1 Secret Sociopath vs 5 Empaths | Odd One Out

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0:00 Intro
0:11 Round 1
7:26 Round 2
12:00 Round 3
16:44 Reveal

[@jubilee]

15:55 “That feels good doesn’t it?”😭 bit.ly/3vVrK21

[@Car_Fanatic]

Odd video. Letting a sociopath know they are a sociopath is literally weaponizing them and makes them more dangerous. Sigh. Plus I never got the point of beta squad like videos of (who is x, guess who is y) Sad world we live in

[@crimson4066]

Jubilee producers are scumbags for working with BetterHelp. Truly a despicable company. They sell user data and violate HIPPA law, underpay their therapists, and support Israel's genocide against Palestine (they offer free services to Israelis).

[@speaktruth896]

Yeah😫

[@frankvee2799]

RELEASE MYRON INTERVIEW NOW...LET THE INTERNET GO CRAZY... AND PLEASE DONT CUT THE WOKE NARRATIVE OUT ..LET IT BE RAW....BECAUSE WE KNOW HIM ....IF YOU CUT THINGS OUT ...WE KNOW

[@Come731st]

A

[@tdsebes4712]

This wouldve been insane if they were all sociopaths

[@rodolfomezaalvarado8004]

And they probably are if they need to self proclaim themselves as empaths

[@Leunenkoenig]

They definitely are. There's no "empath" diagnosis, so they are all sel-proclaimed. And as they all seem to be more or less on the spectrum, I'm 100% certain the majority of them misjudge their hypersensitivity disorder for being "empaths".

[@papasmurf9205]

😂😂😂😂

[@jubilee]

Next time 🤔

[@mishynaofficial]

​​@@Leunenkoenig it's not a disorder, it's just how the nervous system works for some people. Called high Sensory processing sensitivity.

[@mengl29]

What is with every episode people saying being quiet is an indicator of being the mole. Like shy people exist-

[@tomriddle8933]

It's just easier for the mole to fly under the radar than to give a convincing performance.

[@Jewelzbabiii]

To be fair , it's always damned if you do , damned if you don't . People are voted out if they barely speak or speak too much by a random person's standards .

[@sophievr8750]

Is an indicator or isn’t?

[@Bubboe]

I feel like it is indicator especially in this situation because the whole point is trying to advocate that your not the mole you can’t do that by standing there silent

[@apecentury228]

@@Bubboe but then you see people voted out because they "gave too much away". You really have to be in the middle of the conversation, not dominate or be silent

[@alukeom3815]

Not them eliminating everyone that wasn't on the spectrum 💀

[@shawnfunny2540]

HELP

[@X_O_X_O26]

😭😭😭fr

[@nadiainthesky]

Seriously! I didn’t get an empathetic energy from any of the autistic ones, I think that’s actually typical of ASD

[@agenderfriend3337]

@@nadiaintheskyautistics can be extremely empathetic, it is just harder to show emotions.

[@tramarthomas6105]

@@agenderfriend3337 theyll never understand

[@beakern8028]

i have never cringed more in my life than watching these people trying to prove they are empaths by jumping at every little thing someone does or says

[@thisiscait]

I mean that's their entire motive here

[@tramarthomas6105]

thats the show, you can be empathic while also participating in a silly game ☺

[@ug_nico]

fr the gay one pissed me off too mad annoying

[@SerpentineWisdom]

​@@ug_nicobruh what? Why🤣🤣

[@basedblackbeard4456]

I just skipped to the reveal

[@fyredancer90]

People who dub themselves "empaths" are rather cringeworthy. More relatable is someone saying they are fairly empathic. Most self proclaimed "empaths" seem to actually be rather narcissistic and grandiose.

[@Hannah-Kathrine01]

truth

[@bunille]

Yeah. People who are the nicest don't label themselves as such and have to tell the entire world. If you have to say it, chances are it's a cover to excuse actions and behaviours. An empathetic person will prove they are empathetic, they don't need to tell anyone because they show it with proof. Empaths tend to think lesser of themselves, anyway, not higher, and definitely not "look at me look at me I'm such a nice person you'd better be agreeing with me".

[@_dickkky_590]

Speak the truth fyre

[@natalieedelstein]

I think it is just the name of the episode and probably most of these people wouldn't say it in that way day-to-day but I don't know that for sure, just a guess because I've never heard someone describe their own empathy in that way.

[@marsxo655]

💯💯💯I’ve been saying this for the longest. It’s always the ones who are actually quite selfish asf and very self absorbed. Never the type to help someone in any way.

[@ninaalexandrazelenak2005]

I find it so annoying and un-empathetic that they voted the first girl out just because she was quiet and wasn't wearing bright colors. Someone can be shy an empathetic at the same time, and self described emapaths should be able to understand that.

[@dinkyboss]

Yeah they really showed their true colors with that one

[@braydenguy907]

I mean they had to vote someone

[@tramarthomas6105]

who else were they going to vote off, besides the obvious stand offish person?

[@gaminglegend]

To be fair they had to vote out someone, kinda the point of the game

[@bottlerocket3218]

Actually, as a person who has studied sociopathy (ASPD) for years, the first girl voted out was my first choice to be the sociopath too, her seeming lack of emotions and disinterest was rather consistent with sociopathy. But to be fair, there wasn't a lot to go on at that point in the game.

[@R-Moneyy]

Did anyone else peep that when Allyson threw herself to the floor the only person who helped her up was the sociopath😂😂😂

[@rockyrae3455]

But the sociopath also said she felt it was test which shows how calculated she is.

