Yeah authenticiy on youtube and just being yourself. Same just want to get my message out and i also just like doing it rather than for attention

Completely agree, to be truly present is the key . We will never truly live by living in past or future. The best future can only come by having a vision but realising that it can only come from the present. Ive experienced it too, its exhausting to live in the future

Fear shouts intuition whispers✨ -Esotarot

It's one of those decisions that is entirely personal and yet, on aggregate, determines the fate of the whole species. If you don't want children then you probably shouldn't have them - a sense of obligation is not a good motivation when it comes to caring for people because it will, as sure as night follows day, foster a seething resentment over time. But far too many are being 'nudged' into not reproducing and, because those doing the nudging are experts at the technique, they think it is their own choice. The end result will be civilizational collapse and much sooner than people are generally aware of. The whole "There are too many people anyway" argument seems logical on the surface but, as with anything, moderation is the key ... the population falls coming in the next generation or two are *not* moderate. What happens if the old outnumber the young is that the economic wheels come off and quite quickly. When that happens the population levels plummet ... and not for 'nice' reasons. Combine that with the loss of expertise that is being witnessed (yes, I did just say the young are not as clever as they think they are :D) and very dark times are coming if the birth-rates are not restored to survival levels quickly. It's knowing what is coming that is partially behind the governments of the wealthy Western nations importing vast numbers of people - it's a prop to keep things going a little longer. But it will fail as those coming in are adopting the reproductive habits of those already 'here' i.e. the line will continue to steeply slope down.

27 male here, and I find both pro-natalists("Just have kids") & anti-natalists("Don't have kids") extreme, cavalier and grossly oversimplified- Not everyone is in a position to have kids for a variety of legitimate reasons eg finances, personal situation, physical/mental health, etc. and of course there are various reasons why certain people want kids. Such things can change in either direction over time, or yet they won't and it's all okay. Everyone's circumstances are different, and only you can decide IF AND WHEN you'd want to kids, and I frankly believe that not even your own family should be pressuring you to have kids if you're not in that position. Live your life and see for yourself, and you shall find your answer eventually. PS For the record: I'm undecided on having kids or not, but if I ever do it'd be after I turn 30 as my current life isn't ready for a kid or two.

Yes this is very much me 23 and I don’t want children.

I don't either.

I'm looking for a childless woman who feels like her fuck a family

I agree that having kids shouldn't be taken lightly. Some people decide not to have kids out of selfish reasons but other times it's out of genuine concern about one's ability to raise children well. Sometimes it's both. I would never try to shame someone into having kids if they don't feel comfortable or prepared for that kind of thing.

There are 8+ BILLION people. It's good people are starting to think and decide on this topic like true individuals.

40. No kids. Love life. See my friends stressed out and im so happy i can visit and then go home to quiet space ❤.

I'm a 46 year old Brit male. Looking back I'd say 90% of the women I was at Uni with, or work colleagues or friends would proudly state they didn't want kids(back in 90's). Personally I now see this statement less about not wanting kids and more about making a statement of independence, I am the captain of my own ship etc. Anyway now at 46 half of those women that back in my twenties who didn't have kids never had kids and the majority of that half that never did massively regret it, cry about it, do things like freezing eggs etc. I don't see as much regret with the half that did actually have kids. These are my subjective life observations, make of it what you will.

We are so fortunate to be able to choose, I always knew deep down I never wanted kids but only felt courage to say it in recent years. My partner and I both love our independence too much. There is this beautiful fantasy of having children… but the reality of being a parent brings it crashing to reality

This saddens me.

I don't want the kids simple as that

33, I didn't think of being a mum when I was young and still feel the same way. I don't think I ever will be a mum, no instinct has kicked in here and I don't expect it to. I'm with the right partner but have no desire because of the medical risks, our financial situation, it's not part of my identity as a female, I'm not emotionally in that place and I want to travel. Whatever you choose, you'll do what's right for you! I'm changing even without kids but I really want freedom for myself as I grew up constantly considering other people's emotional states. I think I would be good but I'm on a mystical path too and other saints didn't have children either so I feel at peace with that.

you’re only 26. at that age i didn’t want kids either. i was also never a “mommy” type of girl and never daydreamed of having babies when i grow up. parenting is not for the faint of heart and just like you i wanted to do it properly, if i was going to do it at all. i was ok with both having or not having them. i also have an autoimmune condition that made me unsure if i could have them at all. in the end i had my first at 37 and expecting my second at 39. so who knows what’s in the books for you. don’t do anything that doesn’t feel right or because others want you to.

