The fact that youtube recommended this to me after i studied for 9 hours. Thank you. This is so right.❤

You talk beautifully.

i believe in it but still 'its the first time for our parents being parenting too'

DP mai khud ka pic rakho

Yo same glasses as me hahaha...actually i am a boy i bought them and then i realised ohh shit its girls glasses 🥲 but well it looks good so who cares...you are beautifull young lady, and damn you are smart,strong and wise plus you want love,man you are a real life Cinderella,...you are doing good keep fighting,..lemme tell u something about myself u see i love a girl,and i met her on clash of clan never saw her face never heard her voice still love her been 1 year and 7 months till i met her,the problem is she doesnt love me back 🥲...sometimes it hurts sometimes it feels good to love....idk its random thing i just told you dunno why....i know how u feel and love thirsty you are,no...idk how u feel i can never be you...but i know what i feel and i know how it feels to want love.....ok just for your sake and for those lovely eyes i will subscribe your channel,so you better smile u beautifull shit...i hope we can be friends someday....(this doesnt count as cheating i still love the girl from coc) byeee

i feel you. im 23 now and my whole childhood is absolutely ruined. I've deleted all my old photos and trying to forget all my memories. I've found good company now and I'm happier than ever.but at night i still get thoughts of that hell. the books that helped me heal are chinua achebe things fall apart paulo coelho The alchemist Rassundari dasi Amar Jibon and most importantly Albert camus the outsider i highly recommend you to cheak those books as early as possible.

Okay she is sad in this video I mean i am able to feel it in her voice 😞

All I want to say is I do agree what you say but yrr itna Gyan mat diya Karo yrr just be happy with small things . U do overthink a lot just be a chill person dude life is just so short just be happy with small things rather than complaining about your problems Remember Every person have problems in their life but facing those problems with a smile is an art of life JUST BE HAPPY ❤❤

ayein

You are so full of wisdom and I’m thankful you share your thoughts; it makes so many of us feel less alone ❤

we cant change people its thier nature to feel pleasure from giving advice/oppressing others ,when its time to give give and when its time to work-work , just give love don't expect it and you will be fine you will have the will , solo leveling and aot endings in manhwa taught me that. if you lived in the world where your dreams become true you don't belong thier

The best video I have seen to comfort me; thank you, Ana!

Ana, this is the same with me- and I'm trying to survive... my parents are controlling, unkind and are like- "UR LIFE IS SOO EASY WHAT R U SOBBING ON?!"; this dismay broke me and I'm 12... I truly understand: and they all say "don't- DON'T LISTEN TO HIM. Who is he to tell you; DO WHAT I TOLD YOU, OKAY?". At night I was supposed to be sleeping when I heard my mom and dad complaining about me (my mom was siding with me); half of these things weren't done by me and I was broken, shattered and when I tried to fly, they cut and shred my wings to explore the WORLD. Well, all of these 1,545 people have experienced the same dilemma. When I was 10, I legit gave myself, expressed my self but now, I suffer, I condemn my feelings and burn them. I stopped asking them for anything and they still fail to realise what's going on. My life is brutal; and I hope you all understand T_T...

hello, i'm a new subscriber and i was watching some of your videos and i'm so sorry of all the things you faced in your life, your much more older than me and i look up to you and i find you strangely relatable. i'm just 13 but i hate my life, i might sound like i'm overreacting and i think that too but i cant to anything but hate myself and my life, i hate every single part of it. getting abused by my father, having fake friends, having severe social anxiety, ADHD... it's a lot and my family is just making it worse. he's unemployed -- lost his job. my mom works 2 jobs and provides for 5 people, i have a older sister.. and she's the perfect kid, getting good grades, having many friends, even participating in many co-curricular activites and much more, while i'm the problem child, my mother hates me more than anything. i gave up the two things i loved most - theatre and basketball so i could focus on my studies and well be like my sister. but my family never appreciates me, my finals are coming and my life is getting more torn apart. even though i love my sister, i cant be anything but jealous. i feel like kms.

oyy, go eat a pizza by urself with KZbin money. Good night, take care.

