Wow! This might be the most important video and message I’ve heard in a long time as a plus size woman! Thank you
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it!
@marionopisso212Ай бұрын
@@lulu6618 I totally agree!!
@susanruppel434Ай бұрын
Agree!!!! I'm watching and saved this video in tears and I'm 64. You've made me really think and Oralia, I so appreciate you ❤
@barbarareed3661Ай бұрын
The blouse you have on looks great on you.
@WomanRoaringАй бұрын
Your cat demanding cuddles while you record😂 so adorable ❤❤
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
She wanted to go outside and was campaigning hard for it, lol.
@monicajunor7435Ай бұрын
You gave some excellent advise. I think this is your best video I have seen from you. Because of you I have started to wear a belt in the past year. Yes, it does improve your look and style. I think we have been told for too long it’s not flattering if you are plus size. I look forward to your videos. Keep up the good work. ❤
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Thank you, I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
@Sandra-h1l9uАй бұрын
Your cat is totally here for it lol!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Haha! Yeah, she was wondering why Mommy was so excited. 😆
@lauraanderson8244Ай бұрын
This is one of your very best videos. You need to repeat this at least once a year. Yea for you.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Thank you!
@Treacle899Ай бұрын
Well, well, weren’t we a little spicy today. Wonderful content. Glad we took a break from hauling to talk about styling. All the ‘right’ clothes in the world won’t work if not styled/worn appropriately. Terrific content
@dagnolia6004Ай бұрын
caliente!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
I was feelin' it today! 🔥
@ArethaRee10 күн бұрын
The blouse looks beautiful on you. ❤❤
@lynettefinnigan9540Ай бұрын
I loved your post. I have my grandfather's broad shoulders and my grandmothers lack of height...so I always look Big! My 'perfect' weight is 60-65kg.... I went on an obsessive diet and got down to 55kg!! I still looked so much bigger than all my friends because of my big bone structure, one of my friends didn't even believe me and asked me to get on the scales... she was a little size 8 and I was still a size 14..(Australian sizes) I was 55kg and she was 58kg. Everyone was suprised....I got really sick, because I was so underweight...and eventually I leveled out and went up to 75-80kg, where I feel comfortable and can eat reasonably (not starve) and not have to exercise every day for hours.. that went well for many years, then I had a back injury and I went up to 112kg!! I was massive and miserable, and gave up.... but I have slowly been regaining my mobility, swimming 3-4 times a week, already back down to 90 and want to get back to 80, which I'm happy, comfortable and healthy at.... but I view myself differently, I'm in a different era of my life, and I really don't know how to dress myself to suit me , the Now Me person....but I liked a lot of your tips, matching pieces, setting up an outfit...its been helpful xx thank you. Xx
@diaelaine9188Ай бұрын
You're right. That blouse looks wonderful on you!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Oh thank you!
@annahoover5296Ай бұрын
So enjoyed your vidio today.learned some new tips,I am 69 years old and always appreciate learning something new.You make me smile,so classy,and very pretty,well put together.and ❤
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Aww! Thank you. 🙂
@FavoritesWithLauraАй бұрын
This is great info and I love what you're wearing. It was wonderful to meet you today!
@CurlyVeggieАй бұрын
The confidence tip is definitely my favourite. And thank you for keeping the cat section in. ❤
@maryloesing9415Ай бұрын
Oralia, your tough love statements leave us with a lot to think about. Thanks, I need to seriously rethink how I dress when running errands.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
I'm glad to be of help!
@sisustitcherАй бұрын
Very important for style. You knocked it out of the park on this one. This video is a keeper. A must watch for anyone wanting to elevate their personal wardrobe. ❤❤❤❤
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Aww! Thank you. 😊
@marcellayorkАй бұрын
Your hair and makeup are on point today. You look natural, but polished.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Thank you!
