Hang in there . 💪. You got it . Some people aren’t meant to work with kids i understand. ❤

What wood did you use?

You are a loving family.This was not your fault. This was God's plan. GOD BLESS YOU GUYS! My deepest condolences.🙏

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Thanks for the video . ❤😊

Great job How high is your basement ?

God bless you 🙏 .

Que chula Dios la cuide

Thanks for sharing your day, I appreciate real life videos !

It's 5 years later...you are in my prayers mama and daddy.

I plan on subbing 4 days a week. I need a change from healthcare. I love the flexibility

I’m thinking bout subbing. I’m still debating 😂

I’ve been thinking of becoming a substitute teacher but idk how I’d be able to handle the attitude and disrespect from student

I am so sorry! May you find some form of peace knowing that God holds you all in the palm of His Hand. He loves you so! Praying for all good things for you in the future. ❤️

Thank you for sharing your story. It was 100% preventable. I was positive with all 4 of my pregnancies. I was given antibiotics as soon as i was positive and during labor. They should've done the same for you momma. I'm so sorry. I have watched your video every year for 5 years now around when I begin grieving the loss my 5th baby. I loss him in May of 2012 and it doesn't get easier.

You're not alone I also get overwhelmed, not the same situation but different situation. Take it easy, you still do great videos. You always give a word of encouragement Keep the videos coming. Much Love I pray your baby get well🙏

Girl! We all have been there, I’m there right now too. Life can get chaotic sometimes. I’m glad you’re listening to your instincts and spending time with family.🤍 Hope baby girl feels better soon & you also find time to relax and catch a bit of a break.

Life be lifing! But remember God got you and when the time is right it will present itself. Try not to stress over things you cannot change that just causes a bigger load on yourself than necessary.

Hey . Thanks for the video . I completely understand . The one thing that I’ve realized is that things take time . We’ll time and money . But I’m so glad that “May” is about to be over . It’s too much . 👀.. Hang in there and I hope your daughter feels better soon. Get her some vitamins that should help❤❤❤❤❤

I just found this video and subscribed to your channel. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sending you big hugs and praying for you. I love you guys

Sending prayers to you both and to families and friends 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

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So very sorry for your loss. May god help you through this heart breaking time xx

My deepest sympathy. Your in my prayers 🙏

Nice job. A little dark for my taste but it's your house not mine.

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You cant blame yourself U aa a parnt had nothing to do with your little girl death Theres many parnts out there are going through whatvu weant through I hope u and your husband find peace happeniess comfore in the comeing days😢

Im sooo sorry for your loss know parnt should go through What you weant through Im so sorry for your loss She in heaven with Jesus know more pain sweet heart

So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for yall. And thanks for sharing your story. Hopefully it can help someone else

We loved your grandma

I am so unbelievably sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby girl. This is one of the hardest videos I've ever seen - felt so much heartache and pain (crying the whole time). She was blessed to have you and your love wrapped around her.

Today I went for inclusion for high school. It was so boring. All the teachers telling I don’t need you. So boring. If they don’t need why they call us. I am much educated than teachers.

So sorry for the loss of your baby girl. May you find comfort and strength knowing that your precious daughter is now safe in the arms of Jesus in Heaven 🩷🙏🏼

Thank you for sharing, the education needs to be out there! My heart goes out to you and your husband and family, there’s nothing worse than what you went through. Education is key 🤔

I love numbers and yearned to be a high school math teacher but school officials, particularly the DOE, discouraged me as much as they could (without making it look so obvious) from chasing my dream. I also recall CUNY guidance counselors discouraging me from pursuing my academic objectives. This was all done in an effort to keep certain minorities from reaching success and job security. The New York City DOE is the definition of toxicity. So, I did others things with my life. Now at 59 years old with three (not boasting) college degrees, I find myself working as a security guard making peanuts for a living in a dead-end job with no pension, no benefits, a simple but confusing 401k (knowledge of the stock market is needed), and the list goes on and on. How about that for a story? P. S. I also worked as a substitute teacher for 8 years in NYC public schools. The worst 8 years of my life.

