I’ve been asked to be a pallbearer for my uncle… I am sad to see him go under such circumstances… and I will miss him. Thank you for this video instruction. I want to make sure he is put to rest correctly after the various harmful moments of his life have occurred.
@travelinben19662 ай бұрын
For starters,lift weights.💪
@illicitryan5 ай бұрын
I have been asked to be a pallbearer for my grandmothers funeral tomorrow and im nervous so i looked up this video. It helped answer some questions so thank you
@Ryu_Shotokan6 ай бұрын
I know how to be Paul Bearer,get really fat,hold a urn and sayy ohhh yessss Welcome to my funeral parlor..now you will come Face to face with My Undertaker!!
@JewelBlueIbanez7 ай бұрын
The female funeral attendant driving the hearse was wearing 5 inch stilettos. Not the most practical or appropriate footwear for a formal traditional Catholic funeral (don’t start me on the tattoos.)
@charliefarris7747 ай бұрын
This video was informative and easy to follow. The gentleman doing the 👍🏻 throughout the video is a real cinematic star. A true professional, and master of his craft. I would have him haul my casket any day.
@wesleytoehay8 ай бұрын
Awesome video!
@raider20718 ай бұрын
Rule number 1... dont drop em
@youthboy490410 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, I’ve just been asked to be a pallbearer for my great grandpa
@mohdsaif5539 Жыл бұрын
TOTALLY PEACEFUL RACIST GROUP
@ks4willbball201 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much my grandma passed away and I asked my father to be a pallbearer so I want to thank you and god bless you
@terrywatts1060 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@cheech41 Жыл бұрын
I hate when they walk in front and grab the casket and pull it into church. It is devoid of respect looks cheap and horrible
@johnlorenz4190 Жыл бұрын
I've done it 5 times. In my opinion, accept the HONOR of being asked. Of all of the people the deceased, and their family knew........you are one of 6 that they trust with the body of their loved one. Oh, and unless what you're supposed to wear hasn't been decided upon. Wear a suit. It's ALWAYS better to be over-dressed than under-dressed. You don't want to be the only guy there in jeans and tennis shoes!!!!
@misstes89 Жыл бұрын
Is this guy single ?? Asking for a friend.(me)
@awesometacularhero Жыл бұрын
I’m honestly not sure if I saw this video before or after the funeral last year in August. But the thing is, my dad and I both had a really good friend who unfortunately passed away in August of last year, and we showed up to his funeral on the day of his funeral, and nobody asked for me to be one, but I decided to help, to carry his dead body to his grave, and my dad asked me if I was going to be a pallbearer, and I wasn’t sure if I was happy or excited to be one, but I was more than honored to be one, and I knew what I had to do, in order to be a pallbearer, and carry my friend’s dead body to his grave, to where we buried him at the cemetery. And when I showed up to his funeral on that day, there was a sign-up sheet, and there was white gloves, and I don’t remember if I did or didn’t ask what the white gloves were for, but I eventually figured it out, and I was never a pallbearer in my life up until that day. So I decided to, sign my name on the sheet, and I don’t remember if this was or wasn’t one of the funeral directors, but I was given my white gloves, as well as the boutonniere or whatever the flowers called, and what happened that day was, and it was unfortunate, the flower that was pinned on me, kept on falling off, and it happened to me twice, considering that it wasn’t pinned on all the way, but regardless of that, all I know is that I decided to, just go with the flow of what was going to happen next on that day, and I just decided to not worry about the flower falling off from me, as I decided to only carry the body and put my white gloves on top of the casket, as soon as we got to the gravesite on that day. And my dad was eventually talking to the sister of the dead guy, of our friend who passed away, and he told her that, the guy who died knew me when I was a kid, and the guy respected me as a friend, and I both loved and respected him like family, and since he mentioned that on the day of the funeral, when my dad said that to his sister, I have never forgotten that, as I have grown up in my life and lost a lot of good people, as well as my dad, and we lost a lot of people in my family, and we lost a lot of good friends, and that is why I don’t regret helping to carry my dead friend, from when he passed away in August of last year. And that will always stay with me, and I also learned, once you are a pallbearer, after you carry your family member’s dead body, or even your dead friend’s body to the gravesite, to wherever he or she will be buried, it is a really nice and beautiful and unforgettable thing, considering that you could be a pallbearer again for another day, as soon as someone who you are close to passes away, either if that’s anyone who’s in your family, or even a good and close friend of yours. And if I have to, I would absolutely love to be a pallbearer again, either if the person is a family member, or even a really good and close friend of mine, as soon as he or she passes away, and as soon as we have a funeral for him or for her.
@mariestick6636 Жыл бұрын
Nice
@ArmyScoutMom Жыл бұрын
Great info. However the thumbs up with a big cheesy smile may not be quite appropriate for the subject matter...
