Not so sure about not talking to the cashier, I don’t think I have ever experienced that. The Seattle Freeze is SUPER REAL! We stick to our friend groups and it’s hard to infiltrate our groups. That being said, in Seattle there are so many transplants that I think you’re seeing this change to some degree. December, you gotta get out into the mountains and out of the city! There are a lot of holidays events and things to do though. Just be ready to deal with the grey days. Our weather isn’t extreme but the lack of Sun is what really gets to people. The rain is not nearly as bad as it’s made out to be. Also Seattle is basically a shell of its former glory. The city politics really have messed up a beautiful and safe city. I hope that we are going to see real change but so far the last 10 years has been a downward spiral. The Eastside, Redmond, Bellevue, Kirkland and Issaquah area is how Seattle was before as far as cleanliness and less crime. I love the PNW but there is a big part of me that is ready to leave because of the self inflicted problems that have been created.
@smoothkirby3 күн бұрын
Hi Keith! Again another awesome video with some helpful tips, loved it! Thanks for sharing, you are so delightful and inspiring... can't wait for the next one, cheers:)
@keithsdiary3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!! :))
@kenburrell62274 күн бұрын
Thanks for your review of camera technique and the disadvantage of digital over film. Its a real art to compose digital photos that dont need editing. It would be interesting to hear your tips on how to do that. I'm guessing it has something to do with lighting. That film emulation feature sounds interesting. I've had to resort to using Gimp to fix up digital photos, but if there is a better way, and I am sure there is, it would be good to know how to do it.
@keithsdiary3 күн бұрын
Thanks, Ken! The film simulation is the heavily lifter here! Similar to what photographers would do in Lightroom with something like a LUT, the Fujifilm Film Simulations bake in to the photos a unique look with no extra editing required. Some other camera brands, like the Ricoh camera I mentioned, also have a similar film simulation feature. I also use a glimmer glass filter on my camera lens, which softens the image a bit (to combat how sharp digital is) and has interesting effects to lighting! I would definitely recommend picking one up - I use the Tiffen Glimmer Glass 1.
@kenburrell62273 күн бұрын
@@keithsdiary Thanks for these tips! My camera doesnt have film emulation but I could try the filter to see what effect it creates.
@Dirtylilac7 күн бұрын
Omg this hit me like a TRUCK. Exactly a wlw Situationship turned me into being so non chalant and apathetic. You weren't alone at all:))
@bobby05147610 күн бұрын
hi all. I just moved to Seattle 2 weeks ago. I am looking for friends. I have been trying to make friends and it hasn't been easy ;(
@KatieLambie10 күн бұрын
Love that you went to Bainbridge! My husbands family is from there so we go almost every weekend to get away from the city and it’s so relaxing. I definitely recommend checking out the towns past Bainbridge like Poulsbo, Port Townsend, and Port Angelos. That side of Washington is sooooo beautiful and will be super cute in the fall☺️
@keithsdiary10 күн бұрын
It's my favorite for a day-trip getaway! I have visited Poulsbo; loved it. But need to check out Port Townsend and Port Angeles. Thank you for the recs!
@Muhluri12 күн бұрын
I only discovered my bisexuality at 21. I also went through the insecurity of not having experience. To counter that I hooked up for a month straight. Since then I haven't had any sex now that I don't feel insecure yet
@Etjecours14 күн бұрын
So much as changed for the better, there is a new vibe in this video. Lively as never before! Seattle is really good for you :) Should plan a trip in Canada soon, you will love BC!
@keithsdiary10 күн бұрын
Thank you so much :))) Yes, need to plan a trip to Vancouver! Any spots you'd recommend?
@Etjecours8 күн бұрын
@@keithsdiary Stanley Park, Granville Island, Gastown and Davie Village for sure! And Wreck Beach for very nice eye candy ;)
@keithsdiary6 күн бұрын
@@Etjecours Thanks for the recs! I've saved these for when I visit 😎
@justmeajah14 күн бұрын
Okkk why I'm late for this!!! You speak 1000% for myself 😭😭😭😭😭 I'm now in the dating delay, I'm a baby gay!!! 🥺 Are you on social media so we can follow you???