[@slickandslaycious6579]

So true!!! Also the one that fell was giving manipulative so maybe the sociopath acted on a sense of camaraderie

[@steff4413]

@@rockyrae3455 it's not that deep.

[@violett874]

​@@rockyrae3455 "Calculated" is a testament to her IQ not her empathy...

[@gyranix]

The reason why is because socio/psychopaths act on impulse and logic. If someone falls society says you should help them so she acted on what she was supposed to do and she helped her get up.

[@jordanarnold9253]

Bro, that girl in the rainbow was trying way too hard 💀

[@ChronicallyCassidy]

And the fact that you had to have an emotional reaction or say you’ll start crying in every response

[@unclerhema]

fr she was buggin me out

[@ocean440]

maybe she is just trying to hide her sociopathy💀

[@RyanReacts4Ever]

She was smart. She was playing the game. Get outta here.

[@reallytaylor]

She’s annoying

[@CartiLuh-qp6xp]

Saying Lion King can't be your favorite movie because it's too emotional is crazy.

[@laavv]

I don’t think that’s what she meant

[@AmiriHipHop]

​@@laavvAdmittedly the way she worded it was poor regardless. "If Lion King is your favorite movie then there's something wrong with you. When Simba's dad dies in the movie, my heart can't take it". Just because YOU get overwhelmed emotionally by that scene doesn't make somebody weird for having it as their favorite film.

[@Nat-qi4eg]

@@AmiriHipHop exactly. i love watching sad films and listening to sad music even though i know they'll make me cry

[@quuaackyy]

the lion king is my favorite movie and i just thought i was funny💀..

[@apecentury228]

@@Nat-qi4eg sameeee. Like I love Brother Bear and Finding Dory but a lot of people say they're too emotionally driven with themes geared towards adults.

[@brokeneggshell5041]

Allyson (rainbow) saying wearing a darker wardrobe and being quiet means you're less empathetic was so cringe...clearly she doesn't have empathy towards shy people. What kind of "empath" is she

[@user-zw6lw7qh1o]

She isn’t. It is a made up thing on TikTok. I am sure she is a self-diagnosed Autisitc as well. She is borderline if anything.

[@AmoebaInk]

Empathy in this sense is picking up easily on others emotions. That's different than actually caring about people.

[@pixelzebra8440]

Fr like so much for being an empath when you can’t understand people that are different from you

[@pinkperfumefairy9205]

​@AmoebaInk what's it called when you don't pick up on people's emotions fast but actually care about people 😭

[@ZMS463]

She's narcissistic. Classic Cluster B behaviours

[@kingkqueenb1970]

2:28 im sorry but she totally threw herself to the ground in purpose 😂😂😂😂😭

[@kingkqueenb1970]

2:56 update i knew it

[@BigDaddyCameron]

That shi was quite funny. She did it 2 steps b4 the light 💀

[@fundifferent1]

I said the same thing before she admitted it. it was obvious LOOLOL

[@jubilee]

She came prepared

[@karan_karan_karan]

@@jubilee she kinda ate with that LOL

[@apgarbett]

"Can I* be honest? I felt nothing." LOL I love her. But seriously, hearing about the spectrum of sociopathy was insightful. It would be cool to see a show that accurately portrays someone who is high functioning!

[@erinkrabill23]

I agree. ASPD for most is a very debilitating disorder.

[@V1LL1N]

turn on your tv

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

​​@@erinkrabill23 ❤

[@Uchiha.Itachii]

i didn’t think an autistic/asperger person would be a sociopath but after i saw the reveal i could see why it was her cause her posture and the way she was talking wasn’t “normal” lol

[@sulagreen5792]

I'm sorry, but how and why is this girl considered a sociopath? This is completely subjective and unmeasurable. She does not seem like a sociopath to me. These labels are becoming completely arbitrary.

[@zaccansdale31765]

This should be renamed 1 secret sociopath vs 5 Narcissists

[@yoloswaggins1579]

Exactly.😂

[@_BillieBirch_]

Austin was defined not a narcissist though

[@AmoebaInk]

I wouldn't say they were all Narcissists, but I get why you would say that.

[@beewest5704]

Why I say they are just different sides of the same coin. One side narc other empath.

[@FranzFerdinand55]

lol very true.

[@anovosedlik]

There were definitely some other people up there that weren't what I'd call an empath..

[@bottlerocket3218]

Well sociopathy (ASPD) is an extremely rare disorder, so all kidding aside, it's unlikely that any of those people are sociopaths except her.

[@WildRabiea]

Same. The guy who kept smiling gave me cult leader vibes. And rainbow lady was trying way too hard.

[@Planck944]

@@WildRabiea😂😂😂cult leader

[@Amii-dw7jd]

@@bottlerocket3218not what they said at all… they said “weren’t what I’d call an empath” not ‘are sociopaths’

[@lynnegeorge2292]

Have to agree. There may have been 1 or 2 who may be empathetic however, not necessarily empaths. My other half is a true empath who senses particular friends who are in a bad space. He's often phoned them in those moments to find they're having a particularly bad period. More often than not, they're individuals who have suffered trauma in their lives.

[@deennnnis]

this is giving tikokers who said they’re empaths back in 2020 (in the worst possible way)

[@jubilee]

Should we have done an "Imagine" by John Lennon singing montage??

[@HappyChickens-wl8ej]

Duhh​@@jubilee

[@BigPapiMatt]

​@@jubilee😂Jubilee is wilding. Give the person making these comments a raise 😂

[@yoloswaggins1579]

Giving what? Vibes? Who's giving what?

