Love this brother, especially true among daughters.
@matthewbrenda27195 сағат бұрын
Praise God, agree 🙏🏽
@dantoinewebb668619 сағат бұрын
Absolute truth, in my home, I provide the reinforcement and order.
@salvease14 сағат бұрын
Reinforcement is absolutely correct. You are teaching your child that you two are a team, a united force. That even if we females might be softer, daddy WILL be letting the children know that the parents are in charge.
@BritishToni5 күн бұрын
I have listened and watched soooo many videos on this subject and couldn't find a message that hit head on. Thank you Brenda... you are so on point... I got this POINT ON. I was about AGAIN to give up. I so needed this message -- simple but direct with added scriptures. I struggled for a long time feeling desperate, stuck, alone, rejected, etc. My HOPE has been RESTORED. I know that I am NOT designed to be ALONE. Now, I can focus on my QUALITY list. PRAY, FAST, PETITION (repeat). Again, Thank you -- I am back focused on track again. I am listening to this message on repeat loop soaking down in my Spirit. Blessings to you Brenda and Matthew -- I wish you many continued Blessings -- I am truly appreciative and humble. 😃😍🙏🙏 I'm NEXT..!! ❤💚💙💛🤎💯
@matthewbrenda27194 күн бұрын
Wow! 🥹 Glory be to God!!! Thank you so much for making my day with this beautiful message. ❤️🙏🏽 reading this is truly humbling. Yes continue to seek God and don’t loose hope. Praying that in due time God blesses you with the desires of your heart. Thank you again and yes your NEXT 😉🙏🏽 in Jesus name. Be blessed ❤️
@brucelee65499 күн бұрын
My mom kept me away from my dad , and the men she chose after him were shit! Bottom line she has grandchildren she'll never meet and I haven't spoken to her since 1994. Her loss not mine!!! Women I'm telling you it will come back to hunt you!!!
@matthewbrenda27196 күн бұрын
Wow I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I’m praying for you today that God will heal that wound. You are so strong and deserved to have that relationship. Bless you for being transparent.
@NeonNuanceGaming9 күн бұрын
My oldest has no idea her dad isn't her real dad. Her real dad was abusive in every way. I got her out as soon as I could. He refused to buy food for us. My child was slowly starving to death. I had to do something. So I dropped dirty because he was forcing me to do hard drugs. They gave us both a follicle test after that. I got my ass beat for dropping dirty. A couple days later, CPC came for my baby. We placed her with a family friend. To this day we outright refuse to tell her until she's 18. She's 16 right now. I KNOW I'm doing what's best for my child. Maybe your mom did what was best for you.
@matthewbrenda27196 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing @neonnuancegaming, and at the time I think she thought that. But in the long run, I wasn’t given the opportunity to even know him at all. So you waiting for her to turn age is good. I would have been ok with that. Thank you for sharing and be blessed.
@NeonNuanceGaming6 күн бұрын
@@matthewbrenda2719 stay blessed friend! 💕
@forrestwhittakerseye10 күн бұрын
Also the reason I’m never sick
@matthewbrenda271910 күн бұрын
Yes! It is so good for our body
@LJHines199110 күн бұрын
Start with ….
@Biggam3james10 күн бұрын
Surviving day 5!!!!!! Let’s gooooooo 2 more
@matthewbrenda271910 күн бұрын
You got this Bro 👊🏽 we are rooting for you 🙏🏽
@qpope252211 күн бұрын
This is very important the Christian walk. This is a very deep subject matter that connected to every part of new believers, veterans in the faith, and others. Hopefully you go into subject more. It effects these areas of the believer Prayer Deliverance Witnessing/evangelism Called into the ministry (apostle, prophet, pastor etc..)
