1 Month in the USA 🇺🇸 | Life Update

[@timgraaff7551]

Life in the U.S has changed. I’m 75 yrs old and the people and the general atmosphere has changed a lot, and not for the best!

[@thor9563]

You don't deserve to live in the most free, prosperous generous and yes, GODLY nation in the world. You have lost your way. Your happiness is up to YOU, not up to the government, your neighbors, your boss, even your husband or your kids if you are so blessed to have any one of those things. Talking like you do to a Russian like this is saying that the zombies living there are better off than Free Americans who had the cajones, the intelligence, the will to turn against their oppressor, risk death for their Freedom. Zombies have lost their frontal cortex, and operate only with the primitive part of the brain, struggling to survive till the morning sun. They have lost their aspirations for the future, for their kids, and stumble from moment to moment hungry for only the basics needed to survive. THAT is Russia's people who have been bullied and bludgeoned and starved by successive despots since before the 18th century and where each successive generation learns to exist with less hope, less power and more control and more false promises mixed with real threats from the hand of their little leaders in the Kremlin. This beautiful woman has escaped the reality of 90 percent of Russians, perhaps acquiescing to the conditions for her well being set forth by a criminal regime, ignoring the evil her countrymen have perpetrated on their neighbors and their citizens, ignoring 'politics' in exchange for some facsimile of independence within the prison of Russia. I appreciate her honesty. She seems to be struggling with some malaise or lack of direction for her life. She seems to have some depth of character that I hope will cause her to evaluate what is truly important for life and maybe she will find purpose as an influencer not for skin or hair or nails but AGAINST despotism and criminality that is openly sponsored by her leaders. Her life message should include sorrow, horror and regret for the blowing apart of thousands of lives and homes and hospitals in her peaceful neighbor's country and influence her fellow emigres to link together in a fight freedom against their common enemy in the Kremlin. God help her, bless her, and you and SLAVA UKRAINE!

[@pepelipeau9628]

Lucky you old timer not all of us are born in the good times

[@MikeRyzhikov]

@@timgraaff7551 the past, in global terms, was the worst.

[@Dave-ji1yp]

@@timgraaff7551 UTTER NONSENSE

[@bimmebeau]

Change is good. It's how you can tell that you are still alive.

[@zollar98]

Get involved in the community, take cooking, fitness classes, volunteer to do something you enjoy with others.

[@phoenixhenson3689]

She's a trophy wife...they don't do that

[@idorablo7]

@@zollar98 she's good for that God forbid 😁😂

[@idorablo7]

@@phoenixhenson3689 Trophy exactly wants her ass kissed that's all and milk her fiance for all she can get

[@curtmcalister4087]

If you don't marry after 90 days will you be deported back to Russia?

[@DeonPretorius-f9g]

In America, there is much more varieties, but they all cost. Everyone has their hand out. It's all about the Benjamin's.

[@dunka4038]

It takes years to feel comfortable and settled in a new country. Russia was your home for a very long time of course you miss it. Take your time and try to make friends 🧡

[@ercanbanka5377]

she is russian these people are born ill , they love to play super special people , i mean she was in rich dubai and complained and now she is in a Rich place somewhere in california and still complaining , like what the fuck go back to kremlchatka or what ever this Russo mongol place is called , as if she eats caviar and lobster at breakfast . Russian behaviors is absolutely disgusting only the british and dutch are comparable in degeneracy .

[@littlechestnutorchard]

You spent great time, energy and emotions for this journey. Be positive and focus on your priorities. You are an intelligent woman and I am sure you will get your reward at the end.

[@jeffreylang2633]

I have watched your channel for a couple of year, probably more.. Don't skip a beat with your videos. Just keep your story. A day in your life. Ultimately, you channel is about you, your experiences and YOU. I, as I am sure you miss you family. That element needs to be kept updated. My favorite videos were when you did cook outs on a river with your family. It reminded me of my own family.

[@aldoscala]

Жизнь - это последовательность уроков, которые нужно прожить, чтобы понять.

[@akwiredtaste]

I was born and raised in California but I left there over 40 years ago for Europe, and although I enjoy visiting America occasionally, you couldn't pay me enough to live there again. That said, most people love America and eventually come to enjoy the American way of life, and I really hope you will too. If all else fails, you always have Russia, but hopefully (one day) a much nicer, less dangerous Russia.

[@HatBilly2008]

I am married to a Russian wife, We live in south western Michigan. She loves it here. The 4 seasons are all about the same time. And lake Michigan is close by. We have lake effect snow also. My wife has been here 7 months now. Both of us just returned last week from Russia. We were there in Russia for 6 weeks, this helps her very much. She is like you from SBP. Return to Russia when you get your travel permit. For some weeks this will help you. Best wishes.

[@deathlarsen7502]

😂mail order bride eh? See how long it lasts

[@G-ra-ha-m]

@@deathlarsen7502 probably longer than average TBH, as both appreciate each other's cultures.

[@HatBilly2008]

@@deathlarsen7502 yes, mail man delivered her,

[@HatBilly2008]

@@deathlarsen7502 well, mixed culture relationship do 2 things they last or the don’t. The United States divorce rate with Russians is 17%. It is on google. I know 10+ Russian/ American marriages that are over 15 years old, some 20. Normal breakups happen in the 5 years. With Russian the gold rule applies, do on to others. In Russia the women out number the women, especially over 30. And Russian women don’t care and don’t want to be like an American woman. Russian women understand who they are and what a woman should do and not do. Smart, skinny, sexy, most have 2 college degrees, and can easily take care of themselves. What they truly want is a man that will listen, help, respect, and doesn’t have our girlfriends. She is not only my wife, she is my best friend, because we have fun together each day. Maybe, go to Russia and find out from Russia with love is real. Believe me it is never cold in Russia.

[@drx1xym154]

@@deathlarsen7502 -- have you gotten to know any modern American women?? I mean some are great, yet many went all _woke_ or femminnazzzi!

