Yes my mother Gemini me cancer male son!

When you have nothing. And people still hate you😂

Ppl disconnected from their body and feelings make out the majority in our Western society and they will often project their anger, shame, self-loathing or just their mistakes and lack of responsibility for their words and actions( when you challenge them by setting boundaries) onto an INFJ because they're ego is too big to question themselves or to reflect on their behaviors that hurt others. I think its rather a societal issue that can't be solved by an single individual wirh " communication can solve it all mentality" . They don't want to face their inner demons and fears, to me they're coward.

So many great empathic people to find and love e

No way Im a INFJ, im way to shy of conflict for nr 3 🙃

I'm just another Shadow on the wall

we stare coz we recognize beauty.

1:40 thinking too deeply.

Over preparing ... sure im prepared for everything! EXCEPT for what actually happens!! 😂

I tested as an INFP in my early 20s. Retested in my late 30s and typed as an Infj. Just recently took the test (now 42) and tested as an Infj-A.

As an INFP. I had imaginary friends too….reminds me of the Shilo,…a Neil Diamond song.

I have an INFJ “girlfriend” (I’m INFP). This video nails it, and answers a lot of questions about the way intimacy between us is managed (turned on and off, depending on what else is going on in her life). Thanks.

Sounds like a rather self-destructive and delusional mix of idealism and narcissism!

Problems with intimacy, being comfortable giving and almost never receiving, moving too fast, wanting to know everything about my love interest. It's when I watch videos like this that I don't doubt I'm an infj😂😂. Side note: as an infj u need to go through some hurt, how much depends on the person, and when u reach that point where you're burnt out completely, depressed and just not interested in things u used to love anymore. It's in that moment when u choose yourself even if it means u pull away, cut toxic people off. Be more honest about what u want, establish more solid boundaries to protect yourself. Meaning what u say. U need to go through the mud but trust me in the end you'll see bulls hit when it's happening. Your intuition will be on autopilot. You'll know who to associate with and when to leave without burning your batteries. But most of all youll start healing

100%❤

Most interesting take I ever encountered in the INFJ subject as a whole. It is as if the spiritual 'shortcut' to all questions in general, ultimately can carry us the furthest. I take the clip very much to heart.

The thumbnail and title had me dying 😂

My mind about tripped when he started asking all those questions. Exactly 💯. Sexually I relate better emotionally, but I feel I'm gonna have to wait a long time to find a guy who wants to hang out and build that emotional bond.

When alone the Turbulent goes boeing on stormy day. But when around others the Assertive rises like a calm stream. Does anyone else feel this? Like you reserve the T for private spaces and the A is your shield and sword in the real world?

I am a spiritually awakened INFJ with the ability to communicate with the other side, seeing ghosts, dressing like a hippie. guess how people know me?🤣✌️ Considering that I honestly talk about my super powers 🤣✌️ but honestly, at the beginning they have a mistake but as they get to know me better, they get used to it and only those who feel insecure avoid me, others even they allow themselves to be shown the way if they have a problem and there are others who try to belittle me, but you know how an INFJ reacts to such people. 🤷😅✌️ dear INFJs, enjoy life and yourselves, because life is beautiful, but we complicate it for ourselves. I'm sending you a huge virtual hug 🫂🫶

You didn't even cover the really scary stuff

I figured I'd be a T.

INTJ on the list again. I will sleep well tonight.

Nailed it! Made me laugh. I can relate to each thing you described.

As an INFJ who experienced many of these, I really don't know the right answer. I'm not even close to being done trying to figure myself out.

I began my villainry today! So far it's been fun.

Introvert,

Oh yes thats me 100% and yes the leaving the house is true.

I realized the main social norm I don’t get is the obligation to make money upon graduation and boxed into a 9-5 job that may not fit our education we studied hard for. After my Visa expired, I had to leave my dream city Washington DC and moved in with my parents in Asian Las Vegas where I didn’t fit in with the materialistic & functional job market. I didn’t attend grad school due to ADHD and financial concerns. I discovered the online world of personal development and got a coaching certification and have been building my coaching business with financial support from mostly my INTP dad even though I’m a grown adult. He understands me not wanting a low-paying job that doesn’t fulfill my growth potential.

My issue about leading is that most often my soften side is viewed as a weakness and some people tend to undermine me or fake leading while i am there 9:06

This makes “T” sound so horrible 😂😂😂

Oh, my goodness. All 7 of these things describe me. Over many years, I've mostly learned to deal. This year, I am flatly refusing to travel for a several day Thanksgiving visit with multiple groupings of relatives, etc., in a large city. I'll be hermit-ing at home.

I’m sorry I’m late, I came when I felt like it.

Ahhhhh I feel exposed....shit

I think this is true only when an INFJ meets somebody like-minded. In my experience extroverts will most likely just think you're weird and boring.

I think it's the other way around. Usually it's me who come to the conclusion that somebody isn't worth my time and effort. Rarely I think the other person understands why.

I think the authors of this video have fallen in love with an INFJ. I am an INFJ and I can't imagine anyone seeing me in this manner except through the eyes of love.

Ive never felt so seen, thank you

Maybe some INFJs believe in a higher power, but not all of us. I certainly do not.

INFJ girly here and my hubby is and INTP :) he definitely helped me become more laid back haha

Infjs can be very good teachers (explaining complex ideas in a way a 5 y old can understand), and public speakers if they find a way to overcome their fear of to be seen by large masses and their anxiety which stems from their perfectionism and overly self criticizm.

Divorcing an intp. We could not get past the opposite personality traits.

Yes😮😅😊😢😂😂❤it's very True For Us...We need to Do Our Journey Ongoing On and On.....😊👍👍This is The Master Key❤❤👍👌💐😊🎂

Okay wow, so freaking accurate on alllll of these things 😂🤷‍♀️💃

An infj like u 402 is very pretty I'm :) thank u for showing me that it's ok that have my family with me an thay have Ben here helping me even if I thought it was not that I fill it when u r here when u r helping me think all of u

Christmas!

All of this! I’m glad I found this channel and I appreciate being called a psycho! I am a legally blind person, so the number 7 option/sensory overload, as stated in another comment, can be quite intense.

I’m an INFJ and politics fascinates me analytically

Thank you Sir

I don’t think 3% is rare. It’s like 3 in a hundred. That doesn’t called rare. 1 in and 10 million is called rare. 🤷‍♀️ as an ENTP myself I feel insulted when people said that to make you feel special or something. I’m not that shallow. lol