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@Devinenihema
@Devinenihema 5 күн бұрын
After 8 yrs of marriage journey had multiple chemical pregnancies and 2 miscarriages. LMP: 25Aug'24 FET : 14Sep'24 1st b-HCG: 28Sep'24 - positive Done 3 b-HCGs with 3 days gap to each: slow increase of b-HCG value Doctor said its good and to visit hospital for first scan tomorrow (14th Oct'24) Till yesterday very few to no symptoms... today from morning crampings are high and i am tensed about tomorrow scan... doctor not informed me that currently i m in which week also😊 ..... please pray for me to bless with a healthy baby...
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 5 күн бұрын
❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️
@TashaAdams-i3l
@TashaAdams-i3l 9 күн бұрын
Day 6 I see nthy😢
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 9 күн бұрын
Don’t get discouraged just yet! First positive might not be until Day 7 or 8!
@ladyswim
@ladyswim 12 күн бұрын
My compliments for your choice. Being a single mom isn't easy! Everywhere
@mikey7173
@mikey7173 13 күн бұрын
I'm a woman and sadly I have PCOS. I tried all meds the doctor gave me and it did not work. It frustrated me and my husband who left me because of this problem. I wanted a donor, I searched on Facebook and Just a Baby, both places are full of creeps that only look for sex. I well searched my donors after a few chats but my gut told me not to trust them. Seeing I have PCOS my idea was to do artificial insemination at home until confirmation. At the end I asked a friend if he wanted to do the job, after he told me that he had success on getting pregnant another girl who had PCOS. We had sex on and off for nearly two months I went the natural way becuase I know him and I though it's better for me. I got blessed with my twin babies on Ocotber 5 2023, which is my birthday too and today is October 5 2024 also. They were born the same day as me a boy and girl. Currently we got a magnificent co parent deal going now we got 50/50 custodial verbal agreement. I also receive child support which I did not ask or want. Can't complain his family is freaking dope asf. Very charismatic and intellectual people they are. Currently I confirmed yesterday that I'm pregnant again. 😊🫄This time it was not planned but it's welcomed same "sigma" like I call him did the favor again. I'm 35 years old now. Sadly my sister has PCOS too 😭. She been trying with her husband for almost three years. I'm afraid my daughter might inherit this trait from me.
@tag-alongk8717
@tag-alongk8717 16 күн бұрын
Omg fellow single mother by choice here!!!! In my TWW!
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 16 күн бұрын
❤❤❤ congratulations!!!
@By.me-16
@By.me-16 Ай бұрын
Does this baby become of normal height???I am very worried please give me an answer??
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 Ай бұрын
@@By.me-16 Graydon is in the 10th percentile for height right now at almost 3 years old so he’s still pretty small but not like abnormal!
@By.me-16
@By.me-16 Ай бұрын
@@SaraMaria83 This will become normal, right?
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 Ай бұрын
@@By.me-16I think he might always be a little on the short side but I’m only 5’2”
@By.me-16
@By.me-16 25 күн бұрын
@@SaraMaria83 How old is your baby?
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 25 күн бұрын
@@By.me-16he will be 3 in November.
@anntee9036
@anntee9036 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much this is so relatable.
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 Ай бұрын
You're so welcome! ☺️
@KalebsLife2018
@KalebsLife2018 2 ай бұрын
There are different types of endometrial cancer. Some are low grade, others are high grade.
@KalebsLife2018
@KalebsLife2018 2 ай бұрын
I have 2 children and I have endometrial cancer.
@KalebsLife2018
@KalebsLife2018 2 ай бұрын
Yes, there is a connection to PCOS and endometrial cancer. I had endometriosis and fibroids. I had severe bleeding for 4.5 years. Doctor prescribed birth control pills 💊 to treat the bleeding. My symptoms were dismissed as being from the fibroids. It took 6 years to get a diagnosis.
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 2 ай бұрын
I can’t stand how doctors prescribe the pill to “mask” symptoms of a more serious issue. It’s so terrible and I’m so sorry you are going through this 😔🧡
@KalebsLife2018
@KalebsLife2018 2 ай бұрын
@@SaraMaria83yes, me too! It puts a band aid on a very big problem! Thank you!
@KalebsLife2018
@KalebsLife2018 2 ай бұрын
I have a high grade 3 stage 3c endometrial cancer, endometriod carcinoma. I’m 51. I had a hysterectomy 7/12. I had endometriosis and 30+ fibroids. 1 fibroid was calcified. 1 cancerous tumor. I meet with my oncologist on 9/3.
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 2 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry 😔 Sending you all the positive vibes for the best case scenario going forward ❤❤❤
@8thcelisabeth
@8thcelisabeth 2 ай бұрын
Godspeed! I wish for you to have good news.