@kushykushyftАй бұрын
I think this may be the best of yuor videos. So very down to earth and genuine. Even the fact that your hair was a li'l mussed and the extended appearance of your co-star lent an artlessness and authenticity to the presentation. This tone may notbe right for all your videos, but once in a while it is really refreshing. Hope you enjoyed it too.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
I could not get that side of my hair (or my cat) to behave! LOL
@KrystalBsMuzikАй бұрын
I love your cat.
@lisablack9634Ай бұрын
Wonderful video, saved to listen again to this great advice. Thank you.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Awesome! 😃
@shell2850Ай бұрын
It is the little things that take an outfit from ordinary to extraordinary. Accessories are our best friends. This video is for all women, no matter what size. Thank you for this video. Style video never get old.❤
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
@virginiagirl6628Ай бұрын
Oralia, you look especially beautiful today. I love your blouse! And your hair looks so pretty. Thank you for a very informative video!😊
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Thank you and you're welcome! 😊
@amychaffin4138Ай бұрын
This was a magnificent video. Thank you so much.
@mcoknits856Ай бұрын
Hello from toronto. I loved this video. The kitty was the icing on the cake.
@mariac5675Ай бұрын
Great recommendations! Thank you.
@andrearoberts2776Ай бұрын
Outstanding video, Oralia! It’s the TED Talk of plus size fashion! Watching your videos and seeing how beautiful you look in the outfits you put together has given me the courage to tuck in my top and add a belt. It’s a small thing but I was not only too subconscious about my belly to do that but had no clue how to make it look good. Seeing how you put things together and doing it myself, seeing I look nice, has given me a lot of confidence. My husband even commented recently that I’m carrying myself differently.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Yay! That's exactly what I'm going for, I'm so happy to know it's helped you! 😊
@heidisegelke6243Ай бұрын
I love that length of hair on you! Brava!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Thank you, I'm trying to get it all to one length!
@verag5109Ай бұрын
Beautiful! Thank you Oralia xx
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
You are so welcome!
@micky39mАй бұрын
You are great, thank you for all this excellent information. And your hair looks great
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
You are so welcome!
@terrianton3564Ай бұрын
😂😂😂 My cat, Milo was all over me during your video.😂😂😂 your fur baby cracked me up.
@MaryKelly-l8lАй бұрын
I really enjoy your videos. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and explaining the style tips in way that really makes sense. You always look so put together and I value all the information you deliver.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
I'm so glad you find my videos useful!
@MaryKelly-l8lАй бұрын
Very much so!
@nancyconca9892Ай бұрын
Great video, Oralia, with lots of good ideas and advice on styling🩷👏🏻 You always make such sense and follow your own advice in styling your beautiful outfits ‼️ You always look so lovely, chic and put together 😊 Thanks for posting this video 🍁🧡🍂🌻
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@RitaVernoyАй бұрын
You are looking amazing today! What a great video
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Thank you so much!
@virgiltheodore4206Ай бұрын
Hi Oralia I just wanted to pop in and thank you for this insight. I usually enjoy your content, but this is very special to me. God bless you ❤
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that. 😊
@debrastalker3005Ай бұрын
Excellent tips! Your video has taught me so many tips and tricks in looking my best.❤
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
I'm so glad!
@janiceellis9775Ай бұрын
I always enjoy your videos but this one is really the Bomb! I learned so much! I am 75 and same height you are and still want to look devastating! You are so lovely and inspire me to just do it. I had to smile a little bit at your “tough love”. ❤
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Aww! I'm so glad you enjoyed it and that it's of help!
@cathpinkett5737Ай бұрын
Great advice and food for thought. Since I found your channel I have felt much more confident as a plus size. Thank you x
@kathrynmdesignАй бұрын
LOVE the outfits you showcased in this vid. Especially the one you’re wearing. I love cream, gold and black. And the maroon sweater dress - so nice with that belt. Yes on the belt. I always thought they didn’t work well for me. But if I get one that FITS properly 😅 they are fine. And tucking in the shirt does help with any pinching in the front from the buckle. Plus my pants are now held up and don’t look so saggy over the day. It does look more finished and just adds a touch you don’t get from a Jean button. Get yourself a good, basic leather belt. And if it’s reversible black to brown all the better. My most used one also came from Goodwill so check there!