I'm so very sorry for your loss!😢😭💔

Whats the update!? Its now 2024

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm so sorry for your loss. Keep strong in ur faith.

i’m half debating on going to school for teaching but idk if i’d wannna be a full time teacher or like jsut a sub so im watching videos on sub’s day in the life lol

Your daughter is so funny. She tried to "hold" her smile ...and you tried to "hold" her hands from her face ..as you were holding -hugging her to have perfect photos ... But when she will gets older she will laugh with herself seeing at the video. .love it..😂😊❤ So try now to smile for the perfect photo ,but laugh at the future,with those core memories captured at videos..

Hey. Just wanna say. Like you said it’s your child and not like your grandma 90yo and it’s ok to pass away at that age. The brain is in shock and nobody wants to see the own child to die or breath for the last time. It’s not acceptable to our brain that this could happen now. So we want to avoid it. Want to go out of the situation. And you are right. Your husband helped you to take care of yourself. My son was on ICU also. And I had a sectio. No walking at all first hour. Legs were numb. And then pain kicked in. I was in a single room in my own and tried to sleep here and there few minutes. We have a 2yo my mom took care of. But my husband drove between our home to take care of the dog and the hospital. So I had to wait for him also to bring me to my son. They called me if I could hug him and that was the worst part. I had to stand up, with crazy pain and walk to the ICU. Or first days into the wheelchair. The pain was so intensiv sometimes I thought I faint (hope that’s the right word) So I stayed in my room dealing with pain, dealing with crying, not knowing what will happen. And there was nothing I could do. The doctors took care of him. And I had to sleep and try to get some rest. And try to eat. And on the rest of the day and night and sat next to him. Hold his hand or just watch. Talked a little bit. So all these people never been in these kind of situation should shut their mouths. I was so scared of seeing him with all the tubes. How would he look like. Till today I don’t want to see these fotos. Or the video from the birth. Maybe someday. But now he is a healthy 1yo. Driving me crazy. 😂 Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪

I just found this series because I finally told my husband that, after 25 years, I can’t wait for him to do the basement anymore. Girl, you are my hero! This is helping me get to a point where I can do some serious planning and start the work :-) thank you!

Looks beautiful . Love all the shelf space . ❤😊

My condolences

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So sorry for your loss!! I wanna know why they didn’t offer you an ultra sound prior they could have seen that she pooped in the water bag and also why wasn’t a c-section offered with Strep B ? Again so sorry 😞

I almost lost my little girl from placenta abruption and the stress of having the c sec and ensuring she was ok was the most difficult thing i faced in my life, thank God hubby told me to go to hospital yet i resisted but i knew something was terribly wrong cos she wasn't moving anymore, ha i waited like i wanted to my daughter would not be turning 5 this month.

Ur story is so unbelievably sad. The decision must have been the most difficult decision in ur lives but url r the best parents to ur little angel for allowing her to be restored in heaven and be a free little baby of all illness and difficulties she would have faced had url kept her alive on machines. My heart is ripped to shreds for url both, I am a parent of 2 and I had my c section to so I totally understand the rest time u needed and can't believe how u still remained so strong for ur little girl. A mother will go thru any amount of pain to ensure her child is safe and u did just that. I pray url have more babies and this never touches ur lives again. It's never a replacement for ur first born but the second baby does come along and also fulfills the amount of love little Ariya would have had for url. I witnessed this with a close friend of mine who lost her 6month old baby. Strongs to url both and I think people from all over the world will have so much respect and appreciation for u sharing ur story. Url r amazing and will be amazing parents again. This kills me inside cos she was so innocent and ripped away from her parents loving arms. Ariya lives on in urls story and I send all my love to url both especially mom cos only a mom will know the heartbeat of her baby inside her, her movements and patterns. I will keep url in my thoughts and prayers daily. God is with url and he is holding little Ariya in his tender arms till url meet again.

You’re so strong mama. I know this was not easy to sit and talk about. Thank you so much for sharing. I’m currently pregnant with baby #4, and I’ve been strep b positive for all of them. This is so informative. Praying for you guys’ strength.

I love the color and design! You did a great job! 👏