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@AvanAvan-se4bi
@AvanAvan-se4bi 18 сағат бұрын
I want one Israel girl it i can marriage I am a indian citizen i believe in Jesus Christ ❤❤❤
@lenaoblisen7818
@lenaoblisen7818 3 күн бұрын
I think that palce is in Benyuhuda Tel Aviv,tama ba sissy?
@AndjelaAndja-t1z
@AndjelaAndja-t1z 4 күн бұрын
I have son and i have job and my husbent have job too What wrong with you lazy women?! 😮
@ruthvillarreal6111
@ruthvillarreal6111 6 күн бұрын
Its so fucking hard
@Antoinettethebahm
@Antoinettethebahm 7 күн бұрын
I am rarely without words. I'll just say "Thank You" for shining light on the reality of a stay at home mom ✨ I feel Seen and Heard 💯
@dancingcolibri3159
@dancingcolibri3159 21 күн бұрын
Everything she said is exactly how I feel. I have been a SAHM for 8 years and am grateful for this opportunity, but it feels like the most unrewarding job ever. I left my job to care for my children because of my long work hours and my husband traveled a lot. Someone needed to be home to take care of the children. I know that I’m doing right by them because they are thriving in everything they do. They are very secure level headed happy kids. I see the fruits of my labor, but feel so unappreciated and disrespected by society. It’s also very lonely to be a SAHM. In spite of feeling like this, I thank God for this opportunity and pray that I raised good, responsible, productive children that will make him proud. Amen 🙏🏼
@cassandrageorge9666
@cassandrageorge9666 26 күн бұрын
I think the part that is hardest is that you don’t get a break from this it’s around the clock non stop atleast at work when your off your off
@Chinesestreetfashion23
@Chinesestreetfashion23 Ай бұрын
I have a 14 months old daughter and a almost 4 year old son, struggling with time management, i could wake up early in the morning and only end up doing 2 things for the day. sweep the house, wash dishes then cook and always occupied with the kids. sometimes i skip shower, my hair is a mess, gained weight. i want to start excersicing seems impossible. my kids refusing to eat, older one always screaming and throwing tantrums and making the little one unsettled. I wish i could sleep for a week without waking up😢😢😢
@rolenacalangao1750
@rolenacalangao1750 Ай бұрын
Hi guys new to your channel, as jevovahs witnesses we don't celebrate Xmas and birthdays😊 because bdays celebration is not told in the bible..
@MamySilva
@MamySilva Ай бұрын
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 this kids they are more israeli than ever so much Honesty…. Just in your face 🤣😂😂😂😂 I can’t 😂😂😂 so cute 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
@sunrise00077
@sunrise00077 Ай бұрын
I can totally relate about those assumptions from outside. They forget what is more important, to participate in the society and economy by paying taxes or to raise a good human being for their future generation. Being a mom is not easy. I am a new mom to a 2 year old, and I know I always forget to take care of myself, but I am not regretting it because I know what is more important for me.
@Atissabstract
@Atissabstract Ай бұрын
I’ve been a stay at home for going on three years now. I never found myself to be happy up until I gave my life to Jesus. And I found so much peace at where I’m at as a stay at home mom. He delivered me and I found so much joy in being a mother of three. ❤
@heatherpoletti6692
@heatherpoletti6692 Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your heart and being honest. I can relate 100% and agree that I have no regrets choosing to be at home with my children.
@jacquelyncrousser5245
@jacquelyncrousser5245 Ай бұрын
Oh my gosh, this video is spot on! Trading over an entire entity for the word, “mom”. But self care is one of the solutions! And also daily mediations.
@JohnDoran-e7o
@JohnDoran-e7o Ай бұрын
You met at a strip joint
@michelkulibabo7764
@michelkulibabo7764 Ай бұрын
Whats up my American PUTI neighbor. My name is Tony Ricci. I am a 57 yr old (former) BOLERO / BABAERO living in Toronto Ontario Canada. Back in the day I was introduced to Pinoy world when I played soccer with my very 1st Pinoy team mate. I learned the CUSTOM and what Pinays are all about. In my life going back in the 30's and 40's I must have met about 18 Pinays through dating sites, parties, malls, streets etc. I won't lie but out of all them I must have CHUK CHUKED (fckd) about 14 of them. The PEK PEK IS 'SARAP' and are good to chuk chak for a while, but then the pek pek gets boring and ya need a change, like I did. I met a Pinay about 22 yrs ago (loving good soul) and she gave me a boy, he's 16 yrs old now. I fucked up real bad when I started to party party & party (booze and drugs...weed mostly). I never married her (not my cup of tea...I like my FREEDOM). I still visit her and the boy every weekend, we talk and still remain cool. Then about 9 yrs ago, I met ANOTHER Pinay (younger, she was 35) single, NO kids etc. I have a 3 yr old toddler with her. We live 2gether as we speak. They are both GOOD cooks. It's in their blood. Ever since they are born, the parents teach them to: LEARN HOW TO COOK, CLEAN, LAUNDRY, IRON, GET READY to spread their pek pek and make babies. Basically, they are Foreigners 'SLAVE(s)". BUT, Pinays have also DARK SIDE(s) to them....ITS IN THE BLOOD! They are: SNEAKY, BACK STABBERS, MONEY GRABBERS, CORRUPTED, CHEATERS etc. I wrote the Life's Bible about them, trust me. And OVERWHELMING percentage are FLAT....hardly any SUSU! Most doltish foo's...American ex pats go to Filipines bcoz they are LOSERS, got divorced back home in the US, have kids, the wife took all of their MONEY and told them to hit the road Jack and don't ever cum back, so due to desperation, they go where its EEZZEE. Filipines, Vietnam & Thailand. All other Asian pek pek chicks such as CHINESE, JAPANESE, KOREAN....STAY with their own kind and do not stray away like these pek peks do. That is my story folks........Amen.
