So, you don’t put guys on social media until they give up the ring. But, if they don’t post about you b4 the ring, they’re not serious?

Bottom line: don't waste your time. Move on to someone who wants to be with you and makes an effort

I'm a dark-skinned black man and I live a reclusive life however I'm doing good for myself I have 3 cars and a house.

Didn’t know you got married . Congratulations

Thank you for sharing. And make an honest/raw video about singleness in 30s. I am now 33 and so sad/worried about my singlness. And I am.doing the actual: work/therapie/serving God/in the gym/mindfull about finances. Which makes it more frustrating because I have beeeennnn doing the work. I know it will happen but currently feeling this way.

I think there has to be some accountability on her side too. I’ve been dating for 3 years, have voiced intentions to marry for a year. We’ve both got things to work on and have been seeing an elder couple in our church. There’s been slow growth and I want to be patient but she’s less so. There’s very little accountability for her growth and our counselors don’t feel we’re ready. We don’t sleep or live together, and both pursuing our own careers but there’s maturity issues still in the way.

I am watching this video because I am a man with a dark complexion and I want to attract a dark skin woman but I don't know how to go about it. How do I attract a woman with a beautiful darker hue in a world of colorism? Dark skin women are beautiful and I am not just saying that.

So, my partner and I have been together about 3 years. We broke up for a year and got back together. Long story short, our relationship didnt end because of anything with us, but outside sources. We very much love each other and have a blended family together and I found out later on that he was actually planning on proposing but didnt. Which the reason why ended up being part of why we separated. When we got back together we both agreed that we didnt want to start over, we wanted to resume. We communicate better. Were both in a better place. But still no ring 😕 and its definitely a deal breaker for me. From the beginning I stated i wanted marriage. And how important it was to me. But nothing has happened. And when i ask its about the 'right time' 'money' etc. Obviously I'm well past the 12 month mark. And unfortunately we have kids involved. Not ours together but ours separate. But i love his son like my own and my teenager loves him. Its difficult. But how do i put my foot down on a situation like this?

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7+ years waiting , and getting close to 39 this year… after conversations, after ultimatums, after empty promises, this is just resentment building up … ending it

Mirroring never works. Ever. It’s childish, immature, and a waste of time, just like this girl.

Can you even stop waiting when you already have babies?😢

My partner and I been following each other on Instagram for a year and now unfollowed me, while we still talk to each other on there. My partner prefer to keep their dating life private or not see a reason to post their love life on social media. We think that for the moment it is not good to be together. We are not into long distance relationships. This lends itself to misunderstandings. He lives an hour and a half away from me, but will live in the same city next year. His mom and family also lives here that's another reason why he wants to move in the same city. It’s better to take it easy and next year when my partner is alive we could talk about something serious. At this time it is not advisable to maintain any relationship because he has things going on such as work. It's not the end of the world because next year we can formalize a committed relationship that we want to be in. 🥰

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He pulled away from me because i had my guard up, it’s been 3 years now & my intuition is telling me to leave 😢

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Congratulations 🎉❤ God is faithful

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Men get caught up in these as well, especially more and more these days. Situationships hurt no matter the gender. Love well, but guard your hearts a bit.

I realize he’s not the one for me but I’m afraid to hurt his feelings. But I know that how you get stuck..

Thank you for the reminder 😢

It’s been 5 years. I’m 45! I’ve discussed all this and he’s either ignored me or if he responds I get excuses after 😢excuses. I love him and he’s so good to my kids that aren’t his. Five years. I’m struggling on what to do when he knows what I want and he’s either silent or making poor ass excuses. Knowing he married before makes me think there’s something wrong with me. I question why I’m not good enough. I was straight up telling him why I want via text and no response. He pretended never happened. Worst part is we live apart. 5 years. He told me that he would move in with me (my house is nicer). Yet he’s at MY house 5 days a week but leaves to go home to sleep at his own home. I know I need to move forward but I not know how to:

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thank you for the wonderful advice

I have struggled with this too. I have to quit picking these types. Just exhausted trying to figure it out

Never take advice from a young girl. They don't know what they're talking about.

yeah he invited me to meet his friends. I can tell hes falling for me.

You are very light compared to my beautiful Uganda wife she’s super dark more like Sudanese dark, black women are beautiful 😍

When a man I was speaking with went silent guess what...I WENT SILENT too. Next!

Who cares

So, I grew up with all white people (I am white). I moved to a large city with much more diversity than I grew up & I am open to dating all races. I am finding that a lot of Black women are liking my profile on dating apps. Any tips for a white guy like me on dating Black women?

I believe the right women can make a man feel safe enough to let go of his past trauma and hurt. Not that she’s forcing it out of him but more so her being around him and comforting him. Men are different than women. When they get their heart broken they tend to take it harder and become emotionally unavailable and unstable. But usually the right person can get them back on track. I’ve done it. Let’s stop thinking men are just horrible and need to be tossed out… they have feelings too and as women we’re supposed to make a house a home… we’re supposed to be comforting and loving/ supportive. If you really like a man give him a try… stop letting single ppl keep you single… if you were heart broken would you want your dream man to pass you up bc you have “too much baggage” or would you want him to work with you? Or help you? Men deserve help as well. If some time passes and he’s still being nonchalant and doing weird things then drop him… he’ll likely come back around when he’s ready. Sometimes they can’t handle getting cheated on and then running into the perfect women because they want to believe the women will also cheat on them.

26 with 3 kids for him been together 8 years all he keep saying is one day n I think he’s right just not with me so I left

Even if put a ring on it ,your not coming on my social media until our wedding day is as simple as that because the ring is not marriage untill wedding day

I really needed to listen to this video to come back to reality. After 6 years he knows I'm not the one. Feels awful to feel rejected but feels worse to stay and keep wasting my time.

So true, men chase hard like this

the situationship in shittttt

I am completely emotionally available to my partner. I date with intentions.. i try to fix things instead of moving to next. But still I attract such men

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I like light skin women they are so attractive 😍.

Excellent explanation!

This was beautifully said! When you haven't been treated correctly you take the bare minimum as over the top? ✨ #Consistency #truthful #considerate #thoughtful

They do ,it depends on the people 🥰.

It hurts so bad. When will God take the pain away?

With mine we don’t hang out in the day time because he’s mostly sleep and works at night we see each other until 4am we went to a restaurant he buys me food talks about his struggles and past situationships and we talk about our goals and during sexy time there was one time he was holding my hand and the questions he be asking me make me feel like he catching feelings or something but then he’s always talking about the girls in his past and took one of them to NY with him today and that made me feel upset and before we got into a big argument he was talking about getting me a money bouquet with no roses because that’s romantic and he don’t wanna do nothing romantic with me I want to express my feelings and tell him what I wanted but at the same time I feel like I shouldn’t since he keep talking about he doesn’t want anything and he can’t trust females because of what someone of 8 years did to him

What if it's your fault that he goes silent. What then

I agree on the one year thing. I’m 42 and had a guy I’ve been newly seeing tell me he waits 4-5 years before making it serious. Lmao…and for that reason I am out