@keithsdiary10 күн бұрын
haha its okay! It takes time. I'm happy you liked the video. No other public social media right now but I'll stay in touch here :))
@darrennaro767822 күн бұрын
Hi Keith, I just watched your video and loved it! I moved to Seattle myself last year, so I can totally relate to your experience of moving across the country to chase your dreams. It’s great to see you’re settling in and enjoying the city! If you’re up for exploring Seattle together or just hanging out, I’d love to join you. Let me know if you're interested!
@repertoire896924 күн бұрын
Hi Keith, stumbling upon your channel was a lovely surprise! I'm in the midst of apartment hunting in Seattle myself, and was wondering whether you would recommend the current apartment you moved into as of 6 months ago? Any and all information and experiences you are able to share is extremely appreciated!
@keithsdiary10 күн бұрын
Yes! I like my apartment quite a bit, though you do have to be careful with downtown sometimes. I would say living on the edge of downtown (ie, downtown but near lower Queen Anne, SLU, or Capitol Hill) is best if you're looking for a high rise situation because downtown doesn't have many local spots or grocery stores. Mostly you'll be venturing out to the other neighborhoods for that stuff. Otherwise, if you're happy to live in not a highrise the other neighborhoods around here are great! Cap Hill is very young, club, gay. Lower Queen Anne is nice, there's some good food there. SLU is calm but a little boring. Definitely also check out Fremont and Ballard! I think Fremont is my favorite neighborhood overall but it's too far from my work for me right now. Best of luck with the move!
@haninakkour27 күн бұрын
Welcome to Seattle! If you ever need a recommendation let me know!
@keithsdiary26 күн бұрын
Thank you!!! Its been great so far :)
@ethanikegami825129 күн бұрын
Hey Keith - I'm glad to hear you're doing well and happy! I'm still in la, hanging out with hs friends and family which is really nice. But I'll be moving back to sf in september and was wondering - what did you do differently to make your experience in seattle so much better than in cali? I thought new grad life would be slower-paced and lonelier, but it sounds like you have a lot going on! Was it just the pedestal mindset shift, or did you actively make other changes? If so, what did you do?
@keithsdiary26 күн бұрын
Ethan! How exciting!! The mindset shift that really worked for me was just having empathy & understanding for myself that it would probably take a couple years of work before I really felt settled here. When I went off to Berkeley for freshman year, I think I just expected everything to fall into place really quickly. And then it didn't and it took 2 years of hard work to get to a spot where I liked Berkeley, which led to a lot of disappointment along the way. So when moving to Seattle, thinking to myself "okay, this is probably going to take a year or two to figure out and it will probably be lonely at times and that's okay" really helped ground me. Also - it's work! I knew almost no one moving here, so bumble bff helped me meet a couple friends. Work colleagues from other new grad hires became outside of work friends, etc. I definitely did not expect to be this settled and busy so early on but feeling very satisfied and fulfilled! Goodluck in SF! I am rooting for you. Keep me posted :)
@ethanikegami825126 күн бұрын
Yea that’s a good mindset to start with - I’ll make sure to keep it that in mind! But super happy to hear you’re doing well! I’ll definitely keep you posted - if you ever happen to visit sf, hmu!!
@kenburrell622729 күн бұрын
An insightful update on your first year in Seattle. As a former Seattle-ite, you captured in a few words the culture of the city, and the darkness that prevails in the long winter months, quickly forgotten in the brief summer months, that end with Bumbershoot. So many wonderful experiences in just 6 months. Its why Seattle is such an unforgettable place. Thank you for sharing the happiness you have found there. I look forward to hearing more of what you discover about life there.
@keithsdiary26 күн бұрын
Thank you, Ken! It's lovely to hear from you, again. I appreciate your thoughtful comment :)
@T.Moonita29 күн бұрын
Hi Keith, Thank you for sharing your experience so far! I visited Seattle in April 2023 and ever since then I’ve wanted to go back. Just like you, I’ve always wanted to live in Seattle, hence the first visit. After visiting and coming back home to Florida, I’ve had this feeling inside me like there’s something missing. I honestly feel like I left a piece of my soul in Seattle. I’ve been planning on getting ready to move there, hopefully May2025. And just like you, I find myself doing the same thing of putting Seattle on a pedestal. Like when something happens here in my life right now that I do not like, I’m always like, well I’m not going to be here for much longer. Anyways, I’m glad shared this video and looking forward to seeing more from you.