[@kellyherrin]

Yeah, I am so confused.

[@namenamerson7683]

n the rainbow cardigan is mad judgmental lmao great empath, would love to be around someone that is policing the way i process emotion /sarcasm

[@fundifferent1]

The guy with the long curly hair was also super judgy LOL

[@Sarah-uj4hv]

dont be upset at someone playing the game lmao

[@goldc4859]

and the funny part is she started “tearing up” which she legit voted the other girl off for doing that

[@Taylor_mamaof2]

Honestly, people who openly claim to be “empaths” are usually very judgement UNempathetic people, in my experience at least. They tend to think highly of themselves… very “I’m better than you because I care and you don’t.”

[@mary-janereallynotsarah684]

And she judged the way the clearly more empathetic person dressed! Not colorful. Great reasoning. I am a sponge. It's why I hide in my room and I don't really look at the colors I wear. I wear what I can. If I like the color it's a bonus. I shut down bad and I got so burned out I didn't even care if I wore a circus tent. It just makes me mad.

[@berenic90]

I sniffed her out because she said she never experienced a heartbreak and have the excuse of a bf when there are many other ways

[@jinna2726]

I actually think most heartbreaks come from other relationships than romantic. That's why I felt it was her too.

[@MarlaSingersCancer]

It was obvious from the beginning that she was mimicking others and being very over the top about her emotions or any "awkwardness" she had. She wanted us to see her as being vulnerable so people wouldn't suspect her.

[@imani7979]

@@MarlaSingersCancer no i think she's naturally awkward, i've seen other videos of her and that's just her natural demeanour. remember she's also autistic so that may play a role in her awkward demeanour.

[@sulagreen5792]

Usually when people ask that, they are asking about a romantic relationship.

[@tramarthomas6105]

yeah, she also spoke as if having a BF will never will be an option, which she confirmed at the end.

[@amber.3]

allyson pissed me off so much im sorry😭 felt like she was basing what an empath is just off of her own very limited experiences. girl really used disney movies as a question? hm…

[@infinitespirit777]

Yeah Im not a huge fan of Disney but I'm definitely a very empathetic person, even towards people that are assholes to me. So I would be extremely irritated if someone asked me this question

[@vaneabarca]

yeah and she chose hercules for the music ????? but she would judge anyone who chose the lion king because of one sad scene, even tho it also has amazing music! make it make sense girl

[@pwetty4r4]

It was just a passing comment relax

[@pixelzebra8440]

Bro I hated her from the beginning like what was she doing she tripped on NOTHING. TWICE!!! It was obvious and then she was like “surpriseee I faked it 😁” like girlll stfu that was a surprise to no one 😭💀💀💀

[@pixelzebra8440]

@pwetty4r4 Every passing comment she made made no sense tho 😭

[@meertjedebest]

non of these ppl have taken psychology class, basing an 'empath' of WALK?? and thinking they failed bc they look ANXIOUS?? 'emphats' (quotation marks on purpose) are often anxious because they take in so much of their surroundings. Sociopaths can come off very social and confident as well

[@lizzyholland9108]

I agree this video irritates me a little because of that fact lol

[@Shewas-kathybates]

True but in this case it was valid

[@J-tt1lu]

They weren’t meant to have an extensive knowledge of psychological theorem. It was just a practical shot in the dark to see if they could suss out the mole. You can’t just go off of definitions or texts within books or lectures or research papers (that’s not part of what being an empath is either). You actually have to put things into practice. The way someone walks can reveal things about them. It was fun and interesting to watch too, btw. Normally I would agree with what you said about anxiety but for the most part I don’t think that was misused here.

[@J-tt1lu]

@@Shewas-kathybates^

[@steff4413]

except the sociopath was awkward

[@Me-ks2fr]

The second she Said - i LEARNED to be an empath” I knew.

[@sofienummers]

This ^ It's not something you suddenly "start" to do. It's not a hobby, it's a quality! Although I honestly suspected all of them at some point except Austin lol

[@rooster8734]

I feel so sorry for cassy, i genuinely would hate not understanding what love or happiness is, my heart goes out for her and i hope she is living her best life

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

❤

[@sulagreen5792]

A lot of people have trouble feeling those things and it comes from trauma, not from sociopathy. Trauma can also make you feel numb, which can probably seem like sociopathy. And trauma can even come from just being different to others, like being autistic, and being excluded when you're young because of it.

[@anonymousbo0318]

​@@ChocolateAutizzyShame, she's hot

[@avril.227]

I knew it was her because of her dead eyes in the first few minutes.

[@AmoebaInk]

@@sulagreen5792 Trauma is often an element with sociopathy or problematic behavior in psychopaths (recommend searching for James Fallon videos on the topic). A LOT of people with the ASPD diagnosis have trauma. I'm a high functioning psychopath and don't qualify as having APSD. I'm a natural stoic. My mild traumas are not traumatic enough to explain my low emotional affect. Sociopaths are repressing, and there's often training or trauma or both behind why they repress. The field of psychology is still wrestling with how all these elements intersect. There's strong evidence that psychopath brains are physically different. But environment and personal choice has a lot to do with how that difference manifests.

[@chanelle9075]

“i’m not going to be a crappy person just because i feel nothing because i know that other people do have feelings” 19:55 CASSY IS SO CUTSIE🥹

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

❤

[@EvaarArts]

I was genuinely confused after that .. doesn't that mean empathy is among the 20% of her remaining feelings?