My version 🙂

Your so relatable and I'm here for it

FIRST AND I WANT TO TELL YOU YOUR SO RELATABLE AND YOU UNDERSTAND ME SO MUCH TY YOU CHANGED MY LIFE💜

Heyy, your new subscriber!

stress doesn't comes from hard work, stress comes from not taking action over something you have controll over, the stress comes from ignoring the stuff that you shouldn't be ignring

You are right pretty lady, I mean... most of it

I don't want to be healed. i have a strong urge and desire to just disappear and never be seen again. and at this point, pain is sweet.

She is mature enough to realise, kids are supposed to have a safe and happy childhood in every family situtation. I'm soon gonna make a video about warning people my age to never expect a flawless life with a kid. Many people are weak against life's forces and they neglect all emotions, even their love for their children. But as survivors, we are strong. Use this energy to do something good for the world, guys, thinking this much leads to prettier brains.

Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. Matthew 11:28 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. John 10:10 John 16:33 I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world

oml gurl i had a panic atack on this topic just 5 mins ago and now i agree with her soo much..man i just want comfort..i hate school-

first of all you'r depressed you should talk to a tharapist not because their is something wrong in thinking about though stuff but a norman parson with good back story doen't needs to thinkl about though stuff at you do or any one do , and their is more to it then you came up with all by your self that you ill find out about and realise if you have a person guiding you with their own knowledge on the stuff, and it's also it might help you with their problems if you have anything, second of all , yes i hate the fact that it still happens, when growing up we look up to our parent's we live in the house of out dad's and our mom makes us food and withouth though perfect parent's with the perfect home[ no mater how bad it is to others in terms of sanatery, space, location, invironment] we can't live in a better home then that, untill we visit a differient house, and when we hear stuff from our parent's we beleave they are right and their warning's makes us fear the unknown, but for the parents it's differient, they ware just humans untill they hade us and they want to use us to schive their own dreams because we are slaves to them for living in their house, eating their food, and having to spend all though money on us, and they have to stop us from stuff that they don't want us to be, it's quite sad. instead of raising a child as a human we asian childrens grow up as an extention of their own, they see us as their property, they get angey when childrens say they want to follow their passion or the stuff they are good at, the asian parent's will never treat their children as a differient person with their own life, because, the parent's are probably right,the parent's grew up in that same pattern of abuse from their own parent's , the parent's has their own finansial-relashonship-understanding problem , so why should their child not have that. third of all, you are feeling like your child hood is over, and you don't have any child hood left, it's just not true, you just feel bigger like everyone who grows up, but you are still indeed a child who have more of her child hood left to injoy, and the child never gows away from anyone really, you can do what you desire no mater how silly it is or looks, you don't have to follow the social constructon of behavior to be aksepted by the socity, if you like kinderjoy, have one,

I ask a question to all of them who interested in philosophy. Why are you happy in your childhood.I know but I want more opinion to help me to the final conclusion . If you can I grateful to you 😂

Now I believe on you. You are not encourage negativity You share your opinion in that way people can relate and kind of critical thinking help them to overcome own problems. You are lovely anna 😊

Yes i got your point

Understood !

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This is totally mee yrree

Hey dear dont worry, Im just wondering as a friend do you have your dad around?

How old are you? ( Not in a creepy way ) Like i'm 16 and I graduated high school And i've saw your famous vid. I just realised that anybody near me only keeps me around to use me.

6:16 me too

You are right because i also realised after some accident happened with me

Another day, it's a privilege, to be able to watch your videos!

Which class you study please reply😊

First ❤

Gotta make GPT summarize this one

um yes, dying indeed will make all the pain disappear into thin air, and obv ik nobody cares thats y it makes me feel like that becz afterall no one cares so i wouldnt be called selfish doing that, at some point they will move on and its great.