@keithsdiary26 күн бұрын
Hey! That's great you've connected with Seattle, I definitely did too when I visited before moving here! Of course the romantic Seattle is not quite the day-to-day haha, but it's a great place to be :) Good luck on your move! And enjoy what you can in Florida cause it's definitely WAY different here. I still be missing Waffle House back in Virginia ✋😩
@carlismith4943Ай бұрын
I’m moving to Seattle literally tomorrow🤭 and been obsessed with watching vlogs like this. Aiming to have that main character energy you’re putting out in this vid :)
@brandenwaggoner28 күн бұрын
moving to seattle tomorrow! hope everything went well for you today
@keithsdiary24 күн бұрын
Thank you haha! Welcome, I hope your move went well!!
@smoothkirbyАй бұрын
I watched a couple of your videos that just happened to catch my eye since I'm planning to move to Seattle in the Fall. Moving from the Bay Area in Cal. Your amazing & I love your content, thank you for letting us all know about Mr. West. I will plan to stop there some day! And I've had my eye on Bainbridge for a bit too, planning to take that tour as well. Look forward to your next video :) Keep enjoying the Emerald City. What's a favorite evening outing to pick from that you could share with us... Cheers Jenn
@keithsdiaryАй бұрын
Hey Jenn!! You're too kind :)) Goodluck on your move to Seattle! I spent a few years in the Bay Area as well and Seattle is very different but super cool! Especially the summer so far. A couple evening outing options: - Lots of good dessert spots. In the winter I enjoy Hot Cakes which serves chocolate lava cakes and in the summer after a hot day Molly Moons ice cream is local and super good! - There's some local arcade bars, axe throwing with friends, lots of beautiful sunset hikes here. There's also a hot tub boat that circles Lake Union where u and a few friends literally have a little private hot tub boat u control and can move about the bay. I still have a lot to explore here, but those are some things I've heard / done which fit the evening timeframe. Have a good move!!
@smoothkirby28 күн бұрын
@@keithsdiary Thank you for the great info and best wishes. I just saw your latest video. So happy for you - thanks for sharing how things are going for you and it sounds like some real exciting things are happening on your end. Stay well and happy.... until your next video 😃
@Btboutis2 ай бұрын
How much was the studio?
@y4bujeans2 ай бұрын
found this cuz im moving to seattle soon & watching move-in vlogs, i love ur vibe!! underrated channel
@keithsdiary2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! Goodluck with your move :)
@nesha62082 ай бұрын
I love your video! Make more ❤ It was definitely fun to watch!
@keithsdiary2 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@kenburrell62272 ай бұрын
I am amazed at the honesty, so clearly spoken. Maybe that's why it seems being alone on that special day is uncommon, when it might be a common disappointment? Just a note on that day can be heart warming, and it doesn't take that much effort. I think a lot of people have had that experience, and have kept it inside. Thank you for being so open, so articulate.
@keithsdiary2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words and compliment :) This was one of those videos I wasn't sure I would ever publish, but I'm happy it resonated.
@kenburrell62272 ай бұрын
@@keithsdiary Your efforts are priceless. The least I can do is to thank you.
@kenburrell62272 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this social issue, and for asking how your viewers approach this issue. Like you, I was initially concerned to wear some kind of protection, and I finally settled on a face shield as being more effective and practical due to the side effects of a mask( steaming up my glasses, restricting breathing, not protecting my eyes from exposure to pathogens, etc.). Now that time has gone by and we now have a more realistic assessment of utility of those paper masks (mostly limited to particulates like dust, etc.) it really comes down to good hygiene, a healthy diet, lots of clean fresh air and sunshine. Those disposable paper masks turn out to have no real benefit against nano particles, likely increase risk of infection by forcing you to accumulate toxins and breathe them over and over again, and when the mask is disposed it becomes toxic waste. Ordinary UV radiation from the sun is an effective disinfectant. I like your idea of showering after being in a place that is unhygenic. That probably does a lot of good in staying healthy.
