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@kbeautician 2 күн бұрын
Are you in an abusive relationship? Early warning signs. If you’re an adult, then tolerating tiny abuses WILL damage your soul. BUYER BEWARE. Abuse at first sight…RUN.
@user-wh5mr4tr8u 4 күн бұрын
😮safely exit ladies, atleast those of you who has options i dont yet anyway
@juaninho9 20 күн бұрын
Good explanation on the family business. Not only did they make money in banking but it’s important to note that the most profitable part of their business was loaning money to governments to finance wars and imperialism. It’s not a myth but a FACT that they strongly influenced politicians and European politics.
@yoshikajohnson5958 28 күн бұрын
I think most men are abusers and the cycle will continue because they don’t have any good role models
@mrtinkish 28 күн бұрын
My abusive ex used this book to abuse me, took trained therapists to save me from it
@raskolnikov1461 29 күн бұрын
Just ordered.
@sharkeyhaddad2476 Ай бұрын
Well done
@libertyvictorbishop7695 Ай бұрын
Considering the sheer amount of information this book holds, this 30 minute summary isn't half bad. Gets the biggest ideas at least.
@user-dc6wz4dv3l Ай бұрын
Very easy to read any time of day you can pick it up and open to any page. Lundy has heard the same stories over and over from counseling abusive men each page tells a story similar to your circumstances. It's like a devotional.
@juvetafrolovaite 2 ай бұрын
You narrate so good I don't even have to read them 😂 Joking, I might actually read some of these that I find really interesting.
@reyfairburn5023 2 ай бұрын
This book helped break me out of the "I can fix him, he's a good guy deep down I swear" spell that my abusive ex-husband had me under. I wish I had read it sooner, but I'm glad I have the knowledge now.
@SKYCHICK__ 2 ай бұрын
This book is 100% trash. Absolutely terrible. Do not recommend!
@julia7200 2 ай бұрын
Why do you not recommend it?
@julia7200 2 ай бұрын
Can you elaborate why exactly? Is there misinformation or are you just an abusive ex-husband who got left because his ex-wife read this book and now you are single and mad? 😂
@ravenraven966 Ай бұрын
🤔
@wholefoodplantbasedmama5398 19 күн бұрын
This is a guy pretending to be a woman
@juvetafrolovaite 2 ай бұрын
I hate the most the mood swings they have.
@user-dc6wz4dv3l Ай бұрын
That's why they do it. If they don't get a response from you they'll try something else. Their mission in life is to do everything you hate and make you think you're everything you aren't.
@hippiehillape 3 ай бұрын
The title says 30 minutes. The video is 19 minutes. You have first lied.
@DarlinJacq 4 ай бұрын
This is not going to help Me because I AM there aNd i cant get away...
@user-dc6wz4dv3l Ай бұрын
Darlin hide the book and pick it up when you can. It's a life saver. You don't having to do anything today. Lundy heals your thoughts process from statements like I can't and he literally changes your mind to I can when I'm ready. Please
@user-dc6wz4dv3l Ай бұрын
Try writing everything down, it'll help you understand better what he is doing when you see it written down.
@SkogliJotunn 4 ай бұрын
All the talk of blinks. Leads me to a certain this is ripped, Otherwise known as stolen from blinkest
@JennineEstesCounseling 4 ай бұрын
I am interested in your comparison of this book vs "Help for High-Conflict Couples."
@davidstone5595 4 ай бұрын
I was excited to watch but the voices are annoying 😑. Next...
@mana-uv7cz 5 ай бұрын
Right it’s not because you’re not the dream girl it’s because he is entitled me wants power over you.
@practicalengineering6965 5 ай бұрын
Jordan B. Peterson ... NOT D. !!!!!!!!!! watch your steps
@robinchilds7492 5 ай бұрын
My ex got jealous when he saw me talking to my cousin.
@teralecole316 5 ай бұрын
So basically….sounds like Lundy is describing an addict and that abuse is a lifelong addiction. They are addicted to abusing. Functioning drug addicts/functioning alcoholics = do their best to conceal their addiction. Same goes with abusers= Mr good guy into everyone outside the house but a terror at home. street angels, home devils. So to conclude, addicts cannot be helped unless they kick the addiction which is unlikely.
@jtblcksheep3376 6 ай бұрын
I’ve read this book along with Dragonslippers (Rosalind B. Penfold). Both are very compelling and informative.
@pgeorge3573 6 ай бұрын
I just came across your channel and finished listening to a couple of videos. I've got no idea how you have less than 4K subs. These are really high quality summaries.
@ife3l77 6 ай бұрын
I don't know how to read
@aliciarubio2783 6 ай бұрын
I will read this later
@patwojcik1203 6 ай бұрын
I wish I would have read this book 45 years ago.
@F3tcher 6 ай бұрын
Incredible how they can compress a 30 minute summary into less than 20 minutes!
@jackgoodings 6 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness, this was my wife and my ex and my mum. Crikeys, I even recognize it in my sister. Thinking about it, it's no wonder so many more men are on the streets, failing school, losing their kids and committing suicide .. no support and being falsely accused as the abuser, which I reckon would make anyone look angry (men tend not to use the tears). It's a terrible thing to promote 'abuse' as a gender issue .. that is antiquated and damaging. Research shows, as men knew anyway, that women are more abusive and instigate physical abuse.