[@elliotmotola5348]

I can shear with you my story. I married my wife, a Russian. She lived in Saint Petersburg. She was 20 years old. She graduated conservatory. She had all her friends her family everything and she ended up coming to America and we got married. It was not easy for her. Also, all she had was me. It took her a while. She did get used to after six months and eventually started a career and in two years we were able to go back to Russia now she flys back every year twice a year. Also she became a citizen and were married 25 years.

[@ihastoomuchstuff2]

What part of the USA did you and your Russian wife live when she first came over? I'm also married to a Russian wife, only she is from Moscow, Russia. She was an international student, graduating from a small college near my hometown in Southern Illinois when we met. We've also been married for 25 years now. And as much as I had hoped she would adapt to living with me here in my small hometown, she also had a very hard time adjusting to life here in Southern Illinois, especially since she was a big city girl, being born and raised in Moscow. We lived together as a family with 2 kids for the first 10 years of our marriage, but she missed Moscow so much, that when she took our two small children to Moscow for a summer visit to see her parents there, we both agreed by that Fall that she should stay there in Moscow and enroll our kids in the public schools there so that our children would become fluent speaking the Russian language and grow up experiencing Russian culture firsthand. Unfortunately, I myself remained living here in the USA, always hoping that my wife and kids would one day return to live with me, and I stupidly stubbornly retain this mindset to this very day, being still married to my Russian wife, and I even routinely chat with her and our now grownup kids on Skype once each week, a routine we've been doing ever since the summer of 2008 when they left me to go live in Moscow. Sadly, I've watched their lifestyle dramatically improve over the years while my lifestyle here in the USA has declined, making me depressed and angry at the world. Like a tragic love story without an ending, my future seems bleak and uncertain. I hope President Trump will return to the White House and "Make America Great Again" but I doubt it. I think America is doomed.

[@mariojane8188]

@@ihastoomuchstuff2why don’t you move to Moscow with them ? I know it is not that easy. Hope Trump will win elections but I do not see politics changing the way we make friends and get a social life in America. This country is good for money and investments, not very easy for social life specially when you are a foreigner coming from such a nice place as Moscow or any other nice city. Wish ya the best. Trump trump 2024 !

[@fredgarvin4252]

Call Rimma tell her to get out here!

[@ihastoomuchstuff2]

​@@mariojane8188 ... If I could sell all of my material possessions that I have acquired from a lifetime of living here in the USA (remember, I'm 63 years old), including all my real estate properties that I've invested in, I'd move to Moscow, Russia. But liquidating all my assets requires careful planning and time, and I didn't plan for this. It was never my intention to move away from the USA because I was always under the impression that the USA was the best country to live in in the world. How wrong and stupid I've been to think this way! Now I hate my life, and I hate America, and I hate everything about my country. I'm not even sure at this point in my life if I could ever be the same person I once was anymore, because I used to be proud of my country .. a real patriot of America .. even though I never joined the military. Now that I am fully aware of how corrupt our government is, and how much damage our own CIA has done to other countries that have literally killed so many lives all around our world, it makes me physically ill to be a citizen of the USA. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place, with no easy way out.

[@ihastoomuchstuff2]

@@mariojane8188 ... If I could sell all of my material possessions that I have acquired from a lifetime of living here in the USA (remember, I'm 63 years old), including all my real estate properties that I've invested in, I'd move to Moscow, Russia. But liquidating all my assets requires careful planning and time, and I didn't plan for this. It was never my intention to move away from the USA because I was always under the impression that the USA was the best country to live in in the world. How wrong and stupid I've been to think this way! Now I hate my life, and I hate America, and I hate everything about my country. I'm not even sure at this point in my life if I could ever be the same person I once was anymore, because I used to be proud of my country .. a real patriot of America .. even though I never joined the military. Now that I am fully aware of how corrupt our government is, and how much damage our own CIA has done to other countries that have literally killed so many lives all around our world, it makes me physically ill to be a citizen of the USA. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place, with no easy way out.

[@dougfuller904]

I lived in Ventura years ago, nice city or was then. You should ask your fiancee to take you up the coast to Santa Barbara then to Solvang.. really gorgeous cities.

[@robertfansler7800]

Svetlana, instead of going to Palm Springs (which is an oven), consider traveling to Sonoma County, in Northern California. Explore the Russian River area, the redwoods and Fort Ross (Russian Fort from 1812-1841). Locate a Russian Orthodox Church, and join the community.

[@ICU1337]

Shes taking a 3 hour trip to explore more of America and you suggest that she instead take a 7 hour trip to find Russia in America and settle down roots there...?

[@jglee6721]

I don't get the impression that she drives yet. Her traveling is limited by her fiance.

[@robertfansler7800]

@@ICU1337Yes, or anywhere there are fellow Russian people. California has turned into a cesspool, compare to where she came from. If you’ve never been to Russia, you wouldn’t understand. She is going to be depressed and homesick for a couple years, in American culture.

[@mariojane8188]

That is not so easy . Being a foreigner after having an amazing social life back home it is almost impossible to adapt to social life in the US. American culture doesn’t have a good socialization specially these days where everything is gar away and people does not have the time. Russians are the opposite on this matter.

[@wokewokerman5280]

...or Hearst Castle north of San Luis Obispo and catch wineries all along the path, and yes, someday the redwoods are a must see!

[@houseaccount3293]

My wife is Russian, She loved the US but living here and not being able to go home during the immigration process was very hard on her. it is for everyone. And is something not everyone can handle. Being away from everything that is familiar and "comfortable" takes a toll on people. As time goes on you will feel better. it is important that you talk to family video chat and share you life with them in a positive way as you are here, or the sense of home sick can really weigh you down. And it can really strain a marriage having the depression, anxiety that comes with it. I wish you the best.

[@gavnonadoroge3092]

@houseaccount3293 your wife will feel better in two years. after she gets her green card, she will divorce you, and go on to the next knight in shining armor

[@polo_d_g]

@@gavnonadoroge3092 It'll take longer than that. I think first would come a conditional green card that's only valid for 2-3 years, which then I think can only be renewed if they're still married at the end of that period.

