1, 2, 3 Get Out Tawm Kom Sai Li Sai Tau~02/29/2024~

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Story description: He met his wife in college, and she came from a wealthy family. But she's pretty strict when it comes to ordering her husband around. If she does not get her way, it's either he hit the door by the count of 3 or cops will be there. An intense drama story.

[@wizardga]

She is not even willing to learn and respect your culture. That's already a big sign to cancel her out before it gets too serious. Lesson learned.

[@SheEye911]

Rule of thumb, if you're marrying out of race make sure you both like each other foods and embrace one's culture.

[@whiteranger3836]

Nothing is wrong with interracial relationship, but you just have to make sure you both accept and respect each other’s different cultural backgrounds and be willing to accept both sides of the families.

[@kermoua6883]

Wow! I hope all young men and women come listen to this story! You should listen to your mother!

[@END0RA]

Biggest red flag is the fact that the one time your mom didn’t want to make her eggrolls, she got angry. That already shows she’s unappreciative and expects everything to be catered to her. Just be glad you guys don’t have kids together.

[@maxt4364]

I love the smell of fresh rice cooking. It feels like a Christmas tree during winter that makes my home feel warm and cozy. Especially in the early morning.

[@alifetoliveyes8824]

Mother knows best 😊

[@nkauj00j]

Everyone wants another race until its time to be like them!

[@bulma1029]

That's what happens when you marry out of lust and not love.

[@maovue4406]

Brother, sounds like you didn't even bother to "really " get to know your mekas wife. You didn't even know her preferred food. And why would you even bother going to court when you knew they're rich. Thanks for sharing your story ; a good lesson learned

[@amyvang5785]

Mother knows best!!! I hope you find love.

[@cheexiong1634]

That’s why you have to find someone who appreciates and willing to learn the culture and be open minded too not just over lust and love…

[@cua1879]

You chose to ignore all of the 🚩

[@juliehawj3385]

It's like what your mom said, you were not man enough. Also, you did not set boundaries when you met and dated her. Always set your boundaries. If someone loves you, they will respect you. She set her boundaries and you didn't, that's why she disrespected you.

[@c.lee-soulisak327]

You can't be with or marry someone who doesn't like anything about your culture.

[@pahouajohnnasack4713]

Did you think your life love will last forever when your parents are not even invited to your wedding? I think not!!! Parents' presence at their children's weddings are a blessing. Yours were not invited....shame on you !! Your mom is a good mom to accept you after breaking her heart.

[@MsPangY]

Every Time A Asian Cooks In KZbin or Fb, I’ve Seen All These Mekas Judging Asian Foods Like Burger & Fries Is Good! It’s Fatty Foods … A Mekas Who Don’t Like Asian, Would Refuse Hmong or Asian Foods! Only Those Whose Been Around Hmong / Asian Loves Asian Foods! Some Mekas Would Open Up To Like Hmong / Asian Foods! I Don’t Have A Problem With Mekas, I Can’t Be With One Because They Might NOT Like Anything We Do! 😢

[@pavang5531]

Honestly the disrespect started with you at a young age. You were embarrassed of your parents/background at an early age when you refused to let your parents parked close to school. If you, yourself can’t respect your culture don’t expect outsiders to respect you, parents or culture. I honestly can’t with kids these generations. Idk how you guys allow your bf/gf to disrespect your parents and you so much. I can’t and will not married anyone who says “I hate your parents, your parents are not allowed to come or be near us”. Kids these days are so weak!

[@lifewithbrayden9135]

Lol I laugh at the "get out" nes nes mommy always know best. But trust me there's alot of young people listening hmong stories.

[@denamoua7262]

peb yeej encourage kom tub ntxhais yuav hmoob.kawg hais tsis tau los cianws mam qhia nws zoo dua

[@kuvxwb9466]

Y’all should have talked about all of that before getting married.

[@chouavang3093]

You just married the wrong woman, she didn't like your foods n your culture that was mean a lot already why married her?

[@bgr4669]

I’ve been with & married to my spouse who’s another race for almost 20 years. U have to have respect & be open to the differences in food, culture, language, religions, etc. It’s possible to be together but both parties have to be understanding & of the same mindset.

[@yangpaomoua6024]

Easy come easy go. Infatuation. She's in control little bro. Child support coming.

