are bisexual people gay?
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@starmaterial
@starmaterial 6 сағат бұрын
Mostly into women but I've had my experiences with the same sex. Anyway, I am stuck dealing with a bunch of oppressive (homo)phobes and a lot of them are in the closet. In their minds, they are in control and I owe them something, but as much as they think that, I DON'T OWE THEM A FUCKING THING! I don't know if I am being set up or targeted oftentimes, and I just don't give an entire fuck, but worst of all, I hate that I keep being taken away from my famiy by people that think that I am going to groom them and turn my own children gay. 😂 So dumb, I took care of each of my children from birth and I was always there for them. Both of their parents are bisexual, whatever. Everything I do gets watched, it's fucking annoying; life was better when I eas left alone, when I had my wife and we were free to do whatever. Now everything is bait, everything is a control tactic, everything is a 'lesson' to learn perpetually, everything is abusive, everything is (fucking) stupid, it's all making me sick and I'm constantly attacked and targeted. I have been targeted even by gangs and this shit is annoying because rules are needed but the ones olaced on some of us are too oppressive and unnecessary. ...and yes, some women are all about that action, I know exactly what you're talking about. 😉
@Tomer4love
@Tomer4love 2 күн бұрын
I want you 🤩
@phoenixxsoul
@phoenixxsoul 7 күн бұрын
Many women like bi men and think they're good in bed, especially the masculine bi guys Btw glad that you are comfortable with yourself just sayin
@magnaesca165
@magnaesca165 7 күн бұрын
I am a gay man, therefor I am not watching this video
@drewwyllie
@drewwyllie 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for accepting the rules ;3
@andyroth84
@andyroth84 9 күн бұрын
Thank you. I've struggled with this all my life and it's why I have only come out after 64 years. My wife of 36 years knows and she loves me. What really bothers me is that it isn't all about sex: I love people. I don't want to have sex without loving people. So guys who just want to fuck women think I'm gay because I want to make love. I don't want to fuck guys either but making love with guys hasn't worked for me so well, though I've had a few good experiences. I really want some male bonding with my sex. With women we could call it Heterosexual bonding, and that's worked even when platonic, With guys the sex and love don't seem to connect. Not gay and don't fit with gay stereotypes.
@indecisive.325
@indecisive.325 9 күн бұрын
i don't really think finally being sexualized is worth celebrating, but i guess it's nice to join the struggle of what lesbians and gay men have been dealing with for years
@littlefroggy5444
@littlefroggy5444 9 күн бұрын
so im omni i prefer more masc ppl or like ppl who arent on the binary are hot but i dtill like more fem ppl
@johnlazarin3807
@johnlazarin3807 12 күн бұрын
I'm a bi magnet!!! Come n get it!!!!😂😂😂😂😂 jeesh
@drewwyllie
@drewwyllie 12 күн бұрын
you have talent!
@thegenderfluidthing8660
@thegenderfluidthing8660 12 күн бұрын
being attracted to men makes you more masculine as a guy actually😉
@kat0na_cat
@kat0na_cat 13 күн бұрын
Unfortunately not the case for me. Not out to a lot of people so that’s something .
@Nelson_Win
@Nelson_Win 14 күн бұрын
0:50 The Actual Advice starts here. You're welcome.
@AstarteRap
@AstarteRap 15 күн бұрын
@Listen_To_Mi
@Listen_To_Mi 18 күн бұрын
I started blushing when you said I was beautiful
@mikenagoda
@mikenagoda 19 күн бұрын
You remind me of a sexy, queer version of Anakin Skywalker (pre Vader of course!). Nerdy bi man here who thinks you're gorgeous!
@Listen_To_Mi
@Listen_To_Mi 19 күн бұрын
I’d date this guy
@chad5893
@chad5893 21 күн бұрын
It seems like you're just lurching from one extreme to the next.
@drewwyllie
@drewwyllie 12 күн бұрын
I think it’s total normal to start a new chapter and want to change your mind
@No_Way67
@No_Way67 21 күн бұрын
I dont want to see your body, ever. ick!. join a gym and do fitness and nutrition videos.
@tolstoy431
@tolstoy431 21 күн бұрын
In the end NEVER treat people like MEAT...But a lot of Guyz think if you do O.F., they OWN you...Ridiculous, these are real people you NEVER OWN a Guy...no matter if he / she... is a sexworker. Treat EACH man with the respect, you yourself would be like to be treated....