@KhamsinUntamed
@KhamsinUntamed Ай бұрын
I am a stay at home mom, homeschooling, chronic illness warrior to a kid with autism and health issues. I have been working on a course to help others from my own pain and routines that help me manage my mental and spiritual health. It’s so hard, there is no off switch. Adding a business and eating fresh Whole Foods everyday means I’m busy from the time my eyes open to the time I go to sleep. If I get enough sleep 4-5 hours, I’m surprised by exhaustion before the day starts. It’s so painful and so rewarding. I told my partner today that I sometimes feel like a single mom. His silence felt even worse. I have no choice but to keep going, be as grateful as possible and invest in my wellbeing using self care and meditation among many other things I use. May all mothers that find this know u aren’t alone. Once day our children will be adults who has someone invest into their future❤
@PhotographyFieldNotes
@PhotographyFieldNotes Ай бұрын
I needed this today, thank you
@rdwrer1331
@rdwrer1331 Ай бұрын
One lady at the barn (horse riding stables I worked part time at) heard that I had 4 kids ages 5 and under...she started talking loud for all to hear, "Oh my GAWD.... you have FOUR kids already??? Don't you know how to close your legs?? J---- C-----!!! Did you hear that Melissa?... she's got 4 kids! I need to educate you about s--"..... She went on and on and on. The owner of the barn came to me later apologizing profusely. While I was being mocked, I was surprised how calm I was. I said nothing back to her (though certainly I had thoughts) it was no use talking to her. I've been mocked so many times in my life...for being too modest or too goody goody or too Christian or too brainwashed mormon or too sensitive or crying too much (by my own siblings) It sometimes STINKS to be meek... but is better to be quiet and wise than loud and ignorant.
@lindseyotto4623
@lindseyotto4623 Ай бұрын
I feel like you just described me. Some days are SO hard. So much guilt and living off my husbands income. When I explain this to other people they think it’s silly because of how much I contribute to the family, toddler and house. But feels different to me. The struggle is real.
@carathorsven3326
@carathorsven3326 Ай бұрын
The endless cycles of cooking and cleaning while your kids refuse to help and make the mess over and over again... it's enough to make you crazy
@meghandha
@meghandha Ай бұрын
Traditional way still in her as filipina in how to give importance in physical and moral aspect. Modern Pinay to become good in all aspect.
@RevelwithaCause
@RevelwithaCause 2 ай бұрын
I assume Moms who work even part time and have more than 2 kids have help around the house from family, friends, or hired. Wow! Your house is kept really nice. Your husband and kids are indeed blessed. In Asia, it is typical to have "just" 2 kids. I am American and Crazily enough had 7 kids!! Not recommending this unless u have a big enough house and help / support.
@tanyacollier9878
@tanyacollier9878 2 ай бұрын
I have 3 kids and this couldn’t be more perfect
@Truthful1980
@Truthful1980 2 ай бұрын
Especially when you are unappreciated, ignored and your personal dreams begin to fade
@timotearochford9886
@timotearochford9886 2 ай бұрын
April i understand your life but that is the real journey of life, the bittersweet of your success. I also married to a foreigner, but i don't have regrets though we experienced lots of struggle and problems in our marriage, we don't kids, I don't regret it. I am committed and I was happy we found each other, he was a part of me, and he was beyond forgetting.
@marlylebron7994
@marlylebron7994 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the video ❤
@amarsbar_hugh
@amarsbar_hugh 2 ай бұрын
O have to do stay at home mom and working mom bevause they have no dad ...and if you can do it and be happy do it! If not get a job even partt time to help with these struggles
@etoile2576
@etoile2576 2 ай бұрын
I remember how I used to be judgemental of staying home moms before I had kids. Now 2 kids after and a 3rd on the way, I only have admiration for these moms. You are the BEST ❤️
@JenniferBernante-i4y
@JenniferBernante-i4y 2 ай бұрын
Guys only this time i saw your video.how are you doing from the Hamas attack and the war happenings till today.ofw in Oman.i pray for everyone in Israel,God bless you and your family.
