I can't hear the conversation properly even my comp volume is at max already

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I wish the sound was higher so I could hear the messge clearer (its max volume on my side)

I love this Shantigarbha! Thanks so much for recording it. 43.30 "If we're connected, we can sort out strategies....we've got a million strategies...if we're connected"

This is very very helpful

Why do we want to say no? -> I'm feeling reluctant, I'm feeling uncomfortabel, I feel unwilling or I feel torn because... Thank You very much!

In my experience, sometimes the person really does want advice. It seems to me that a good rule of thumb is to begin with offering empathy, while keeping in mind that if the person says, “Don’t waste my time empathizing, just tell me what I might be able to do!” then they probably are being sincere in a preference for advice over empathy in that moment. Sometimes a person’s need for clarity is more active than their need for empathy or connection in a given moment.

What do you do when the other person just cuts off communication in a conversation? As in, saying that the subject is now closed. Then they walk off and close the door.

Thank you for sharing

Wow! That way of dealing with money really moves me. I would like to add to the "shifts": to shift from hoarding resources to flow

Thank you for this Shantigarba, I agree it can feel vulnerable to openly discuss this way of offering & receiving. I feel always in an internal journey of balancing generosity with business saviness. In terms of how it is received by people coming to my service, it seems to be received somewhere along the spectrum of skepticism & inspiration….and then simple confusion that this way exists. Gratitude for the hugely helpful video.

This is amazingly helpful. Thank you!

1. Nothing wrong with anger 2. You can’t solve the term using the same king of thinking that created it in the first place: i.e. Anger is not “wrong” 3. The root cause if anger is our thinking: what should happen / should not happen 4. Find the life force in it 5. Guided reflection to find the life force inside a situation

Wonderful

Beautifully done, Shanti. How NVC is not a magic potion but is very powerful. Takes time but in the long run it takes less time than "normal" communication. NVC SHOULD be the "normal" every day communication!

listen this is the way to do it