Hmong Audio Story: His father was not faithful to his mom. The grew up not close to their dad at all causing a lot hatred towards the dad.
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@kaimarro5175 ай бұрын
Finally a son with a backbone to protect his mom!!!!! So proud of you and your mom!!
@Springadel77755 ай бұрын
Most satisfying that you stood your ground. You had every right to refuse to help.
@user-vb9xw7rt3k5 ай бұрын
A father like that don’t deserve your love and respect, I’m glad you gave him a taste of his own medicine! Stay strong and be happy!
@maimoua58455 ай бұрын
Koj yeej ua yog tsaj plaws lawm. I'm so proud of you.
@ytv16105 ай бұрын
“Dad, you get what you give. I’m showing you the same grace you showed me. If there’s no karma with what you did to me, then there’s no karma in what I did to you. Koj hlub kuv li cas kuv hlub koj li ntawv os. Tsis muaj kev npam os”😄
@mivayang13175 ай бұрын
Based on your story, you and your mom suffered too long. You know the answer to your question. No outside can make the right judgement for you. Only you know the truth. So, move on, take care of yourself, your wife, your own family and your mom. Respect those who love and support you.
@adoralor77285 ай бұрын
Here my 2 cents, I hate parents whose always cursing their children if they don’t get their way, and using curses to control their children. I am so happy you are very smart and strong mind to stand up for yourself and protected your dear mom as a young child although your life. Being loved and respected works both way, I respected your decision don’t let other opinions bothered you. You do what’s right for you and your friend family. Good luck and find peace.
@Marylulee5 ай бұрын
You have courage for both your mom and you. You stood up for what’s right. I am so happy for you.🎉
@hx71615 ай бұрын
Koj tsis npam li os. It is only your dad and niam yau who are npam. I’m so glad to hear a story of a child who is standing up their ground and not letting parents who do them wrong walk all over them.
@PM-oe5mk5 ай бұрын
Life is too short so when it comes to family: Love those who love you, help those who help you. Hmong ogs need to stop with the, "Kuv yog lub ntuj nas," crap because they are NOT, they are just humans with human faults and failings---when you don't admit to your faults and apologize, you can never become a better person! Your father is a horrible husband, father, and human being all around. If anyone has bad karma, it's your loser father & his niamyau, that's why their children have amounted to nothing so far. Stay strong and never give in to cruel and selfish a-holes.
@phem555 ай бұрын
Tus menus kuv thov qhuas koj ua koj hlub koj niam and stood on your ground, like I told my children peb Hmoob mas lawv hais tias cov laus thiaj li hais thiab ua thiaj yog, but for me elders ppl can’f eccepted when we corrected them…love your mom
@ginamoua99895 ай бұрын
I WILL JUST SAY IF YOU KNOW AND BELIEVE YOU HAVENT DONE NOTHING BAD AND NOT AFRAID OF YOUR DAD 'S WORDS(CURSE) THAN NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. GO THE SAME FOR YOUR DAD. IF HE BELIEVE HE HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG AND BELIEVE HE RIGHT THAN HE HAD NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. KARMA ALWAYS COMES TO THE ONE THAT HAVE DONE OTHERS WRONG ONLY. SO GIVE IT TIME KARMA WILL COME AND YOU JUST HAVE TO COME UPDATE YOUR STORY ON HERE. JUST KEEP LIVING YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST. ONLY PAY ATTENTION TO THE ONE THAT LOVES YOU.
@lilyv.6285 ай бұрын
Brother, you are not wrong. Your father never helped you and now that you're your own man, you don't need to explain yourself to anyone for protecting yourself, your mother, and your family.
@palor67855 ай бұрын
Father like that, not heaven, just a weak, cruel human. You did great!! Thank you for protecting your mom!!
@fanyangel5 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ YES!!!!! We need more stories like this!! Proud of you!