[@jjhonecker7644]

Мы любим тебя, Светлана, наслаждайся каждым постом, держись, сделай его еще лучше 💖

[@katvickas98]

After moving to USA I was crying for a year… Then life got busy.. And here I am 25 years later.. still adjusting… America isn’t the same…😢

[@deealex1402]

i have same type of experiense, russian people are so much more open,staight forward and real, i had hard time to make new friends in us, also russian people are more close to their family and friends, friends are considered to be family too, not in us. At some point these differences will efferct on everything, i got myself so much in troubles for being honest and blunt ,witch is not typical in US. Europeans are just different.i could never leave my family again for a man. i rather be happy in a country i love with my family and single. I didnt see much of my family when i lived abroad, it made me wonder what if something happened,and my parents arent young anymore they wont be here forever so i didnt want to be apart from people i love and people who make me happy. living unhappy somewhere just for someone its just too big price to pay

[@philipreed387]

@@deealex1402She should take your advice 👍

[@barbymoore7364]

I hate seeing you so sad. I hope your life gets better soon, you must miss your family so much.

[@gnome2024]

Same for my wife from Moscow. She has been here 18 years and we built a life together but she has always had tough time adapting to fake American people and culture. We are considering moving back to Moscow or find a home base country to make it easy to travel Europe and go home to Russia often. We have a newborn and I cannot imagine her growing up in culture here.

[@lisalogan133]

Get out of California. I live an hour north of Atlanta, Georgia and I love it here in the Appalachian Mountains 🏔️❤😊 any states in the south are great!

[@kennethtice4729]

The first thing you might like doing is: go shopping at South Coast Plaza in Costa Mesa. I used to practically live at that place. Next… take a drive down PCH to LagunaBeach and have lunch. Walk around and enjoy the sun a while. Look for an aquarium then head for Laguna Canyon Road and drive towards the 405 freeway. Enjoy the canyon lots of artists live there. Head South to San Diego then cross the boarder into Mexico. Go south to Del Coronado Hotel and stay there in a NICER suite with your partner. After you get there go out onto the beach. They’ll bring your drinks to you on the beach while you watch the sunset. Eat in the dining room there then when you check out head North. Look for the 55 freeway or fastest route to Big Bear Lake. Enjoy the beautiful scenery going up the mountain. Drive carefully. When you get to the lake rent a cabin. Light a fire if it’s cool enough. Meander around. I spent a lot of time there in my teens. Write if you liked your journey… much more to come. You’ll like California soon.

[@Carlos-vj9cm]

I work across the street from the South Coast Plaza. I always go there every week. My office is next to Mastro's Steakhouse where the Noguchi Garden is at.

[@semprefidelis76]

nice comment. perfect for the russian trophy wife

[@JB-eg1tb]

I totally understand how moving to a new place without an established support system is tough! Looking forward to you figuring out how to adjust to this new chapter in your life. Kasha and omelet looked so good!

[@Aurelius_777]

Your commitment, bravery and understanding for a different culture is commendable -- especially moving over for your man. I did the same for my wife, but from So Cal to Germany 12 years ago. It wasn't easy and I feel your pain! Not everyone will understand the love-hate relationship that goes with a move like that! Best of luck to you!

[@Mr.eFF0]

The trick to coastal California weather is to layer several pieces of lightweight clothing. This stops the moist air from getting too close to the skin. Get a hoodie or light jacket, and then wear multiple layers of breathable undergarments underneath. Then remove or add layers as needed throughout the day. A beanie cap under the hoodie is also classic California beach wear. If you want warmer beaches go to Florida! Also, salsa on buckwheat? That's so Southern California! Hilarious. Fashion Island in Newport Beach is a good spot for vlogging if you hate thrift stores.

[@carlosrojas9174]

My friend moved out or Russia three years ago. She's on TX and she hates it. Republicans in TX and FL are just the worst. Hope you can eventually find a place that you feel more comfortable. Big love for you.

[@kriskemp4952]

Welcome! So much to explore. Enjoy the freedoms of wandering around this amazingly diverse country

[@ernestconnell8087]

As an American, California is one of the last states that I would move to.

[@addictedtopussy69]

no worries, there are over 45 million people here in california that would disagree with that point of view.

[@joeshmooo5327]

Well thats sad for you, I have been to all 50 and California is by far the best, not even a close second

[@Rdimbus1957]

@@joeshmooo5327 Nice natural beauty, huge state....horrible Big cities and without a doubt....UNAFFORDABLE

[@andrewb8235]

​​@@joeshmooo5327The people are horrible. I prefer Boston, NYC, Chicago, Seattle, New Orleans, and other cities over anywhere in California. California is a place to visit, not to live. They really are the worst Americans.

[@briannelson3830]

@@Rdimbus1957I mean if you have the money the cities are fine

[@mannyb57]

One of your commenter is right you should go to Northern Calif. It's the total opposite of So. Cal. I was raised in LA. But in 2005 I left for North Carolina. I couldn't take it anymore. But if your going to live in Calif. Ventura is a pretty nice place to live. It's never to cold and never to hot. It's generally pretty peaceful there. I wish you all the best in your new life. Now you're finally with your man. My god what took that man so long.

[@hamsterg0d]

Life in U.S. is more spread out and car dependent. It takes more effort to make meaningful friends because of that. That may take time. Hope you enjoy nice California weather. The weather here in Wisconsin is almost as cold as Russia. I'd rather move to Houston than California despite the hot and humid weather, as California's housing is ridiculously unaffordable. Houston is the largest city with no zoning and low housing regulations which makes housing more affordable. Its also more business friendly which is why many from CA and NY are moving there.

[@pixsnapper1]

Get involved and active in some different community events. Some volunteering as well. Even if at an animal shelter. You will meet many people and expand that circle. Its there, go greet it.

[@ernstwiltmann6]

With Democrats it will be toxic and depressing.