@matthewbrenda271910 күн бұрын
1,000 percent agree! It’s so crucial. Yes that was a clip from a long form video. But we plan on it since there is so much to talk about on fasting. Any suggestions on topics on these are welcomed ☺️
@Charlie2timez11 күн бұрын
Good video! I do believe the mother and father 'she kept you away from me' dynamic could be explained in a different way. I noticed you said she did not tell you who your father was and that's wrong, period. However, you also stated he was waiting on a call from you and he told you the "truth" about things. If he knew he had a son and never attempted to reach out, he is 100% wrong. The fact that you needed to reach out to establish a connection in adulthood is unacceptable. More often than not, fathers who are absent rely on the "she kept you away" argument because it relieves them of guilt and we tend to believe that a woman is emotional and vindictive, etc. We need to hold ourselves accountable. Although alienation does happen, it's wildly over exaggerated. There are men who will do whatever it takes to be in their child's life and there are men who will take the path of least resistance, and be absent because it's "too hard" or too much "drama". We have to hold men in our lives, including ourselves to higher standard.
@matthewbrenda271911 күн бұрын
Thank you @Charlie2timez So that part I really didn’t go into too many details but my father did search and reach out to find me but all his attempts were unsuccessful. The fact we were in the welfare system prevented him from locating me. He paid child support but they would not divulge info on my whereabouts And she purposefully lied to me as a kid, that he left me. I didn’t even know what he looked like. He also attempted through family members but no one gave him information per my mom. So yeah that’s a whole different video lol oh btw they were married and she left him for an old boyfriend. So it was complete drama.
@Charlie2timez11 күн бұрын
@@matthewbrenda2719 Oh wow, okay this is definitely an exception lol
@hiles2013 күн бұрын
I love your thinking on this,God bless this channel
@matthewbrenda271911 күн бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏽
@ShaneFeltner-q3r13 күн бұрын
Feel good message. Prosperity preachers don't preach Bible. Jesus talked about hell more than heaven. Hell needs to be preached.
@matthewbrenda271912 күн бұрын
Agree 💯 it is a sad truth of this time we are living in but it is biblical.
@debbiehendrix897313 күн бұрын
Amen!
@joyce27313 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@marcellespencer12413 күн бұрын
You are right. They aren't doing that anymore, unfortunately. 😢🇬🇧🇯🇲🙏
@matthewbrenda271913 күн бұрын
Beyond sad let’s keep them in our prayers 🙏🏽
@brendaNhubbard0714 күн бұрын
Facts 💯
@matthewbrenda271915 күн бұрын
Great video and good content!!!
@reesierobinson80815 күн бұрын
Thats the flesh..u probally still got them..
@matthewbrenda271915 күн бұрын
If you remember we are made of flesh and there is a battle taking place daily within us to make a choice daily whom we are going to serve. This is why in 1 Thes 5:17 it says to pray without ceasing. In Galatians 6:8, we reap what we sow in the flesh. If we don’t feed our Spirit, guess who is going to win?? Your flesh. To make a blind general comment you assumed that it would be insulting or offensive but actually it shows that you indeed responded out of your flesh and could not articulate the fruits of the spirit nor spiritual maturity. And yes I would agree due to childhood trauma and generational curses there may still be demons within me. But because I live according to Matthew 6:33, they will come out in Jesus name. God bless you though and thank you.
@MargaretGray-v7w15 күн бұрын
Nobody want to be delivered or they don’t think they need it
@matthewbrenda271915 күн бұрын
True and if we can keep it 100, we all need deliverance in some area of our lives. I found out both my grandfathers were Masons. Now I have to attack that and renounce any word, bloodline curses and possibly and demons that were given legal rights through their involvement in FreeMasonry
@fatheringwhileblkk15 күн бұрын
I’m going to sub to you because you made me realize. A lot of churches where I am (Dallas) does not speak on deliverance nor do they speak about actual repentance. It’s like they give speeches about living a good life, but not living holy according to scriptures
@matthewbrenda271915 күн бұрын
God bless you and yes we were looking at Dallas and I only found one church that even mentioned Deliverance. Thank you for subscribing 🎉
@LeAsia_Serenity17 күн бұрын
Amen 🙌🏼
@christinacabbil917017 күн бұрын