@m.muaslis69025 ай бұрын
Forgiveness is such a powerful thing for you to do but that doesn't mean you need to fix what has been broken. May God give you peace. Good luck to you. ❤
@That1dv4 ай бұрын
Proud of you for sticking up for yourself and your mom. Don't waste any more time on your dad. Let him talk and say whatever he wants. You know you're a good person and if people believe him, always remember that bee's don't waste their time trying to convince flies that honey taste better than shit. Be the bee!
@maichang39775 ай бұрын
Mus lawb dab kiag xwb mas kom ua neej los tsis txhob sib ntshib hos tuag ua mus los txhob ua nws dab lawm xwb mas kom lwm hnub nws thiaj li tsis tau los ua mob ua ntsaj rau yus rau yus lawm os cov neeg phem li no mas tuag lawm los yeej tseem phem ho
@user-lq9rf9dm2u5 ай бұрын
You do a good job brother
@ouradventuresnspecialmoments5 ай бұрын
So proud of you brother for being assertive and standing your ground! You have done nothing wrong.
@bulma10295 ай бұрын
You dont owe your dad anything. Karma will not get to you. Looks like it's already catching up to him. Just continue to love and protect your mother.
@MV-ct6nj5 ай бұрын
Most proud! You did good!!!
@madamlilyxiong98615 ай бұрын
I hope we have more sons like you out there standing up and protecting women like your mom. I understand your situation 💯 because my husband is in similar situations. Kudos to you!
@kavang90235 ай бұрын
You did the right thing. I commend you!
@user-lx5yp8kx2s5 ай бұрын
I'm very proud of you stand up for yourself and your mom. You should tell your dad that he doesn't get any good sons because all the curse that he threw at you bounce back to his love once.
@user-lq9rf9dm2u5 ай бұрын
I am behind your back brother
@chatvang56485 ай бұрын
The brother, I walked on your road and I know how it is. Mine is actually worst than yours. My father wished the worst shits on me that you can think of and even more worst when he did it to my wife and kids. So I'm done with him the same way you did. I was never liked as far as when I remembered. Never been a bad kid or trouble with the law. Now I'm 50 so I do the best with my wife and kids and have moving on. No more contact with my elder man anymore. "Sad"!!!! Good luck to you and your family.
@_milly5 ай бұрын
Wuag, ib lub hamburger xwb los twb tsis kam yuav rau yus tus mi nyuam noj es ua cas yuav cuaj khaum ua luaj li os niag txiv siab phem. Twb tsis paub xav, tsis paub hlub mi nyuam li ces tsis tas toob kas yuav niam yau ua mi nyuam ntxiv lawm os.
@ylvue65 ай бұрын
Koj yeej ua yog lawm.
@charlesher.95085 ай бұрын
I'm so proud of you os me tub aw. Ib leej txiv phem g hlub koj niam neb koj yeej ua yog kawg. G npam koj li os. Yuav npam niam yau nkawv xwb mas twb npam2 es me nyuam thiaj mus ua laib tag ne. Koj yeej ua yog lm os Puam chawj li cas los nws yeej yog yus txiv mog. Qhov niam yau nkawv foom2 ces yeej g khaum yus os vim koj txiv yeej g hlub koj ne.😢😢😢
Tug me brother aw...we as children deserve to be love care for and respect too...mloog koj zaj dab neeg xwb mas remind kuv txog kuv txiv thiab os..(my dad is in heaven now) kuv yeej nkag siab koj thiaj koj yeej tsi muaj kev txhaum vim koj txiv twb tsi hlub koj niam neb lo ntev lawm . Sometimes kuv yeej tsi nkag siab thiaj yus txiv nas ib txwm yeej tsi hlub yus nas tabsi nws hos ntshaw2 kom yus hlub nws thiab no tiag....thank you koj tseem share puj peb mloog thiab nawb...it's ok, you loved your mom and take care of her...Cia koj txiv thiab niam yau nkawd mas take care nkawd cov tub mog... So happy you stand up to your mean father.....be BLESS 😊
@leek-te5dx5 ай бұрын
