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@minaak4185 18 күн бұрын
Here in Pakistan...if you get divorced it's worst for women and men can marry and no one blame them ... all the blame goes to women....no one marry her if someone marry her he abuse her more...so she tolerate her first husband for the rest of her life ....our culture is really bad and we are suffering.... including myself...but now i know my Rights that Islam gave me and first time I took stand for myself....my parents are afraid of the society but I'm not i fear ALLAH ....I suffered a lot.... I'm still healing Alhamdulillah getting better day by day....left my husband , I'm not divorced yet but living separately with my kids..
@nusratnasrin9641 2 ай бұрын
I'm 30+ still under parents order, those words are still pinching me inside. Everyday my parents fight with me, say bad lines, trying to make me feel low inside. I'm not married yet. I have no place escape from this house. Suchs words sometimes made me feel to get suicide. For sake of Allah i'm still alive because i afraid of my Allah. I talk to my Allah for long time alone, my mother says i'm insane.
@hayasak 2 ай бұрын
I am going through a divorce, please pray for me if this marriage is good for my duniya and akhirah then May ALLAH Subhanahuwat’ala save my marriage, AMEEN YA RABBUL ‘ALAMEEN. YA ALLAH, forgive me, my parents and whole muslim ummah Ameen.
@nusaibaumarmadaki3418 5 ай бұрын
My mother needs to see this. She always make me feel like I have the lowest IQ on earth and she want me to understand that she doesn’t means to hurt me. It hurts even more when she’s trying to justify it.
@nusratnasrin9641 2 ай бұрын
I am having the same pain
@TornadoGamerX6969 5 ай бұрын
my own mother hates me as she sees me as her competition. she thinks i ll take her place, she abuses me verbally and cruses me saying " you will have a worst of lives, you will end up in worst position, u will die ,this that. i m very worriied, i cry alone, as it makes me worry that what if my mothers bad dua comes to me. in future. what do i do please someone help me.
@TornadoGamerX6969 5 ай бұрын
my own mother hates me as she sees me as her competition. she thinks i ll take her place, she abuses me verbally and cruses me saying " you will have a worst of lives, you will end up in worst position, u will die ,this that. i m very worriied, i cry alone, as it makes me worry that what if my mothers bad dua comes to me. in future. what do i do please someone help me.
@papafall4158 6 ай бұрын
Akhi I seen grown ups that believe in their minds they are incapable because their parents called them that when they were children... Very careful how you address your kids, don't make them feel worthless they will grow up believing they are that like calling them dummy, retarded, stupid and some parents do that actually. Sad
@maliaimorofriedrichs6101 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so mach for this advice
@Nabeel.Kamal.Ansari 6 ай бұрын
Haha so true .......😂 There is so much hikmah ❤
@noreengulalai6325 6 ай бұрын
Jazakum Allah khair Mufti Menk for saying this….
@jamrawat8251 9 ай бұрын
I sugest everyone shows this to there parente❤
@sittingduck1735 11 ай бұрын
This video is soothing to my hurting heart. I know my mother would never watch this video or even agree with it, even though she will quote Mufti menk where it benefits her agenda, but it still feels good to know that Allah has given children the right to be respected too.
@unknown_source3 11 ай бұрын
No bastard (parents) can understand this.
@Parveenjalil 11 ай бұрын
My parents are toxic and they don't even care about me
@user-zx7mx3tp1m Жыл бұрын
My husband beat me today, he always do this to me, bcoz of my in laws, my in-laws mentally tortured me, i stopped talking with them, that's why he hit me, i have 1 baby boy, i living in abroad, so far away from my parents, i miss them so much, my mum and dad both are physically sick, i dont want to include them in my matter, they will be broke if they know my condition,situation, today he hit me on my arms,face, and bally in front of my baby, my baby cried so much for me, pls make dua for me i m so helpless,hopeless,
@syedafarrah1381 Жыл бұрын
May Allah heal you dear sister.
@AYESHAH0212 11 ай бұрын
Allah reham kare sister aap ki...and protect you
@rm3769 3 ай бұрын
Recite a lot of Astigfirullah and watch miracles take place. I mean a lot through whole day and night and as much as you can. May Allah (swt) grant you ease, In Sha Allah
@Famida123-i8z 2 ай бұрын
@rm3679- that gives me so much hope . I have heard alot about istigfar. I will reciting alot
@hayasak 2 ай бұрын
May ALLAH give you, your child, your parents peace in this duniya and Akhirah Ameen. And May ALLAH give your husband proper hidayah to love, respect, be loyal and care for you AMEEN ya Rabbul ‘Alameen.