@edisoncummings2970
@edisoncummings2970 21 күн бұрын
are you still bisexual or are you gonna get rid of that too
@samantha_proust
@samantha_proust 21 күн бұрын
I know you’ve mentioned a couple of times that you have respect for people who still do it and you don’t judge them and stuff… But… like… there’s this one thing i always stumble upon on yt these days: people (especially within the 🌈 community) express opinions like “we’re tired of objectification and &exualization…”, “we’re more than our bodies”… 😶‍🌫️ You know… it’s as though the &exual revolution is going backwards these days. In my opinion (which I don’t want all people to accept), there’s nothing bad about &exualization and it doesn’t stop us from being an author, say. I currently identify as a hook 🪝 up ⬆️ enthusiast (i kinda coined this term lol) - I’m writing a book about my discoveries of various bodies. And I’m also thinking of starting the of career
@drewwyllie
@drewwyllie 12 күн бұрын
Hey! I totally support your career and being a hook up enthusiast ect…. I’m actually a date and seggs writer so I totally get it. I guess what this video is getting at is my personal experience of how my thoughts and opinions changed whilst doing it. It went from being so fun and empowering at the beginning to being an absolute chore. So by all means go for it but you’re gonna go on a wild emotional ride 🤪 which isn’t necessarily a bad or negative thing!
@samantha_proust
@samantha_proust 4 күн бұрын
@@drewwyllie thanks, Gorgeous =^-^=
@drgsq_
@drgsq_ 21 күн бұрын
except.. you’re still on onlyfans?😩
@drewwyllie
@drewwyllie 12 күн бұрын
Ok Nancy Drew…. Who hired you 😭
@drewwyllie
@drewwyllie 12 күн бұрын
I’m not posting now and my account is closed FYI 📝
@drgsq_
@drgsq_ 12 күн бұрын
@@drewwyllie you were “last seen 1h ago” on onlyfans when i posted the comment 🤫
@triggerwarning7662
@triggerwarning7662 22 күн бұрын
Who on earth would pay for your videos, no hate but look at you. Must be a niche thing.
@pixiirespighi
@pixiirespighi 22 күн бұрын
Do you have ANY idea how annoyingly tedious you are?
@jesswhite4770
@jesswhite4770 24 күн бұрын
Hiiii Drew .. your fan girl Jess here from Shambala few years ago 😅 Thank you for this video. I’ve definitely thought about starting only fans many times, often when I’ve been feeling down and not sure what to do with my life which I’ve been feeling a lot recently. People in my life used to tell me that’s all I’d be good at and ‘you should just do it because you’d make loads of money.’ But I never started one because I just knew that something about the whole thing gave me the ick. Not towards other people doing it but just thinking about how that would make me feel and just knowing that, yeh I could make money but … it was not going to make me happy. I really resonated when you were talking about sharing your intimacy, that is really vulnerable and divine, and .. should that be shared with random weirdos searching around on the internet?! Dunno Well done for reclaiming your power and making that decision. And thank you for your insights and kind of solidifying my own perspective! Not sure I’ve watched a video like it before. All the best Xxxxxx
@drewwyllie
@drewwyllie 12 күн бұрын
Omg hey Jess!!! How are you doing 🩷❤️🩷❤️ Wow thank you for commenting, so interesting hearing your thoughts. Well first of all that’s definitely not all you’re good for, you have lots of talents and skills which you can easily use to persue whatever you want in life so don’t listen to those people… but I totally get how you consider doing it because it’s always portrayed as “quick cash” Another thing I noticed from being a creator was people assuming that I had thousands of pounds from doing it, they would just be super intrusive and it always made me laugh bc we don’t go around and ask people with ‘normal jobs’ how much they make. Anyway I think the people saying “you should do it” maybe are just saying that cause it’s exciting to them and they would never do it, but the reality of doing it is. A lot of emotional and time consuming work which can also be amazing! Especially if you earn thousands a month but it is hard as well - the people that make a lot of money in my eyes are genuinely business bosses and 👏👏👏 bc it’s not easy!! But I think we are allowed to persue what we want, reinvent ourselves and allow ourselves to change, grow and go on a journey so listen to your gut and do what feels right 💚💚💚 sending hugs 😘
@jesswhite4770
@jesswhite4770 11 күн бұрын
⁠​⁠@@drewwyllie ❤ love this!! Thank you for taking some time to reply. Wish you the best in pursuing your dreams xxx
@vanessaf98
@vanessaf98 24 күн бұрын
Really interesting video :) best of luck with everything ❤
@drewwyllie
@drewwyllie 12 күн бұрын
Thank you babe ❤
@ozaxul
@ozaxul 27 күн бұрын
Mony ti amo
@drewwyllie
@drewwyllie 26 күн бұрын
Ti amo tambien monito bonito
@parrotship-m8d
@parrotship-m8d 27 күн бұрын
Yes! Say it! Bi guys are so hot. It's a shame they're not around here where I live (as far as I know).