Brother I am so proud of you for protecting your mom and your rights as a man. Yes, cut your Dad off he has no right to use the Dad card to reap your services. Stand your ground, and stay loyal to you and your Mom. Your Father have no love for you or your Mom he will never love or acknowledge you, but he feels he has the right to control you because you are just poop and pee to him. Ignore that evil man and yes on his death bed you owe him nothing, you owe his second wife nothing, and you owe your half siblings nothing. Don't let the noise your Dad currently make scare you karma hits only those who commit evil. Dont ever believe the line "Im your parent so I can curse you." That statement only applies if you hurt and were evil to your parents of which you weren't. Your Dad treated you like crap your whole life. In fact, you lived a life as an orphan. It is best to love your Mom, wife, and your kids. There are people out there who don't have parents or only have one parent, and they live a fulfilled life. Don’t care what your Dad or other people say. You live life once, so be true to yourself and dont ever be afraid to protect and confront mistreatment. Remember set a good example for your kids to follow by showing them when to step up to mistreatment and speak up to abuse. Bless you, your Mom, and your family. Stand your ground Brother and stay strong. Your Dad is experiencing karma but he is in denial let him carry it to his grave because he ego is too high. He will never apologize and acknowledge what he did to you and your Mom so stay in your lane and let him keep running in circles whining because in his whining us quilt and for him he shows anger to legitimize it. Just smile, stay positive, and have a good laugh because clearly he's not the one happy now. Tables turned so dont let his status and age fool you he was once young too but he was born evil in this life time so stay clear and do not drop a single give credit where credit is do. Do not fall for your Dad's reverse psychology. You are human, you have feelings, and you want to live this life time too.
@BabyMelodyplay5 ай бұрын
Twb yog koj siab ntev dhau lawm yog kuv ces kuv xa ua Niam yau khwb nkaus tim niag maum dev ko es kuv txiv thiaj muaj nplus npaum no ob niag dev. Brother never go sorry them take your family to go church never look back period
@cheurphavang32805 ай бұрын
Wow! zoo mloog kawg.
@luvlettelee5 ай бұрын
Koj txiv yog ib tug txiv dev phem!! Koj ua yog kawg lawm!!! 👏👏👏
@xwmkabyang3545 ай бұрын
ib txhia txiv neej ces yog tau tus tshiab ces nws yeej hloov kiag nws siab txawm yog nws thooj phev los nws yeej tsis khes
@bluewhisper50085 ай бұрын
I'm so happy you stood your ground.
@user-kx7fl8lv1tАй бұрын
Koj txiv ces hnub twg tuag ces Koj txhob puam thiab xwb mas cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li
@c.lee-soulisak3275 ай бұрын
I didn't need to hear anymore after hearing that your dad didn't take you to McDonald's for a hamburger and drink. And then he also left an 8 year old child at home. I am with you, brother!
@hmoobmama5 ай бұрын
At the end of the day, it’s your money/credit, so it should be up to you to decide who to help. If u don’t want to help ur dad and ur younger siblings, it should be up to you. I personally hate it when parents or “older siblings” use their status to manipulate their children or younger siblings (I’m a middle child). I stopped caring about what people think of me or say about me, bc right now, I’m living a drama-free life! That’s all the matters.
@charlielor98775 ай бұрын
Ib leeg txiv zoo li ko, yog koj xwb. Yog kuv ces niag ntsej muag laus ntawd ncaj qha tim hoos maum xwb. Tsis li ces ncaj qha tim toj ntxas xwb.
@shawnlee4205 ай бұрын
Kuv support koj 110% nawb. Koj ua yog lawm. Yog kuv mas nws tseem mag sab tshaj ntawd. Cov leej txiv es yuav niam yau los tsoob rau niam loj saib, mus coj lwm tus pab me nyuam los hlub rau yus ntsia, nws tus niam yau cov me nyuam mas zoo li huab tais rau nws. Es txog thaum kawg nws tau kev txom nyem ntawd mas, txhob pub ib lub npib liab rau nws li nawb. Yog nws tuag lawm los txhob pwg laig nws li thiab ov. Nws twb muab yus tua tuag kiag rau hauv nws lub siab, hauv nws txoj kev hlub, puag thaum yus me me lawm. Yog yam nyob teb chaws txom nyem ces yus twb tuag tshaib lawm mos. Koj txiv qhia neeg dhau. Txhob hlub li nawb.