Girl i wanted to say this that I am a 19 year old girl and watched your video right now. I have gone through same situation and and going through right now. I want to share my problems to my friends but then I think they were having hard time too. My father works really hard for me and my mother works even harder for me but whenever my father talk to me he only talked about my studies and right now I don't even remember when is the last time we were happy together. I can not make any eye contact with my parents after I got a failure tag by my parents. I have never imagined my father would say such harsh things in my life. I am trying to do my best . When my father get exhausted from work he can yell at whom they want but I can not do that I have to respect them. I don't think I can ever open up to my parents and I don't have any siblings, it feel like I am in a cage. When I look at my life I have never actually shared my real feelings and the problems I am going through neither to my parents nor to my friends. When I watched your video I cried a lot and I thought you are right I should not want love from my parents I should just try to live a happy life with my own and focus on how I can live a different life from theirs. Thank you for this video I can relate everything. I hope you find happiness and I too.

Hi my name is habiba .iam going to turn 20. Today was a hard day fir me too i was emotionally exhausted.your words areso true .i thought i am the only one who feels like this but seeing the comments and you it seems like a common feeling.i hope we feel better .iam alsoa daughter of working mom so i see my mom few times i always tell her that i need her by my side and that i need love .i promised myself i will not bring children to this life if i cannot spend time with them giving them my love and watching them growing up not missing anymoment .i love you keep pushing may allah inshallah heal our scars ❤

This is not how things were meant to be, and it hurts. You are so thoughtful and caring to set a high standard for parenting because you see so much value in the life of a child. The empathy you have is a huge gift, and you sharing your thoughts has brought so many people together. Thank you for taking this little time away from your studies to give words to how something so important feels missing to so many. Rooting for you as you begin your "adult" life; we are both still so young and we can still be children at heart! ❤

I know you cried after this. I'm so proud you were strong enough to make this video, and you should stay strong.

Hi I have had the same regrets as you darling. I know how parents can be, controlling and stuffs. But dear, there is a lesson to learn. You are learning to struggle, you are learning to save money (you're learning that ice-creams are just simple sugars which gives you wrinkles, acne) which would have been wasted on silly fun stuffs. Their (parents) intensions are not bad... It's just that not everybody can be an ideal type of parent for their kids. Parenting requires GREAT SKILLS! But you will be thankful (somewhat) for the strictness in your life today. Believe me, I have seen both sides. I TOO have felt like I NEVER fully enjoyed my childhood or even teenage. My parents didn't give a damn about teenage or my aspirations. They always wanted me to become an engineer or doctor, so they instructed me to take science. However, I wanted to go for art and design. I liked fashion and clothes. I hated physics to be honest. I never had any boyfriend and my friend circle was small. I was even bullied at one point. Had a crush, but never confessed to him due to fear of rejection, even though his father would visit our house, lol.... But I became an engineer. I couldn't get into any IIT but was still a good college. Now I am very happy to be far away from my parents. I pay my own bills, I can order pizza and pastries as much as I want because its MY MONEY, whenever I wish. I love gardening, so I got a small garden in my house that I take care myself. I love art and craft, so I designed interiors of my house as per MY TASTE and believe me I get a lot of complements from my friends and family too. I can buy things, dresses, food items which I LIKE, which I WANT. I also havea boyfriend. I worked hard for it. All I want to say is, struggle today and tomorrow you will live like a king/queen. BECAUSE struggle teaches a person DISCIPLINE. And without discipline, you are going to be forever LOSER. There is always a reason for facing hardships:- it makes us stronger (not physically but) by mind. Life will bring lot more challenges when you grow up, compared to now. So you should be well prepared. Thanks for reading. Wish you all the best in life!

I just want to give her a hug. Maybe talk to her normally and take her to a good day out in a simple mall and let her do WHATEVER she wants. Also, I as a mother can do the least by just hugging my child as he/she afterall is a part of me. Edit: Validate her feelings because she is a human, not because she is a student.

Well your parents want you to settle it has nothing to do with love or affection overall I think your just confused let some years pass by you will see the future automatically cause the efforts you put today gives you the result your parents are just looking out so you don't fall back or get tired on the path when you are responsible and can buy stuff or take care of your parents while managing your own stuff that's when you really understand the point btw great video you should keep learning and growing

You're great at drawing

where are you from?