Labels aren't the issue, it's the lack of communication.

I'm 36 and can tell you with utmost certainty that the friends first approach does not work in general. I don't care about anecdotes. One they see you as a friend, you aren't likely to leave that friend zone. If you do break out, that person would never like you as much as you like them.

Oh em gee, this is great. Thank you.

I always wanted to have a best male friend to marry. But I never have male best friends cause they all fall in love with me😅 Irony.

Thanks for the info! This is so important and grossly overlooked in the toxic secular culture which surrounds us. We pray for God's grace to make us get to know people we feel love for first before anything else.

The time for friends first was middle school and high school but honestly it usually doesnt work. If youre just friends, someone else is gonna come along and be an actual love interest.

Wow so much great wisdom in your video

You still together

Friend first is a horrible dating advice.

This video was in point. Only wished it was longer.

If y’all believe that bs y’all will finish last

Am 57 I want 2 cry 😢

I feel bit sad. We r friends now for 9 months and he says he loves me but... Still just friends :( 😞 is 9 months too slow? Please. We hold hands but no kissing.

My wife is a fake as catholic

Awww thank you guys so much. I’m in a relationship but right now, we are taking things slow and become more friends, because we argue. And we don’t wanna get things worst.

Your presentation of this valuable information was refreshing and encouraging. You are exactly right to become friends with someone first. You have reinforced that it is important to like the person (as a friend) as well as love them. Thank you and best wishes

After years of dating guys and not getting to know them first, I've decided I want to have a friendship first and that way I don't find out stuff about the person afterwards when we are already dating. If he can't wait to get into a relationship then he's not for me.

I love your videos 🤗 Saludos desde Ecuador :)

I think it really depends on the partner, ive asked her and she said she really wants to be friends first, plus im the only male she was close with. Her way was reallly traditional and she wouldn't want to date someone she doesn't know well as a friendship does. She's just isn't that kind of person.. It's just rare cases i guess. Plus we are young , we literally have to focus on studying and jobs soon, so it's best to be this way until we know each other enough and capable of something more than friends. But everything you guys said are really true whenever I talked to her, she gives out the same opinion.

I enjoyed very much the humor and the collabortive presentation. Please do more on old friends turning into Godly relationships. Thamks!

Thanks for the advice, that motivates me a lot! I was afraid of confessing to a friend just because I don't wanna ruin a friendship, and also some of my friends told me they won't confess to their "friends category" and that they kind of decide who they see as a potential partner from the beginning but your video enlightens me to step out and make changes with confidence. Thank you.

Lol! As a woman, I can't see myself being relaxed/friendly around someone I have feels for🤷🏾‍♀️

I meet a guy and going start off as friends.

Yeah, no way! That's a sure fire ticket to blue balls. Why would I waste my time? That's what they show on TV & movies. Being physical is a part of attraction. I watched this as a non Christian.

Great advice. Thank you!

Keep uploading!!! You deserve more views! Have you heard of promosm??? Use it to promote your videos, it will help you grow your channel.

So real and raw thank you! Takes the pressure off.

That’s facts

Is it bad that I cried while watching this because I realized just important getting friendzoned actually is when u meet your soulmate?😭

Oh wow how awesome. I'm thinking I'll keep it simple but memorable not exactly sure lol. Thinking too much about it stresses me out lol.

Where are the men with no red flags? 🤣🤣🤣

Wow. I cannot read. Only 308 subs!? That’s less than me and you make way better videos than me in my opinion. I wish you both the best!

I like you guys. I am honestly supposed you only have 503 subs! I’ll make that 504 for ya! :)

Thanks for sharing guys!

Oh how awesome guys :).

Great advice guys! I totally believe in you have the desire you will be married. I have a friend who married at 40. Just be "actively" waiting and trust in the Lord :).

I’ve been dating long distance for 8 months! My boyfriend lived in PA, & I live in SC! I love the notebook idea! 🤩 We voice message each other a weekly encouragement. I surprise him by sending him books id think he’d like, & he surprises me with money fit lunch or dinner lol. Share scriptures often. & make it a point to pray together every time we have a phone call &/or video call. 🙏🏿💖 Effective, clear & beneficial communication is a major key!

Great tips guys!

First to watch

Have you got any tips for long distance in a relationship? How to navigate that?

Thanks for answering my questions!! So helpful!

Great advice guys! Be intentional.

maybe it´s right for the "good girl!" but usually you got Friendzoned because most women expect a badass alpha male and friendzone the beta because they see kindness as weakness.

You guys are awesome! Thanks for sharing!

Hey!! Good to see you guys again!!

Thank you guys so much! Love the positivity you guys have and good answers :). You guys are goals.

That was super helpful. I am so glad I found your channel. I feel like I am seeing relationships in a different and positive way.

Good advice and you guys have great chemistry :).

This was exactly what I needed to hear today. Thanks a ton for sharing your thoughts!

Oof... This advice would have been good for me sometime back. Patience! 👏🏾👏🏾