[@kto-totam2876]

She is not used to work for free

[@ICU1337]

This was the comment I was looking for 👏🏽 Volunteer work if you cant work a job for whatever reason (I dont know your working circumstance) and find some social hobbies.

[@gregoryevans6857]

Adjusting to life after leaving Russia is undoubtedly challenging. It's completely normal to experience feelings of depression during this transition. Fortunately, it sounds like you have a supportive husband. Remember, many people have gone through similar experiences, and these feelings will subside over time. Building new connections with both Russian and American friends can provide comfort and a sense of community. The familiarity and comfort of speaking your native tongue with local Russian will also be beneficial. Getting out and about, perhaps by exploring your new surroundings, can also help. While it might take time, finding employment can contribute to a sense of purpose and independence. Don't hesitate to consider returning to Russia for visits to maintain your connection to your homeland. You're not alone in this journey, and better days are ahead

[@filejacker00]

All I can say is don't outsource your happiness. You won't find it externally, try to not let your status in life determine your mental state - It is tough, and i also struggle with it too. Count your blessings, be grateful for the things you have in that particular moment. Try to remember that contentment and satisfaction are much more realistic, tangible feelings... Although I'm pretty sure you already knew all of that.

[@yeshuamaitreya6954]

Wherever you go, whatever you do, whoever you become, never forget your roots.

[@realdealio1]

agreed..and she's making new contacts.

[@marcegrecco53]

@@realdealio1 her roots are showing

[@idorablo7]

@@realdealio1 she doesn't make friends 🤡

[@idorablo7]

@@realdealio1 where 🤡she doesn't socialize her fiance has the Trophy locked up 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jjhonecker7644]

ИСТИННЫЙ!!!!!!!

[@johnbellamy3406]

My wife is from Ventura. I've visited there many times. It must be quite different from where you have moved from. I have always found moving very challenging because you have to make new friends and connections and that isn't always as easy as everyone thinks it is. I moved to California from Sweden and it took me a lot of time to make a life for myself. Then I moved to the UK and it started all over again. I think it helps if you are able to work because you ca meet people through that.

[@sp1970ful]

Grass is not always greener. But you dont know until you try it out. Best of luck.

[@thor9563]

Numbers and reality don't lie. Russia bad. America good. Check the numbers. America's 'grass' is greener!

[@DanOpdal]

Hi from Minnesota USA! I'm excited to see your new videos. Welcome to USA! Cheers!

[@gabesimmonds8421]

You are in California not in the US.

[@frankwestmoreland4300]

Looks like she lives in Affluent California. The overwhelming majority of Californians don't live in Affluent California.

[@MrHorse-by3mp]

So what? For whatever problems California has, it's still a million times better than the Rust Belt (the ugliest and most boring place in the world.)

[@JMarSa-1]

Ha ha…you have a point.

[@Caesar_1415]

Lol, she needs to move to FL or TX lol

[@1BobsYourUncle]

@@MrHorse-by3mp. Ummm, no. The rust belt isn’t ruled by deranged democrats and governors who seem to hate their people. Sure California is nicer looking but it ends there.

[@michaelorfanos7416]

You are such a natural person. Remember, nothing is forever so just think of this as an adventure. This may just be that wonderful moment in time that you will look back on when you are older so enjoy it now. Take it all in as everything is different and you will grow because of it.🙂

[@DixieBanjo]

That feeling that you are missing is SOUL. The US has lost it's soul, especially in california where everything is plastic.

[@brucestafford4559]

Great video! Thanks for sharing your experience and mature thoughts!

[@E-Ryders]

Well, California is almost like it's own country and culture within the US.....lol Hopefully you and your fiancé can find 2wks of free time and maybe travel the entire country and visit a lot more states.

[@captnawty7966]

It's great to see that you have continued to produce your video's.

[@Spielerandom]

Ventura looks so beautiful 🤩🤩🤩

[@dougblythe5358]

It's normal to miss home, eventually you'll adjust to your new surroundings and your new life

[@bestwishes123]

After living in Russia It's like getting used to being in prison,

[@jeremyo1457]

So when i used to live in hollywood a few years ago we had a decent Russian community there. Like south hollywood, somewhat near santa monica blvd, but also in glendale too so if you look around in that area you might find some good stuff that reminds you of home))

[@rd7726]

Hollywood is drug addicts and overpriced everything. Cali is basically a cesspool now.

[@xlyal8908]

West Hollywood Russian jews are died out. Glendale is an armo land

[@harveypiper3268]

Home will always be remembered with positive memories and hopefully, that is true for you too. it can be hard to make such a change and yours is very large. Sorry, you are having trouble. Find a good salon and have your hair and nails done, I am sure that will be lifting! Making a few new friends will be a big boost for sure. I wish you the best and hope your adjustment will be swift and positive.

[@dj-jn7qs]

Welcome to Cali. Glad to have you. If you ever get to Granada Hills or West Hollywood, I would love to hear what you think about the Russian restaurants!

[@peterm.eggers520]

You have the aura and look of a California girl, unfortunately. I liked it when your Russian country girl side was shown. Though you look out of place in the countryside, you still seemed comfortable roughing it.

[@twelvestitches984]

I used to live in Camarillo and went to Ventura Community College for a few classes. Ventura is a rich area so it's mostly safe and nice. The City of Oxnard is not far from Ventura but some parts of Oxnard are dangeous, so, beware. If you are interested in a job the minimum wage in California is now $16 but if you work in fast food it's $20 an hour but you have to be able to work quickly. In the US you have to work at least ten years to get social security when you are 62 years old. You might think you don't need it now but if things don't work out with your fiance and you stay in the US that money would really help.