[@sarahchoi2657]

@@EvaarArts she said she's able to experience cognitive empathy - so in this case she's using pure reasoning to explain why she wouldn't be a crappy person

[@BillyButchersBallsack]

@@EvaarArtsNo, she is cognitively empathetic. Meaning she is intelligent enough to understand and process the emotions of others. She doesn’t feel the emotions of others, but she understands what they are. She sees it as a concept, like one would understand what 4+4 is. Some sociopaths don’t understand what 4+4 results in, because they don’t understand what numbers are. But others (like her) do, even if they don’t understand WHY people feel that way.

[@damasterme]

@@BillyButchersBallsack no matter what they will hurt ppl and dont care

[@reenat.8283]

i knewwwww the fall was fake, i literally replayed it 3 times because i was trying to figure out HOW she fell.

[@AllysonGailBricks]

Teehee❤

[@Wildawg5803]

@@AllysonGailBricks Girl your performance here was A1. I literally said out loud how much I messed with you. You're very smart for that play fr. I wish you the best in all future endeavors

[@kayladay23]

@@AllysonGailBricksabsolutely not it

[@Ayveh]

I knew from the first take. She purposely put her knee forward and it looked like she looked for it and then threw herself on the ground ready to catch herself.

[@pixelzebra8440]

BRUH SHE TRIPPED ON NOTHINGGG I watched it and I was like TF?

[@julesdon51]

as someone who also has ASPD, as cringe as this episode was, it was cool seeing Cassy talk because I really relate with her, especially when she talks about pretending to have emotions to fit in, but that it doesn’t make her a bad person. slay

[@jzr73]

Slay!

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

​@@jzr73❤

[@-YoYoKaaa-]

Real

[@damasterme]

u r a bad person and u will hurt ppl

[@alexad7592]

self diagnosis

[@BetterThanKanye]

To not be able to really feel happiness or love and at the same time be cognicicent that other people are able to and hold space for them, to me, is the ultimate form of empathy

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

😢

[@zekite6467]

horrid spelling

[@diamcole]

@@zekite6467The point was understood regardless. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@BetterThanKanye]

@@zekite6467 one word is misspelled. Calm down

[@zekite6467]

@@BetterThanKanye I know, it was just funny.

[@alyssap.6506]

The Airbnb host saying his guests are empaths because not many people would want to stay with a stranger… lol dude people do it because they want to save money, not because they’re so excited to meet a stranger

[@diyamerican]

We were hosts for about 3 years and mainly we would get 5 star reviews if we met with the guest but lower reviews when we didn’t. So I think the airbnb guest is a different type of person than just a bargain hunter most of the time. I totally would just do it to save money though haha.

[@cyndimoody769]

Her “got you” giggling when the light turned red showed, she really did have feelings about winning.

[@taniaalva5557]

Yeah I confused about that. I always understood sociopaths about not being able to understand OTHERS feelings. Not that they don't have any.

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

​@@taniaalva5557 💯 👏 🙌 👌 🤣

[@gyranix]

@@taniaalva5557 Thats because there is a bit of a spectrum with ASPD you have sociopath and psychopath. Socio is closer to feeling some emotion and not understanding other peoples feelings where as psychopathy is the lack of feeling emotions at all. A sociopath can be sad but not cry when their mother passes away for instance while a full blown psychopath would feel absolutely nothing like with Autism and Asperger you can be full in on one side or somewhere in the middle of both

[@wildflower1397]

A sociopath will feel something akin to satisfaction or smugness when they win, especially if they guide things to go the way they want. They care about their own comfort and mental stimulation, or they would never bother to get up in the morning. But they don't understand that emotional high that many people get from winning. When they asked how she felt about winning, she was blatantly honest when she said she really didn't care. Her smiles and giggles mask her lack of feelings very well though.

[@WheresMylo]

@@wildflower1397right she knows she’s on camera. It’s a performance and when she said “can I be honest” THAT was when she decided to take off the mask. The game ended for the empaths once the red light came on, but for the sociopath the game began way before she got to set that day and won’t end once she leaves.

[@WishAtElevenEleven]

I immediately know who it is because they were featured on SBSK, a great channel to check out for interviews with people who have disabilities or mental illnesses

[@lalapirate9203]

Me too I recognised her

[@CartiLuh-qp6xp]

SAME!

[@infinitespirit777]

Same girl

[@RambleMaven]

Me too! lol and there’s no way I would have known if I hadn’t watched that channel either lol I would have assumed it was the guy with the cane 💀

[@june_keke]

same

[@thecrocdiaries3380]

before cassy said her age i thought she was 19/early 20s 😭 like whaaaat

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

❤

[@AmoebaInk]

The baby face struggle is real.

[@samu-chan]

This your first time seeing a young looking person? I suggest you go outside, meet people. Get off KZbin.

[@melisaaraujo2604]

this is a hard one because people who call themselves "empaths" are indistinguishable from sociopaths

[@elizabethw.649]

the difference of understanding emotions and UNDERSTANDING them lol.

[@world3806]

The way the girl in rainbow acted after the mole was revealed had me dead☠😭

[@steff4413]

yea she was annoying

[@jumanajojo9101]

She is not an empath at all , she is just super annoying and energetic , she may have adhd

[@PeaceStandsxo]

I 100% believed it was Allyson because tripping on purpose seemed like such a calculated, non-empathetic move 😭😭

[@mercurymajesty]

I knew from the beginning. If you can read body language you could see that her eyes were far more calculating and her walk was very guarded. She was mirroring everyone else and her responses like never having been in a relationship was a big indication. She seems like a lovely person who has been through a lot and I'm glad to see that she is here sharing her story and experiences with others.

