027 : Where and how to meet girls to date (queer advice)

[@Eidet]

Hey Youjin! I never comment but I just heard that you are going to Barcelona next month, that's awesome! I'm from Barcelona and I'm sure you're going to love it, aside of its amazing architecture, food and culture, it's one of the most lgbt-friendly cities in europe, with plenty of bars, drag events & queer couples holding hands on the streets.

[@confusedinmyroom]

Yeahhh that's one of the reasons I chose Barcelona!!

[@AnnyDiaz]

You tell me!

[@p_chr]

Hi, I've been watching your videos, and they're always very comforting. In one of the past media recommendations you recommended the movie Conclave and you convinced me, I saw it and I loved it; thank you for taking the time of making these recommendations. Now I want to recommend two movies, these are very different from each other, but both are Mexican. First, “Como agua para chocolate” / Like water for chocolate by Alfonso Arau is based on a famous Mexican love/drama novel. The second is “Ya no estoy aqui”/ I'm No Longer Here by Fernando Frías, I think this one is on Netflix. Anyways thank you for making these videos, they're always nice to listen :)

[@confusedinmyroom]

Thank you for listening and the recommendations!! Just put it on my watch list

[@gtdcoder]

Yes, going out and meeting people is good advice. I did not get a date until I was 36 because I was so shy wnd introverted. But then I started meeting women on dating apps and in person and now I am happily married.😊

[@confusedinmyroom]

That's really sweet happy for you!!

[@suntidetheartist5912]

omg I needed this so bad thank you 🙏

[@Ensleyreads]

post video clarity hit so hard after this episode woah

[@IshtarNike]

9:14 straight guy here, please feel free to delete if this isn't the appropriate space but it just resonated with me a lot. This is exactly my take, but unfortunately due to the behaviour of certain men, straight women absolutely hate men who say this. As a straight man, if I go on dating apps and say I'm here to explore or just see how things go I get zero matches. I think your take is honestly the most mature and the most true to actual human nature. But unfortunately due to our conservative culture (relatively), more free style relationships are still frowned upon. And men have obviously made this worse by constantly lying about what they want so straight women are jaded af. Not sure where I'm going with this but I just had to say I agree 💯

[@confusedinmyroom]

Safe space for everyone! Glad to hear your take on it 👊👊

[@bugbrain5815]

brooo, your pfp 😭😭

[@jcravenclaw]

But some people just wanna have serious relationships. In my pov, If you want a casual relationship (with me), nothing physical will happen. I wait until we are serious to have it.

[@jesimielchibundom]

I so far mainly get from discord When I tried dating app I was just given men and straight women even when I put only women as a woman Where I am there is really no queer physical space

[@pinqfriday2490]

what servers?

[@suntidetheartist5912]

what can you do if you’re 16-17?

[@confusedinmyroom]

I'll try to talk about it next episode!

[@barnaliadhikary9421]

You are so cute 😊😊

[@uvtftufd]

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