[@arcarajj]

You’re in America, A FREE COUNTRY. Relax & enjoy life. You’re free to say and do what you want as you please. Hello from Chicago✌🏼

[@stanspb763]

She was in a freer country, with great access to culture and people were more educated, cultured and have depth and the quality of life is better than in the US. Who told you Russia is not free and more democratic. The biggest single differences is honesty, higher quality of life for the entire population, and far more cultured society in Russia. The media, government and people on the street in the US are not interested in the truth. The rest of the world knows the US by the term Empire of Lies, where truth is not likely to be found. Being superficially friendly when first meeting turns to anger if you say anything the other person does not hold the exact same view. I have spent time in 92 countries and the least friendly if there is a different view or experience is unique to the US. The vast majority in the US are deeply in debt and have a negative net worth, that is not the case in any other country. A person with $1500 a month income, the current median in Russia, lives very well with no debt, most people over 20 owns their home, while most in the US are on 20-30 year debt. Twice the percentage of the population has a degree, and no debt. No medical debt and better medical care access...Free. Unless living remotely no one is hindered from a full cultural and social life without a personal car. Everyone gets along in Russia, which has over 200 separate cultures, ethnicities and all get a long. Crime rates are far lower than the US or Europe, access to healthier food without the chemicals and GMO that has cause the US to be one of the least healthy societies on earth. There is an almost no access to culture. In her native city there were 473 museums 54 concert halls, 237 drama theaters and 600 beautiful parks that like everywhere in the city she was perfectly safe to walk anywhere alone at 3am. The crime rate is so low for the entire country that in 2017 the government closed 73 prisons due to lack of prisoners. The public transportation is clean, safe cheap and frequent and the metro...subway..is excellent so one can go anywhere in a large city much faster than on surface streets for $0.45. Attending a world class opera and have many to choose from every night is about $20-30 but in the US the last time I was in NYC, before covid, my GF wanted to attend an opera we both like and the only theater in the entire USA that night was at the MET so I went to get tickets and the mid-grade seats were $1600 for two. We were not impressed with the staging, acoustics and sets were very modest. It was ok but not great. We tried to get tickets for a Broadway theater and tickets were $197 each and passed on that. That short 10 day trip cost more than all costs of living a much higher quality of life in St Petersburg for a full year. Poor in the US are REALLY poor compared to world norms for quality of life. My GF had never seen homeless and they were everywhere. In once beautiful San Francisco homeless had taken over the city center, crime in the US is off the charts culture and unity are non-existent. Not one newscast or newspaper told the truth about anything . Americans know almost nothing about the world that is true. The cost of health care is criminal and it is middle to below international norms. Hospital induced infections that lead to death is by far the highest in the world and Americans are charged 10-2000 times as much. It is obvious Americans are the least healthy since they are eating foods that is making them fat and unhealthy. I have had a great life in Russia and it is very low in stress and conflict between people. It is a more homes better educated highly cultured society. Go visit and compare to what your government and media has lied about. American society is collapsing and now is one of the very worst countries to raise a child or have a safe low stress life.

[@arnoldcohen1250]

Welcome to the New World! In a country as huge and varied as the USA even moving from one coast to the other, from North to South, and from the coasts to the heartland, city to rural areas requires a lot of adjustment. That is one of the great things about the US, if you have the ability to move around you can almost always find your best home but even that takes adjustment. With your skills you can join a photography group, volunteer to teach swimming to underprivileged kids or even join an athletic club with a swim team, cooking groups teaching regional American cuisine, hiking clubs -- all can lead to great trips in the US and topics for your channel.

[@mojo6886]

I would never leave Russia for California.

[@sassycat6487]

I would never leave anywhere for California

[@gmcjetpilot]

We are thankful for that.

[@tylerrobbins8311]

As a Californian trust me this place is a derelict know. If you can avoid this place so so we're run by a brutal regime of lunatics.

[@omnikosm8472]

How long have you lived in Russia?

[@Tortuosit]

I would never leave an Ugandan prison for California.

[@carlbyronrodgers]

What are the 6 stages of change in Prochaska? individuals move through six stages of change: precontemplation, contemplation, preparation, action, maintenance, and termination. Termination was not part of the original model and is less often used in application of stages of change for health-related behaviors

[@VIDASIMPLESNASMONTANHAS]

Amo seus vídeos, te assistimos da selva andina, desde uma ilha cercada de nascentes de águas cristalinas e cachoeiras de águas termais, para chegar a nossa cabana nas montanhas somente a pé ou a cavalo, não temos vizinhos! Perto daqui tem montanhas nevadas de até 4.200m de altitude e curtimos muito seus vídeos, somos a família "Vida de Campo na Prática" 🫂

[@elkigirl123]

You look absolutely beautiful, God bless you in your new home and you are right you will get your bearings soon! Wishing you every happiness 💛🥰🙏

[@Iuckylukey]

If you procrastinate, the best way is to do something very simple just to get started. Like open the laptop and look at one of the clips from that Dagestan series, to get in the mood, and then to write up the top five story points that you remember about this trip. Also promise yourself a reward, like taking a walk outside. Another reward is to pleasure yourself with a vibrating massage wand until you reach a noisy climax, although this may create too much anticipatory tension which can be distracting.

[@DerSchrottBastler]

what i find most remarkable in this video is that you allready start to sound muuch smoother in your emphasisation. love to hear what happens after 4 months, 12 months, a few years. stay safe.

[@idorablo7]

😂😂😂 🤡😂🤡 clown statement

[@honkbob]

Your feelings are real. Be honest, I've had them too when moving. You will adjust and make new friends - you are a good person! Best to you and your life!

[@iamwhoiam4410]

I'm seeing things in you that I saw in my wife when she got here from Stary Oskol. Maybe you're getting a little homesick. She also went through a stage where she didn't like some things, such as you did the food store. She made friends with the wives of my friends. As time moved on for her her life in Russia started to fade away and she started to having fun being here with a man she new loved, respected and cared for her. She watched this video and said oof, I remember those days. They were difficult for me, but as I got more accustomed to my new life here, I knew I had made the right decision coming here with me. Her life is busy now with our grand kids as their babushka and grandma. She's also a US Citizen and has no plans to return to Russia not even for a visit. She's happy, vibrant, much loved by all that knows her and more beautiful that she was the day I first met her. You're going to be ok with a positive attitude moving forward. We've got your back covered with support.