@kenburrell62273 ай бұрын
Its wonderful that you chose to treasure these memories for the future in the form of a conversation.
@keithsdiary2 ай бұрын
Yes, thank you! I feel very lucky to have a snapshot of that time in our lives recorded.
@oznhnysllr3 ай бұрын
I never thought i can share so many common feeling about such a topic with someone from the us as a person from turkey. I am currently in collage which is like one of the most progressive in my country and everyone looks way more accepted thyself than me. I tried to catch up them in my first year and it was just... not good for me. And i experience so many similar situation that you mentioned in this video(having great dates without any physical connection due to anxiety and thinking you are the problem etc.🤦♂️). I really appreciate that you took it. It is the only video so far i felt like it's, i mean feeling like what i feel right now, is OK. And even someone from a country that lgbt people's lives are so different than my country can feel like that. Thank you🙏🏻
@keithsdiary3 ай бұрын
Thank you for spending the time to write this! I appreciate you sharing your experience and I’m happy you found a video you relate to :) It is absolutely OKAY to feel how you’re feeling; it gets better with time. Be kind to yourself <3
@sheesh1613 ай бұрын
A pointless experience imo...just wait 😅
@gaymer5593 ай бұрын
I fully agree with you about the longer dates. If you're looking for something other than just sex or a hookup, dates that last longer tend to be the most memorable and give you a better impression of the person that you're spending that time with. It helps you see if there is a connection or not easier. I do prefer first dates / meetings to be at like coffee shops or something casual. I don't necessarily like the dinner and a movie type of first date / meeting because then you feel obligated to spend a longer period of time with person that you may not click with. That and movies don't really allow you to converse with a person to get to know them that well. The dinner portion may but the movie portion tends to be you sit in silence for about 2 hours with a person. But if you go out for coffee, if you click you can turn that into a dinner or dinner and a movie later that evening if you guys clicked
@vexzite3 ай бұрын
beautiful video :) thanks for visiting <3
@richardneidich3 ай бұрын
Thanks for your videos, I know the effort needed. Its great that you are willing to share and let others know they are not too different from others. Hope you find a good date, but my recommendations is to have good friends and the date will happen along the way.
@keithsdiary3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for your kind comment :)
@kenburrell62273 ай бұрын
A hilarious parody of a business presentation, with a side-splitting documentary on Queso Dip. Most Chili's restaurants serve queso. They have their origin in TX, but they are in every western State. Have you tried Chili's?
@keithsdiary3 ай бұрын
Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed it!! :) I have tried Chili's! Super popular back home in Virginia. But it has been a while since moving out west for college and postgrad.
@kenburrell62273 ай бұрын
Most intimate conversation on dating, sharing feelings that are difficult to put in words. You have a gift for writing and speaking from the heart.
@keithsdiary3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much, Ken. You are too kind <3
@kenburrell622714 күн бұрын
@@keithsdiary I like your video diary and look forward to hearing the next chapter. Its my pleasure to say a few words of appreciation.
@kenburrell62273 ай бұрын
Lovely view of Seattle life. I lived in Ballard when I went to UW, and have many good memories of life there. Thank you for sharing such an intimate portrait of your life in Seattle.
@keithsdiary3 ай бұрын
Thank you for leaving this comment. You're too kind :))
@SpaceCadete1014 ай бұрын
Titanic - me too! I was a girl child about 1977. Did you see the mansion on line the White Star dude abandoned in grief for his family when it went down? Everything about Titanic is gripping. I'd repeatedly draw full sailed sailing ships really well when I was 9 too. The Edmond Fitzgerald gives me a glitch too.
@jakehensley37104 ай бұрын
Love the video! Moving to Capitol Hill in June with my boyfriend from Tennessee. Definitely recommend Pegasus Coffee House on Bainbridge Island if you’re looking for a new spot to try out. Also - for bus, ferry, light rail - you can get an ORCA card at the light rail stations and auto-reload it on your phone to have one card for every transit system. It especially makes getting on the ferry a lot quicker!