[@AmoebaInk]

I'm wondering if they missed the eye contact because everyone is facing forward, but yeah, I noticed because I also have eye contact issues. Though to be fair that can be a sign of autism, not just sociopathy.

[@steff4413]

no you didnt

[@Karenmlz]

I guessed it was her from the intro. Her eyes were very cold as she smiled. It was either her or Aaron for me. Then she talked about her trauma and struggles, and her lack of heartbreak, and it confirmed her for me.

[@Leunenkoenig]

8:30 "He's currently deceased" ... you think that's gonna change any time soon?

[@afrozzz5634]

😂😂😂

[@chelsmaria]

Yeah...that line was, pun intended, the dead ringer for me on the sociopath in the group

[@AmoebaInk]

Cassy is also Christian, and we do believe the dead will rise at some point. Though exactly how/when that plays out is an area of speculation. But this also comes from KZbin being so weird about phrasing around death. A lot of KZbinrs have to speak around death in code to avoid strikes.

[@user-ro2rm7zo4d]

LITERALLY

[@kathleenreilly828]

I understand being an empathetic person but I feel like saying you are an “empath” not only takes the humility out of it because it feels like you’re trying to make it about you and you’re ability to to feel as opposed to the feeling of the person experiencing those emotions, but also takes the path of righteousness believing that you have a better ability to understand and relate to peoples’ hardships than others do. I didn’t realize how much I disliked the term and idea until I watched this video.

[@BigPapiMatt]

😂😂😂 yo some of these comments are funny to me. Like y'all need to read a book or just do a quick Google search. Being an empath is a psychology term. Being highly empathetic means someone is an empath. Pretty much pretty who can feel others emotions would be labled as an empath. Its just a shorter and easier way to say empathetic. In other words. Saying "im an empath" shouldnt be "oh that person just wants attention"

[@down-to-earth-mystery-school]

We don’t really care if you don’t like our identity

[@danjarnutowski2331]

​@@down-to-earth-mystery-schoolthat's the point not caring isn't empathetic 😂

[@methalammar5696]

​@@danjarnutowski2331 got em lol

[@asho345]

I wouldn’t say being an empath is righteous. It’s more like having poor emotional boundaries in the sense that you easily pick up what others are feeling without intending to.

[@austynr]

2:28 was a crazy idea to actually see the real empaths who would try to help her

[@vaneabarca]

and who was the first person who went to help her? lol

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

​@@vaneabarca😅

[@SarahXTsunami]

@@vaneabarcaLMAOOO

[@sulagreen5792]

@@vaneabarca Because that girl is selling herself short calling herself a sociopath who can't feel emotions, I don't know how she got that diagnosis (ASPD), but it's obviously not true. Her automatic reaction to go help someone in need was too reflexive to not come from emotion. She actually is a very empathetic person.

[@Careless_whispers04]

⁠@@sulagreen5792As somone who relates somewhat to Cassy (I don’t have ASPD though), you can recognize the kind/nice thing to do without feeling it intrinsically. There are a lot of things I “reflexively” do because it’s been ingrained in me, not because I actually care.

[@namenamerson7683]

interesting how they equate empath with bubbly and awkward. idk if im an empath, i do think I’m real in tune with people emotions n that makes me think a lot. and try to be as small as possible in some places. i can be bubbly, if i feel safe but i think it takes stepping back and being quiet sometimes to really take in other people’s emotions.

[@Whirlbee]

Yeah it's pretty odd. As someone who does clinically low empathy & is pretty excitable & does wear bright colours, it did bother me

[@AmoebaInk]

Empaths tend to pick up on others emotions easily, even when they don't want to. So I can see how wrapping yourself in happy might be a defensive mechanism. I'm on psychopathy scale but my two best friends are highly empathic. I think I helped make a quiet space for them, so they could think about their own emotions instead of mine. But they talked about getting overwhelmed in groups and it can be tiring dealing with other people's emotions on top of your own.

[@violett874]

I think that's just because the 3 autistic people just banded together and voted everyone else out💀

[@BonShula]

Empath is the cringiest thing that has hit the internet stratosphere

[@bestrong8543]

So having empathy is cringe worthy yeah buddy go touch some grass 🤦‍♂️

[@0Doves0]

​@@bestrong8543I don't think they mean having empathy is cringe. I think they mean ppl labeling themselves as empaths is cause it's kinda like the whole nice guy thing. People who yell at mountain tops that they're empaths tend to not really be, just like how some guys call themselves "nice guys" but are actually douches.

[@Taylor_mamaof2]

Agreed.

[@Taylor_mamaof2]

@@bestrong8543empathetic people don’t need to go around and tell people they are “empaths”. If you need to PROVE it.. you’re not lol.

[@bestrong8543]

@@Taylor_mamaof2 you can same the same thing about guys saying they are masculine why do meat head guys say that you should stand in your masculinity no need to say it didn’t mean to digress it’s so many people that put labels on things not just being a empath

[@concertvids_and_mashups]

I once had a friend who somehow seemed both like an empath and a sociopath. She could take advantage of others and their emotions pretty easily.

[@kr0tis]

They most likely had strong cognitive empathy. Cognitive empathy differs from affective empathy in that it involves *understanding* emotions and how they *affect* people, but it never quite *”feeling as they feel,"* as with affective empathy.

