walking I would be interested on whats going on on Belsize Grove - used to live for a bit at the Straffan Lodge block on 1 Belsize Grove. Was pretty good and 'luxurious' (for Brit standards back in the days, which means nothing now lol) but now I am hearing it is kind of run down.
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Ай бұрын
You are a walking encyclopaedia! I am mesmerised by all these old vignettes and history of the area - Barclays robbed at gunpoint?! Intimidating as well! Ofc I know Belsize Grove and the Lodge there which now relatively looks very old compared to other flats. But its still there:) pub info noted on my list and I laughed a lot out of your “civilised” London experience without laundry (those who haven’t lived in London would never believe what we say! Back in my college, some rooms and buildings didn’t have laundry machines🤣; I am sure they dont have them yet!) Thank you so much for sharing your past days and I hope you enjoyed my video. Please stay tuned to my channel🤗
@neomuded
@neomuded Ай бұрын
I loved watching this, it's so calm, like a friend is showing me around a new city ✨
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching my diary:) I am very happy to hear you felt like that🤗 please stay tuned to my channel👋
@confusedmeee
@confusedmeee Ай бұрын
wah I am first today😂, I started to draw on April 2023. Drawing is a very relaxing hobby, I do on many different medium and started 2 months ago I started with digital drawing. Your first painting is very good😊
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Ай бұрын
Thanks for your beautiful comment @SketchyStrategist:) Digital drawing also sounds very interesting and artistic🤗 Let’s keep our good work and thanks for your supportive remarks on my first painting in London🤣 (hope quality of my paintings will improve!)
@confusedmeee
@confusedmeee Ай бұрын
Your desk become lively. I never know boy also can be introvert until I watched your video. In my envorenment they boys always in groups and I find myself always alone (of course the girls also in groups), and one day a coworker said, "You're sinism" and I still don't understand what I am doing lol As always I learn English from your video. Keep going 😊
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Ай бұрын
Haha I see:) yes men/boys can also be introverted and very shy. Your comments also keep motivating me🥳
@daisy_kain0000
@daisy_kain0000 Ай бұрын
First time saw your video on my feed.Great thoughts, usually not type to comment on someone's video but can totally resonate with your thought went through the same. keep growing. - Take care🥰🤗
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Ай бұрын
Yes let’s keep growing:) I appreciate your comment, Daisy😊🤗
@ruairi5433
@ruairi5433 Ай бұрын
Great video, you should have a lot more subscribers, underrated channel =)
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Ай бұрын
Thank you so so much - very touching comment to me!
@beatrizkj
@beatrizkj Ай бұрын
Great video! I’ve just started making these kinds of videos myself and it’s such an enjoyable hobby 😊 keep it up
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Ай бұрын
Thank you, Beatrizkj:) Yes, it is very rewarding to make videos!
@disrealnow9664
@disrealnow9664 Ай бұрын
Those flats you viewed looked pretty rough - your current one is so much nicer. I would imagine that with council tax and basic bills you would be easily paying over 2000 pounds per month. That is just an insane amount of money for a relatively small and shabby space (albeit in a great area). Paying that much in rent I would definitely consider buying your own place and putting that money towards mortgage payments instead of in a landlord's pocket. With hybrid / remote working there is no real reason why a place on the outskirts of London or even outside of London would not work well for you. BTW if I had to choose out of the three flats you showed I think I would choose the first one - with the classic Belsize Park street view. The one with a view over Hampstead tube station I would find kind of hard to relax in / too hectic and as for the third one in St Johns Wood - the building made me feel uneasy - it had a council estate/ tower of terror vibe to it.
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s Ай бұрын
I fully agree with you! Thanks for sharing your insightful view. It is always pleasant to see someone who has great sense on London property like you. In the end, I decided to stay in my current place after a fruitful negotiation:) Buying property in London is a bit long process yet to me, but it is the ultimate goal. I believe that I am going there slowly and I hope to make video of "Me buying house in London" in near future - please stay tuned!:)
@disrealnow9664
@disrealnow9664 2 ай бұрын
Nice video, reminds me of when I lived in Belsize Park area in the early 2000s. But not missing it - London can be a very lonely and depressing place especially for people from abroad and the dating 'game' was and probably still is just terrible. Have a great Sunday!
