The Hardest Adjustment Post Separation.

[@melisaharris8943]

Props to your mom for raising one hell of a man!

[@sadie1999]

I was thinking the same thing! Such a good human being ♥️

[@irenec-acc1960]

Agreed 👍

[@justme1782]

Totally totally One Hundred Percent agree! I just wrote something along these lines. In Barcelona we would say: Es muy buena gente (he's a truly nice person)

[@mommygarcia9137]

Well said !

[@stephaniebaker4024]

She absolutely did a fantastic job.

[@jerilynkelley880]

Your the best dad they could ever ask for !!! We’re rooting for you

[@karenlima4366]

“Dad I love you, see ya” melted my heart

[@jess.from.scratch]

I grew up in a split household and my dad would always take us to the park(there weren't these trampoline parks around then 20 some years ago 😂)and we went out to eat before we switched. It always made a good transition. You're doing a great job!!

[@catwarrior17]

The kids are spending quality time with someone they need in their life...wow Oscar, my dad could take some lessons from you and he's in his 50's. I was never a priority in his life and even to this day, (in my 30's) it still hurts me. Some parents don't think that what they do will have lasting affects on their children but that thinking is so dangerous. You don't have to be a perfect parent to be a good parent, remember that! You are doing amazing and you should be proud!!!

[@sewwes8129]

This comment hit in the feels for me lmao

[@naisamurmu3514]

This comment hit the spot 😔

[@Viiiolet18]

*hugs*

[@yecat]

@Catwarrior as a mother, thank you for this. it will help me with motherhood.

[@kytruth1027]

Some people just don't realize how important a whole family unit is. Every child needs a positive female and male role model in their lives. With that being said, try not to be too hard on your Dad for not always being the best when you were young. All parents make mistakes and one day you may regret not working through those issues and getting the peace you need while he is still alive.

[@laurennnsavageee_]

Aura reminding you about the camera was adorable her little voice is so cute 🥹😭

[@KatherineAlexandra_]

Those kids will grow up knowing how much you love them. The amount of maturity for your age is mind blowing. Your mom raised an amazing man. She should be so proud. We're all rooting for you!! ❤

[@charlenepatton4052]

Supporting your channel because you deserve to be successful. The new Oscar is worth it. The change in your vlogs makes all the difference for you and your kids. Keep up the great work. You will go along way in your You tube career as well as your new adventure of real estate. Good luck Oscar.

[@mpdaugherty8549]

Agree 👍💯

[@wowzatrishiebunz]

I love watching Oscar be a dad.

[@mays_rummages]

You are turning out to be WAY MORE MATURE for your age Oscar. Bless you ❤️

[@justme1782]

I like how you tasted the ice, kind of making sure your kids didn't swallow something that could make them sick or anything. That's true solidarity, right there! You are a really nice human, Oscar.

[@ellyserivera4155]

Your mom raised you well. She must be so proud! You are an amazing dad, don't forget that.

[@MechiRivera]

I've been watching OkBaby since i was in high school. I graduated 7 years ago. Just wanted to say, that i've loved watching your evolution as a person/father. We're proud of you. I love your videos.❤ they make my day!

[@jennifersiscoe3719]

I love how one of the girls hollered that they love you when you were leaving. How sweet!

[@vegasgirl7O2]

I found your ok baby through your moms channel when she was going through the same. I must say your parents, regardless of them not being together have raised a beautiful son. Im proud of you Oscar. Your children are so lucky to have a daddy like you. Keep growing and learning my friend. Thats what it's all about ✌❤🇱🇷🌍

[@angelafleur1244]

You're great Oscar! They sure are blessed to have you as their dad and you are blessed to have them 💕😊

[@ptkr2272]

I could seriously see you leading a single parent group some day! Kudos Oscar!

[@crystalrandall1424]

Omg !!! I’m screaming at my phone “NOOOOOOOO” don’t do that to the laundry 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@adriennehiggs5]

lol me too

[@victoriapaulauskas]

I’ve watched you since california pre buggy lol and I just want to say you’ve always been my favourite KZbin dad but the way you’ve grown into yourself these past couple of months is inspiring. You handle life’s adversities with positivity and that’s something not everyone can say…love to see it! Can’t wait for the future 🎉

[@loriheller2500]

That was probably one of the most helpful things you have ever said about the perspective. You helped a ton of co-parents.