@keithsdiary4 ай бұрын
Thank you! I will check out Pegasus Coffee House the next time I’m in Bainbridge! Thanks for the rec. And congratulations on moving here! I hope you end up loving Seattle. For ORCA, I actually prefer the Transit Go app because they have a rewards system that gives you points for using transit options, and those points can get you free tickets. When you sign up, they give you some initial points and just from those I’ve literally never had to spend money on a bus ticket because the rewards keep giving me more and more points LMAO. I think they start you off at like 750 points and now I’m up to 4000 just from riding the bus. A bus ticket is 275. Definitely check it out the next time you’re here!
@michaelc81264 ай бұрын
Looks like a cool place to live.
@SarahEgertson4 ай бұрын
CHARLIE'S BOOKS MENTIONED
@Paladin17014 ай бұрын
Adorable.
@nekromantik20094 ай бұрын
Hi Great video! I know what you mean. When I was your age I wanted (and still do lol) want something serious but in University 90% of the gay guys just wanted casual s*x. I still have issues finding men who want that when I am 38! You are very attractive though so hope you get better mental health or see therapist.
@yjennykim4 ай бұрын
Congrats on your move!! I'm also moving to Seattle as a new grad - what neighborhood did you end up choosing?
@keithsdiary4 ай бұрын
Thank you! I ended up in downtown! I like it here so far - super close to work while also being accessible to other neighborhoods. Would also recommend checking out Cap Hill or Ballard if you enjoy the night life scene, or Fremont if you enjoy more coffee-artsy-fashion vibes! Good luck on your move!
@TheDevi784 ай бұрын
dating apps are only meaningful for 2 groups: the top5% Gigachads and women. do you dont belong to one of this groups? stay away. Addendum: ....as a straight guy.
@brettwilkins66885 ай бұрын
As a 21 yr old who came out 3 months ago… this video clicked on so many levels 🥲
@nathanbrey53175 ай бұрын
so glad i was recommended this video :)
@zacm84745 ай бұрын
welcome to seattle! im actually moving back to seattle at the end of this month from school in Oregon. Its a really great city and I don't doubt you will meet some awesome people. don't believe in the seattle freeze it will only harm you from making connections. i came across your 'dating in college being gay' video and it really resonated with me. that being said, theres so much to do in Seattle and the spring/summer will blow you away! godspeed <3
@keithsdiary5 ай бұрын
Thank you for the welcome! I’m happy to hear the dating video resonated :) And yes, I’m super looking forward to the spring! Excited to see the cherry blossoms and have the sun set at 9:30! Moving here in December and having it set at 4 was an adjustment for sure lol. Goodluck with your move back - wishing you a warm welcome home <3
@FindAReason-mi7go5 ай бұрын
Sorry to be critical, but if you want more subscribers you really need to have better lighting. The old hippy projection colors in the background are bit nauseating. and just don't suit your content. The dim light does not make you look endearing. It makes you look a bit ghoulish.
@gummy58625 ай бұрын
The way you talk is similar to Mina Le
@billTO5 ай бұрын
Imagine adolescence at 33. 😮
@mayabricio78426 ай бұрын
Ur so real for this ❤
@victornieeto6 ай бұрын
You have no idea how valuable and meaningful your videos are. You're just so genuine and relatable and sincere and as a young gay guy navigating through college i really must thank u for that. You're the best!!
@keithsdiary6 ай бұрын
Thank you! There are some videos I make which feel super easy to post and there are others that feel really vulnerable and difficult when pressing upload. This one was one of the vulnerable ones. So thank you again for taking the time to write this because it is this comment that is so meaningful and reassuring that these types of videos help others. It made my day <33
@victornieeto6 ай бұрын
🫶🫶
@sethklein44496 ай бұрын
I feel like every gay guy (myself included) has a situationship that destroys them at 20 years old
@keithsdiary6 ай бұрын
HAHA a rite of passage for sure
@solomonsodipe66696 ай бұрын
Loved the vid. I too will be moving as a new grad, and this is so relatable