[@georgekaplan6451]

It's a big step moving countries. I moved from New Zealand to Australia 31 years ago. Got married, had a son, started my own business and got divorced after almost 22 years. The culture is very similar. New Zealand is more English while Australia is more American. You find new friends and build a new life. Occasionally I get nostalgic and feel I might like to retire back to NZ but I wouldn't.

[@coolhand6669]

Well I've been watching your KZbin channel on and off for the last couple years since you started. And I know you moved to United States. And you move to my state California. So let me tell you about my state california, it's a great state but you have to get over some of the people that are kind of stuck up a little bit. I don't think half of the people even know where Russia is truly. But 75% of us are very very nice the other 25% have certain problems they are too into themselves they think everything has to be handed to them or they should be influencers or something like that i don't get into it personally. But the one thing california is really great because we're going to 5-hour. You can go to the ocean and we can the Pacific Ocean swimming or surfing or drive 3 to 5 hours and be in the mountains and if this was still springtime you can go up and ski. I see you went to palm Springs it's okay my parents live in Palm Springs and they have for 40 years it's only a good place personally once it gets below 80°. It's comfortable but right now as I'm writing this it's 114f yuck. Too hot. One thing i will say this because my family used to be in women's clothing for many many years i've seen your videos from Russia and you do have a good look and really good clothes. Possibly become a model. Just be careful that's all but California is a good place to start some type of interesting business and I'm not sure why you're interested in. CoolHand San Pedro California

[@rthjong]

Looks like a nice place. I recently moved to another place here in Brazil and it’s the same thing. You have to get used to the new environment and new people. But that’s also a nice experience. And local people are also looking for new contacts. Just talk to everybody who’s interrested. 🥰

[@rthjong]

I’m sure you will like it there after some time. California is a great state and the wheather is a lot better than in Siberia ☀️

[@Paulie1232]

welcome to America 🇺🇸. You will get use to it, especially when you don't have to deal with cold long winters. 😊😊😊

[@ernstwiltmann6]

Depends on Regions.

[@barthanson3043]

You like drinking the propaganda koolaid. Russia will suit you perfectly.

[@dan2995]

When cutting food hold your fingertips inward and keep your knuckles outward, this will reduce the chance of cutting your fingers. Watch how professionals chefs cut food sometime, they never keep their fingers exposed.

[@Jim-nt7xy]

Regretfully, Ventura vs St. Petersburg is no competition.

[@xlyal8908]

she is a victim of American propaganda who was mail ordered by some most likely Latino farming loser

[@zeussinternational]

St Petersburg more cultural place... ventura is one more city of the bunch..

[@ThinkHEAVEN-YouTube]

Head for the Vancouver, British Columbia area! ❤🎉 THAT'S where you wanna go! No kidding!

[@alrestauro]

Welcome to California. So good to know you are doing well. So much uncertainty you have to go through just watching your life turned upside down with is crazy war. Now you can relax it will be okay.

[@AmericanEmperor]

She is away from Russia so shut your mouse................ She just need to listen to "don't worry, be happy" by that South African girl.

[@JCVdude]

we are all different people - having followed your channel for some time I can see you have a 'huge' heart full of love for all things, travel, nature, food and perhaps number one is your family, missing them and your home country will grow in you and be always present. Friends, no matter how good will not take the place of your family as for your homeland - your heart will ache more and more. The US is amazing, beautiful and full of wonder, have traveled all across the US I loved it, including the people I met along the way, still it is not the home where we experienced closeness of family, school, relatives and growing into who we are. You will never.....BTW I am about 1,100 miles from where I am on the same West coast.

[@johnyturko]

Welcome back!

[@MrZonYT]

moving to the US is a big shock, it will take a looong time to adjust to all the oddities and craziness (from a european perspective)

[@franktoledo6342]

California is in a sad State everyone who is someone leaves. Good luck.

[@BunnyWatson-k1w]

I am glad you are adjusting to America. There are so many cute cities on the coast of California. You can leave San Francisco and hit several small towns.

[@Johnny-tt8zc]

Hi Jayhawk, take your time and travel around a bit. I’m positive you will find an area where you just get this feeling of peace, like this is home. It may not be in Cali, it might be in Florida or Georgia or South Carolina 🤷🏼‍♂️. Have a peaceful week Svetlana🤗🤗. 🌲

[@carlgriffith4660]

Svetlana, honestly, all your complaints which are normal, should have been foreseen and considered by you before you ever consented to moving to the USA. You made a HUGE transition in your life and these types of decisions should never be made without considering all the consequences. Well, I hope you adjust. I am an American, but I have lived in three other countries on two different continents and visited many, many others and honestly the USA has the best to offer if you have the ability to live within the economic limitations set by your own individual circumstances and means. Good Luck!

[@idorablo7]

Russian women are fucking spoiled not happy until they keep getting she hates here move back to Putin's bullshit Communist state

[@phoenixhenson3689]

I agree and disagree because while things are still doable the Country is still in sharp decline!

[@idorablo7]

@@phoenixhenson3689 Russia is shit just wants all the free benefits spoiled probably using her fiance until he wakes up and stops using her too 😂

[@joanofarcxxi]

I agree.

[@G-ra-ha-m]

@@phoenixhenson3689 Agreed! The problem with moving out of russia now, 2024, is that the world is in a 'reset', a time of manufactured decline. I'd not advise anyone, even europeans to move to the US now. Twenty years ago, perhaps. Now, no.

[@PhantomSims]

Depending where you live in California Svetlana Theres a lot of Russian cuisine markets churches etc

[@smith2781]

I’m English and I lived in America for 5 years. California is 💩. I moved from LA to Clearwater in Florida and was much happier.

[@deahelkcunklaer2180]

Same here, I moved from Newport Beach to Naples and couldn't be happier.

[@smith2781]

@@deahelkcunklaer2180 That’s where I was at Newport Beach lol. I also looked at places in Naples too. Small world. I was living in America for work purposes. My parents came to visit me and we took them to longbeach where we were having lunch by a beachside restaurant. 2 homeless guys got out of a tent and started arguing, one pulled a gun out and shot the other. It was a shock considering I came from a country that doesn’t have guns I’ve never seen anything like that before. Florida was lovely though I didn’t want to back lol.

