STOP ABUSING YOUR WIFE! TOXIC & ABUSIVE MARRIAGE | ABUSIVE PARENTS IN-LAWS |MUFTI MENK |

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) enjoined kind treatment and honouring of one’s wife, and he described the best of people as those who are best to their wives. He said: “The best of you are those who are the best to their wives, and I am the best of you to my wives.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 3895; Ibn Maajah, 1977; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.
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[@hayasak]

I am going through a divorce, please pray for me if this marriage is good for my duniya and akhirah then May ALLAH Subhanahuwat’ala save my marriage, AMEEN YA RABBUL ‘ALAMEEN. YA ALLAH, forgive me, my parents and whole muslim ummah Ameen.

[@monirasultana2124]

Ya Allah plz help me give me currage to leave them . Give me rijikh.... give me shelter to live with my innocent child ..give me mental strength and peace without him

[@ayeshajulekha6889]

Same here sister, may allah bless us with peace of mind.

[@minaak4185]

Here in Pakistan...if you get divorced it's worst for women and men can marry and no one blame them ... all the blame goes to women....no one marry her if someone marry her he abuse her more...so she tolerate her first husband for the rest of her life ....our culture is really bad and we are suffering.... including myself...but now i know my Rights that Islam gave me and first time I took stand for myself....my parents are afraid of the society but I'm not i fear ALLAH ....I suffered a lot.... I'm still healing Alhamdulillah getting better day by day....left my husband , I'm not divorced yet but living separately with my kids..

[@shamimtemour]

After 22years of marriage I was emotionally abused due to my husband being too close to his childhood sweetheart. It became emotional infidelity and every time I told him how I felt, he just manipulated the situation or gave me the silent treatment. For months I endured this and almost lost my mind. He wouldn’t stop talking/seeing her, so he left. It’s been a couple of months, but I still feel confusion and pain. He has ignored our children and is very unkind when we have contact. May Allah protect us from these types of people, the one’s who expect us to fear them when we should only fear Allah...Ameen 😔🤍🤍

[@freehaajaib5808]

Very sorry to hear about your story sister. Lot of silent victims in our society unfortunately. 😢

[@AYESHAH0212]

May Allah ease your pain sister

[@lisal440]

I have been psychologically tortured. He doesn’t care my wants and needs. I should obey and shut up. 😕

[@letstalkmoms9578]

May Allah bring you absolute comfort and healings

[@JP-mi8cc]

Same here I have two kids & I don't know what to do I am afraid to take a big step what if I burden my parents? I am tired of this life but I don't know how to deal with it...

[@fateeblue4270]

@@JP-mi8cc please plan ur escape plan if ur family are not supporting . save up enough it may take a while but that's the only way . the day i left i took all the furniture already rented a studio apartment it was small for my kids but it was better than staying with him then i blocked after 2 weeks i did a khul'i and told him then changed my number

[@JP-mi8cc]

@@fateeblue4270 I wish i could but I don't have much education past intermediate & no job experience...lol I was just thinking about running away last night

[@shaizzz123]

@@JP-mi8cc dnt do this complete your eduaction.. privately at home..

[@Sarah.T5Med]

Baraka Allahu Fik Mufti Menk! It's so important to mention this! The domestic violence unfortunately became very comment! I myself quitted an abusive husband

[@tomek1867]

May God bless you brother. Your words are true voices of Islam.

[@verasworld3028]

Perfectly spoken My honorable. May God bless you for your Courage by speaking out the truth to many ignorance People. It’s time to stop all These wicked mindset towards many women.

[@greys8363]

The Problem is when the wife is a convert, what to do then? Very hard situation.. Allah is the best of protectors and He is the most just, only He can make a way out, may Allah help us all

[@MariaRestrepoSanabria]

true! Sometimes it's the fear of speaking up to the families, they will judge all Muslims and not try to make things better between the couple, but most are supportive of their daughters leaving those situations. Sometimes the husband or his family don’t see the responsibility of protecting and intervening against the abuse perpetuated by one of them...