@Tsuru442 Жыл бұрын
My mom saying,”I’m human too” in a argument *what about me.. ?* 😢
@islamisthetruthforever1323 Жыл бұрын
Being dealing with this since now
@fathimahasana5556 Жыл бұрын
My parents are mentally attacking me right now. When I see this video tears do fall from my eyes. May Allah give hidhayat to all parents who are abusive to their kids. Please add me in your duas. I have been struggling from my father for a long time. I am a divorced mother with a son. He not only controls me but also my son. This is so intolerable😢 😢
@Peace-tg3ip Жыл бұрын
Have patience sister. I am also facing the same situation. Inshallah things will change. Just don't leave the path of Allah. If Allah is with you nobody can do anything to you.
@monirasultana2124 Жыл бұрын
Ya Allah plz help me give me currage to leave them . Give me rijikh.... give me shelter to live with my innocent child ..give me mental strength and peace without him
@ayeshajulekha6889 Жыл бұрын
Same here sister, may allah bless us with peace of mind.
@leonaarslan Жыл бұрын
what if the kids mentality damage already from abusing parents? i feel pity for their mental health 🥺
@gazalaamer2670 Жыл бұрын
My husband tell me to walk like that only and i fear I'll fall If i donot obey I get trashing from him
@jamalsclips4809 8 ай бұрын
That’s life tho
@gazalaamer2670 8 ай бұрын
@@jamalsclips4809 what does that mean
@Qoranwisdom Ай бұрын
Share this video with your husband
@gazalaamer2670 Ай бұрын
@@Qoranwisdomif sharing videos would change his perspective i would have shared thousands of videos .some men don't want to change .he belongs to a very misogynist society
@gazalaamer2670 Ай бұрын
It means he wants me to walk looking down .I have stumbled a lot times but if I look up and walk .I am being accused of being a character less woman
@thecalmingspace7242 Жыл бұрын
I use to attract these types of men in my life all the time. I still get flashbacks!
@elvirawidyatiofficial8333 Жыл бұрын
Bismillah May Allah makes us and our family stay away from toxic people... Aamiin.. May Allah protects us all from toxic people.. Aamiin
@khattak9376 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think these type of parents care if they’re damaging their children and them watching this video is pointless because they never see fault in themselves
@easyak Жыл бұрын
Funny thing is most Muslim parents won’t see this but the kids that are being abused will
@5DailydsignZ 6 ай бұрын
How true that is. GHAK-TRUTH
@piscesgirly 4 ай бұрын
True... Victims are watching this
@ambareenkhan3828 Жыл бұрын
My husband abuses me doesnt spend on our household expenses n teaches my 2 son to be like him tells them also not help me abuse me n my parents He himself tortures me mentally physically monetarily n teaches my sons also same
@thecalmingspace7242 Жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺 so sorry my love. Is there anyone you can reach out for help?
@MoGoBo97MovieMaker Жыл бұрын
Astaghfirullah, I am afraid that my parents ended up being my arch nemeses. Forgive me if I sinned.
@Sarah.T5Med Жыл бұрын
Baraka Allahu Fik Mufti Menk! It's so important to mention this! The domestic violence unfortunately became very comment! I myself quitted an abusive husband
@juiceandchill963 Жыл бұрын
My parents , call me names , not animals or stupid , they call me the worst of names , son of a bitch is what they call me and there's more , deeply hurt , inshallah one day they understand
@misba2282 Жыл бұрын
Desi toxic culture
@misba2282 Жыл бұрын
It is not the abuse that kills a victim rather the culture of the society that they live in.
@EllenCPickle Жыл бұрын
JazakAllahKheir ! I really needed to hear this!
@mimicoeur5823 Жыл бұрын
I think that when my mother film die, if she die before me, I will fell relief.
@HiraM0910 Жыл бұрын
My parents both Narc. Hated each other. Now they used their negativity to sabotage my life. Suffered black magic.. all I see Allah is watching... now I am jobless... no proposals... penniless... waiting for Allah's miracle. His kun. Waiting for so long
@Notmytoe Жыл бұрын
My parents sabotaged me like that as well. Turning down good proposals before even asking me and trying to push me into abusive marriages instead. Sabotaging my career a lot. Stay strong because just suffering through this will be a reward for us in the end. People's lives can flip in a year when the time is right. Just keep doing your best to pass the test until then. Also read the evil eye protection dua every morning and evening. No matter what, your parents are never going to be bigger than Allah.