@SoNtswg_TavToj4 ай бұрын
Tu siab kawg. Kuv lub neej tsuag ciaj ces pauv tsis ntau koj lub. Niaj hnub no los kuv txiv wb tsis yog txiv tub. Kuv ob tug me tub los yeej tsis paub nkawv yawg yog leej twg li. Kuv ob tug me nyuam nug kuv hais tias ua ca nkawv muaj pog es tsis muaj yawg. Kuv tsis pom qab yuav hais li cas es kuv tsua qhia rau nkawv hais tias kom nkawv txhob tu siab es tsis muaj yawg los yeej tseem muaj kuv ua nkawv txiv.🥲
@Johnfamily20245 ай бұрын
I feel that you have the right thing. I am admired the way you protect your mom. People like your dad can only see and do thing that benefits himself. You shouldn’t regret anything.
@youtubingdiva5 ай бұрын
Tsis ua li cas os mog. Koj txiv yog tus pib. Nws yeej paub nws tus kheej qhov nws ua. Nyias ua rau nyias ris xwb. I’m so glad you stood up to him and do the right thing.
@chuevang62865 ай бұрын
Ib leej txiv zoo li koj txiv ces ua li koj ua los yeej tsis khaub li os me tub koj ua yog lawm nawb
@toosay2005 ай бұрын
Thank you for standing up for your mom❤ Your dad is wishing he never abandoned you.
@shouayang9965 ай бұрын
Brother, you do the right thing to help your mom .❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
@mhaiyaaj5 ай бұрын
Lub sij hawm thaum yus mes ces Yus yoog cov laus. Lub sij hawm thaum yus Tiav Txix ces cov laus yuav tsum yoog yus thiaj lis tsi muaj teen meem.
@user-ts1zd5bq4i4 ай бұрын
Koj yeej ua yog lawm os me tub Txhua Txoj kev Phem uas koj txiv tau ua rau koj thiab Tsim txom koj lub siab lim hiam rau koj niam neb ob Niam tub qhov koj hais koj ua rau koj txiv twb tseem tsis tau txaus kiag li os koj txiv cov lus foom2 koj yeej tsis npam koj li os mog koj tsis txhob ntshai kiag li.
@maivang69874 ай бұрын
Me tub koj yeej meem hlub2 koj niam nawb mawb mog .
@lanchathi53585 ай бұрын
Koj ua yog lawm
@cuzzo2735 ай бұрын
Brother you did the right thing. Who cares wtf that dude have to say. You know your life is better just continue to love your wife, your kids and your mom. All these dumb Karma sh*t he be saying isn’t gonna happen because the sky knows who’s in the right and who is in the wrong. Take of your self brother. God bless you.
@hlub77635 ай бұрын
Thank you for standing up for yourself and your mom. Please remember to love your mom always. Your dad is an SOB who only loves his niam yau.
@naoxiong25575 ай бұрын
Nyob zoo os tus kwv aws cas koj lub neej zoo ib yam li kuv lub thiab muab xav mas tu2 siab tshaj plaws tiag ntshe yog yus txoj hmoo tsis zoo tej laus yeej ua tsis yog lawm os. 2. 21. 24.
@npauhmoob47465 ай бұрын
KOJ YEEJ UA YOG KAWG, QHOV ZOO CES TXHOB PUB COV NEEG NTAWM TUAJ ZE KOJ TSEV NEEG LAWM. NIAM YAU YEEJ PHEM, LUB NPE UA LUAG NIAM YAU XWB CES KUV YEEJ TOTALLY AGAINST TXOJ KEV UAS MUS UA NIAM YAU.. .yog kuv ces kuv tseem lawb tshaj lawb dab thiab os TUS TXIV PHEM LI NTAWM FOOM YEEJ TSIS KHAUM KIAG LI.
