It’s easy, don’t date or form relationships. Men, remember the Mantra: don’t marry, don’t live with them, don’t have kids with them. If you want kids, buy quality eggs and hire a surrogate, better product and cheaper long term. Always use a condom you provide, no matter what she says. NEVER, ever, ever even glance at a Single Mother.

You are describing narcissistic behavior. Get out if you are beginning treated by anyone like this.

Now who could possibly say anything hurtful to either of you two ! People continue to get better the older they get. Talking about her is actually a much easier way of keeping conversation going with someone you do not know . . Dead right about spiteful remarks hiding behind a computer screen - things no one would ever say in person or on the 'phone .

Insecure & immature & Disrespectful & selfish !!!! Some of those things last guy I dated did ! So hurtful! A-hole ! If they wanted to, they would ! I found that out the hard way !

Treva, thank you for saying "the best apology is changed behavior". That is spot on. I'm glad I'm not the only one who believes that and says that to people.

I enjoyed the Lost in Space reference which was funny, but it's actually "danger, Will Robinson!", not Rogers. 🙂.

Not all people who appear selfish are selfish, a lot of only children simply have no idea about not being the only focus and have problems adapting. I have seen that it can be a bit sad when they admit to worrying about being too selfish. I think, the prime trait or factor here is self-awareness. How self-aware is a person, that level of self-awareness will then reflect onto others - you can call it empathy, or reflection or caring but mostly it is the ability to view life from another perspective. As no one is perfect and everyone has different triggers being a jerk or its smaller cousin being annoying can be in the eye of the beholder. Being a total Dk requires skill and talent, to keep up being totally aggravating day after day does take an effort. How do you know you're dating a jerk - easy the rate online dating is transforming and filtering out any man with a gram of empathy the only ones left online are going to be jerks or Chad but then Chad can be a jerk so bingo. Problem solved

Every nice guy out there will tell you that women prefer jerks over nice guys

Im 60 and yes...yes.....and yes!!!!!

His voice in comforting..quiet

Females like jerks. Females don’t like nice guys. That will never change. I have been a jerk, and I have been the nice guy. Being a jerk gets you sex.

I agree on the collection of data points to make a better decision.

Over the years I’ve had “friends” that were jerks/dicks and they weren’t a friend for long. I’ve dated a few jerks along the way as well. Good riddance, I say. My parents raised me to be thoughtful and respectful of others, so the idea of being a jerk just doesn’t even occur to me. I stopped being susceptible to these people many years ago after being burned. Funny thing is, they never even see that they’re being that way. Good show ladies!

Once a Psychologist explained to me that the way women show aggression is to label and judge people, my perception of women changed. Attempting to shame and insult others as a woman is the same as a man punching and kicking another person. He also expressed that attempts to use guilt and the need to be right are inherent character flaws that developed from their childhood experiences with their father mostly. Once you see through that there is no going back.

On the other hand, I appreciated online dating profiles as an introduction and opportunity for people to tell me who they truly are. Many people have the natural inclination to "out themselves" as if to say, hey look out: I tell it like it is! I'm sarcastic! or What you see is what you'll get! Maybe unlike some, I spent a lot of time studying profiles and used them as a secondary filter. Yes attraction matters. But I was far more concerned with finding a sweetheart than finding a sweet trophy 😉

Freaking jerks…

What about when a man is addicted to pornography? Isn't that him going out to have sex with other women and not bonding with me? My ex would make love with me and go in the other room to be with his computer and his penis. This is why he is my ex.

Of course Treva will have an In Living Color reference 10:01. And again guys (and gals) named Richard get dragged through the mud.😂 To Treva’s point, the anonymity of the internet allows one to say and do what they would normally never do in person, unfortunately this has bled into reality.

what may be a jerk to somone may not be a jerk to someone one else ...we all have different opinions and values

Also: Don't be a putz......😡

The thing I have to always recommend, is to give younger guys a chance! We already know we can date older, but it’s surprising how few women realize we can successfully date younger men just as easily and it doubles your potential !

I'll definitely would not be in a relationship online or offline if a person was being a jerk to me that would be a no

Depends on why this happens. If it's illness,that is.ok. if it's just not wanting too,then...

Number one sign, you are attracted to him 😂

Orgasmic meditation website OM , is on internet !

Treva is always a barrel of laughs. The KZbin algorithms should pick up on this one. I've never been accused of dickery. But I have been charged with duckery.

Treva: "Homie don't play that". 🤣 Love, love this channel; couldn't wait to hear Silke say the title 🤣 🤣!

I was given a script for Tylenol with Codeine after my vasectomy. I didn't take it. Do you think I got the jab? I never got a flu shot!!!

I resemble that remark!

There who they are this late in life entering the last quarter with the 2 minute warning coming up. String along is head games @ they belong to the phone they belong to the knight. Psychobabble beat down ! Check please🤤 my new name is Casper

There are two essential "books" online that are precursors to these ladies advice and experience in dating. Not in conflict with but in addition to. The DSM5 which can give a realistic definition of disordered personalities not hackneyed buzzwords. A point Treva brought up. The second is The Art of War , Sun Tsu,which helps with inevitable conflicts. Dating,the dynamics of dating,can be extended to other areas of life also. Surely,those other areas,work,family and politics reflect back into dating. The point of meeting another person to assess compatibility.

Confirmed...I've dated em! 😆👍

I'm more a deplorable than a jerk.

Silke a narcissist is a jerk, ladies call it like it is...

In the 4th quarter of life, this conversation was so confusing with no implementation resolve, where’s, how’s and the real differences. Just talk!

My favorite ladies! Love the title ❤❤

It’s the only thing I want in dating . The chemistry is essential but when there enjoy each other immediately and on a regular schedule… yes it’s a lover it’s about great sex , period!

An old guy says he'd rather fly fish than flirt ... unless he knows the woman is into giving good head

An old guy who chugs peppermint Schnapps and says he is very marriage averse says he'd propose to a woman who gave him good head

It happened to me. Met a guy and I liked him. Went out in three dates. All sweetness and hopes. He started texting less and less. Was a FIFO worker from the mines. In his week at home I never received a message. He literally disappeared in that time he had to share with me. He appeared one day before flying back to work and invited me to the beach as nothing happened. I asked Are u OK? I have not heard from u in a week. He said: nothing I just got busy. Needless to say I declined going to the beach and completely walked away. U should put effort into getting to know someone if u are interested. Big red flag. Do not settle for this ladies. Social media has allowed people to do unbelievable bad things and get away with it. U can do better. Do not accept this from anyone.

A woman told me she was an eager beaver when she showed me hers after a dinner date

Treva is incredibly hot and sexy.

This guy sounds like a Trumper talking about “mainstream “ media. I used to not care what political affiliation someone was until now. If you’re a current Trump supporter, we won’t be compatible. I’ve tried, doesn’t work. Smokers and Trumpers are a no go.

The woman who is talking about her boyfriend and how wonderful it is going to events with the exes together… is clueless. I believe she said she has no children she’s disconnected. She truly has no understanding of what the children of divorce or adult children of divorce experience. Her bubble includes her and her boyfriend absolutely clueless.

A 50 year old woman can sexually satisfy a. 30 year old man, can you a 30 year old woman be sexually satisfied by. 50 years old man?

For Christian’s, remember it’s called fornication. 😊

Waist of time....don't watch ....

I’m about to be 50 and never had a “true” GF because of all the games women played so not sure if I’ll find someone

Hey sills may I suggest on the bottom of your screen covers you use a color other than red because when I look at the videos my KZbin app marks watched videos red on the bottom and it looks like I already watched yours but I didn’t

True. Be mature about it.