[@TheRelaxedMadre]

I feel like you have learned, grown, matured, and been humbled by this last year's experience. It's such a good feeling to have personal positive growth. ☀️

[@sezztooley]

levi saying "of course!" is so cute! it's like he's stuck on the phrase 🥰

[@meowmeg7624]

Me stressed about how much laundry you’re shoving in 😂 4:32

[@OldJoeBlows]

Dude… I was dying when you stuffed those blankets into the washer. 😂

[@Sadiehoney]

Hahaha when you were stuffing the washer I was like….. Oscar… not even listening just thinking boy that’s not gunna work! Lmao 😂

[@desireediaz1712]

I’m a 60 year young wife, mom and grandma, and your perspective on life is wonderful. And I must say that YOU, dear Oscar, are a wonderful father!!! Thank you for putting your children first!!! The time and energy you give them is amazing! If you were my son, I would be so proud of you. Kudos to your mom for raising such a great human!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@linaloo1271]

The quietness when it’s time for the kiddos to be at the other parents house is so lonely lol I have not got used to it and then I find myself walking in and out of their rooms and just hanging out in their rooms since I miss them haha! We always try to do fun activities to end our week!

[@morganvallance3172]

Oscar your killing it as a dad &how your handling this. I’m very proud of you

[@sadie1999]

I couldn’t imagine you going through this transition any better.. your babies truly have such a caring and attentive dad 🥰 as someone who didn’t have the best dad growing up, this heals something in me. Thank you for the great videos and sharing your life with us. ♥️

[@amazewithrish7900]

Agree with you Oscar acceptance is the key to mental peace and trusting God . Sending you lots of love 🤗

[@jillianbugg4392]

I WAIT for your videos every day tbh. You’ve grown so much as a human since everything went down! You’re doing incredible 😊

[@racheltaylor2549]

I don't know how I came across your channel but dude you blow my mind with how mature, positive, and compassionate you are not just towards your family but to yourself. You are going to be such an inspiration to anyone who watches your videos (and to those who spend time with you) and that really is priceless. What an amazing man, and father.

[@jenniferdoucette9906]

"if you can't escape it, enjoy it!" is my favorite quote describing the thought you shared :)

[@OliviaNichole17]

That raspberry doughnut crumbl cookie was my favorite flavor yet!!! I definitely would’ve ate it too😂😂

[@mazerlazer_]

Thank you so much for making the transition for them as easy as possible! I have a 7 y/o with my ex and I know it can be so hard for her on swap days. Obviously none of us can see what goes on behind the scenes but you seem like such a great and fun dad to those kiddos and they’re very lucky to have you!

[@OuterMindSpace]

Idk how you stay so positive but what a blessing for yourself and your kids that your mindset is so great 👏

[@nikkisorad]

Agreed!!

[@xoPinkMacyxo]

I have never rooted harder for a complete stranger in my life! You're doing amazing and I hope more great things come your way!

[@Gymnastmonkey9696]

My parents hated each other and stayed together until my sister and I were out of high school, just because they didn’t want to hurt us. But it was absolute hell. Happy parents are far better than having a family “together”. Now your kiddos get quality time with happy parents, not constant fighting and depressed alcoholic parents

[@staciebanks7935]

And when my kids see their father i look at it as a positive. Its me time that i get to do whatever i want. I spend the time doing what makes me happy. Practicing hobbies or mini traveling, experiencing new places and things. Doing things that make me happy. Which makes me a better mom mentally and physically i get to be more present without getting overwhelmed or burnt out all the time. Hope this helps.

[@leisabrady5384]

Oscar was so relieved when you took a few blankets out! Haha Also I was a single mum from when my daughter was two. Her dad loved her but never came when he said he would etc broke my heart. It was so hard playing both mum and dad and everything in between. So proud Oscar with your mindset. I would have loved a week off just once but wouldn’t change it for the world so think of it as a recharge and working on yourself like you want too. Then when you do get the kiddos your not exhausted. Love ya Oscar love Leisa Western Australia xxx

[@sherispencer8896]

As a woman who had no father growing up due to his decisions, seeing you put in such great effort to make memories and love your children makes my heart so happy! Your children will always remember how you made them feel and that gets carried on to when they have children. You are an awesome father, Oscar!

[@mommaberti8124]

Man Oscar, whoever gets you is one lucky lady! Just like your kids! I absolutely love all the love you show them. Father of the year over here!!! Thank you, for them.. they may not say it now or even understand all you do for them but they are gonna grow up to be great adults full of love all bc y’all decided what was best for them! Great job!!