Koj yog ib tug tub paub tu siab paub ris siab paub hlub paub tiv thaiv koj niam. Ib tug neeg phem li koj txiv nws tsuas tab pom yus phem thiab yus txhaum tas li xwb yus yuav tsum muaj peev xwm los tiv thaiv yus tus kheej li koj yus lub neej thiaj li yuav sawv taus. Koj ua yog lawm.
@dub24655 ай бұрын
Only u know best what u did. If what u said is true then there’s nothing to worry about. No harm should come to u because of ur father’s curse. I’m glad u stood ur ground and also defended ur mother. Protect ur family well n live a happy life. Best of luck!
@lolayaj4 ай бұрын
His pride got the best of him. He don't know any better. Forgive and move on. God bless 🙏 and good luck to you brother.
@LeanaXiong5 ай бұрын
Cov txiv uas yuav niam yau tsis tsim nyog hlub li os cov saib nrauv lawv tsis pom peb qhov mob li os. Tu siab tshaj plaws hais tsis tau qhia rau leej twg li os lawv aw!!!!😢😢
@m468hue55 ай бұрын
Tus brother tus txiv dev zoo li koj txiv ko tseem muaj ntsej muag tuaj khoo kom koj pab thiab koj txiv tsis txaj muag rau lub ntuj los koj txiv twb tsis hlub koj niam neb meme li nws tsuas hlub nws tus niam yau mob nceb thiab nws cov niag kas tom menyuam dev xwb ne lub ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag kawg tsam nws tuag tsis tau hleb ntim nws xwb siab phem li koj txiv dev ces muab nws lawb dab thiab muab nws tso plig kiag koj coj koj niam nej mus church kiag xwb lem hnub nws tuag ces tsis muaj neeg laig nws nws yuav rov los nrhiav koj niam neb thiab muab nws tso plig kiag tamsim no zoo dua
@jenniferlee87094 ай бұрын
Me Tub, you are doing the right thing. Don't feel bad about not helping him. He did not love his wives and children equally, you don't owe him anything. Nws tsis hlub koj, nws foom foom koj. Nws tus niam yau cov niag tub thiaj li tsis tsim txiaj. Thov ntuj foom koob hmoov rau tus tub ntsuag kiaj os.
@paLeevangАй бұрын
Koj ua yog 10000%!!!
@millennialhmong71214 ай бұрын
Brother, only victim kids like you and me know the pain and suffering of horrible parents. It's the #1 saddest thing for a young child to not feel love and value. Hearing your story, I tear and feel for you and see no wrong doing on your part. It's ok to distance yourself from evil people like your dad and step witch for the sake of your own family. I give you permission to be free of pain and obligations for parents who not only failed their parental duties but themselves too. Remember you are not a slave. You are so valuable and beloved by your mom, wife, and children. You must be strong for them. May God bless you❤
@iofdabholder5 ай бұрын
Koj yeej tsis Npam li os. Koj txiv yuav npam tag lau....lub neej niam hlob niam yau yeej tsis zoo li os. Don't worry...just love your mom.
@maileevue715 ай бұрын
So proud of you that you grow up to be a man. Protect your mom, stand up for yourself. You are good. Don't worry about the old man.
@user-oe6lj8gf4r5 ай бұрын
Koj ua yog tshaj plaws li os yog 1leej tub yuav tsum tiv thaiv tus neeg hlub yus.. hais txog koj txiv foom tsis npam li os.
@tonyvang53955 ай бұрын
Brother you are in the right
@saeyang82925 ай бұрын
Peb ua neeg ces yus ua qhov zoo txhob tsim txom leej twg ces txawm luag foom los lawv tej lus foom rov qab mus rau lawv xwb. Koj txiv twb tau txais nws tej lus foom koj lawm los tseem foom quj qees. Hlub2 koj niam thiab koj tsev neeg rau siab khwv rau lub neej xwb txhob nyuaj siab txog koj txiv tej lus foom, koj tsis tsim txom koj txiv ces tej lus tsis raug koj li os me tub.