@kellyembree4035Ай бұрын
Thank you for the great advice. Hi Cocoa Bean!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Of course!
@Sandra-h1l9uАй бұрын
Thank you, thank you, I really needed help in this area. It’s going to change how I look at my wardrobe style!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@lauriepowell3959Ай бұрын
Gorgeous kitty accessory! ❤🐱👍
@lynettegriffith110Ай бұрын
EXCELLENT video! Your advice also applies to straight sizes. Thank you!! 🌷
@onegirltravelАй бұрын
This has been so helpful! thank you!
@julieschnorenberg5370Ай бұрын
Oralia! This was a Fantastic video! I loved all the tips, but what I really Love was the deep thoughts about our style and our presentation to the World. Hooray! Superb!❤️🌹
@MsBavmordaАй бұрын
Thanks for the tips!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Happy to help!
@suehomebodyАй бұрын
Possibly the most informative styling video I’ve ever watched ! Thank you I will watch this over again. By the way congratulations on maintaining your composure with your beautiful cat trying to grab the limelight 😂
@HelloKitty94610Ай бұрын
Great dialogue. I’m an 80s girl, so matching and cohesion is my jam. I tend to lean toward a 3-color scheme in my dressing. My 3 style descriptors are casual, whimsical, femme.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Very cool!
@RodeanMoerdyk17 күн бұрын
Great tips!! ❤
@edwardsjarjeАй бұрын
Great video! Made me miss our weekly calls.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Aww! 🥹
@laurasebakijje9008Ай бұрын
Love your message love love ❤️
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it!
@joninarimmer7344Ай бұрын
Great video! Thanks!
@lovegardening4652Ай бұрын
I needed this video 🎉🎉🎉 ty
@abeuchertАй бұрын
You look AMAZING as always 😍 absolutely loved this video. I’m going to save for future reference.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@CeciliaGoldfuss-sf3xdАй бұрын
Your outfit coordinated perfectly with Cocoa Bean's 😅.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
She always comes about when I coordinate with her outfit, lol.
@alciraproenza-collazoАй бұрын
Seriously one of your best tips video.
@sharronwolfe7711Ай бұрын
Wow there, girl! I thought I had been transported back in time to southern Oklahoma to my Pentecostal grandfather’s time where he was preaching Camp Meetings with Oral Roberts’s father - except the words were all different! Ha! Joking, it was such a great video! I listened twice and took notes on it - like I do when I hear a great sermon n church!!! Thanks again! I really appreciated this!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Yeah, I did feel a little bit like I was delivering a sermon, lol. 😊
@sharronwolfe7711Ай бұрын
@@Oralia_Martinez glad you took it as a joke! After I wrote it I thought oh my! I hope I didn’t offend her! 🤦♀️ But it’s obvious you are passionate about your calling, and you’re very good at it! Thanks for understanding my meaning there! Very good video!
@annahoover5296Ай бұрын
Happy friday Oralia
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Same to you!
@jennifermendez3205Ай бұрын
Great video! I have spent many years thinking I was too big to wear a belt .. I have been trying out belts the last few months just to see and I realized how wrong I was! By the way .. your kitty matches your outfit perfectly! 😍
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
I'm so glad I could be of help! And yes, she only comes around when we coordinate, lol.
@debrabessette2699Ай бұрын
You look especially radiant in this video!
@alciraproenza-collazoАй бұрын
😂 sandwich dressing 😂. Never heard that, but I've been doing it. Look at me...sandwiching and stylin' 😂😂😂😂😂
@MaggieBacha-rk1roАй бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed this video, such great tips. You always look fabulous, I do love the shirt you have on, black and white shirts call out to me.
@MariaAngelicaUrbina-l2vАй бұрын
Another wonderful video!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
So glad you liked it!
