Some women Ive known weaponize being a victim by traiangulating against th actual victim who's actually being abused and paint the victim as the aggressor when he's just reacting to the abuse , it's disgusting but now that years have past and occasionally I run into those women they obviously aren't too happy and still single playing the victim while antagonizing those who even slightly inconvenience/disagree with them in the smallest manner , same kind of women who make false rape reports and lies ,

We like to be prepared for likely outcomes. We hate being blindsided. We like to plan for what's to come. We assume the worst because most of the time we don't have a positive experience for comparison, on top of negative experiences are easier to come to mind overall. We jump to conclusions when we don't have enough information to have fact based intuitions. We fear betrayal and have trust issues so we take everything with a grain of salt from anyone. We almost border on persecutory delusions/ideas of reference and become paranoid due to anxiety. It's hard to articulate our thoughts and feelings because of the big picture, it's hard to elaborate said picture. Especially, when there's constant information coming in simultaneously. It's like talking to a sketch artist, having to describe a person, place etc with enough detail to paint a picture for others to visualize. We can seem to interrogate people just because we're intrigued by the human aspect of life or whatever the current situation is. Is your son neurodivergent? I have Asperger's, ADHD, borderline personality disorder and OCD. Your son has similar reactions and responses that I and others experience.

Wow! This is so informative. Thank you for sharing!!

Great video!

I told my ISTP wife i was feeling depressed. I didnt know what brought it on. She began talking to me like i was a check engine light then told me i was making her worry that i was going to act out. I assured her i was just communicating information. It was hard because she offered no warmth and just stopped talking and went to bed. It was a bitter pill to swalllow knowing i was 100% alone in dealing with it. I end up being more concerned that my affect will cause problems for others, so i usually bottle things up and eventually get over them on my own. Sometimes, i just want to feel like i can let my guard down and not bear the weight of the world and my emotions. But im also realistic and i cant say she is a bad person when its her cognitive functions that explain it all. Like you explain, her emotions can come out spontaneously and rarely so. So i told her truthfully that i probably needed warmth and that i know ill get over it on my own somehow. She was upset at the fact... You know, that her Ti cant fix depression with questions. So she will be upset and distant for a while but she will eventually forget and just be glad that im not being dramatic with having negative emotions.

Intp: The problem is majority only NT / dominant thinking & intuitive types will take the time to look into personality styles and take the time to understand and accommodate to the needs of others , essentially we are the ones adjusting for everyone else's needs ... I could send this video to a feeler / sensor doms and there's only a possibility they will watch the entire video and learn something ...

I'm amazed there are no comments!! As an INTP, this is the best description of them I have ever seen!! You REALLY get them! You've summed up all my strengths and weaknesses!! INTP's are probably the "weirdest" type. Almost no one gets them! I'm wearing my W.E.I.R.D. t-shirt (Wonderful, Exciting, Interesting, Really Different). I wore it to Thanksgiving dinner yesterday, doing my usual of saying weird things and asking weird questions. I am always coming up with new or weird ideas!! If people don't like or get me, oh well. It's rather be authentic than fake, like most people. I'm not sure I've ever seen anyone mention that INTP's really don't care what other people are thinking or feeling, it's only what we are thinking that is important. I don't want to be bothered with other people's problems. And I CANNOT STAND confrontations!!! My ESFJ wife is very emotional and will pick a fight with anyone for any reason!! I should just wear a "cringe" mask whenever I go anywhere with her!! She has told many people, who are experts in their field, that they don't know what they are talking about because they will not say what she wants to hear! I'll end this rant now, I have other things to work on.

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Im on a half of the video and can say that all what was said refers to ENFPs as well

As an "ISTP," a "gifted" one intellectually, and a gray beard at that, I have a few observations to share; it may have been "Mr. Toads Wild Ride" but I would happily do it all over again, there is no such thing as "toxic masculinity" but their are masculine men who find themselves in a world increasingly toxic to them, the scale of "We" vs. "I" has been unbalanced heavily toward the "We" for so long that it will likely be the end of western civilization as "We" know it, and I am truly blessed, in more ways than I could have ever imagined, particularly as a young man... Godspeed, to you and yours.

my parents used to think I’m autistic cuz I was distracted shy hate crowds refuse to go to family meetings with them rarely express emotions always fight in school cuz I don’t know how to avoid bullies just beat them and i was so curious there is nothing I haven’t dismantle hair trimmers microwaves vacuum cleaners motors drills motorbikes electrical panels literally everything sometimes i can’t sleep unless i disassemble the new appliance that my family bought and i was reckless and impulsive never care about the consequences I’m so grateful that i’ve never been injured

Actually amazing and accurate advice, knowing these types. Much better than most videos which are romanticised and un-detailed, relaying inconsequential information.

Pretty amazing stuff - coming from an ISTP. Very good video.

Most Pleased with your delivery style & the depth of insight you share as you bring to the table. So pleasant, a dose of Cryptonine glows in the dark.

Insightful information on these MBTI types! I stumbled upon your channel through the KZbin algorithm today. My MBTI channel does the same. Thanks for sharing! 🌟🌟🌟

I can't wait to watch the next 2 videos in the series

Absolutely amazing description of what I have been dealing with in my small business and my operations manager a very long term employee 23 years. This employee refuses to follow any direction. Use KPI,s implement accountability or reporting. Anger, tantrum, insubordination, sabotage, envy, jealousy....Finding this video tells me I am not alone, explains the boundaries and give's me some tools to deal with the situation. 25 years ago a owner would just let them go.... employee also knew there place with mutual respect. I need you and you need me. Since covid 19 the entitled don't need anyone.

