today i'm 17 weeks.. Today morning i saw Thick jelly type discharge.. I think its a mucus plus.. I'm so worry.. Plz help mee.. What can i do now??

To me, meeting my soulmate, would always trump the gender of any child I would have. Romantic success is the most important thing of all. All boys, meh. All girls, whatever. Lucky in love is the be all and end all.

This is so needed and I’m grateful to have stumbled upon this video as I am deep in the trenches of depression during my pregnancy due to gender disappointment. Although I did have a girl first, I would have paid an endless amount of money to do it all over again with another girl. I just do not like any of the boy stuff. I know this is made way worse by pregnancy hormones and all will be fine when he comes out, but I am incredibly depressed and struggling. Gender devastation is more like what I feel like. Thank you for speaking up and normalizing these feelings!!

Dont give up, have faith in god, maybe you will have girl in the future❤❤❤

I love boys , wish i had 3 boys ❤ ❤❤

I've been struggling with depression and gender disappointment for two years now. Despite loving my son dearly, I yearned for a daughter. At 44, with my husband not wanting more children, I'm finding it challenging to cope and move forward. My heart and mind are still adjusting to this unexpected path.Honestly, I'm struggling to accept our family dynamics. Two years ago, I welcomed another precious son, but my heart longed for a daughter. I had saved some of my barbies and dolls and princess books.Loving him unconditionally, yet grieving the loss of that daughter dream. Now, at 44, with my husband complete, I'm grappling to find closure.

I’m 2 years into trying to get pregnant with 2 losses. I tried again this month & just trying to wait and see if it worked. I’m only about 6-7dpo but am having some symptoms I think but it could also just be my period. I hoping for the best. I don’t have anyone to share this with right now so I’m watching all the BFP videos to make me feel like I have someone to go through this with me lol . Congrats on your pregnancy ❤.

To make a genderparty if the mother already knows that she will be disappointement of one of the gender, is may not a good idea.

i have it now am so worried about this am 16 week pregnant

I have 3 daughters and will love to have a boy. But I couldn't keep on going unless its confirmed that its gonna be a boy, which is not possible, So for now 3 kids. But my family feels incomplete.

Pregnant with my 3rd boy… everything you said I feel… I’m getting my tubes tied next year for sure… I only got a NIPT b/c I knew i would need time. With my 2nd I waited until he was born b/c oh who can be disappointed with a healthy baby?! Yea I knew this time would be different. I’m not even excited to tell ppl about this. I’m glad I could quietly see the results of this NIPT alone. I feel bad because I’m just going to let my partner name him. I don’t even care. I honestly didn’t even think about a baby girl b/c I have no luck… things never go in my favor. Having all these boys revealed a lot of deep trauma I have. I know nothing about boys either. I’ll never be a maternal grandmother or mother of the bride. The daughter in law and granddaughter stuff isn’t the same… If they’re half decent men they’ll go off and do their own thing and I’ll be left alone. On top of other societal issues having 3 blk sons comes with.

This happened to me when I was pregnant with my daughter I really wanted a boy but I love my little girl just took some time to process now I’m pregnant now and hoping this a boy I don’t trust the blood work I’m waiting until my ultrasound

Best wishes

Thank you for this video to share your emotions!❤ It helped me a lot.

Having a specific gender is NEVER a 50%-50%. Men produce more and better quality of a specific gender. Pregnant with my first and it's a boy. We've decided to start saving for IVF to not end up praying for a girl (which we BOTH wanted very much).

Always be greatful that you have a healthy baby,my second baby a boy passed away at 6 days old ,My next child was a girl.

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I have been trying for years and every month I stress the two week wait. I know it will happen hopefully in 3 months of trying because I am diabetic and it very hard to get pregnant if you don’t have your sugar under control so I finally got my sugar under control and have been working very hard. My fist month did not get pregnant and I was really sad. So I have faith and hope I can get pregnant next month

I want baby boy badly god listen to me.someone pray for me pls pls pls

Pregnancy # 4 24 weeks, and this is the first time im having mucous type stuff when i wipe since week 18/19. No blood or cramps, so I'm a bit worried but not lol i have an appointment next week and will let doctor know

Thank you for being honest... I'm crying for few days already. It's going to be a boy.

Does someone know about getting pregnant a few days before ovulation and getting pregnant exactly when you have ovulation? Some scientists say if you want to have a girl you have to get pregnant a few days before ovulation and if you want to have a boy exact on that day

The beautiful thing is, i had 3 daughters, i really wanted a son!! But i didnt get one but so far now 2 of my daughter's have baby boys, so i have 2 beautiful grandsons, and my third daughter is pregnant we will find out what she is gonna have when she gives birth..she wants a surprise!!...I pray you have beautiful grand daughter's ❤️💕💖

Has anyone have tried the tricks to help conceive a girl/boy on the internet. Or has anyone tried to do the expensive IVF to make the gender selection?