[@andreatrueblood7769]

Got to say that's the hardest part is when your baby's are with mom there a big part of you that feels empty ur doing a fantastic job

[@isabelortuno2524]

Oscar my love! You only need a table spoon for a load of laundry! Look into it. Using as much as you did doesn’t allow the concentrate to wash away properly and you are left with the residue of soap slowly building up and it leads to smells clinging on longer over time and your clothes feeling dirty! Using a tablespoon or a little bit more for larger loads guarantees the best wash and saves you product and money!

[@angelica_anahi]

i love how you show this perspective ❣ kinda heals my inner child a little bit, gives me an insight of what my dad probably went thru when he'd only have us for the weekend

[@Dream-qn3hy]

Wow Oscar, I’m going through something that’s very upsetting in my life and hearing you talk about changing perspective really put me in a shock cuz it feels like you were only talking to me. That advice is exactly what I needed to hear rn. Thank you for your positivity, you’re doing an amazing job as a single parent! Lots of love!

[@alishamartin3180]

I have so much more respect for you after all of this. Not only are you a heck of a good man & father but you always get the best shots & make the best videos. Even solo. 👌 I wish nothing but the best for you & pray one day you find someone who will appreciate you for all your good & as much as you deserve! Your kiddos are beyond lucky to get to call you their dad. 👏

[@ellyne3863]

You do SO very much for your kids Oscar. Don't forget: it's ok to take time for you. It's ok to relax if you feel you need to, it's ok to have 'lazy' days because frankly that's taking care of you. Resting and doing things for yourself when you don't have the kids IS doing something...it's recharging your battery because you've been through a lot and you still have 4 kids who need you - just the way you are and what you currently provide for them. Take care of you today, Oscar!

[@BluBerriUnicorn]

so sweet when you mentioned kids keeping you young, im 20 w no kids but I love this outlook on parenting !

[@brahminiravi4717]

You’re doing great, Oscar!! 100% progress isn’t gonna happen overnight!! Slow and steady with patience will go along way!! 😊😊😊😊

[@KorinaNavarro]

Perspective is everything! ❤

[@shannon5476]

You are doing an amazing job, I don’t think this situation could be handled any better by you 💙

[@jessicariley5339]

Really needed to hear your advice today about changing your own outlook if you can't change the situation . Thank you. Loving this positive Oscar!!

[@HansBeaz]

When the kids aren't with you I would recommend standing their mattresses against the wall to help air them out. Otherwise they can start growing mold underneath them. You're a great dad and I love watching your videos man!

[@carriecerino8243]

You're a great dad!! The children are blessed to have you, as you them!! Enjoy they grow up way to fast! 🥰

[@valeriespatorico4346]

Those are some lucky kiddos. You are doing great with them Oscar.

[@EngageinEnglish]

Oscar, we are loving the constant uploads!! You are such a hard worker! Thank you😊

[@terrystevense6006]

Oscar, you are a hero and a super dad!!!! Love you and your great kiddos ❤️

[@proudamerican3651]

Putting the Mattresses on the floor is excellent. They won't fall out of bed when sleeping, and they won't fall off the bed when playing....👍👍👍👍👍

[@aurora94931]

You've matured so much since OKbaby days, Oscar.

[@MonicaJacqueline]

Loving these daily vlogs and I love that you and Keira have such a great relationship! As someone who has divorced parents at a young age it does make a difference and affect kids when the parents are not getting along!

[@jessicaelliott1580]

You are such an amazing Dad! ❤

[@thekhanvict12]

I can’t wait to see how you’re gonna decorate the kids rooms at your place!!

[@averymcgowan1683]

Keep growing Oscar! Also. Go to IKEA and get the kiddos some bunk beds.❤

[@TrulyYoursKelly]

You have given yourself and your viewers good advice, in this video, about how to view things and situations through changing your mindset and how you view pieces of your life. It's good to give yourself pep talks to be able to continue on and be okay in whatever situation that you are in because many situations are put into our life to actually help us grow even though we might not see it that way at the beginning.

[@loriketring345]

Thumbs up Oscar you are kicking ass man. I am so proud of you with all that you have done with your life. Peace.

[@kia7499]

I love how positive you are Oscar

[@erynd1204]

You are so helpful for people going through the same things!