@KalebsLife2018
@KalebsLife2018 Ай бұрын
@@SaraMaria83Thank you!
@KalebsLife2018
@KalebsLife2018 Ай бұрын
@@8thcelisabethI appreciate it!
@KalebsLife2018
@KalebsLife2018 Ай бұрын
@@SaraMaria83❤❤❤
@karenshenk244
@karenshenk244 2 ай бұрын
God is good!❤
@thiphan6515
@thiphan6515 2 ай бұрын
Thank goodness you didn’t listen to these doctors! Their solution is to always have surgery and cut things out of you!
@thiphan6515
@thiphan6515 2 ай бұрын
I really relate to this, same 37 turning 38 and it’s heartbreaking but I’ve wanted kids my whole life, I don’t want to look back and regret not doing this waiting for Mr Right
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 2 ай бұрын
Exactly! My advice would be to freeze as many eggs and embryos as possible before doing a transfer so you can keep your options open for future siblings either with your donor or with Mr. Right… if you know you want more than one of course 😊
@thiphan6515
@thiphan6515 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, can you please share how many they limit per doner?
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 2 ай бұрын
It depends on the sperm bank as well as the type of donor; however, it’s really hard for sperm banks to regulate this since it’s all dependent on whether or not people report live births.
@elenar3617
@elenar3617 2 ай бұрын
I cried. So happy for you ❤
@lili5860
@lili5860 3 ай бұрын
Hi from London, UK. I've done my first round of IVF and decided to be a single mum by choice, too. There are so many more restrictions for IVF treatments in the UK. Today is day 4 after fertilisation, I am waiting for the lab to get back to me on whether the 3 embryos continue developing.
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 3 ай бұрын
Sending you so much baby dust!!! ❤❤❤
@lili5860
@lili5860 3 ай бұрын
@SaraMaria83 They were telling me devastating things like "your embryos degraded since day 3, we are not gonna freeze embryos below grade 2, etc." The rude thing I heard was that they blame my egg quality for it, but in fact, all of them made to 8 cells embryos, which means its not the egg problem. So, watching your videos really helps me. I feel that we are going through a very similar journey, I was 36 when I started selecting donors, and I turned 37 recently. I'm going for a fresh embryo transfer in the morning. Your baby dust is much needed! Your son is the cutest babe I've ever seen. My mum and I both think you're really pretty.
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 3 ай бұрын
@@lili5860​​⁠oh my goodness I am so sorry you are dealing with doctors like that. Hopefully you can prove them all wrong and your transfer will be successful ❤️ And thank you and your mom so so much 🥹🥹🥹
@lili5860
@lili5860 3 ай бұрын
@SaraMaria83 I've just got back from the clinic. They have cancelled the transfer and showed me all 3 arrested embryos. I have a strong feeling that this clinic and the donor are not right, and the stimulation medication is not the best one either. The staff who blamed me for being old was giving me the embryo photos, and my mum almost lost her good temper. I'm filing a complaint against their unprofessional behaviour.
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 3 ай бұрын
@@lili5860​​⁠that is terrible :( I hope you find a better clinic and doctor and a donor you feel better about as well ❤️ I felt like the first donor I chose wasn’t right either and am so happy with the one I used in my second round!
@marijn1950
@marijn1950 3 ай бұрын
Why the f is this in my recommended
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@petrasmole7464
@petrasmole7464 3 ай бұрын
Which clinic were you in if I may ask?
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 3 ай бұрын
Cleveland Clinic!
@nonineveryoumind4314
@nonineveryoumind4314 3 ай бұрын
This brought tears to my eyes😢!! What a lovely story❤. Thank you for sharing..☺️.