Oh wow, Insightful series of information on this ENFJ type! I encountered your channel through the KZbin algorithm by chance. Thanks for sharing! 🔥🔥🔥

Sorry Noooo- massive difference between SF and NF types!! We only have Fe on common and that’s it!!! You actually talking about ESFJ here 💯

Bravo 👏 Thank you 🙏 so right 💯💜

Woah this was awesome, thank you so much 😁

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I am kinda INFP... I mean, as I know, usually people have combined personality types. INFP fits me good, and although creativity and ability to see and feel deep and "different" things than other people is great, it makes me feel really lonely... My "place in world" is like an edge between mystery and knowledge, that, as it feels for me, almost nobody around me understands. So I think, it is great idea for this personality type to write books, articles, and to try to teach others about complicated, previously unknown, and scary-to-explore topics. I tried to "push" myself in public and be more social, but it just doesn't click for me.

Thanks so much! This was so insightful and informative. Keep up the great work!

This is spot on, and I’m glad YOU are the one saying it, so I can show them this video and say “see, it’s not just me.” I think what you said about struggling to listen to the INFP devalue themselves and getting caught in constantly reassuring them is really important for long term respect and health in the relationship. They ARE, objectively, to everyone else, wonderful in all the ways that matter. And in the INFP mind, it’s all insincere flattery of people being polite because they don’t see the “flawed” me. In reality we all see the flawed me, we just think it’s trivial in comparison to the positives and can’t understand why the INFP keeps taking it back to the same place of self-doubt in the face of love and acceptance. Understanding it as an unconscious process to be worked with in a loving, and boundaried, way has helped a lot. Thanks for this video, I will definitely be checking out the rest of your content. KZbin has been such a great resource for MBTI over the years, but it’s really special when experts like you can come on and share!

Very meaningful presentation and highly relatable. I call it the "reverse Picasso syndrome". He said, "good artist borrow, but great artists steal." But, unlike Picasso who had a wildly high sense of self-esteem and success, I always carry this slight sense that whatever I do (creatively) is an assemblage of a great many others' works or contributions which gets reformed, remouilded or reinterpreted while in some ways feels a bit like thieft. In reality, there is nothing unusual about this as that is the case for most things, while maintaining a grounded sense of balance, modesty, positive self-critique and sufficient confidence can be tricky. Much thanks!

As soon as this person opens their mouth, it does not matter what the subject, even the weather, my blood runs cold, they could be a p *******th.

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4 quadrants: 1. What? - logical, linear, analytical 2. What if? - intuitive, integrative 3. How? - mechanical, systematic 4. Why? - values, purpose, meaning

Having to tip toe around on egg shells in a professional setting is sickening to the soul. Most people will look for a new job these narcissistic leaders cause the organization to lose valuable talented members.

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I’m not going to pander to a narc and your recommending that we do just perpetuates the problem rather than calling it out. The only realistic option is to get another job.

No they cannot change. There are numerous diagnosed narcissists on Quora who admit minimal change after ten years of therapy …

Very clear examples. Thank you.

Thank you for making this very informative video, it’s much needed in this day and age. Many of us certainly feel the discomfort this mindset brings, sadly it hinders many from succeeding. It’s great to know how to identify and deal with this issue at work wether remote or not. Great video. 🙏👍🏼

I needed to hear this today! Thanks

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Not sure my current boss is a narc or not but he has certain weird 'tells' I'd like to share. False empathy, especially after giving an infodump or large assignment, usually with the phrase, "I would be impressed if you finished this 100%. I know it's a lot to remember". Curiously he proceeds to give more info or expectations after doing this as if he didn't say anything. Also, he pre-grades me with expectations with subtle threats of underperforming, such as, "you won't like me if I find out you did that," or in the other direction, "I don't care I won't review you too harshly if you don't do this" I think he fancies himself my grade school teacher but we're both in our thirties and I don't have time to play shenanigans with this guy. The best tactic I've found is to be unmoved by their threats, and ask them to expand on what they will do to you out of mere curiousity and tell them you'll do your best and leave it at that. Another weird tic of his that I'm unfortunately familiar with is if you fawn over him (probably a vulnerable narcissist) and feel sorry for him he'll either immediately change the subject or (I'm not exaggerating) leave my statement totally unacknowledged in dead silence. My theory is this changes the power dynamic so a 'subordinate" showing empathy triggers their anger because it makes them feel like you don't respect their position over you. Sort of like a peasant feeling sorry for a king. Another issue with these people is they love to contradict you, especially if they have power over you even if they share the same opinion but if you correct them they'll never forget that

This dude obviously feels like he needs to yell at his spouse and kids. So sad, but a sliver lining is that now he's aware and MAY be making changes. There are a ton of ppl like this in many industries.

very useful! thanks

I would really appreciate a video about strengths and struggles to overcome in an ENTP x INFP relationship

Phenomenal. Thank you!!!

Great & Very helpful video. Thank you🙏🏾

Food for thought! How does dopamine play into this? I lost 50 lbs only to put 25 of it back on. I've come to the conclusion that I have a food addiction.

I found this video very helpful in dealing with my step son. It gave a lot of answers and helpful tips. I hope this video gets more traction it is deserving! God bless looking forward to watching your other videos!

thank u entp me looking into it

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