@fatmayusuf1954 Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that me sinc my father died my sister the old one she abuse 😔 me all the time and my mother never cares 💔 she call me abusive words all the time no matter what I try to do to impress her it never work I don't know why I just her to tell me she loves me she will talk to ather people kids nice but me she gets along with my sister and my youngest brother but not me I try I need her love but never got it I don't know if she will try I was 18 when a guy came to marry me my sister and my mother say no no 1 time but 5 times I give up in life walahi my family members they don't care how you feel I don't want my mom to go to hell I did a lot for her every work at home I will do it but she never said bless you I try to kill my self but Allah will punish me I don't want that I want to learn quran learning about my religion but no money when I ask my family for saport they promise They will help but they are laying I will love to go to madrasa and school so I can learn I don't care about anything I just want to learn quran I try to win my mom love but I don't want her love anymore I want to go back to Allah
@fatmayusuf1954 Жыл бұрын
If any one will help me I need help walahi I promise to do good in my studies I want to have noleage
@Notmytoe Жыл бұрын
@@fatmayusuf1954 I will pray for you too ❤
@S.Lanap63 Жыл бұрын
Pray , show your love to God and emigrate to another country . Thats what I did and Al hamdurillah my life is much better here in the UK
@illmeeillmee9373 Жыл бұрын
lol, does he think ABUSIVE ppl are going to use anything loving? thats like me advising shaitan to be nice
@tamilnadu4845 Жыл бұрын
What to do parents any time curse to children
@verasworld3028 Жыл бұрын
Perfectly spoken My honorable. May God bless you for your Courage by speaking out the truth to many ignorance People. It’s time to stop all These wicked mindset towards many women.
@rabiamisba1839 Жыл бұрын
He always insults me uses bad words. I'm very much depressed
@AYESHAH0212 11 ай бұрын
Same here sister...i go through everyday emotional abuse
@jumanahaseen8816 10 ай бұрын
Same ya allah I’m tired .. I’m a sad soul please help me Allah
@rabiamisba1839 Жыл бұрын
MY husband is very abusive
@greys8363 Жыл бұрын
The Problem is when the wife is a convert, what to do then? Very hard situation.. Allah is the best of protectors and He is the most just, only He can make a way out, may Allah help us all
@MariaRestrepoSanabria 6 ай бұрын
true! Sometimes it's the fear of speaking up to the families, they will judge all Muslims and not try to make things better between the couple, but most are supportive of their daughters leaving those situations. Sometimes the husband or his family don’t see the responsibility of protecting and intervening against the abuse perpetuated by one of them...
@AAslan-wd2ze Жыл бұрын
Subhan Allah
@muslimbacha7482 Жыл бұрын
My father abusing us from the day of my birth 😢😢😢😭😭😭
@Bookworm-tk5qr Жыл бұрын
Run away from him ASAP. Your whole life is in danger.
@wirlesemoon2859 Жыл бұрын
My dad call me bad words and last night he was about to hit me and sometimes he hits if I don't no how to do the work right then tell me how to do it but he makes fun of me may Allah bless us ameen and it's been 3 years I am not going to shool he is disturbing my life 😢
@jamrawat8251 9 ай бұрын
@@wirlesemoon2859my Allah GUID your father ❤
@sairafarouk9280 Жыл бұрын
I know parents that dont want to listen to lectures like this . The abuse physical and mental is so damaging that they resort to drugs and when the mother trys to teĺ the father she just get shut down
@fairoozsadaf3450 2 жыл бұрын
The most emotional, financial, physical and moral abuse is bringing a life into existence in this world
@shamimtemour 2 жыл бұрын
After 22years of marriage I was emotionally abused due to my husband being too close to his childhood sweetheart. It became emotional infidelity and every time I told him how I felt, he just manipulated the situation or gave me the silent treatment. For months I endured this and almost lost my mind. He wouldn’t stop talking/seeing her, so he left. It’s been a couple of months, but I still feel confusion and pain. He has ignored our children and is very unkind when we have contact. May Allah protect us from these types of people, the one’s who expect us to fear them when we should only fear Allah...Ameen 😔🤍🤍
@freehaajaib5808 Жыл бұрын
Very sorry to hear about your story sister. Lot of silent victims in our society unfortunately. 😢
@AYESHAH0212 11 ай бұрын
May Allah ease your pain sister
@iamriz812 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah give light to my husband 😭😭😭😭
@chione_india 2 жыл бұрын
Dying every fraction of sec coz my mother is so abusive and curses me even on jummah during qutba time...I'm scared of the curses 🥺🥺🥺...even though I didn't do anything she cursed and abused me.....im living in totally far away family from Islamic teaching 🥺🥺🥺🥺
@NM-lo3jv Жыл бұрын
I’m having that too but still Alhamdulilah Allah’s great 🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️
@FV-rl5lv Жыл бұрын
The curses will not come true if you are not deserving of it. Allah is most just.
@Bookworm-tk5qr Жыл бұрын
You should have boundaries and space between them to secure yourself. You can escape, you can run away from those who damages you.
@toxyz9490 2 жыл бұрын
Kids have feelings too , they don’t like to be called animal names , it hurts their feelings , it is mental abuse or bullying continuously over and over . Parents are sometimes worser than shaytan because shaytan wouldn’t do this .
@Ae-iw1gp 2 жыл бұрын
🐙♥️
@nadrahshazareena5111 2 жыл бұрын
my parents cant remember all the trauma they cause ..
@shaherbano6632 Жыл бұрын
My parents think that what they do is correct … even if it’s abusing their own children in the most worst way
@noneofyourbuizness Жыл бұрын
@@shaherbano6632 yes that is how my narcissistmum think too, she is really masculine and is proud to have a "hard heart"