Amen
@ash.lynn1717 күн бұрын
Amen! 💜
@micahcog95417 күн бұрын
Amen 🙌✝️
@Bellashort-qw6us21 күн бұрын
Thank you sister !! God bless you both ✝️
@matthewbrenda271920 күн бұрын
Your welcome and thank you ❤️
@g.hoosier182622 күн бұрын
My suggestion and number ONE for me. Are they rightly dividing the Word of God? The first piece of evidence is: do they believe in the trinity? If they do, KEEP GOING!! Pentacostal churches are not for the beginners. These folks are definitely believers in "FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT." And more than 20% of the Baptist churches are leaning Pentacostal. "Dry" churches: Catholic, Presbyterian, Methodist. These churches mentioned are definitely Trinity doctrine believers. Except some Baptist believe in the Father Son and Holy Spirit. My suggestion to the beginners: get you some study Bible translations [NKJ-SV, NIV-SV, ESV-SV, Comentary, Strong's Concordance, Bible dictionary] a Bible that has *reference columns, topic titles. Reference Bibles let's you know this scripture is located in Old Testament and New Testament. It gives youana understanding that others have encountered the Word of God. The Topic bible's let you know of the understanding you should have of the scriptures you are about to read. For example, an NKJSV, Matthew 5:17-26 the topic here is "Christ Fulfills the Law." [A note regarding topic bibles. This is the topic for the NKJSV but the topic title in a ESV is Christ Came to Fulfill the Law or NIV-SV the topic reads **The Fulfillment of the Law. Jesus speaks of His purpose of His coming regarding the law [10 commandments//613 Mosiac Law's]. It's through Him we have forgiveness of our sins. Within these scriptures are 13 reference scriptures to understand what Jesus is teaching us. Having a good topic also keeps us from just continuous reading. The bible will put you to sleep by just reading without seeking understanding.🤣 Knowing scriptures will help alert you to spiritual teachings that are unhealthy for your spiritual growth. Because some will feed you "junk scriptures" because of their lack of knowledge. And seeking your "worth": money, time, influence all dealing with your money... how much you can make for them or give to them. ***BE Aware of False Churches 😇😇
@matthewbrenda271921 күн бұрын
Amazing response!! I love the time put into it to edify the body!! Thank you so much
@michaelwalker625622 күн бұрын
I'm more interested in knowing if the church is woke. I'm not going to church to worship men but to worship the Almighty and live according to His laws.
@matthewbrenda271919 күн бұрын
Yes brother we are not there for people, in my full video I talk about the word being the final authority. But also in this short. Fruits of the Holy Spirit should be evident as well, which comes from the church being in the word and woke.
@Bellashort-qw6us23 күн бұрын
❤
@mattgardiner61424 күн бұрын
I know how. Drive around until you find a building that says 'Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses'. Mission accomplished.
@matthewbrenda271913 күн бұрын
“Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:6 Praying you find the truth my friend 🙏🏽
@nikkifoxx_124 күн бұрын
Love it 🙏🏾
@matthewbrenda271924 күн бұрын
@nikkifoxx_1 thank you
@edixonmartinez123324 күн бұрын
Thank you brother for bringing light into this topic. I loved so many points you made “you can’t make real life changing decisions based off of your feelings”. I made this mistake before and I paid dearly. I like the mind set preparation before and during the decision period while looking for the right church for your growth and development into a healthy, mature God fearful believer. I am looking forward for more videos about this topic. Like “what to do during the waiting period while considering a new home church”. What are some tips to consider during this waiting time of confirmation. So many people consider some of the things you said but end up in the wrong church for them because they are not clear about their calling. Great video.
@matthewbrenda271924 күн бұрын
@edixonmartinez1233 thank you for your feedback and great future topics!! To God be the Glory
@Biggam3james24 күн бұрын
Yessir this was good and important steps!!! Your honesty of the mega representative churches that are the glorified worship churches were important because worship can’t be the main focus and only thing you care about. Church is a hospital not convenient care 🔥🔥🔥🔥 now that’s a word!!!
@matthewbrenda271924 күн бұрын
Praise God @kravnmorh3ad!! This name got me thinking we should be praying for you exclusively smh. Thank you for your support.