[@maihang9062]

For sure if my partner told me my parents couldn’t attend my wedding bc she/he heard “get out” and refuse to listen and understand it I’d say she got anger management issue, narcissistic, self centered human being. And that alone is already a sign for you but you refuse to see it bc you were in love. No one should be able to cut you off your parents. Glad you got away from away she’s toxic!

[@kaliax2414]

Same thing happened with my brother. No one in our family was invited to their wedding. We only got to see him once a year and I broke down crying when he was leaving home once. It was not only a dark time for him, but it was for our whole family. They eventually split and he's happily remarried now with our Hmong nyab.

[@denali12023]

Very good

[@JL2931-ls1ws]

I swear making eggroll takes a lot of effort and time. Meska people think it's easy to making salad. Hate it when they ask for it during potlucks. 😠

[@maihouavue6440]

U had a choice to live that hmong life but u choose the wealthy luxury white girl. So lesson learn.

[@KawmLusMekas]

Thanks for sharing.

[@CiindddyLauj]

There were so many red flags. Interracial marriage/dating is ok. You just gotta respect each other's culture and whatnot.

[@pavang5531]

I always thought that egg roll pronounced in Hmong is “ka yuab” not “ka yos”??? Just sounds weird hearing “ka yos ka yos” 😅😅

[@NpisVwjNeejYias]

I'll choose family over anyone else, if I was to be given that choice. It's ok brother. Let it be a lesson for you and many out there.

[@tonyvang5395]

Lyfe lesson

[@sandyvangyang110]

Great share!!! I'd be sad to if rice wasn't allow in my own home lol

[@chiliayang5832]

Nes nej me tub yuav tau mloog peb cov laus lus yuav zoo dua 😅

[@xayxiong1061]

That’s what you get for disrespecting your own parents that gave you life!! They don’t know much English but they know what’s best for you.

[@Doodoo578]

Like everyone said, so many red flags...if you are going to marry somebody...both parties have to like each other's culture and family....he was too fast in trying out white meat....😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

Dating outside of race is fine as long as the both of you meet in the middle. She cannot always have it her way. If you or her cannot adjust to each other way of living, it will be difficult. Other races are raised differently.

[@NcoNtsoovLuagTejTxiajNtsim]

You don’t see water liars then your hearts not soaked, for now you see water liars then your hearts is soaking this time right? This is Hmong’s famous Idiom.

[@TouYang-kl3es]

You can't accept a person that didn't accept your parents. If she loves yo, she must love your parents, too. She must marry tge entire your family. Beside this she must convert to eat & live like your way, but not her way. It's good to that you came back home because no place like home period. It's a good lesson to earn when you live so you won't tge same mistake twice. Good luck to your journey to find the right one in the future.

[@samxiong7616]

10 leej tub Hmoob yuav poj niam tawv dawb, thaum kawg tshuav li 1 leej tub thiaj tseem tuav lub neej xwb.

[@LiaMoua-v9q]

Ur wife is stubborn & childish & thinks of herself only. I’ve been with my Hispanic husband for 21 years & he loves me & my family & I love him & his family. She needs to grow up & stop acting like a spoiled brat.

[@timlor1789]

Doesnt matter the wife hmong or anything else. If you a mommas boy its not gonna fair well.

[@kayang3898]

Wow. You're soooo smart huh?

[@5tuglis573]

It was a disaster to begin with! Red flags everywhere, but you still jumped in. Smh.

[@leevue7803]

Koj mus yuav tau poj dab lawm hnub no koj mam Nco koj niam

[@npaujlis-angel8889]

That is too sad bro, you can’t even have a rice cook inside or almost outside and now you have to eat outside too. Should’ve took your mom’s advise. I believe she told her parents to come out and scold you about being messy.

[@yuxianlee2864]

Twb tsis yog kev hlub tawm hauv siab . Kev hlub sab nrauv xwb kev hlub zoo nkauj muaj nyiaj xwb. Ces kav tsis ntev.

[@XaiduckMi]

I think the next president should be Richard Trump, as the nick name for “Rich” trumps all decisions and all actions lol

[@angie-gz4yg]

guy didn't even know his girlfriend was a vegetarian. yeah, i'm not surprised it didn't end well. guy didn't teach his girlfriend anything about the hmong culture and girlfriend didn't seem open to learning about his culture. his parents didn't like her and the feeling was mutual.

[@vangthao4624]

So many red flags. Don't judge her judge yourself and your fault.