[@TheFman43]

I live in Sonoma County in the middle of the California wine country..where the weather is almost perfect year round...I can't take the hot weather of other places like I use to years ago.

[@glennoc8585]

I've met a few people that have moved from LA to the Carolinas and east coast. It's surprising how many expats often go back to the UK and Europe eventually.

[@smith2781]

@@glennoc8585 Yeah that’s true. A lot of expats go back for 2 main reasons. 1: most of us go to America just for a few years because we work for an American company or are doing work with an American company. 2: The quality of life is better in Europe than America.

[@willbygosh4887]

Move to Myrtle Beach South Carolina where theres a Russian/Ukranian Community there also,much more reasonably priced with less taxes.

[@mariojane8188]

America is a great place specially for business and money. I am a foreigner, artist and moved to the US 23 yrs ago and I’m still missing the social life I used to have. I couldn’t hesitate to watch your video when I saw that title! I started to think about how important family and friends are to our lives. My recommendation to you is to do your best at building up a social life here. Americans is general are very different when it comes to socializing! So please focus on making the type of friends you really need to have. I wish you the best in your life. ❤🎉 🇺🇸☀️ -YCH

[@flowerforsyte5671]

That's the problem with America. You can't develop any real human connections therefore, it's practically impossible to get real genuine friends in America. Most Americans are fake and mentally sick. And American society only cares about work and money.

[@samedwards6683]

As a fellow immigrant to the US from a different hated country (Iran) oh, over 40 years ago (right before its disastrous revolution), I wish you all the best. At the very leas, 99% of Americans still romanticize Russia - and especially beautiful Russian Brides - so you'll be subjected to very positive reactions (99.9999% of the times). You know yourself best, so I am sure that you'll adjust just fine to CA sun, beach, and fun (I recall how much you Loved St. Pete's sunny days). I hope that you'll adjust to CA faster than you did to St. Pete! The Love's sparkle in your eyes are Very Beautiful. He is a very lucky guy to have found such a positive person and I am sure that he knows it too. By the way, I am sure that you know that the best way to make new friends is to go out and "put yourself out there". Join something. Start some (temporary to you) people-facing job. I am sure that places like Cartier would Love to have you show old men how their jewelry (etc) "could" (in their dreams would) look like when worn by their wife, GF (or even mistress - people...). Welcome to America!

[@101anddone2]

I just found out Russia is the only country run and governed within itself and no other influence. We learn something new everyday.

[@stripedassape8148]

And now you know why the western elites hates them

[@silkbuttons]

Iran. China.

[@jsal2366]

Hopefully you will adjust wishing you the best ❤

[@mikefernandez1929]

“California is my favorite state”! I know this upset some of your Russia based / California doomer fans the wrong way 😂😂😂 But I'm really happy you're enjoying it in California. It truly is the best place in the world!! Fun fact: Long Beach is Sochi’s sister city and they have a Friendship Park called Recreation Park Much love from Baja California, Mexico 🇲🇽

[@eddieohearn17]

I’m gonna recommend that sometime you go to the mountains go to Julian. It’s above Palm Springs in the mountains, but on the east side of the mountains and if you can go for the Apple Festival, I think they still have that.

[@JamesRocks920]

Welcome to USA 🇺🇸

[@bestwishes123]

To leave Russia for the shabby USA with its LGBT policy - what kind of fool do you have to be?

[@JamesRocks920]

@@bestwishes123 I was just welcome her

[@ddyjjooee]

I loved living in California. Stationed at Edward’s AFB. Spent my weekends in L.A. moved to Florida when I got out of the service and hated it. Too hot,humid and the Bugs were horrible

[@70stunes71]

Good morning Svetlana ❤ best wishes. Remember, us Americans would struggle trying to find initial balance in Russia also!!

[@eliz3574]

I enjoy your videos and think you are very brave. I live in Virginia and have never been to California. Keep showing as much as you can!

[@lot6129]

You got food, a roof over your head, hooked a man, STOP complaining! Make sure you register to vote, and vote for TRUMP!

[@benjamincresswell3713]

Yes, don't vote for pre-perestroika pre-glasnost living. Trump will allow you to have all the Freedom you will ever want.

[@curtflirt2]

@@lot6129 She can't vote

[@fairlane19641]

She’s not a citizen yet !

[@paulkington8380]

Only psycopaths would vote for convicted felon and pedophile trump...

[@mrman26]

I get it. I’ve moved abroad before and it is a huge life change. Eventually, you get acclimated and your new country feels like home. I hope that the transition goes as smoothly as possible for you. ✌️👍

[@colinmaharaj]

America, is the typical example where there are lots of people, but no one is connected.

[@grantnoroyan4083]

I dont disagree with alot of points however i think this is MUCH better than russia and putin in charge be grateful for what you have

[@zaynevanday142]

No it’s not 😂

[@grantnoroyan4083]

@@zaynevanday142 ENJOY RUSSIA my dear best of luck!

[@martinkasper197]

​@@zaynevanday142Good luck in the meat grinder, soldier...🤔

[@grantnoroyan4083]

@@martinkasper197 SAY hello to putin

[@stevestevens502]

is biden or kamala better? lol

[@PatrickCharlotte]

Thanks I just messaged her, and she responded, I'm so happy guys thanks for this essential info.

[@quinninstrumets8259]

Seriously, get out of CA, move to Texas or Florida, everyone and every business is bugging out of CA because it’s turned into a giant toilet and it’s getting worse on every front. I live in North Texas, yet I’m a 3rd generation Californian, what’s that tell you

[@me2ontube]

Not if she's gonna vote Democrat- we don't need more cali bs

[@Blurggg]

You're talking about toilets and you want to send her to an outhouse. Florida is full of lunatics, the weather is beyond humid, tons of hurricanes ans flooding, alligators, snakes, giant bugs. Girl, move North. Pacific Northwest or New England.