[@kristenlogan2594]

I feel like they are closer on the spectrum than people think.

[@kr0tis]

@@kristenlogan2594 in what way? Describe your point of view.

[@cjstats1514]

Sounds like Borderline personality disorder. They can have a lot of empathy, but still be manipulative. And at times turn psychopathic if triggered.

[@mercurymajesty]

dark empath

[@roxyisanerd]

As someone who used to be in the LA film and artist scene in the past, I learned a lot of those people who say they are empaths tend to be the least empathetic people. There is a big difference in saying you care so much about people and actually showing it. I transitioned into an office tech career because that environment was so toxic, and now I feel like I’m surrounded by much more likable and empathetic people.

[@lotoadd]

the most empathetic person here is probably that first girl who got voted out. it's the silent ones (or the class clown type, i didnt see one here though) who are feeling the most, generally.

[@1cicilovesmusic]

I knew it was her when she said she was 31 and never had any romantic relationships or heartbreaks. That is something sociopaths experience bc of the misunderstanding of emotions. Heartbreaks happen outside of romance.

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

😮

[@mengl29]

"If lion king is your favourite movie there is something wrong with you" - Alison

[@ksenia_ave]

I loveeee this movie! It's not that I rewatch sad scenes...it's the movie that teaches you that there are betrayals in life...that parents die...but most of all-that you are not alone!❤ that sometimes you need...and can take action! And you'll succeed if you let go of fear. And if "Lion King" is your favourite movie,there is nothing wrong with you!!❤ -me:)

[@jubilee]

Is she wrong???

[@xbabu142x]

@@jubilee Yes. WTF do ya'll have against the Lion King?

[@brianamartinez1469]

I think that particular scene in books such deep emotion and that’s exactly why it’s one of my favorite Disney movies. along with Tarzan, who lost his parents as a baby and other Disney movies there is emotional depth and that makes the movies great and leaves an impression instead of just being a cutesy movie for kids

[@brianamartinez1469]

and let’s not forget “the land before time” ! It captured so many emotions and made me feel so deeply from such a young age.

[@Js23187]

Even the way she said it at the start sounded like siri😂😭

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

😂

[@pilotswife06]

My mom is a genuine empath. She was a nurse for 20+ years and eventually had to retire early because she couldn’t handle feeling her patients’ pain any longer. It aged her significantly. I’m extremely empathetic, but my mother feels physical pain if she’s near someone experiencing any sort of pain at all. It’s quite taxing on her. It makes her a fantastic person to be around, she’s the most gentle and loving person I know. But it is extremely difficult for her.

[@user-zw6lw7qh1o]

This is me. I have been a nurse for 27 years, the last 3 in psych. The first 24 I worked in postpartum/nursery. I worked nights and wouldn’t be able to sleep because I was so worried about my patients. I would call and check on them. I also feel pain when my kids do. I had to switch to psych, I still have empathy, but it is not ruining my life. I didn’t know attention seeking was considered empathy. Like those people.

[@Anarchyontheweb]

Allyson may be trying to identify herself as an empath but she’s definitely a sociopath.

[@mentholcrystals]

rainbow cardigan honestly seemed more sociopathic than the actual sociopath. tripping and falling on purpose to gauge people's reactions, wearing the brightest colors possible to project the image she desired, just everything about the way she "played the game" was purposeful and analytical in a way that is much more characteristic of ASPD

[@snowyowlss]

ikr, i really thought it was her

[@krireshin]

It would be nice if Jubilee could get more people who don't have a big presence online. I already knew the black girl was the sociopath because I've seen her do interviews about it on other channels

[@steff4413]

the video she was on only has a million views. that's not really a big presence and most people didn't know who she was.

[@Bobbyheebee]

@@steff4413but if you watch Jubilee, you’ve likely been recommended Soft White Underbellu videos by the algorithm

[@I.I.I.A2]

People really don't seem to understand the difference between psychopathy and sociopathy. Sociopaths know feelings but suppress them, usually as a result of childhood trauma. Psychopaths are born without feelings, but can pretend to have them.

[@AmoebaInk]

Thank you. Technically psychopathy is also a scale. "Low emotional" affect can mean muted feelings rather than them being completely absent. I've been following Cassy for a while, and suggested she might be a prosocial psychopath based on how much we're similar. However, she's gone through way more trauma than I have, so sorting out whether she's really just a psychopath with trauma or more of a sociopath gets complicated. I've stopped pushing the point, because I think she's really hoping to reconnect with her emotions. But I also know I was much more peaceful after embracing my stoicism as just different rather than wrong or broken.

[@Taylor_mamaof2]

I knew it. Cassie reminded me a lot of a girl I used to teach (school specifically for those on the spectrum). Very similar mannerisms. Autism and sociopathy are actually misdiagnosed with one enough more often than people think, and sometimes people have traits that fall under both umbrellas. The lack of understanding of emotional depth is a big reason why, a lot of people on the spectrum don’t “get” emotions the way we do. It varies a LOT of course but it makes sense.

[@AmoebaInk]

As a high functioning psychopath, I think I could easily get misdiagnosed as autistic if I pushed for a diagnosis. Traits of both. Took a lot of time and self reflection to understand what side was strongest, and I agree it would be easy for a high functioning psychopath or sociopath to get misdiagnosed, because psychologists aren't taught to recognize high function psychopath or sociopath as a real things with real difficulties.