[@mloognkauj1074]

Kj mas cas tsim nyog rau dev yug xwb os

[@leevue7803]

Tuag tsis tuag

[@yengvue4849]

Ntuj os lawv aw mloog koj zaj neej neeg no mas nej cov menyuam ua tsis mloog lus ces mus yuav luag lwm haiv neeg ces yus los noj tsis swm luag tej zaub mov luag los noj tsis swm yus tej zaub mov ces txawv npaum Ntuj thiab teb xwb es yuav ua li cas nyob tau ua ib cuab ib yig nas.

[@luvinniceboxers]

There were so many red flags that shows you both were not compatible, yet you were not wise enough to realize. 😮

[@yinglee8513]

Ha ha cas nais khus kom xuas pas xwb es koj mus xuas khauj tsiav nas niam pog aws. Txaus luag kawg thiab yuam

[@atlasanyaandamazingplaces8597]

Ntxhais Hmoob los ib co yeej ib yam thiab. She already told you when you're dating. If so hungry for rice, just stay with rice😅

[@moa-maioutdooradventures483]

That's what you get for not listening to your parents.

[@myprecious6751]

LMFAO, brother, what did you expect when dating outside races. They have different views, ideas, food, culture, and beliefs. Puppy love, young love, and lust is a mistake for love. When you're in the moment, all new is great. But after a while, everything turns sour and ugly. People put a lot of stock into demanding respect. What folks don't understand is that respect is a two-way street. It's a give and take thing.

[@m.muaslis6902]

Unfortunately, people like her, no one can changed unless she changes herself. And unless someone is willing to bow down to her at all times. She's toxic. One day, though, she will have a rude awakening and it probably be too late. People like her cannot genuinely love others and respect others cultures. For you, hopefully it is a lesson learned. Never allowed for anyone to disrespect your parents like that. Your spouse can always be replaced but your parents CANNOT ever be replaced.

[@phouathao9741]

She a gold digger,,she thought you are. Rich men..but after you got married she realized you don't have money..

[@thomasveu8365]

Peb hmoob feem coob yeej tseem qias neeg yuav nrog luag cov neeg Vam meej nyob tsis tau

[@nkaujhmoobyang3436]

Lwm haiv neeg lossi peb Hmoob los ib yam yog tias tus koj nyiam es xav yuav los ua nyab/vauv tsis nyiaj koj tsev neeg tabsi nyiam koj xwb ces txhob yuav vim yeej mus tsis deb lub neej yeej kawg tawg vim thaum sib yuav lawm nws cem/hais phem tsis rau koj tsev neeg los mob2 koj siab lossi koj hais nws tsev neeg los tibyam ces kawg yuav tsis nyob ua ke. Zoo nkauj zoo nraug noj tsis tsaus nplab li tej laus ib txwm hais ces txawj muaj nyiaj kub npaum cas los saib tsis tau yus thiab yog yus tseem yog neeg muaj siab/ntsw ces kawg mob siab xwb!

[@leevue7803]

Koj Cav qhuas koj ntse ntse kawm ntawv siab siab ntshe koj mus kawm lub tsev kawm ntawv siab siab xwb os cuab ntse kawg thaum kawg mag ncaws tawm li dev xwb hnub no koj kawm tiav lawm mam li los Pom koj niam tej kev tej lus

[@Zeb1245]

If she were to marry a rich meska man, he would have a mistress on the side and would go to her when she throws her tantrum. If you are in an interracial relationship, it’s important that you both are culturally competent towards each other.

[@lifewithbrayden9135]

But good thing you didn't get her pregnant so it's a lesson learn.

[@maithao1139]

The problem is not her race. It's her attitude. And u ignored all the red flags about her

[@yiakue425]

The problem is she’s spoiled, you heard her saying she’s the only daughter. So basically it’s her way or no way. She’s inconsiderate, selfish, and rude. Culture differences plays a part in here but her demeanor and lack of manners to change or accept people differences plays the bigger part. And for you not to stand up for your mom, makes you deserve where you’re at right now.

[@nancymoua4982]

Cov niag neeg mekas mas thaum lawv hlub koj mas lawv hlub koj ib yam li lawv hlub lawv tus aub tus miv, thaum lawv tsi hlub koj lawm ces koj twb tsi muaj nqi npaum tus aub lo yog tus miv lawv.

[@sandyyang1244]

“GUY”

[@katrinashong8171]

Red flag 🚩 at the beginning. You guys dated and you didn’t even know she was a vegetarian., didn’t cook or do dishes. it’s her way or no way, no comprising . Relationships is all about compromising & respecting each other. She wants you to change 100% her way.