@kayesisombath1155 ай бұрын
We all need grace. Forgiving someone is usually NOT for their peace of mind but for our own mental health. Forgiving your dad doesn’t mean you give in to his commands but standing up for your rights. The difficult challenges we face in life only make us stronger people. My point is if your dad and his wife had treated you and your mom better maybe you wouldn’t fought so hard to be where you are today. Peace!
@dianeonyxiong94575 ай бұрын
You are in the right, the old man never loved you now just want money from you. It's a good thing you didn't fall soft fall into his trap like so many other stories that we hear. This is one of the most satisfying story that I've heard. Good for you, cog paj ces tau paj, cog pos ces yuav tau pos...
@xeevang39075 ай бұрын
Cov tsis tau nyob lub neej muaj niam hlob niam yau ces paub los tsis cuag li yus raug kiag. This is similar to how my father in law's behavior is, too. I hated how all his wives (my mother in laws) can tolerate him, but I can't, and Im so done with his bs, I dont even have an ounce of respect for him or any fathers like him and your dad. Im glad you see your mom's worth and struggles and you stand your ground for her. You're a great son. Dont worry about his curse, he is only trying to scare you and that's common what the og would do.
@pangyingsayaovang6205 ай бұрын
Koj txiv twb npam lawm es thiaj niaj nub tuaj thov koj os. Live your life. Don't worry about him!
@maileethao14745 ай бұрын
You are not wrong. Cut ties completely and move on with your life. Keep loving and protecting your mom and as well as you and your little family. I hope for nothing but the very best for you and your family brother.
@leejmuam15 ай бұрын
Mentality of OG hmong men, "kuv yog lub ntuj. I can treat you like crap but you're supposed to love me and take care of me when I'm old." P. Quav dev. Everyone has heart and feelings. You get what you give.
@mikaylasong56493 ай бұрын
Tub mloog koj hais koj niam neb lub neej mas mob siab kawg kuv lub neej zoo ib yam li koj niam neb ko txhua tim koj txiv txawj ua txiv nws ua siab phem tsi hlub neb niaj hnub no twb npam me2 lawm qhov loj tseem yuav los tom ntej koj txiv twb yuav luag tsi muaj neej tua nyuj rau tshuav tsi ntev
@maivlee824 ай бұрын
You did the right thing by standing up for yourself and your Mom. Your Dad and his 2nd family doesn't deserve anything from you.
@bchang2275 ай бұрын
Just bc they're parents doesn't mean they can walk all over you like a door mat. Txaqm yog niam yog txiv los yog lawv ua txhaum rau mivnyuam ces npam lawv xwb. Tsis npam cov mivnyuam ib qhov me me kiag li os! Vim niam txiv twb ua tsis yog lawm ne. Lawv txawm yuav nyiam hlawv xyab hlawv ntawv foom yus ti saum ntuj los tsis khaum tsis npam yus kiag li! Ntshe, tseem yuav npam yuav khaum lawv naw!!!
@mv90734 ай бұрын
My biggest regret in life was not calling the cops on my abusive father. Due to the culture protecting these abusive men and making woman fear losing face. The emotional and physical abuse my mother faced all those years. I truly wish I would have put him in jail. You are amazing! You did amazing. The unjust some of these worthless fathers do. You stood up for your mother and you deserve all the good there is in life. ❤
@chouavang30935 ай бұрын
Koj yog leej niam 1 leej tub zoo o brother. Yog tsis muaj koj ces koj niam yeej tau kev txim txom heev nawb vim koj txiv coj tsis ncaj. Koj tsis xav pab koj txiv los zam txim rau nws o nawb.
@jackieyunan48994 ай бұрын
Cov neeg es muaj niam hlob niam yau ces yeej siab me li no nawb lawv aw...