@LorieAriasАй бұрын
I really enjoyed this video, not new info for me, however a great reminder!
@shirleystephenson8424Ай бұрын
GREAT vlog!!! 💯🌹
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Shirley! So glad to hear from you, and I'm happy you enjoyed it! 😃
@charlottejackson6760Ай бұрын
Wonderful advice Thank you
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
You are so welcome. 🙂
@mcshesheАй бұрын
Wearing a belt was the most important tip that I got from watching your channel for some time now. It’s when I get compliments as well. 😊 wait - the other tip was if loose on top then tight on bottom or the other way around. I always try to work with this rule.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Awesome! Yes, and proportion does matter. 😉
@mekahughes2276Ай бұрын
Thank you for such a helpful video. As I have gotten a bit older, I find that trends are less important. I want to look refined yet stylish. I had been having trouble dressing my aging body with the changes I'm experiencing, but this certainly helps.
@kareno7792Ай бұрын
This was a great video! I really need to practice belts. I'm one of those convinced I look awful in them but we'll see if I can take those baby steps. I see Coco knows to stick around for the most important segment of the video! If only we all had the confidence of a feline, lol.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
She is so crazy confident and independent except when she insists on being on camera. Of course, what she really wanted was to go outside and was doing everything she could to have me notice her. 🤦🏻♀️
@kareno7792Ай бұрын
@@Oralia_Martinez LOL. You gotta love kitties and their persistence!
@victoriafoley3958Ай бұрын
Great video!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@dianayavetz6286Ай бұрын
Great information. I’m working on wearing belts and I’ve bought some you have featured.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Take it slow and you'll be ok! 😉
@Ets638Ай бұрын
Spot on! 😊
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
🙌🏼
@carolh8611Ай бұрын
Excellent video
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Thank you very much!
@marthaNN1971Ай бұрын
Great Video. Thank you for your advice. Can you please do video your belt collection and how to wear them with trousers? I really need help with this area.
@dawntaylor389Ай бұрын
Oralia, what a fantastic video! So helpful and you have given us all something to think about. May I pick your brains, as a large short woman who wears mostly navy and teal, what would you suggest regarding a pop of colour handbag and any tips to lift that large block of navy not to look so boring please?xx
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
The first color that came to mind was yellow - any shade. I love how it looks with teal and the navy is such a great compliment. Also, try wearing something like scarves, or jewelry to take away the heaviness of the navy.
@dawntaylor389Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for personally replying, I will try what you suggest xx
@LadellUlbrichАй бұрын
Great advice!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@christinehutchins123Ай бұрын
A video of the kitty would be fun! She's thinking " I look amazing always, in my fur outfit", " no planning necessary! "
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
😆 True story!
@alciraproenza-collazoАй бұрын
Starting @ 15:10 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤ preach. We need it.
@barbaradaley4175Ай бұрын
This is your best video. Please show some elevated t-shirts. Thanks.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
I will!
@Nini51963Ай бұрын
I dress differently depending on temperature and weather of the season , I’m not just three , it also depends on where , I’m going to . Even my health changes what I wear . Thanks for your ideas I am going to try and wear belts .
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it! 😊
@tabethajaske285Ай бұрын
I also realize that I tend to use my dark hair as the top of my sandwich if my dress has a colorful pattern on a black background. Dark brown/black hair, colorful dress, black shoes. 😂
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Ha! Very clever but I can see how it works. 😆
@tinawestra2571Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Aww! Thanks so much! 😊
@csmtcqueenАй бұрын
Thanks Oralia. One question about belts -- should your belt color match your shoes?
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Your shoes, or your bag. Either one looks great!
@user-yz6qr1bt8rАй бұрын
Hi, Love your channel! Where can we find a valentino plus size belt? I love yours and I can’t find one in plis size. Thanks!
@patriciacabbagestalk1109Ай бұрын
That blouse is fabulous, where we find it??
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Sadly, it's no longer available. I got it from Anthropologie and will link it if it ever comes back.