@punkboyfriend
@punkboyfriend Ай бұрын
omg great fit
@punkboyfriend
@punkboyfriend Ай бұрын
this is honestly so funny, very original humour!
@blankblank5231
@blankblank5231 Ай бұрын
(Zones out imagining queer potentialities) ...damn
@punkboyfriend
@punkboyfriend Ай бұрын
I really loved this thank you for sharing your thoughts
@IDK-ft2fd
@IDK-ft2fd Ай бұрын
How was your overall experience in india?
@thomasbleming7539
@thomasbleming7539 Ай бұрын
When I wear my thigh high cowboy boots everyone knows that I'm bisexual. I always get offered to have some fun with a guy or gal.
@punkboyfriend
@punkboyfriend Ай бұрын
loved it!!!
@lucasbuskirk
@lucasbuskirk Ай бұрын
Hunnies, you straight trippin!! We are abundant in every way baby!! lol jeje love you. Come back soon.
@drewwyllie
@drewwyllie Ай бұрын
awww ti quiero mucho lucasssss yes i will be back in two shakes of a lambs tail ;) <3
@bun9183
@bun9183 Ай бұрын
All of the beauty and vibes in this video wow 🩵🧚‍♂️☀️🌷
@drewwyllie
@drewwyllie 26 күн бұрын
why thank you, it's one of my favourite places in mexico fr ✨
@rosend3lo
@rosend3lo Ай бұрын
Personally I like bi guys and I am a bi girl
@anjersey-o1d
@anjersey-o1d 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your thoughts and suggestions. You're a good communicator and very easy to listen to, besides being sexy as fuck! Cheers!
@aaronculli5792
@aaronculli5792 2 ай бұрын
Im bi and i dnt do any of this js
@aaronculli5792
@aaronculli5792 2 ай бұрын
Im bi and i dnt do any of this js
@shadowprince101
@shadowprince101 2 ай бұрын
What you said definitely resonated with me perfectly
@sntt3404
@sntt3404 2 ай бұрын
LGBTQ are not under "gay umbrella", that invalidates straight trans people and bisexuals.. im bi and mostly into men but still not gay. if i were dating another man i might refer to us being in gay relationship but that is also something not all bi people do, because they are bi so in their eyes they are never in gay or stragith relationship and thats okay too. Under Queer umbrella? yes. if i am gay then im as gay as i am straight, which sounds bit weird so why not just say im bi. Im offended if someone (especially queer person themself) calls me gay after i have come out to them because that is erasing my sexuality which is not okay at all!!
@roachewy
@roachewy 2 ай бұрын
Bi is bi, gay is gay
@osmaelias
@osmaelias 2 ай бұрын
I've talked to a couple of bi men who insist that they are gay because "it's an umbrella term for everyone". I asked one of them if gay men could call themselves homosexuals to differentiate themselves from bi men, and he said no, that is an umbrella term too. So I'm thinking, if gay men began to refer to themselves as wombats, it would take about two minutes until someone came over and said stop gatekeeping who can be a wombat.
@WhAt-stUdiOS-h6b
@WhAt-stUdiOS-h6b 2 ай бұрын
its always nice to hear a fellow bi guy like myself talk about stuff like this
@AnaLuisa-ls9gi
@AnaLuisa-ls9gi 2 ай бұрын
I would date a bisexual man but I am not sure if they would date me.
@josedipadua8575
@josedipadua8575 2 ай бұрын
Hi u sound like Rod Steward Singer think he from Australia U have Rock Vibes lol
@relentless3781
@relentless3781 2 ай бұрын
4: 38 Thanks I needed to hear that thank you
@Idric-w5l
@Idric-w5l 3 ай бұрын
Love ur channel I am proud I am who I am
@Idric-w5l
@Idric-w5l 3 ай бұрын
I am afraid of wat people say cas I love being gay