@ijeonu2405 5 ай бұрын
Check the stat. Men are leading
@Hansvhair 5 ай бұрын
Sounds like something hit a nerve. You must be abusive yourself lol
@ffreshfields5211 4 ай бұрын
I am so sorry you went through this. I have also faced horrible abuse, from men and from women too. I do not think abuse is a gender issue. And I do not think this book labels abuse as a gender issue. The therapist so happens to specialise in helping men who are abusive to become better. The same way some people specialise in helping women who are abusive to become better. There indeed needs to be more support for male victims of abuse. However research does not show that women are more abusive. That is incorrect. Please do not aim to make abuse about gender, as you assumed this author of this book was doing as well.
@Space_Cadet13 3 ай бұрын
@@ffreshfields5211 don't pander to IT. If m3n need more support then other m3n can provide it. It is a patriarchy anyway. This is why wom3n support wom3n. M3n don't.
@elenaf4368 3 ай бұрын
found one lol
@osamanabih1190 6 ай бұрын
This guy is pretty self-absorbed lol
@cccwomensempowerment 6 ай бұрын
This book helped me soooo much after my divorce and has helped me recognize red flags quickly. ❤
@nancymc 7 ай бұрын
excellent presentation and very informative, thank you
@caketheory 7 ай бұрын
In Hayek's Constitution of Liberty 🗽 the very first thing he talks about in chapter 1 is coercion and restraint. How would he feel about mental health services being used for social control by central government under the guise of medicine to fool people?
@opalsmith7030 7 ай бұрын
I love the combination of the 2 plans into one.... great tips and fantastic information! I like the way it was narrated!!
@lucillabertani8502 7 ай бұрын
It helped in the past and it helps me now. All other approaches are useless.
@draapulus 7 ай бұрын
00.00 Intro 1.33 - 1 In order to heal, you must first forgive. 4.30 - 2 Waiting for the right moment to forgive only delays your healing. 7.30 - 3 Coping mechanisms don’t help us cope in the long term. 10.26 - 4 To learn to forgive in the present, we have to revisit the past. 13.17 - 5 Connecting the dots is about revising your belief systems. 16.25 - 6 Correcting the dots helps you reframe your suffering and move forward in healthy ways. 19.30 - 7 Sometimes, the things that you cannot change are the hardest to forgive. 22.36 - 8 Forgiveness isn’t a destination; it’s a process.
@fyfanta7678 8 ай бұрын
00:02 Aristotle's 'The Art of Rhetoric' rehabilitated rhetoric as a legitimate art form. 02:42 Aristotle's rhetoric is about demonstrating your point of view through reason and argument. 05:17 To present better, research thoroughly and adapt to the audience. 07:43 Emotions can be used to influence people's judgment 10:12 Logical arguments can guide people's thinking 12:37 Public speaking is a performance art 15:04 A good speech should emulate natural speech rhythms and have a logical four-part structure. 17:27 The conclusion of a speech should summarize the main argument and end with an emotional bang.
@jahzeelortega9933 Ай бұрын
(bows head) thank you
@lirmchip 8 ай бұрын
Abuse is anything women don't like
@alanamcintyre8150 7 ай бұрын
that sentence right there is abusive in nature.
@theopulentone1650 5 ай бұрын
You are an abuser.
@tinaferr 4 ай бұрын
😂 found the abuser (unless you've been abused by a woman...see: covert narcissist. In that case I'm sorry)
@theloquaciouslady 2 ай бұрын
@@alanamcintyre8150 Your comment proves his point. You didn't like his comment so you labeled it abusive, thus validating his sexist opinion. Should have just left it alone. Don't feed the trolls.
@pragmaticpoet Ай бұрын
About the same brilliant deduction that one sees from insecure men make of critical feedback being equated as 'hate speech'
@armandoarmandonis9947 8 ай бұрын
I may not agree with everything Hayek believes in, especially on the amount of government intervention in the economy, but it is still important to reflect on what Classical Liberals like him say and write, as they are probably the most fierce defenders of liberty.
@Yabishjess 8 ай бұрын
Wish I would’ve heard or read about this book before my abuser destroyed my life. He plotted everything and I have to stray from scratch. No job no kids no house no nothing. If it wasn’t for my friend I’d be homeless.
@melliecrann-gaoth4789 4 ай бұрын
I’m glad you had your friend. I hope you are free now.
@pradyumnagrawal9758 8 ай бұрын
W pattern in banknifty
@lmiller1413 9 ай бұрын
I'm sorry, but comparing emotional abuse with physical abuse really minimizes physical assault. It's insulting
@yichispiritual 8 ай бұрын
Don’t minimize emotional abuse
@kerrygilsenan6459 8 ай бұрын
I don’t think it implies that physical abuse as minimising..infact you have a lot of both in controlling abusive relationships..emotionally abuse is just as bad as physical abuse
@NanaWilson-px9ij 2 ай бұрын
They are both abuse, just two different kinds. Its natural to compare different things in the same category. Emotional abuse can be followed by physical abuse.....
@nothinachieving 17 күн бұрын
Only speaking for myself, but I'll take the physical hit over the verbal assault any day of the week. Obviously I shouldn't have to take either but that's not the point. The point is that emotional abuse messed me up worse and took way longer to recover from than the physical abuse.
@sirisaksirisak6981 9 ай бұрын
The best strategy base on timing result.
@sirisaksirisak6981 9 ай бұрын
If you win your mind you win any thing in the world.
@jerkycam 9 ай бұрын
12:26 I thought someone was calling 😅
@user-ny1yt6tg1v 9 ай бұрын
Fasdcinating summary from Korea.
@user-cx5pb8tn5e 9 ай бұрын
M. C dc. I- zas seui ooou
@desiferreira7911 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to condense the explanation of the essence of this program.
@Shahla.shahab 9 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@lolaleighcoe5535 9 ай бұрын
I've always believed less is more.