But you're a woman. That is why you are here.

If you don’t want it, why should a man pay for your "desires" by dividing property and paying alimony?

You seem so apologetic in this video. There’s nothing to apologize for and you don’t need to worry about anyone else’s opinion. It’s your life. I get the vibe that you’re feeling a lot of pressure from society to make a decision. The way I see it, if you’re not feeling 100% certain that you want kids, then don’t have them. People are afraid of regretting not having kids, but there are so many people who regret having them but can’t talk about it because of the stigma. I got my tubes tied 4 years ago and it was so freeing

I appreciate that you started by saying you were not entirely sure about having kids. I think that is a reasonable place to be. I would say just dont fully close off from the possibility. I used to say some of what you are saying when I was younger, but now that I have children, I love being a mother. It brings me joy and fulfillment in ways I could never even fathom or describe prior to having children. And childbirth? As a woman, that is an experience that teaches you so much about how strong and resilient you can be. You grow so much when you have children (man or woman). It's hard work for sure but the things that bring the most reward in life are never easy. Good luck and stay open to possibility. I wish you the best. ❤

Theres no reason to attack you, your life, your choice!

Me neither. I cant take care of them. I’ve tried with babysitting before and I just couldn’t take care of the child.

Go ahead, be a genetic dead end😂

I can't really advise you on something like this. There are a lot of really horrible mothers out there. Women that get to about 50 and their narcissism takes over and they start telling their children what a burden they have been and all that. My question though is... If you don't have kids... What are you going to do with your time? For me personally, IF I could then I would probably have a lot of options. I have a lot going for me it's quite frustrating in a sense. I look good. I am kind of naturally muscular. I have that talented degenerate musician vibe, even if it might not be what I would choose and I have often found it easy with women. Felt I am very in control in conversation. I m also motivated to do gym and punchbag and such I have a lot of aggression. But I have a disability. So it's not an option. It's an invisible disability. But sometimes due to it I lose entire days to just sleeping while only being up for a few hours at a time and my money situation reflects this. I feel that the things that I talk about and am interested in represent a kind of spiritual mission in a way. I am good at music and the subjects that I research and talk about are off the wall and interesting. But I can't have kids so it makes sense that "God" in a sense gave me a "replacement mission" to, not fill that void, it can't be filled, but to subsidise it a little. Do you feel the same way? Do you feel that you know what you would fill your time with if you don't have kids? Is leisure and holidays what a lot of women like enough to fill that void?

I agree happiness comes from within

"Stop being lazy and pathetic!" - Karolina Writes Also Karolina Writes: "Slow Down!" You should read "Burnout Society" by Byung Chul Han. It explains your predicament precisely (and everyone else in society)

If they're not making me miserable that's great

Even though you are not looking happy

This is exactly how I feel. Thank you.

i don't know why relationships in western countries ends with divorce

Yes but how to find girl like u

U said Right but why u speak so fast ?

Focusing on the present moment is key

too right, there is never anything wrong with honesty

From what you said, it seems he did not change, but you did. Your tolerances changed. And arguments were had because he wasn't being proactive enough in supporting your activities (home chores were they?). I'm glad you broke it off. I'm glad for him that you two did not get married. If your country's laws are similar to those here in the US, you would have been legally entitled to acquire every thing he owned. And all because you changed? That is what happens here a lot. A couple in love, they get married, then for whatever reason, she wants out but takes the kids, the house, the car -- everything. I'm glad you were honest with him about the other man. Infidelity is not limited to physical contact. I hope he recovers and doesn't see all women based on what you showed him.

U said u dont need make up u r super Wonder Women

Dont listen to them u look Pretty useless jobless and jealous people make comment like that

Thank you for this honest video!

I am not jocking. I am a humanbeing like you and i search to live with and protect a girl forever. That is marriage and that is the real relationship for me.

a beautiful girl like you deserves a bodyguard like me.

you still don't want to marry me ?

U looking good mam ur personality like wow 🎉how old are u

R u Married or single ?

We've all been there, Hun.

i wish had sum1 2 break up with

after 10 years that i was with a woman, she has left me with a stupid exvcuse.she has just another from long time.she was a bethrayer and i have know the last times she went with many men.she stayed with me cos i was fiel, affiable and responsible.she had the good m,an at home and does her own interests out.many peoplòes do so, especially the narcisists

Sending lots of love ❤❤❤. You got this girl. It will all fall into place xxx

These are only tips. Only you know best what you need to do.

anyone looking for advice, I hope this helps, but always listen to your own heart and brain.