I remember how I used to be judgemental of staying home moms before I had kids. Now 2 kids after and a 3rd on the way, I only have admiration for these moms. You are the BEST ❤️

Guys only this time i saw your video.how are you doing from the Hamas attack and the war happenings till today.ofw in Oman.i pray for everyone in Israel,God bless you and your family.

This is great! My father was Israeli, and my name is Elon and Im currently looking to date a filipina. Ha... small world. I used to be embarrassed by my name growing up it seemed so different. I'm 44 now, and I am watching the name Elon become very popular. 😊

I needed this! Thank you for your encouraging words and wisdom! We have to keep working on our perspectives and processing our emotions. Thank you!

I sold my 7 figure business to be a stay at home mom. I am enjoying this season in my life. I choose to focus on the positive; spending time with my kids, pouring into them. I am going to be creating content about putting life into perspective & cherishing the seeming mundane

I so needed this today ❤ thank you ❤

It's not just a misconception. It's down right rudeness, judgement and ignorance the way SAHM are treated and talked to.

I took it for granted, and now im a working mom. I miss being home, no matter how much work it was. I work now because i didnt trust my partner todo it all on his own. I wanted things. I wanted to he able to afford things for my son. Its tuff i guess wether your a stay at home parent or a working one

This sounds unappealing😬.

Thank you for this! I get so triggered by the "what do you do all day" question!

Omggg im touched with the flowers 💐

Thank you for this video. I can relate. I appreciate the uplifting ending. I feel hope and light at the end of the tunnel thanks to your wonderful and optimistic outlook. Again, thank you! 😊 🙏

I already watched all your vlogs❤ and im still waiting for more😢

Still waiting for a next vlog😊

I needed to hear this today

Trying to decide whether or not to have kids so I’m here. Some of these things stay at home moms do sound like stuff you have to do even if you’re not a mom (cleaning [less of it, obviously]). However, it’s like husbands assume they don’t have to do any domestic tasks and it’s 100% the mom’s job, which is unfair. That’s my worst nightmare - becoming an unpaid maid for a man. SAHMs work all day. It never stops. Husbands go to work and then they feel like they worked so they don’t have to do chores.

Don't be cruel. Even me, I can't drink that much vinegar .

This made me cry as a first time mom ... All my love to any other first time moms ❤ YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO FEELS SO INCREDIBLY OVERWHELMED ALL THE TIME.

As a stay at home mom of 2 preschoolers, the worst thing isn’t childcare itself, or laundry, or never ending cycle of cooking and cleaning after. The WORST aspect is not having anything exciting AND not being able to actually plan anything for yourself, bc you don’t belong to yourself, and your boss is unpredictable. My daughter turned 2 and started going to the kindergarten, but she is still adapting and often gets sick, so as soon as I’m starting to enjoy simple things like cleaning alone, working out and skincare routine, she catches sniffles and I need to cancel my doctor appointments and mani-pedi I haven’t had in years. And though you don’t get salary or any recognition whatsoever, you also never get vacation or even sick days. I admit I kinda let it happen bc I want to be a good mom and make sacrifices. But it’s a bad and intoxicating trait leading to burnout, binge eating and whining instead of enjoying your kids growing. It took me 6 years and one especially big meltdown to realize my husband can actually take sick days to take care of kids when I have fever. Don’t be me girls, stand for yourself. And I’m really grateful my kids, despite having some health issues, are relatively healthy. I can hardly imagine being a mom of a kid who is really sick. I’m not THAT strong. God bless those women.

Exactly. Just tell people, imagine never clocking out and when you wake up you work and when you go to sleep you work and you live where you work so you can’t really relax. Oh and have a partner telling you despite being a deeply caring and try-hard, SAHM wife and mom, and contributing financially, it is never ever enough to him.

Hello po miss april..nag google talaga ako about pinay married to an israeli then your video nag popped up , coz i have an israeli bf but hindi pa po kami nagpakasal kasi i need to annull my marriage first with my ex..but was a big problem for us coz its so costly

Have more children You are beautiful couple Need to have that kind man like your husband and lively woman like your wife Then israel need more children to gtow the population

I dont like durian myself.