@elond5025
@elond5025 2 ай бұрын
This is great! My father was Israeli, and my name is Elon and Im currently looking to date a filipina. Ha... small world. I used to be embarrassed by my name growing up it seemed so different. I'm 44 now, and I am watching the name Elon become very popular. 😊
@bridgetp6859
@bridgetp6859 2 ай бұрын
I needed this! Thank you for your encouraging words and wisdom! We have to keep working on our perspectives and processing our emotions. Thank you!
@ElevateWithTate7
@ElevateWithTate7 2 ай бұрын
I sold my 7 figure business to be a stay at home mom. I am enjoying this season in my life. I choose to focus on the positive; spending time with my kids, pouring into them. I am going to be creating content about putting life into perspective & cherishing the seeming mundane
@alisonhawke1813
@alisonhawke1813 2 ай бұрын
I so needed this today ❤ thank you ❤
@tbubble1037
@tbubble1037 2 ай бұрын
I took it for granted, and now im a working mom. I miss being home, no matter how much work it was. I work now because i didnt trust my partner todo it all on his own. I wanted things. I wanted to he able to afford things for my son. Its tuff i guess wether your a stay at home parent or a working one
@Ytorisv
@Ytorisv 2 ай бұрын
This sounds unappealing😬.
@ashleyriley7661
@ashleyriley7661 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this! I get so triggered by the "what do you do all day" question!
@catdoglover4880
@catdoglover4880 3 ай бұрын
Omggg im touched with the flowers 💐
@elizabethtrieu1446
@elizabethtrieu1446 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I can relate. I appreciate the uplifting ending. I feel hope and light at the end of the tunnel thanks to your wonderful and optimistic outlook. Again, thank you! 😊 🙏
@Ross_EF
@Ross_EF 3 ай бұрын
I already watched all your vlogs❤ and im still waiting for more😢
@Ross_EF
@Ross_EF 3 ай бұрын
Still waiting for a next vlog😊
@rebecarohrback3648
@rebecarohrback3648 3 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this today
@laurengraham9325
@laurengraham9325 3 ай бұрын
Trying to decide whether or not to have kids so I’m here. Some of these things stay at home moms do sound like stuff you have to do even if you’re not a mom (cleaning [less of it, obviously]). However, it’s like husbands assume they don’t have to do any domestic tasks and it’s 100% the mom’s job, which is unfair. That’s my worst nightmare - becoming an unpaid maid for a man. SAHMs work all day. It never stops. Husbands go to work and then they feel like they worked so they don’t have to do chores.
@micaelablogs
@micaelablogs 2 ай бұрын
I spent years thinking I didn't want kids and had an abrupt change of heart 3 years ago. I am so, so thankful! Being a mom is truly the best and most fulfilling thing I will ever do. Praying for you in your decision💕
@hildajones1426
@hildajones1426 3 ай бұрын
Don't be cruel. Even me, I can't drink that much vinegar .
@muaaza1432
@muaaza1432 3 ай бұрын
This made me cry as a first time mom ... All my love to any other first time moms ❤ YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO FEELS SO INCREDIBLY OVERWHELMED ALL THE TIME.
@bravemoon2124
@bravemoon2124 3 ай бұрын
As a stay at home mom of 2 preschoolers, the worst thing isn’t childcare itself, or laundry, or never ending cycle of cooking and cleaning after. The WORST aspect is not having anything exciting AND not being able to actually plan anything for yourself, bc you don’t belong to yourself, and your boss is unpredictable. My daughter turned 2 and started going to the kindergarten, but she is still adapting and often gets sick, so as soon as I’m starting to enjoy simple things like cleaning alone, working out and skincare routine, she catches sniffles and I need to cancel my doctor appointments and mani-pedi I haven’t had in years. And though you don’t get salary or any recognition whatsoever, you also never get vacation or even sick days. I admit I kinda let it happen bc I want to be a good mom and make sacrifices. But it’s a bad and intoxicating trait leading to burnout, binge eating and whining instead of enjoying your kids growing. It took me 6 years and one especially big meltdown to realize my husband can actually take sick days to take care of kids when I have fever. Don’t be me girls, stand for yourself. And I’m really grateful my kids, despite having some health issues, are relatively healthy. I can hardly imagine being a mom of a kid who is really sick. I’m not THAT strong. God bless those women.
@2780-l2k
@2780-l2k 3 ай бұрын
Exactly. Just tell people, imagine never clocking out and when you wake up you work and when you go to sleep you work and you live where you work so you can’t really relax. Oh and have a partner telling you despite being a deeply caring and try-hard, SAHM wife and mom, and contributing financially, it is never ever enough to him.
@FlorifeColina
@FlorifeColina 3 ай бұрын
Hello po miss april..nag google talaga ako about pinay married to an israeli then your video nag popped up , coz i have an israeli bf but hindi pa po kami nagpakasal kasi i need to annull my marriage first with my ex..but was a big problem for us coz its so costly
@yerasuar7361
@yerasuar7361 3 ай бұрын
Have more children You are beautiful couple Need to have that kind man like your husband and lively woman like your wife Then israel need more children to gtow the population