@wendykornfein3337Ай бұрын
Well shown. Perhaps you can show how two prints may work.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Maybe I'll tackle it as a short...🤔
@WayneFehr-zm1kfАй бұрын
i feel a head taller after this video... thks
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
So awesome!
@ginamarie8231Ай бұрын
Hi, Oralia. I am currently searching for a Winter coat. Have you ever come across a Petite coat where the sleeves are either raglan or loose fitting? Thank you in advance. ❤
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Not in a while. I have seen them at places like Mango and H&M but they're not petite. I'll keep an eye out for one as coats become more available this winter.
@lurenawalters6865Ай бұрын
This was wonderful !!! Very good information. Thank you. Can we get a link to the camel belt over the burgundy dress? There was a slot that the belt went through. We are Siamese if you please. Scratch under her chin for me. Thanks again !!!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
LOL, she's a clever one for sure! The belt is a set from Amazon, here's the link! bit.ly/39OnRk8
@lurenawalters6865Ай бұрын
Thank you so much !!! Your content provides much needed information and inspiration to many people. 🐈. I am buying the belt 😎 Thanks again.
@tabethajaske285Ай бұрын
I love belts, but it can be tough to find great styles of belts in plus sizes. Lots of cheap ones, but those don't last.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
It is. Sometimes you can find some from Ralph Lauren at reasonable prices. Madewell is good too. And for designer, you can sometimes find them in sizes 100 cm +, I got mine from Nordstrom.
@cheriestlАй бұрын
I bought a pair of pants that are lighter grey. Can you help with what color top I can wear? Does it need to be light?
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Anything really but especially rich, saturated colors look great with light grey. Some of my favorite combinations with are pink/plum, burgundy/maroon, and light blue.
@cheriestlАй бұрын
@@Oralia_Martinez Thank you!
@LSK1Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@tiffanyfisher1033Ай бұрын
Is it okay to wear a tshirt that is longer than a denim jacket or cardigan?
@KathyCummings-u7nАй бұрын
Coco should be your co host.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
LOL 😆
@dagnolia6004Ай бұрын
to 'me' Oralia is feminine, romantic and dramatic. the three words are difficult for me. my fantasy self has HER three words, but my reality self is casual, comfortable, and easy to launder! hahaha
@justjane1984Ай бұрын
Love it! I’ve struggled to complete my 3 descriptives after comfortable & casual & laughed out loud with easy to launder!! That’s me! 😂 👍🏽 But I do love your style, Oralia, & that’s why I watch!!!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Easy to launder - 😆. Never heard that one but that's awesome!
@Featherheather81Ай бұрын
I had to pause for a minute... projecting my insecurities onto others. This legit is preventing me from dressing the way I truly want to. You just put into words the very thing I couldn't identify.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
I'm so glad I could be helpful! 🙂
@deborahr.7696Ай бұрын
I would love to see a makeover video of your partner.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
If she would let me I would, lol.
@carolh8611Ай бұрын
Im 63 and have never had a belt!
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
It's never too late if you want to give it a try. 😉
@lisah4425Ай бұрын
And always wear clothing that fits your body ... not too tight/short/large/long.
@Oralia_MartinezАй бұрын
Fit is so important!
@alciraproenza-collazoАй бұрын
Ok, idk about the belt. I'm pear shaped (some say coca-cola bottle shape). A belt just makes my hips look wider. 😢😒
@israalbarahmeh129820 күн бұрын
Oralia you need to know that your eyebrow needs to start in the eye duct and you have it all way to your nose line😱
@ShirleyDrake-xx2csАй бұрын
I watch you all the time. I am only 5’2” and weigh 15 pounds too much. So I wear size 12 petite in pants and a large or even extra large top. I am not really a plus size yet, but I find your tips help me with putting things together . I would like to make a suggestion for your videos. Don’t cover your mouth when you are speaking. Attach your microphone to your collar to keep your hands below your face. Covering your mouth while speaking is a body language action indicating you are either telling lies, or don’t believe in what you are saying!