I dont bame Horner. I dont eat balut ether .

It's kinda heart pumping to hear go to work if you only contributed? Well for me I haven't worked in a public job in ages .the thoughts ehos gonna hire me or will I be good enough to get hired or will get fired or anything .these things keep me from actually geti😢 hired I live to work but Im not to confident been at home only all these years this all I've known .

Omw it's so overwhelming.to take care of home some times I help 3:08 my husband at job I come home do my mom duties and at end make dinnerl at times I need a hug and love .God gives me the strength through the time s that I feel I can't do it .God is my strength and my helper prayer is the helpline.

What a sweetheart she said she was sorry for not liking that smut😊

Nice couple, but it is hilarious that an Israeli guy and a🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Catholic Filipina in the Philippines are selling sex toys. Glad you two worked out!

I truly needed to see this today. Thank you for this video.

Shalom ... your in Ramat Gan or what par of the country ❤

The point is women can never win. Is a lose lose kinda thing Both have benefits but.. Both are so hard.. Edit: the ending is so sweet though.

I've been a sahm for 8 years. It's not for everyone. I tell my working mom friends that the work is easier but longer. I work 12-14 hours a day. The work is easy but tedious. It helps to have hobbies you enjoy at home. I homeschool and garden. It's fulfilling but can be lonely and tedious. It's important to create a circle of other sahms who support one another with positivity. And I wouldn't reccomend it if you're spouse doesn't value the role and work in homemaking.

Thank you for making this video❤this brought me to tears 😭 It feels good to know that I am not alone. 100 % agree on what you said.

Love this message. We are not sorry for missing messages, parties, 'opportunities' and more. Being a SAHM is a hard work that requires lots of thinking and hopefully many women get to appreciate what they really have and the precious lives that are in their hands. Moms and Dads are so important for healthy families. THis is teamwork. Hugs. Lets love our family as it... we are so blessed to have it.

Wow I feel understood. ❤

For me Moms are the most successful Women! We really are but we don't know it. We believe in lies society tells us.

April! You came in hard with the truth!!! Yes! Yes! Yes momma ❤

I work and take care of two kids, with help of hubby its very hard too I cannot imagine doing this full time lol glad he helps me

Poohooo.... Stay loved and keep up the great work. Stop crying because your husband appreciates it all.

The guilt is real ! 😢

You said it so well!

It amazes me how well April speaks like an American without ever have been in the United States.

I am impressed how well she speaks English and sounds very educated and cultured.

You're not Christian.

Thank you for this video. All this needed to be said and was right on. And if people dont think being a stay at home mom is a job, then i wonder what daycare workers do all day? Only they get paid.... and theyre not responsible for everything else, laundry, taking kids to appts, shopping, etc. Etc. Etc. And for the people who say, this is all the stuff you would need to do anyway... usually with stay at home moms, they do EVERYTHING. Since the other parent works and we are home with our kids, we do everything, or most of everything, so the other parent can just focus on work and being with the kids when he gets home. So basically, we are unpaid daycare providers, while we also do everything else for the kids, and everything for the house too. I am happy to say that most people who ive told im a stay at home mom, have given me compliments for doing that, but then there are people who think children shouldnt be raised at home with their mothers and should instead go to daycare. Side note: im NOT bashing moms who choose to put their kids in daycare. Although its ideal to have the kids at home, sometimes daycare is just better for families, depending on the situation. Some moms literally cant handle not having any space away from the kids ever, and its understandable. Plus, financial reasons are sometimes a thing too. With all that being said, i am SO GRATEFUL that I am a stay at home mom and I love being able to be the one who takes care of my kids full time!

Sometimes I wish I could die

Ok all the cooking, cleaning, and errands working moms do too. Stay at home moms act like working moms have some fairy that shows up and does the laundry, cooks dinner, and bathes the kids. Working moms work harder in my opinion.

This touched my heart ❤ Thank you! A confirmation that I made the right choice.

hello April🙋‍♀️..any update???☹