@symouacheupao62285 ай бұрын
Koj ua yog kawg li os me tub Kuv tseem xav tias muaj lwm txoj kev ua neej thiab txhob nyob ntawm lwm hnub nws tuag kwv tij tseem yuav yuam kom mus ua npaum ub npaum no rau nws Coj koj niam thiab koj cov niam tub mus ntseeg Vajtswv Yexus xwb mas
@houayue5 ай бұрын
I'm glad you are able to stand up for your mom brother. Better now than when he is too old and on his deathbed. Lowkey, every old folks counter to end all convo they are losing to their children be like " Koj yug kuv los kuv yog koj na?" or "Kuv yog koj niam/txiv na, Kuv tam li lub ntuj na?".
@zookawg5 ай бұрын
If your half brother knows that he needs a pim, then he should go work for $$ to pay for it. Idk why hmong people always make it seem like others owe them when it comes borrowing money.
@chouayang47205 ай бұрын
Good for you brother. Don't let them use you. If you haven't done anything wrong, he can fong whatever he want, won't hurt you.
@Tshuv5 ай бұрын
Kwv koj zaj story zoo li kuv zaj thiab! This story is similar like mine at the moment! I cut all ties with my dad too this life! Ua zoo tsis tau zoo, ua ib siab tias yus tsis muaj txiv lawm tiam no!😢Tu siab heev tau ib leej txiv tsis muaj kev hlub yus!
@allisonvang60675 ай бұрын
Justice served!
@wisteria45505 ай бұрын
Karma only comes to those do wrong. Love and respect those that love and respect you. Your mother is your heaven, brother.
@Mirrasha5 ай бұрын
What's been done already done. Not sure what to say but my husband is in similar situation as you too. We pay our own wedding. He don't even have a mom to help him so it's just me and him, but we choose to forgive his parents. We don't give much as we not rich but we help out wherever we can. We don't cut them off and we don't hate them. You have kids too you should show a good role model to your kids to forgive and love and be kind. Be kind and one day your kindness will return you 10 fold. That's how I see life.
@xiavaj-bv2pq5 ай бұрын
If true what you said...and your father treats you and your mom like that he is wrong but because I don't hear your father side of the story I can't say whos fault. Stay strong for yourself and mom and stay away from your father is best.
@Money-q9n5 ай бұрын
Zoo heev, ntsij muag laus ntawv ces tab tom xwb. Cas koj tsis ua nws kom sab zog rau thiab.
@refreshyang23595 ай бұрын
The part that he come and force you to give money or go help loan is so wrong. You just the brother, it not your place to pay any of your siblings bride price if you don’t want to.
@kiayang54864 ай бұрын
Ib leej txiv coj li kos ce txawm yuav pe lub ntuj lo tsi khaum koj os me tub lub txim nws yog tu ev xwb os
@nengthao83185 ай бұрын
Koj txiv yug koj tab sis koj txiv twb tsis hlub koj tsis pab koj li. Koj niam yog tus pab koj xwb koj niam foom mas thiaj li npam. Yog koj txiv foom xwb ces nws foom rov mus npam nws xwb. Koj txiv twb ib txwm foom koj niam neb twb yeej tsis npam neb li. Txawm yog koj txiv pheej foom foom neb es thiaj li npam npam koj txiv ntag. Coj koj niam es khiav mus vaj tswv lwm hnub thiaj tsis tau laig koj txiv. Tsis txhob ntshaw teev koj txiv dab lawm os mog.
@chongly83515 ай бұрын
Me tub koj muaj peev xwm kawg zoo uas koj txawj txheem koj tus kheej thiab koj niam neb, ib tug txiv siab phem li ntawd ces koj yeej ua yog lawm os.
@user-xs9cx3qy7r5 ай бұрын
Great job!, u r truly an awesome tub.. Ur dad n his second wife got what they deserve absolutely karma. Ua neej hlub koj niam thiab koj tus wife n the kids;don't even bother to care them cuz tsi muaj life nrog lawm..
@angelalee45985 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@hthor18255 ай бұрын
Koj is yog lawm. Yog kuv los Kuv yeej ua ib yam li koj thiab. You did the right thing!