You might hqve 4 a daughter next

Trust me i had this a year ago i was crying everyday

Ahhh I’m 10 weeks and I think I lost a part of my mucus plug 😢 I’m getting so anxious about it and this is the only video that has touched upon losing it this early!

I’m just going through this. I’m grieving my little girl so much, I’ve lost excitement about preparing anything for the baby, I feel no connection, I don’t like any boy names, I can’t stand boy toys.. I know I will love him, but all my close friends are having girls and they didn’t even care what gender and I really wanted a girl and I’m the only one not getting one. It breaks my heart

I found out like 3 weeks ago that I’m having a boy. I was and still am so disappointed. I sure hope I’m like you and that I get over this at least after he’s born. I never wanted any boys. Not even 1. I’m not excited at all and I’m not connected with this pregnancy. It’s not good and it scares me. Like you, I’m very girly. I’ve never been into any sports or anything like that. I don’t like getting dirty and rough housing. I have had such a hard time accepting it. Thanks for sharing this video.

Currently pregnant 🤰 and I need a son.,have been praying 🙏 for one I have two girls already So help meGod

hey.. I think I see a dream catcher on your wall, just wanted to let you know they are demonic. just be aware what you put in your home 😁

I was thinking you should adopt a little girl.

This was super helpful and encouraging. We are pregnant with our first baby and found out he is a boy. I felt so sad because Ive always envisioned myself having a daughter. Its been about 1 week since getting the news and Im still sad about it, but designing the nursery and picking out a name have been helping. Thank you for your vulnerability and honesty on a sensitive topic!

Have you considered adopting a girl?

I have two sons and a Step son. I’m pregnant with our last (unplanned) and it’s a girl. I’m so disappointed because I wanted another boy. I don’t know anything about girls, and I am scared that I won’t do a good job raising her. My littlest one wanted a little brother too. It’s just not what I thought would happen.

I felt this to the core. We just found out we are having our 4th boy. Our last baby, and I know now I will never be able to hear "it's a girl". I don't wanna be the tough mom with all boys. I want to be girl sometimes, I want to go have tea parties, I want my husband to go on father daughter dances. We will never get that chance. I cried so much and I will always have a little piece of me that feels a little lonely. I love my boys, but I grew up with 4 boys and never had that girl talk or girl time not even with my mother. I wanted a chance to finally have that. I always hear "your grand babies will be girls." I reply. "It's not the same" and it isn't because their mothers need to bond with those girls. I felt distant with my last 2 pregnancies. I had plans with my last baby being a girl. It will now never happen. 😢😢😢.

I understand the problem but as a son I would feel offended to know that my mother would have wanted another person in my place...

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I’m here years after this was posted, a few months into trying. Thank you for sharing your story. To everyone comparing your journey to hers, just stop it. Just because some have a much harder time getting pregnant doesn’t mean the feelings of those who are early in the journey are any less valid! It’s not a competition. Of course someone trying to get pregnant feels disappointed when they get a negative test, and may have some worries. She didn’t say she was struggling with infertility, ran to the doctor, etc. she just said how she felt, that’s not something anyone else can invalidate!

What type of treatment has taken ? At that time

Question after you had mucus plug come out at 17 weeks then how long far did you go before delivering

How much for a consult?

Little bubbles 😂😂 I actually felt the same. Thought I was crazy too ❤❤

So specifically what does a lost mucus plug look like...size colors textures...etc

I chose to test myself as well rather than do the glucola test and I’m glad my OB was totally fine with it!

Where do you recommend getting a big yoga ball/ exercise ball because this twin mama at 29 weeks definitely needs one too!

My third boy is a year and a half and I still cry about the daughter I don't have. It feels deep, aching, soul crushing. She was so real to me in my heart that it feels like someone died, knowing she'll never be. I sob whenever neighbors, family, and friends have girls. We have all nieces and no nephews...I can't help but wonder why everyone else got beautiful girls but I didn't. I wish above all else that I could have experienced the feeling of being told "it's a girl"! A joy I'll never know. I wish people understood that if we could choose to feel differently, all of us with gender disappointment would. I hope you're feeling better, all these years later 💗

Thank you for this. I’m currently in the massive headache after crying all night, crying on-and-off stage. It’s my first baby and I always knew I wanted a girl but I didn’t know how upset I’d be about having a boy. I thought I’d be more excited either way but I’m just not.