@KateMacgregor11
@KateMacgregor11 3 ай бұрын
Hello Thank you for sharing your story it was recommended on you tube I was just diagnosed yesterday June 26 of precancerous cells after a polyp removed June 12 and will have the iud in placed July 1st Monday I want to do Ivf some doctors can be so cold I agree in the next 3 months I’ll do a biopsy Thank you for sharing you’re story I want to be a single mom by choice I want to have a baby it’s Soo important again Thank you and I’ll watch your other videos and Sending Digital Hugs to everyone we are all warriors we can overcome this stay positive lady’s ❤ ❤
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 3 ай бұрын
I am so sorry you are going through this, Kate 😔 I don’t wish it upon anyone. I hope my videos give you hope! It’s also very encouraging your cells were pre-cancerous instead of cancerous so you are at least better off than I was! 🤞🏼 Keep me posted on your journey and ask me questions anytime 🩷🩷🩷
@BrunaFernandes-w1e
@BrunaFernandes-w1e 3 ай бұрын
Just watching this video and seeing in your photo that you have a beautiful daughter ❤
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 3 ай бұрын
Actually a son but thank you!!! 🥰🥰🥰
@BrunaFernandes-w1e
@BrunaFernandes-w1e 3 ай бұрын
@@SaraMaria83 congratulations! I’m 29 and I’m highly considering doing this
@manalichavhan90
@manalichavhan90 4 ай бұрын
Hi, I am endometriosis patient and having 2 cm cyst on my right ovary.. i hade my day 5 frozen embryo transfer done on 31st may and today is day 14 I am cramping from day 5 and it feels like period cramps on both the sides of lower abdomen .. doctor scheduled Beta HCG on 16th .. currently i am on medicines and worried about reports 😢
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 4 ай бұрын
Cramping can be a very good sign from my experience!!! I’ll be sending you baby dust that you get a nice high beta on the 16th!!! ❤️❤️❤️ Congratulations! 🥰
@rahilatahir618
@rahilatahir618 Ай бұрын
What's your report
@himanipandey2894
@himanipandey2894 4 ай бұрын
It is such a precious video,i love it .
@susiecervantes4691
@susiecervantes4691 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. Hearing from actual women explaining it is helpful . I appreciate you so much.
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 4 ай бұрын
It’s exactly why I wanted to make videos about it! I couldn’t find any when I was diagnosed so I wanted to change that 🧡
@yulylopez5504
@yulylopez5504 4 ай бұрын
What’s the banks name you used?
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 4 ай бұрын
Xytex!
@MsLotusBlooms
@MsLotusBlooms 5 ай бұрын
I understand. Women don't have the luxury of choosing good looking men for marriage. Many other qualities are more important for that, so they have to take the best of who wants them. But this is the one scenario when women actually get to select who they are attracted to.
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 5 ай бұрын
Ironically, I am not actually attracted to the sperm donor I ended up choosing (not the one I am talking about in this video since I had to choose a new one for my second round of IVF). I think he has nice features but I am not attracted to him. I chose him for many other reasons :)
@kellarphumynavong1920
@kellarphumynavong1920 6 ай бұрын
Congratulations 🎊 God had plans for you versus what you were going through🙏🏻
@MissJudyLee
@MissJudyLee 6 ай бұрын
Congratulations Sara! Your baby is beautiful!🤱🏻💕 Thank you for sharing your SMBC journey with us! Standing strong and going after what you want after facing obstacles is a blessing in disguise. I have never cried seeing a birth live in person once or on TV, but your birth video did make me cry because I am about to embark on the same SMBC journey with PCOS 🥲 Someone who can relate to me. I was happy for you when I saw your positive pregnancy testing clip. You deserve this bundle of joy - an absolute gift from God. So glad to found you through algorithm pop up. I will look to you for inspiration and advices on my motherhood journey when I meet with a fertility specialist doctor at the end of April. I am hoping to have a healthy, beautiful baby boy too 🙏🏻🤰🏻💜
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 6 ай бұрын
Awww thank you so much for your sweet message! 🩷 I’ll be sending you baby dust for your journey and if you have any questions at all, please feel free to reach out to me on Instagram @sara83maria. If you have PCOS and aren’t already taking inositol, I strongly recommend it!!! Starting it between my 2 cycles made such a huge difference in egg quality and also basically cured all my PCOS symptoms!
@amandah3619
@amandah3619 6 ай бұрын
I don’t have a high pain tolerance at all…. But thesesPIO shots just don’t hurt. I don’t get what the fuss is all about. It scared me! I use heat!
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 6 ай бұрын
I think heat is the way to go!
@niq2472
@niq2472 6 ай бұрын
Standing strong on what you wanted for yourself despite the obstacles is so admirable! This is such a beautiful story and I'm not ashamed that I shed tears for a complete stranger lol. I'm so happy for you!!!!
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 6 ай бұрын
🥹🥹🥹 Thank you so much for the kinds words ❤️❤️❤️
@betyadrydiaz476
@betyadrydiaz476 7 ай бұрын
God bless you and your baby❤
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 7 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤❤❤
@betyadrydiaz476
@betyadrydiaz476 7 ай бұрын
You are definetely really Sweet. God bless you and your baby always❤
@shyamala.kishori
@shyamala.kishori 7 ай бұрын
What a touching story! Thank you for sharing. I hope that you and your little one are well! He must be a toddler by now :)
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 7 ай бұрын
He’s 2! 🥹🥹🥹 I post a lot about him on Instagram (@sara83maria)! I really hope to start posting videos here again at some point.
@shyamala.kishori
@shyamala.kishori 6 ай бұрын
@@SaraMaria83 I followed you on IG! Thanks for giving me hope that one day I can be a mom!