[@natalieellis8106]

I love your editing style and the way you talked, did chores, and did cut clips like that. Turned out well!

[@livelifewithpositivity3587]

Love it!! What theme are you decorating the girls room? What theme for Levi’s seperate room? After your cousin leaves

[@KayRD]

I’m prob one of the few viewers who still watch both of you. But I’m prob a teeny bit older than most of your viewers too so I can appreciate that life happens and people grow apart. I’m happy you get along and coparent well. I root for you both and want you both to win. If you both win, the kids win. Just wanted to say good job to you both.

[@medicatedmenorah]

You deserve all the best, Oscar. You’re amazing. Love you, brother!

[@CoolCandy1]

Amazing dad, we’re rooting for you😊

[@karleyc1097]

Oscar, I wish all men were like you. I’m so impressed.

[@dodadyo]

That's what I do too, change the mindset and perspective. But only when I feel angry. You're the best dad they could ever have, Oscar.

[@rosannarodriguez7987]

Here since your first vlogs & I always wanted to be a KZbinr because you always made these funny/ cool transitions when you started working at that warehouse. I always loved your content. You came a long way bro ! Don’t ever think you’re missing out on anything. I will soon have kids as well !! Keep pushing 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@TrulyYoursKelly]

"You can't just be eating ice off the car, that is gross. I can't see, I can't see a damn thing." The way that he said that got me laughing so hard. Oscar is so great to watch.

[@seechic5375]

I love Oscar’s vlogs!!!! Highlight of my day for sure! ❤😊

[@kristynvlogs4780]

My hubby doesn't even do laundry!! This was amazing to see! Lol

[@jgilbert19]

My children leave for their dad's on Friday. So every Thursday night we have "pre Friday" which is where we go have take out or do something fun! Cool to see you had a similar idea!

[@Browneyedbabe96]

your outlook on the split is so amazing and you are handling everything like a gentleman ❤️

[@missiegooch1217]

Wow you are so right I never thought of it that way. Great perspective !

[@annajansson8596]

Started watching your videos on okbaby when I was 12 im now 19 gonna be 20 this year. So sick that I grew up watching you guys. So grateful🙏🏻❤️

[@josemtz6070]

Such an inspiration man, props to you, your videos are better and better than ever.

[@darcy1975]

Good morning!! I love watching now especially because u upload so early and consistent, I love it!

[@JustJasmineJ]

Oscar is so fine and glowing ! I been where you at and Oscar when you make it to the other side you’ll be thankful for the pain . Remember God turns all pain into purpose and he has a MASSIVE plan and purpose for your life 🎉❤

[@marianamoreirad]

I like how you always see the good side of the situations! 👏👏👏

[@stayoustiani_tian]

I really enjoy your videos 😁 Your a great father Oscar ✌️😊

[@LuvMyCru]

I can relate. Kids make a lot of sound, but the absent of their sound is much, much louder when they're not there. You're growing into your introspection in these last few videos - I have to say, this is particularly key in this time. I'm honestly quite proud of you at this rate - looking forward to seeing those sick beds when they come in !

[@jjjrose4634]

Your the best father to your children keep up good work. love your vlogs

[@mpdaugherty8549]

I totally understand Oscar- post separation anxiety is. Real and Tough too! Hang in there, once you get the normal routine and what not. I know you'll feel much better. Things won't be so much for you. Positivity Rebuilding Successful Content my friend. Mikalyn Daugherty WPB FLORIDA

[@melissaharding8102]

The kids are blessed to have you as their dad.. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@katrinax5809]

I’m soooo late to commenting today but you’re doing a really great job Oscar. Don’t ever doubt your parenting cause you’re an amazing dad!

[@livgrace5061]

Oscar, I never comment. But I needed the speech while you were taking the sheets off the bed. I needed to hear to just change my perspective and it’ll be a different outcome. You are doing great! And thank you. 😊

[@briannabonilla1725]

Oscar actually has talent and puts effort into his content. I love it

[@jennyargyropoulou4911]

Oscar " Kids don't eat ice from the car" Also Oscar eats a week old cookie haha 😂

[@FreelysLifeLessons]

Loving the daily short vlogs!!! Keep it up. Build this channel to 1 Million

[@BelieveJay]

Wow Oscar! It’s nice to see how much you have grown

[@NATCHEE1]

“Dad I love you! See ya” IM CRYINGGGGGG

[@sandra9241]

You are doing a great job with your kids ❤ they love you so much