[@yin-yan9]

Regardless of race, RESPECT is everything. Anyone that disregards your culture, including anyone that cultural alienates their own, is probably not the one. Sounds like you disregard your own culture and still didn't work out.

[@maggiethor8067]

Yog yuav lub tsev no puas tau lub pas ntses thiab os.

[@Maivthoj.vaj24]

Kj yog ib niag tub lam kawm ntawv siab xwb ruam li ruam xwb os

[@nouyang3166]

You knew she couldn't accept your culture but you went on and married her so can’t complain. I never understand how someone said they love you so much but can't even accept what you want to eat 😂

[@saivang8699]

Hahah😂😅😂😅😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂funny tiag

[@yuxianlee2864]

😆 🤣 😂 😹 qhov koj nyiam yog qhov nws txawj hlub yaim ko taw ti tau hau xwb ne

[@npauhmoob4746]

Thaub aw! I see problems in your future already unless you can put it up with this kind of human being behavior......neb nyob uake ces kawg last tsis ntev.

[@julieannayang657]

Wow yog kuv no kuv twb muab lawv thaum ntxhov lawm

[@spenceryoung4422]

Niag tub ruam!!! Koj es tuag zoo dua os!

[@leevue7803]

Tsam no koj kawm tiav lawm los tsis tau

[@LeeXiong-eg8zw]

I see no color but this attitude of the wife is unacceptable, I would not tolerate this kind of behavior, the wife’s eye and heart has no acceptance and has all colors.

[@tiaxiong4805]

Meska some are bad some are nice. Ur ex she's vegetarian and doesn't like to cook they eat stuff that's been cooked only. She doesn't like your parents either.

[@kellyramirez7389]

Might as well live in garage.

[@tusiabmoua9169]

Thaub aw!!! Qhov koj niam hais koj ces yog qhov ko ntag los mas! Tej laus noj ntau diav mov, tej laus ntse tshaj nej cov hluas ko mus deb heev.

[@myprecious6751]

😂😂😂😂😂. Look where you're at now. Right back at your parents home. What a waste. You're so smart....jokes on you brother.

[@chuemoua6533]

I mean, if only the son worn the pants in this relationship, it would have worked out.

[@nragxyoojchannel7265]

😂 nco ntsoov os meka ces yeej zoo li no nes

[@paoyang2836]

Mi tswj suab hais tau lus qab zib tiag2 mloog tsi dhuav

[@hmoobpnw8479]

😂😂😂

[@sengyang6780]

Cov me tub me ntxhais lwm haiv neeg uas kam los yuav nej ces twb yog cov neeg dog dig neeg txom nyem xwb luag tej neeg ntse tsim txiaj lawv yeej tsis lam yuav nej li os, nco ntsoov qhov zoo siab dhau mus kiag ces kev ntxhov siab los xwb.

[@nouvang9245]

It’s ok, if you love your wife, do everything she says, your life has ended

[@kuatxobvh4481]

hhaahah koj txoj kev ntshaw yaim/npuav pim os yom koj kawm puas tau tiav na thaub?

[@zoolikuv]

She doesn't respect you, your family, or your culture.

[@sandyyang1244]

Man!!!! This has no balls!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@maivang6987]

Twb nws yaim2 es nep thiaj tso tsis taus tseg es dev hlub tub xwb nes .niag pog mikas xwb tsis yog pog hmoob .es peb cov me nyuam no ces dhuav2 kawg li os es yog hais tsis lawm es kav liam xwb thaum lawv muab laij tawm ces mas paub xwb os mog..

[@msmaix808]

It takes so long to make egg rolls, and your ex-wife does not even appreciate the efforts! Smh. There are good people, but she just not one of them (included yourself). You should have translated the "get out" instead of letting her misunderstand the whole situation. There are red flags all over the floor, and you choose to ignore them because you liked her sex game. Hope you learn from all that and never put someone who told you to choose before your parents or family. Smh.

[@gabbyabbybby]

What in the Get Out story is this??

[@WhiteFlower2050]

Thus relationship and marriage too complicated both your mom and Jenna. Doesn’t have a Hmong culture way all the time. American wedding should just be fine. Your mom already cursed you she doesn’t like Jenna to begin with lots of negative energy and misunderstanding and communication. Typical Hmong parents.