@tarunasharma143
@tarunasharma143 7 ай бұрын
Most informative video thnks dear
@tarunasharma143
@tarunasharma143 7 ай бұрын
Hey mine also is natural transfer … tomorrow i am going to check it out… plz pray for me
@amelapapan6625
@amelapapan6625 7 ай бұрын
I am so happy for you. I have endometrial cancer at 61. Cant have the hysterectemy because its too late and I am weak. Wish I was lucky as you.
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 7 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness I am so so sorry 😔 I will be hoping for a miracle for you 🧡
@DanielHuggett-ob9ho
@DanielHuggett-ob9ho 7 ай бұрын
To quote a commenter there’s nothing like a mother’s love
@DanielHuggett-ob9ho
@DanielHuggett-ob9ho 7 ай бұрын
Congratulations Sara! I loved the fact that you wore the same clothes so the progression was more accurate and consistent. I bet your two year old baby is a pleasure to have.
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 7 ай бұрын
He’s the absolute best 🥰🥰🥰 Thank you, Daniel!
@devonlengacher3403
@devonlengacher3403 5 ай бұрын
Are you planning on having another baby?
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 5 ай бұрын
@@devonlengacher3403 I want another one so badly but can’t afford to raise another baby on my own with my current salary 😭
@devonlengacher3403
@devonlengacher3403 5 ай бұрын
@SaraMaria83 I'm sorry to hear that, it hurts my heart.
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 5 ай бұрын
Mine too. I’m hoping my situation changes 😔
@Madal1999
@Madal1999 7 ай бұрын
How much fetal heart rate
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 7 ай бұрын
108 bpm ☺️
@neonred7594
@neonred7594 7 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful story, I cried so much whole watching this video. I am so happy for you two! It was meant to be.
@neonred7594
@neonred7594 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for all of these videos. They are such tremendous help for me.
@DJ-ub7gl
@DJ-ub7gl 7 ай бұрын
I’m thinking of starting with IUI first. I did two rounds of egg freezing previously. My insurance covered 80% of my meds so I paid about 1000$ out of pocket. Then the procedure itself was 8000$ a round. This is in Canada. To use them and do IVF it’s another 8000$ so 16,000$ per round. Weirdly IVF is 11,000-1250$ if you do it from scratch. And IUI is $1750.
@Black_docto
@Black_docto 7 ай бұрын
is ivf expensive? 😢
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 7 ай бұрын
It is very expensive if your insurance doesn’t cover it which mine didn’t :( I have a video on my channel where I go through everything I paid in detail if that helps.
@Suziefig
@Suziefig 8 ай бұрын
Hi Sara, I'm Suzie from Australia just wanted to comment to say, THANK YOU for being so brave and real about sharing your journey. I'm 40 years old and starting my 3rd IVF cycle. I'm also on the solo mum journey and coming across your page this morning was just what I needed to see. I look forward to watching all your videos and knowing, it's not just me going through this path. wishing you all the best for you and bub. :)
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 8 ай бұрын
Hi Suzie! This is exactly why I started my channel 🥹 Thank you so much for sharing this with me ❤️ I hope my videos help you throughout your journey and I’ll be sending you so much baby dust 💞💞💞
@UnapologeticThoughts
@UnapologeticThoughts 8 ай бұрын
Yes my dreams are insane right now. I have like 3 dreams a night because I get up and pee about 2 times at night. It's pretty cool to me. I look forward to them. 😂
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 8 ай бұрын
Hahahaha right!?!?!
@ursula54100
@ursula54100 8 ай бұрын
Hiya Sara, I’m going to do IUI this year not IVF in Greece 😊
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 8 ай бұрын
How exciting!!! Sending you baby dust! ❤️❤️❤️
@1989snb
@1989snb 8 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your baby 🎉🎉OMG 35 eggs to 9 and only 1 healthy 😮 this is a wake up i didn't know i needed 😢
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 8 ай бұрын
Yes with my first round! Second round 20 eggs to 9 to 6 healthy!!!! Crazy what supplements and a change in protocol can do 🥰🥰🥰
@AniseReimer
@AniseReimer 8 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry, I had a chemical pregnancy in 2021 so I kinda know how you feel. Its a hard thing. ❤ I was pregnant for about a week aswell 💔
@SaraMaria83
@SaraMaria83 8 ай бұрын
Same year as mine! It was so so hard but everything happens for a reason and I’m actually now really glad it happened since that was my only embryo and now I have my beautiful 2 year old son and 5 more normal embryos frozen 🥰🥹🥰
@martan98
@martan98 8 ай бұрын
Congratulations mama. I hope to be one too soon
@lauraellerman9443
@lauraellerman9443 8 ай бұрын
3:33 good to know