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience - what a beautiful area to live in! I broadly agree that London could be a lonely place for many foreigners. I could have also felt lonely unless I had friends and my things-to-do here🤓
@disrealnow9664
@disrealnow9664 2 ай бұрын
@@Edmund30s Fully agree that its is a beautiful area, its just a shame that nowadays you need to be a ruzzian oligarch, celebrity, premier league footballer or some lord to be able to even consider buying in the area . UK has generally been on a downward slope from at least the mid 2000s and maybe even earlier. Its sad how things have become. BTW I attended the primary school at the bottom of Primrose Hill - St Paul's - late 80s / early 90s - best time of my life.
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
@@disrealnow9664 ohhh Yes, of course I know St Pauls Primary School on Elsworthy Rd:) Did you move out of UK then afterwards? I agree that UK has shown downward economic trajectory compared to US over the last decade - quite markedly. Also, income inequality I see here in/out of my neighbourhood is just striking - terribly different from what the media shows as fancy Mark Darcy played by Colin Firth.
@ervinslens
@ervinslens 2 ай бұрын
Masterfully edited and narrated my friend! 👏👏
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for your kind words🤗 very motivating comment to me!
@GeberCarlos
@GeberCarlos 2 ай бұрын
I somehow fell in this video. Thank you for your words and congratulations on your determination. I'm in my 30s, I'm from Brazil and after two years studying English in Ireland, I now have the goal of building my life in Europe (at least for now). Good luck in your next years. 🤞
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Thanks!:) I also wish the very best for you🤗
@ylesiajacen
@ylesiajacen 2 ай бұрын
I admire your spirit really. I know it sounds insignificant but what were you majoring in and what internship was it?
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Thank u🤗 I read Economics and my work was about public policy:)
@TheGretaoto
@TheGretaoto 2 ай бұрын
The video was pretty interesting! I liked it very much. Two things called my attention: firstly, you experiencing bullying from your own counterparts and secondly you visiting Iguaçu, Brazil! Being bullied is already a terrible experience, but you have been overcoming a lot and this behavior has brought to your life many accomplishments. Congratulations! You spent time in South America, amazing! The world is really not as big as I thought! The best is yet to come!
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for your kind words as well. Yes, true - “the best is yet to come”!!
@TheGretaoto
@TheGretaoto 2 ай бұрын
​@@Edmund30s Keep up the good work! =)
@norfatihahmohdkhirjohari2015
@norfatihahmohdkhirjohari2015 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your positive words 👏🏻✨
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Let’s attract positive energy together😊
@cynthiaranta9905
@cynthiaranta9905 2 ай бұрын
This was beautiful, motivating and eye-opening. Thank you so much for sharing💕💕
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Happy to hear it🤗
@confusedmeee
@confusedmeee 2 ай бұрын
Edmund, how could you make me laugh and cry in seconds in 1 video. Somehow it recalled my memory in my teenager, twenties and recently. I got laid off recently, we got the announcement on March and my last work day was May. in that 2 months I experienced many stages :shock, anger, sad, worthless, hopeless and finally acceptance. But during that 2 months I decided to choose random language to learn, I chose German. And I still learning until now. the first jobless day I meditated and asking this question: if you had no worries about money, time and everything, what would you do? I cleaned my white board and write it and call it "second brain", whatever come to my mind, I will write and it keep changing and expanding. Last week I bring 2 CV to 2 schools which is very ridiculuous because I had worked for bank for 13 years, but back to the question what would I do if I had no worries about everything. so I did it anyway, I was surprised that when I talked to security to ask and he said oh principal just came, you talk to him. I greated him and talked and he asked my time to interview. I did, it was last Friday. It when smooth and he talked in English. I am in Indonesia btw, and talk in foreign language always hard here because people always mocking my high tone and unclear pronunciation. but I did anyway, and told him about my plan to Taiwan on November. Well I didn't know I will get laid off, but why I want to go to Taiwan because I invest to myself and award my hard work at the same time. People in my company always told me that I am too quiet, I am too shy and I don't know how to hang out. They don't know I just choose to speak to the what kind of people (at that time) but later I realized it was wrong. I did travel to unlocked the unknowing and to find what I really want and who AM I. Also already 7 days since I started to learn Chinese because I remember my mom always said why Chinese doesn't speak Chinese. so I want to make her proud. When the principal asked do you speak Chinese? I replied, "wo shuo de bu hao". He looked amaze and said you are above my expectation, I want you to be a teacher and prep for teacher coordinator. But anyway I am sure he has a lot of amazing candidates and at the end only management will decide. alot of factors involved. I agree with you about invest alot to ourselve. I invest alot and don't even think about anything else except to make my mom proud and happy. ❤Love your video and I'm writing your quote to my second brain. I hope you the best.