@Docta50 Жыл бұрын
I needed the levity of this video. Thank you for making a difficult time a little bit better
@vk0u5322 жыл бұрын
Did it today for my grandmother
@waynelennon67112 жыл бұрын
Exemplary compass Thanks
@waynelennon67112 жыл бұрын
I love the way the suits assembled
@zadejustin35763 жыл бұрын
I remember as a pallbearer carrying my grandmother’s casket to her grave. For some reason it got heavier and heavier. Later I found out that my sister was at the back lifting the bottom of the casket instead of the handlebars 🤦🏻♂️
@judgementalbooper21833 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this video. 🥺 I have only been to a funeral once at a very young age; now I'm 20 and asked to be a Pallbearer for my great gran's funeral. Very informative and most definitely appreciated. I'll be the best first-time Pallbearer I can be! 👍👍
@kristiahyou3 жыл бұрын
Thank you and I wish you the best in paying tribute to your great Gran, best wishes.
@Manwholikestrains2 жыл бұрын
me too
@jjasonbigbrain99707 ай бұрын
Literally my exact situation to the exact detail..wild Gotta go tomorrow
@josephferullo6 ай бұрын
Me four😢
@actualcasual67223 жыл бұрын
My grandma just died today, and my grandpa wants me and my 2 siblings to be pallbearers as well as my 3 cousins, and I'm honestly scared because I'm probably the weakest out of the whole bunch, and I don't want to drop her on accident and have everyone hate me.
@HenryAustinAvon3 жыл бұрын
Who is here from coffin dance
@kieseley3 жыл бұрын
1:54 that thumbs up took me out
@lordmavbmp3 жыл бұрын
thanks man, the thumbs up guy really helped me to be more relaxed though the task is still ahead. definitely going to do some push ups though
@jakobhorvath9403 жыл бұрын
This was unexpectedly great
@dawnschafer30723 жыл бұрын
My Aunt Mavis Penwarder was a honorary pallbearer
@maximusw013 жыл бұрын
I watched this before being a pallbearer at my Grandpa Gary's funeral. Informative and funny
@jamesrocket56163 жыл бұрын
How to be a great pallbearer? *Dance while carrying a coffin*
@algreen84143 жыл бұрын
Im fuckin scared man i always fuck stuff up and this is way above my normal family involvement
@ericpate133 жыл бұрын
Well I know alot now for Monday
@robdennis53323 жыл бұрын
Greatly appreciated. Thanks. We bury mom on December 21st.
@ShowSlideProductions3 жыл бұрын
Ok, at my funeral, i am going to have it set up so anyone who is chosen to be a pallbearer, needs to randomly give thumbs up, i don't care who it offends, i am doing it.
@ashleyjackson85953 жыл бұрын
It is okay about women can be pallbearer in funeral home service?
@kristiahyou3 жыл бұрын
Ashley, Yes, absolutely!
@kevinwesmolan42674 жыл бұрын
My cousin was a Pallbearer but he accidentally farted
@kristiahyou4 жыл бұрын
breanna marshall, oh my yes, this happens to everyone several times a day.
@itsyaboiherman4 жыл бұрын
👍
@jesusdiscipledon14994 жыл бұрын
This is a great video. Thank you.
@Bridger.4 жыл бұрын
My grandpa passed away the other day and I was chosen to be a Pall bearer but I’m only 13 and not that strong hope it goes well
@imjar13694 жыл бұрын
Same br
@robotnikkkk0014 жыл бұрын
=AND *NOW* YOU MUST BE DANCING UNDER CORRECT TRACK WHILE CARRYING A COFFIN,HEHE ....BY THE WAY,THAT'S AWKWARD THAT NO MEME REPEATERS IRL.....
@queenjillian39954 жыл бұрын
Last summer my dad was a pallbearer because my grandma Noreen died which made me sad 😢
@kristiahyou4 жыл бұрын
Queen Jillian I am so sorry about your sweet grandma, your Dad honored her and that my dear is so important. ❤️
@vinzchannel014 жыл бұрын
Noooo you should be ina group, play Astronomia and then dance and throw the coffin around
@yeezes31714 жыл бұрын
I thought they were going to dance the coffin
@LightningPEye4 жыл бұрын
Yeah ok..but where does the unstable dancing fit into all of this?
@joesiu49724 жыл бұрын
the dancing pallbearers are the best tho
@RealSergiob4664 жыл бұрын
Yeah to make them happy
@nolevel84364 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@VencabotArchive4 жыл бұрын
I laughed out loud at, "Once you approach the grave-site, be careful: there's a hole there!"
@kristiahyou4 жыл бұрын
I know ridiculous, but it’s supposed to be light hearted. I mean if you are doing the “how to,” on pallbearer.....we need to help you laugh not cry....
@kevinwesmolan42674 жыл бұрын
Lol
@JewelBlueIbanez7 ай бұрын
My brother did in fact trip on the hole once.
@CandyCat94624 жыл бұрын
1:52 Why isn’t this a meme!? It should be a meme!
@kristiahyou4 жыл бұрын
Forever Pony because I have no idea how to a meme #almost50