[@rd7726]

Yes! California has been ruined by the left.

[@isaactesfaye4911]

Y'all hate California because you can't afford shii. It's not a toilet. We're doing great here 😂

[@nesara4047]

Yes she would like Florida better. I liked it there. More conservatives and Patriots. ❤

[@Spielerandom]

Yes 🙌🏻 A new video 🤩

[@kto-totam2876]

Svetlana wanted to get green card in case she needs to flee Russia for any reason. So decide what you need more, green card or comfortable and spoiled life in Russia.

[@12313846]

Nobody in Russia is interested in a green card.... Because life in Russia is way better than the US. Take a look at yt how many westerners emigrate to Russia.

[@rons3103]

"Who moved my Cheese!" Svetlana, what an undertaking, what a major change. It is one of the hardest things in life to do because you left all of your comfort zones. Would have not expected it to be so windy there, but I guess it is the ocean breeze! Very nice looking town, it is not city living, and I (we) can wait to see more. Totally agreed on the Vons, when I visited San Diego in the past (least favorite). Keep yourself busy and WhatApp your friends from Russia! I'm sure you will make more friends in time. If need be, you can always ask all 130k of us! 😁😁

[@يااللهيارب-ف2ق]

I am your sister from Yemen, and by Allah I only spoke out of hunger and distress. My mother, my brothers, and I lessons and tears. We are in a situation that only God knows about. God is sufficient for us, and He is the best disposer of affairs for those who brought us to this situation. By Allah Almighty, I did not write this appeal out of distress and distress. Poverty, O world, they have felt it So, I hope for you. By Allah Almighty, Lord of the Great Throne, he ate what I had in the house. By Allah, my brothers, he is my brothers by sitting in the house. Who has no food? By God, we are in a very difficult situation. We have 6 people entering the house, and my father has died, and there is no one who can depend on us and who lives in it.We live in a rented house because we cannot pay the rent we owe. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' ''''''''''''' My brother, my first words are: I swear to God that I will not lie to you or deceive you. I am a Yemeni girl displaced from the war. My family and I live in a rented house in Al-Shahrab 15,000 Yemenis among us, and now we owe 45,000 for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of the people who does not have mercy, by God, my brother. He comes every day, insulting us, talking about us, and moving from the house to the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. The neighbors saw us crying and came back.They came back to talk to the neighbors and we were given the weekend. So we made him swear by God. He will take us out into the street. Have mercy on him and us. Our country is due to this war and we do not find food for our day, and my brothers and I live in a difficult life. Our father died, may God have mercy on him, and we have no one in this world who was with us in these harsh circumstances. My younger brothers went out into the street and saw...The neighbors eat and stand at their door in order to give them bread even if they break it. By God, to whom belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth, they closed the door and expelled them and came back crying. They are dying of hunger. No one has mercy on them and a holiday is returned. I have made a living, and now if one of us helps us with a kilo of flour, I swear to God, I am dying of hunger. My brother, I am an alien to God. Then, I ask you to help me for the sake of God. I ask you, by God, to love goodness and to help me, even if you can, by messaging me on WhatsApp.On this number 00967717354582 and ask for the name of my card and send it and do not be late and may God reward you with all the best, my brothers Sagar, see how they are and help us and save us before they throw us out in the street, you will be lost or we will die of hunger. My family and I ask you, by God, if you are able to help us, do not be late and may God reward you well..`/--~«««~-♡~♡~♡~~•~•~♡~♡~♡~♡~♡~♡♡♡~~~: ~:~¡~¡~¡~;I.i.i.i.i.i-.😢😢😢😢😢

[@dineshkumthekar3135]

Please remember that there is no Allah, he was created by Mohmmad to scare pagans of the desert. Mohammad was fake prophet He was the biggest terrorist on the earth..

[@2GringosOnTheGulf]

Hola friend great video. 👋🏽👋🏽 We loved our time spent in the USA, though we have never lived there. Not sure I'd pick California to live full time, Florida or Texas yes. Thanks for sharing, cheers from 2 Canadians living in Mexico. ✌🏽💖 PS: My mental health improved greatly after I left Canada.

[@NaisonEmily]

Yes!!! That's exactly her name (Sarah Lerio) I've seen so many people talking about her....and am just starting with her from Ontario Canada 🇨🇦

[@TraditionalAnglican]

You had a community in Russia - Go to a church; Tip - Put the omelette with the straight part on the middle of the plate. Ventura is beautiful, but try spending time in West Hollywood which has a large Russian population.

[@101anddone2]

California has the best sunny warm weather all year in the US. Go cruise on highway 1 from SoCal to NoCal for the amazing ocean views and sunset with your husband.

[@vinouthavong1388]

I'm preparing to move my Maria from Moscow to Dallas, TX soon. Definately will prepare to help her get adusted from Moscow because she won't have friends yet other than just me. At least I will be able to introduce her to my Dentist who is Russian and many of the staff are Slavic and speaks Russian and see if she can get involved with many Slavic community so my Maria will not be too homesick.

[@skullandbones1832]

There are many different states you can live in here in the USA you're not limited to one area. Finding your passions and happiness in life what calms and soothes your soul.

[@hollyiaquinta544]

Keep posting I love your videos. Continue being authentic in your thoughts.

[@MJGangitano]

My wife is Russian and every year she has to do a trip home to refill her energy. Better get Turkish Air Credit Card (it will definite get its use) :) She to misses the populated streets during our walks. She also mises the social life and events(theater and festivals). Very different from American Fairs. You are lucky living in Ventura very lovely small city we visited many times. It does take time, Our best wishes

[@PaigeLundberg]

so nice seeing a slice of your new life in CA, you will get adjusted soon enough. I have been a longtime viewer of yours from Minnesota. I think you might find northern MN slightly like Russia, or as close to Russia as you can get in the US, if you come to visit this winter! At least close temperature-wise! :)

[@SVETLANAFROMRUSSIA]

Awesome! Thank you!😊