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot for sharing your experience. Don’t let others define who you are! You are already valuable as you are now:)
@fahadshamsan6255
@fahadshamsan6255 2 ай бұрын
New subscriber
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Thank U!:)
@confusedmeee
@confusedmeee 2 ай бұрын
Hello Edmund, I try to maximize my study and create portfolio but I found it is hard to switch, so whenever I was in study mode, I keep thinking the problem that not finish or stuck in my portfolio but also there is time I study which is German and English but it will make me hard to switch to working or something else. I can force it but last only 15 mins and remind me not really understand what I did. Actualy I am kinda lost and blame myself not smart. I hope to find something to implement from your video. Thank you Btw you will be a good father. So many wisdom from your life experience.
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
It is brave of you to disclose how you feel frustrated along your journey. Accepting one’s own weakness is never easy. Recognising that you feel struggling is the first point to change:) Changing your focus from A to B requires enormous energy, so what you are going through can happen to anyone. Little by little, don’t blame yourself that you are not making a result right away. Your day 1 doesn’t need to be day 1000 of those successful out there. They all have gone through equally difficult times:) Never lower your dream, but increase your effort gradually 😊 I cheer for your dream. Let’s hope to comment each other on KZbin when we achieve our dreams (Thanks for your compliment on me being a good daddy. Its also one of my key dreams!)
@confusedmeee
@confusedmeee 2 ай бұрын
@@Edmund30s Thank you so much Edmund for telling me this. Not forget to mention that You speak eloquently, which motivates me to study more advanced English. I have found that I learn a lot from your sentences. I hope the best for your journey and all people who come to watch.
@confusedmeee
@confusedmeee 2 ай бұрын
This video is a germ, thank you for the effort to create and teach. And hopefully you have another video like this one. I learned alot❤
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Yes please stay tuned:)
@confusedmeee
@confusedmeee 2 ай бұрын
Suddenly your video come to my home tonight. i got laid off just this month and I have been preparing CV, portfolio and tons of studying. I will start to look at job when I finish all of them. I am scared since I am not having any particular skill and I am also in my 30 ish. I hope we can get work soonest 😊
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Let’s keep thinking positively and picture ourselves always being successful. I know it is difficult. In Korea, we say “ground becomes firmer after rain”. Better things will always come long as long as we don’t give up - dream big and don’t let being laid off define you. I am sure you are more than that❤️ (also saying this to myself)
@Shirikatsu
@Shirikatsu 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Your words are given meaning by the path you walked and it resonated with me. Even just a bit, I hope you know you inspired me.
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Very delighted to hear that:) your comment also motivates me to be more brave!
@athisherin5864
@athisherin5864 2 ай бұрын
I just came across your video as it appeared on my KZbin feed. I didn't understand why it appeared but then i saw the Primrose hill and was surprised because it is part of my vision board as my dream to move to london. Lovely way to capture your daily vlogs as i understand it is quite uncomfortable to appear in front of camera. It is one of the reason i am so hesitant to have my own KZbin channel. All the best on your KZbin Journey. Cheers🎉
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Hey! Thanks a lot for a heartwarming comment:) please stay tuned in with my videos and hope that your dreams come to you✌️ - manifest and dream😊
@athisherin5864
@athisherin5864 2 ай бұрын
Thanks. I see that you are learning French. It was quite funny because I am a french citizen wanting to move to London and learn to speak British English and here you are living in London and learning French. I wasn't born here so I can say it's quite hard to get the french pronunciation right, especially when you have a English accent. Good luck.
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
@@athisherin5864 ​I will keep learning French and hope that you can see me speaking French soon in my videos:)
@athisherin5864
@athisherin5864 2 ай бұрын
@@Edmund30s very well, All the best on your Learning.