[@noreengulalai6325]

Jazakum Allah khair Mufti Menk for saying this….

[@mohammadiafshan]

So so true, needed this very much..

[@thecalmingspace7242]

I use to attract these types of men in my life all the time. I still get flashbacks!

[@7limonuh271]

That is why l love mufti menk

[@EllenCPickle]

JazakAllahKheir ! I really needed to hear this!

[@user-zx7mx3tp1m]

My husband beat me today, he always do this to me, bcoz of my in laws, my in-laws mentally tortured me, i stopped talking with them, that's why he hit me, i have 1 baby boy, i living in abroad, so far away from my parents, i miss them so much, my mum and dad both are physically sick, i dont want to include them in my matter, they will be broke if they know my condition,situation, today he hit me on my arms,face, and bally in front of my baby, my baby cried so much for me, pls make dua for me i m so helpless,hopeless,

[@syedafarrah1381]

May Allah heal you dear sister.

[@AYESHAH0212]

Allah reham kare sister aap ki...and protect you

[@rm3769]

Recite a lot of Astigfirullah and watch miracles take place. I mean a lot through whole day and night and as much as you can. May Allah (swt) grant you ease, In Sha Allah

[@bkhan1877]

@rm3679- that gives me so much hope . I have heard alot about istigfar. I will reciting alot

[@hayasak]

May ALLAH give you, your child, your parents peace in this duniya and Akhirah Ameen. And May ALLAH give your husband proper hidayah to love, respect, be loyal and care for you AMEEN ya Rabbul ‘Alameen.

[@abedakorkusuz1356]

I agree to the point to give support for any matter

[@rabiamisba1839]

He always insults me uses bad words. I'm very much depressed

[@AYESHAH0212]

Same here sister...i go through everyday emotional abuse

[@jumanahaseen8816]

Same ya allah I’m tired .. I’m a sad soul please help me Allah

[@iamriz812]

May Allah give light to my husband 😭😭😭😭

[@shaziasalim2026]

😭 may Allah give hidaya my husband

[@skiydiv88skiline93]

My husband if he's beating me, his parents will not say anything,he will call his mother to help him kicking me from his car, his mother will come to me and says the mans like this, beating and cheating.i don't know what I have to do 😭😭😭

[@mayasyed7497]

Can you take a divorce and get a job ma'am?

[@jawedaalakozay893]

Its very hard to leaf an abusive relationship if you have kids or nowhere to go, but you have to find a way out of this before he harms you any further , mothers like that will go straight to hell first for raising an abusive son and secondly for supporting him while he abuses you but until she goes to hell you have to find a safer place for yourself in this world sister, I can feel your pain 🙏 😢

[@DJSHIREEN]

Leave him .

[@tamimarastatter7283]

May Allah SWT give you courage. Find a way to get out of that relationship the sooner the better. It’s toxic . Speaking as a mother “didn’t give birth to a daughter to get into another family to be mentally or physically tortured “. Since 2 months my daughter is back home in safety from a house full of Narzissmus mother in law, father in law and husband .

[@ambareenkhan3828]

My husband abuses me doesnt spend on our household expenses n teaches my 2 son to be like him tells them also not help me abuse me n my parents He himself tortures me mentally physically monetarily n teaches my sons also same

[@thecalmingspace7242]

🥺🥺🥺 so sorry my love. Is there anyone you can reach out for help?

[@rabiamisba1839]

MY husband is very abusive

[@salmananjum9074]

Assalamualaikum, in India men are being tortured mentally, emotionally and forced to stay in abusive marriage and threatening to file false police case. Pls make videos for mens also

[@misbahkhan5525]

There are genuine domestic violence case in india also ..where men have done wrong to womens

[@honkytonk8036]

Oh, so there is rationality?