[@snannismith]

I feel so dumb. I kept thinking how her fall was sooo fake, I rewatched it in slow-motion 3 times… and then she said it 😂

[@alam5055]

"If Lion King is your favorite movie then there's something wrong with you. When Simba's dad dies in the movie, my heart can't take it". Girl, The Lion King is my favourite Disney move specifically because it hits so hard emotionally...

[@Lizzo13]

Yeah, sad music is my favourite music because I can relate and feel it so deeply, and it makes me cry.

[@enlisty]

So much for being an “empath”. Reminds me of the episode when the “psychics” failed to identify the mole.

[@pwetty4r4]

As a fellow nurodivergent I feel sometimes people with autisim will use their awkwardness as a way to navigate the world so people won't be mean to them. Its like a shield. You put on this low confidence low self esteem mask, and people may not respect you but atleast they are kind

[@kkibela]

I felt like that's what was happening but the first instinct was that she was a sociopath. And I hate that for her if its not true

[@Bobbyheebee]

Most of us who are Autistic were abused in some fashion as children and being forced to mask created CPTSD for the majority of us. Lots of Autistic folks grow up to be people pleasers and have fawning tendencies to avoid getting abused by more people. Sadly, most people just then take advantage of that and the abuse cycle continues.

[@pwetty4r4]

@@Bobbyheebee that's so true. Some "symptoms" of autism have more to do with how that person has been treated their whole life

[@LuckyIzzy659]

This person was on "special books by special kids" so, it was immediately a dead give away. Try using people who havent been previously noted for being a sociopath.

[@vududollxo333]

Exactly. Just gave it away from the start.

[@bryantedwards6679]

I mean a lot of people don’t know what that is or wouldn’t recognize her. Plus…clearly it worked still. Plus a lot of people who volunteer for these things would probably be people who are open about who they are and what they go through.

[@tracig419]

I knew I recognized them from somewhere

[@peacehappyb237]

Exactly. I knew it was her.

[@f_e_r_n1255]

As an autistic person, Allyson referring to autism as “the tism” really frustrated me. It’s like making a disorder all cutesy and childish which makes people less likely to take it seriously.

[@Annalette8]

As an autistic person....I actually love using the term "I have the touch of 'tism". not because im belitting the spectrum, but its easier to tell people while making them laugh.

[@f_e_r_n1255]

@@Annalette8 That’s fair enough. I understand that it’s different for everyone, it just makes me cringe tbh.

[@marsxo655]

I think it’s cringe that there are people out here who actually self diagnose themselves as being on the spectrum or Neurodivergent. I think it’s the weirdest thing ever.

[@f_e_r_n1255]

@@marsxo655 Well you have to self diagnose before you diagnose if you’re figuring it out on your own. Also around 80% of people who self diagnose autism are correct. However I do agree that many young people diagnose themselves to be trendy.

[@ARCHOUSE5150]

🙄🙄🙄

[@Orange56222]

Wow still sponsoring BetterHelp in this day and age…

[@elinakeranen4499]

"I'm an empath and i think clothing color is a trustworthy way to judge someone's character" 💀

[@iRobins.]

Deadpan stare, has never loved at the age of 31, lower energy + lack of emotional showcasing through facial expressions. I realized it early. The empath: "Maybe if I was closer I would've felt her energy!" 🤣

[@Martiriruki]

Jubilee is just getting crazier and crazier

[@Djdj-sf8bg]

Jubilee is full of racists

[@fink5799]

As soon as she said she never had a relationship i knew it was her.

[@mishynaofficial]

I knew when she said she was homeless. Sociopaths are often raised by the street.

[@Jjdjwjdirj8534]

Dang, I guess I’m a sociopath by your logic then. 🙄

[@quuaackyy]

@@Jjdjwjdirj8534 yea

[@andiiiiiiiiii]

@@mishynaofficial same, used to talk to some aspders that were homeless when i was researching it

[@Its_Shazar]

@@mishynaofficial her homeless comment was suspect because _she_ had to experience homelessness herself to understand it. She didn't due it via empathy alone

[@HeyitsBri_]

I knew it by the thumbnail. Not because she looked any type of way but because the others are dressed like main characters and that type of hubris only comes with people who call themselves “an empath”

[@Joshua-gc4ps]

People like this are the reason why I hide my empathetic side. It's not a superpower.

[@CiCiqueen30]

To come in and tear that stage up like that is insane lmao I didn’t feel bad because girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@novivianngo]

I don’t like to proclaim I’m an empath but I do feel like I’m an empathetic person. I’m not really that talkative, definitely introverted than most of the ppl in the video but I always find people, strangers even, opening up to me. I listen attentively to others and feel very deeply. I wish someone talked about how draining it can be. Sometimes after hearing someone’s story I feel it so deeply, I carry that all with me.

[@deennnnis]

I hope they lose so they realize being an empath is not really a thing💀

[@ella17734]

How do you know that? I've literally had psychologists tell me that I'm empathic. Do you think you know more than a psychologist?

[@deennnnis]

@@ella17734 being empathetic ≠≠≠ being an empath 😭 just sounds mad cringe

[@Taylor_mamaof2]

@@ella17734they didn’t say empathy and being empathetic isn’t real. It’s very much is. Being an “empath” they way they describe is NOT a thing though.

[@lutethemage5053]

Geez bud I think you could use some healthy self-esteem/self confidence here. There's nothing 'cringe' about priding yourself on being empathetic towards other people. Your comment screams insecurity my fella. Empathetic people are not cringe. The only cringe thing is your misuse of the word 'cringe'.