@99dudette
@99dudette 2 ай бұрын
Yeah he totally used you. Look for a job in another company even one that's a bit ambitious. You will be valued more!
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your sympathy with me:) Yes, valuing myself the most is always a priority
@TheGretaoto
@TheGretaoto 2 ай бұрын
The law of attraction works, Ed! Maybe the way it works it not how we imagine. I think you had a haircut recently, am I right? You are very funny - fingers and hands! I think the failed is leading us towards a better direction.
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 2 ай бұрын
I always believe in that law which is still leading my life🥰 I wanted to share some personal experience to use the law of attraction more effectively. Always lovely to see your comment here😊
@TheGretaoto
@TheGretaoto 2 ай бұрын
@@Edmund30s It is nice to see your life through this journal / vlogs! You have an interesting mindset! 감사합니다
@james2156
@james2156 3 ай бұрын
This depressed me
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 3 ай бұрын
Please tell me more why
@james2156
@james2156 2 ай бұрын
@@Edmund30s just seems like a life of solitude and monotony.
@MoloAM123
@MoloAM123 3 ай бұрын
You need a relationship lad
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 3 ай бұрын
For me, I don't want to set relationship itself as a goal. When I chase after relationship itself, the result was not as pleasant as I expected. If I value myself, I believe that right person will come at right timing - I have a firm belief in law of attraction:)
@JanineTillema
@JanineTillema 3 ай бұрын
I fairly enjoyed myself watching this little snippet of your life! :) Keep up the good work!
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 3 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot. Hope that you enjoyed my video:)
@gonzalojohnson
@gonzalojohnson 3 ай бұрын
Look at this geez trying to tell me how to be better.
@friederichnietzsch
@friederichnietzsch 3 ай бұрын
As far as I know, the money you spend on the videos can be business expenses against your income from ad revenue or sponsorships! #betaxefficient If no real income yet, then your business is making a loss, which still isn't a bad thing!
@mattischlese5385
@mattischlese5385 3 ай бұрын
Calcium in the tap water isn't unhealthy, don't be fooled by hypochondriacs... You'd need to drink absurd amounts daily to feel negative symptoms
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 3 ай бұрын
Oho! Thats good to know:) thanks for sharing your valuable knowledge
@slaveoth5114
@slaveoth5114 3 ай бұрын
How much do you pay for a room in central london?
@philt6440
@philt6440 3 ай бұрын
This is art
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 3 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot, @philt6440:)
@Bittersweet.Symphony.
@Bittersweet.Symphony. 3 ай бұрын
Learn as many new skills - Household DIY/musical instrument/READ Philosophy/Write/volunteer at hospitals/schools. Get off your phone and don't watch TV
@CrocPit
@CrocPit 3 ай бұрын
My advice - don’t let ten years slip by like this (like I did) - easy to do and sometimes you gotta disrupt the pattern
@Ben-mv9jt
@Ben-mv9jt 3 ай бұрын
How do you stop this from happening?
@CrocPit
@CrocPit 3 ай бұрын
@@Ben-mv9jt just break the routine regularly - go clubbing on a weeknight, volunteer at a homeless hostel, take a ten mile walk in no particular direction, visit India, just let go of rigidity a bit and actually live
@Edmund30s
@Edmund30s 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your valuable experience, @CrocPit! I will give a shot:)
@mister_beee
@mister_beee 3 ай бұрын
I agree with your statement. Even though routines can help someone with anxiety and stress, they feel monotonous and controlled. The control/management helps our brain to process everything easier and better. However, you only live really if you heart/your emotions are touched by your life. Often, the heart and brain are too disconnected and it's very difficult to figure out how to really live. Exposing yourself to new experiences is a good way - it helps to grow and be confronted with other experiences in life. Also, therapy should be considered in order to better understand what causes the emotional stress and how to accept it and live with it. It takes time! (you can also use meditation techniques/self-acceptance breaks to loosen up a bit).
@CrocPit
@CrocPit 3 ай бұрын
​@@mister_beee I like self-development/self-discipline/productivity too, but at the same time I feel like we're all increasingly being programmed to WORK/CONSUME/SLEEP/REPEAT and seek nothing more from life. When I was young, travel & adventure were a huge thing but I guess you can do it virtually now, and also most countries look and feel homogenous now compared with 20 years ago