@Biggam3james24 күн бұрын
@@matthewbrenda2719 it’s a KZbin gamer tag I need to change it
@Biggam3james24 күн бұрын
@@matthewbrenda2719 thanks for the reminder. I was able to get it changed 🫣🫣
@qpope252225 күн бұрын
Very good video and explaining what it takes for a marriage. You and your husband should do marriage videos. Only if the spirit leads in that direction
@matthewbrenda271925 күн бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️ yes it is actually something we are called to do. Any ideas on specific topics? We have ideas God has led us to talk about just asking for more suggestions 😊
@qpope252225 күн бұрын
@@matthewbrenda2719 Yes many topics: The reason for deliverance within the marriage. Closing doors (watching what we see and say in a marriage & individually. Foods that help individuals. Types of communication within the marriage.
@matthewbrenda271924 күн бұрын
I love these topics! Thank you so much ❤️
@qpope252227 күн бұрын
Wonderful
@matthewbrenda271927 күн бұрын
Thank you 😊
@qpope252227 күн бұрын
You was cut off in this video hopefully you can continue on another video where you were saying.
@matthewbrenda271927 күн бұрын
This short is a clip to the longer video. If you tap on this video where the title is it will take you to watch the full video 😉 let me know if it works?
@qpope252227 күн бұрын
@@matthewbrenda2719 Yes the video work fine. Was able to see the continued conversation
@qpope252227 күн бұрын
Yes deliverance is needed in the body of Christ. People in the church need to get past religion and native culture/up bringing. That can not replace the word of God.
@matthewbrenda271927 күн бұрын
Amen, it is something that is not talked about enough even tho it is clearly in the Bible. It is up to us all the Body of Christ to make sure we are well nourished believers. 👇🏽 He said to them, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation. Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved, but whoever does not believe will be condemned. And these signs will accompany those who believe: In my name they will drive out demons; they will speak in new tongues; they will pick up snakes with their hands; and when they drink deadly poison, it will not hurt them at all; they will place their hands on sick people, and they will get well.”” Mark 16:15-18 NIV
@masterwatermelon-i4mАй бұрын
Thanks to almighty God bless me hallelujah ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ so shall it be in Jesus name Amen ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@matthewbrenda2719Ай бұрын
Amen 🙌🏽🙏🏽
@sandychittick2237Ай бұрын
Thank you and bless you.
@matthewbrenda2719Ай бұрын
Thank you and same to you ❤️
@JesusOurKingАй бұрын
Amen 🙏
@stephenotieno9021Ай бұрын
I'm a young christian staying in Kenya, for the past one month I've been craving a love relationship, and I think this video has come at the right time. I pray that God guide me towards a woman out of whom will come a generation that fears and honors God😊
@matthewbrenda2719Ай бұрын
Wow in Kenya, Hi and thank you for watching 🙏🏽 Praise God Brother yes stay close to God and pray without ceasing. In due time our Lord will bless you with your wife. We will pray for you as well 😊
@stephenotieno9021Ай бұрын
@@matthewbrenda2719 Amen and thanks brother
@matthewbrenda2719Ай бұрын
Of course 👍🏽
@brendaNhubbard07Ай бұрын
I love us ❤️ thanks mi amor
@chippz37Ай бұрын
Loved the video brother… Also I’m gonna say 46. Not that you look it but you obviously appear to be younger then you actually are lol
@matthewbrenda2719Ай бұрын
Great Guess @chippz37 but not quite... thank you for supporting and please share.
@Biggam3jamesАй бұрын
Loved this message and take!!! 3 steps were good. Responsibility can be a tough pill to swallow at times. However it is a necessity and needed. Thanks for being an example for me all these years. I appreciate you!! ❤ Also if I guess your age do I get the money 👀😂😂😂
@matthewbrenda2719Ай бұрын
Thank you brother for the kind words, God is amazing to us bro.
@leighannmcclendonАй бұрын
That lady must be a black out drunk! Wow!
@matthewhubbard2011Ай бұрын
so good!!
@DawnHinnant2 ай бұрын
Amen start teaching your children About God's word early age possible stick to it . Don't be deceived by Satan he is the opposite of God anger proud darkness confusion Death we need God love this video real wisdom
@matthewbrenda2719Ай бұрын
Yes! Amen 🙏🏽 it isn’t talked about as much and we as the body need to talk about how important this is.
@tobh0072 ай бұрын
Outstanding! I'll pray that God raise up MORE Godly husband's to cover their wives (or narrative that are coming)!