[@BigPapiMatt]

​@@deennnnisI mean using the word "cringe" is pretty "cringe" my guy. Plus, saying "i think im an empath" isnt bad. I think its perspective. And being very empethatic does = being an empath

[@perlation]

The second she said "no one has ever broken my heart romantically" I knew it!

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

😂

[@georgem9558]

this video should be called: 1 person who's honest about being a sociopath and 5 people who are pretending not to be.

[@user-px2dt6kh9r]

It’s weird because I was thinking it was Austin at first because he’s neurodivergent and his body language is so different and facial expressions. The more he talked though he seemed like the most compassionate one there. You never know who’s got ASPD I guess. Good video.

[@Livingdeadskeleton]

With all fairness, I can be eccentric.😅

[@brianamartinez1469]

land before time is one of my favorite movies and it invokes the same type of emotions as the lion king does. except the land before time, these poor kids are struggling on their own for so long and then the happiness and joy they felt when they were finally reunited with their loved ones! I think that’s probably many empaths favorite movie.

[@miriamhaverlikova786]

self proclaimed empaths are in my experience usually the least empathetic people i have met.

[@christiancharter1106]

I felt myself losing brain cells while watching this

[@8BitCyberWarrior]

Never realized i was a sociopath until i saw how one interacted with emotional people from an outside perspective. Like looking in a mirror. A creepy, hollow, mirror ...

[@_VC._]

💀

[@mch3rro]

So ironic how the person who shared their feelings got voted out because the others “weren’t feeling it” that’s literally the opposite of an empath…

[@damagedheather]

The way I knew who it was IMMEDIATELY

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

😂

[@LizzieMcgraw]

Love your style, it's like a burst of creativity in every video!

[@JosiahSmith226]

This was so good!!

[@vaneabarca]

i knew the mole was the mole since the beggining and i wondered why... turns out i actually watched an interview with her in special books by special kids lol that explains a lot, i hope she's doing well

[@carlyann4070]

Loved this episode and learned a lot from Cassy! All great people.

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

❤

[@kingkqueenb1970]

finallyyyyy another odd one out video! 😍

[@transantichrist6719]

I’m diagnosed ASPD and I would have completely fooled everyone tbh. No one ever knows.

[@rebecca2361]

Totally unrelated, but just had to say Aaron's hair is stunning! 😍

[@tobioflyhigh666]

i love u cassy. may u feel happiness and acknowledge it

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

❤

[@XantaKlawz]

You know, this would have been more of a mystery for me if KZbin's top recommended video wasn't "An Autistic Sociopath's Story" with the sociopath's face as a thumbnail.

[@87enoughBULL]

Is anyone else playing the game from the start when they go around and say "I am an empath"? I always narrow down between 2 people just by their tone and facial gestures. Cassy was one of them. Also while they continued the game, it was a dead giveaway that she's never been in a relationship before. Empaths fall HARD. Sociopathy is a highly intriguing disorder too if people get a chance to actually learn from their experiences. My friend is a clinical sociopath and he is loyal and a man of integrity. A loving human and he doesn't hide the fact that he has the disorder. It made him extremely self aware.

[@anon_12340]

When she said “never had my heart broken” I knew it was her 😂😂😂😂

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

😂

[@ramonesfreak2010]

the "mmm" every time someone talks cracks me up.

[@mishynaofficial]

I have hypersensitivity, but most of the time I dissociate from my emotions, because they're unwanted/too much.

[@cath240]

That was amazing thank you for sharing!

[@ChocolateAutizzy]

❤

[@isaiahtyler376]

I feel like I could relate to life identically to Cassandra; consequently, aside from how warm and fuzzy she is, I tend to pretend a lot as well, but internally, I'm angry that I feel it's necessary for me to pretend. I have a daily battle with depression, but I'm social as well.

[@nouf5769]

I immediately knew it was her from the way she’s describing emotions, it’s clear she has cognitive empathy and that she understand emotions but don’t necessary feel them! Aaand I’m the same :)

[@AmoebaInk]

Hi, same.

[@lukona_melento]

This was so insightful I didn’t know there was a sociopathic spectrum

[@karaelzexceed666]

Props to Cassy for hiding so well. I'm a psychopath and she wasn't even in my top 3 picks. Veronica seemed most sus to me, followed by guy with long hair and black guy

[@Livingdeadskeleton]

She got us really well.

[@jerlinej3516]

Today I learned that empaths jump to conclusions about people’s emotions 🥴

[@AIf-AIfa]

The ad was so soothing my finger just moved on their own and downloaded the app

[@jubilee]

Good to know the hypnosis worked

[@SHINeeismydrugXP]

Great, my finger when to skip quickly

[@tree9273]

How much did they you to comment this

[@thecommonsensecapricorn]

I’m pretty sure I saw a video of Cassy on another channel about being a female sociopath… so I’m pretty sure it’s her & of course the autistic guy is spot on

[@mo5822]

i didnt not expected it to be who it was at all! ,and them educating us in the subject in the end was amazing and honesty if other similar odd one out came out it would be nice to be told more in the end about the subject and if i knew the actual definition of sociopaths in the beginning I might actually have figure it out 😂

[@lovelylady5313]

I already know who it is because I’ve seen another video about them describing what it’s like to be a sociopath. Great video btw you should give it a watch 👍🏽

[@sageo7618]

I was between the high school girl and dude with the long hair. Didn't really clock the sociopath until the end but when she stuttered I thought she was maybe just shy and took back my guess. Scary how well people without any empathy can blend in!