10 BIGGEST Mistakes That Make Men Look "AVERAGE"!

[@alpham]

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[@vladimusredikson3032]

Bro this reply section is full of bots, great video Alpha

[@jacobduchene1448]

@alpha.m I have a question. I look amazing in general, but my glasses are broken to where I have to use tape to hold the frame, or else I can't wear them, and I need my glasses to see. What should I do before I get new glasses? Thanks, Jacob

[@Iamsujant]

SUMMARY: 0:27 Not Growing Facial Hair 0:44 Clothes Don’t Fit You 1:26 You Don’t Workout 1:56 You Not Showing Enough Skin 2:43 Accessories Ad: Anson 5:53 Shop At Same Average Store 6:12 Everybody Around You Dress Same 7:46 You Smell Average 8:15 Weak Body Language

[@Noir0rioN]

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[@dhruvarora1273]

1 not growing facial hair 2 baggy shorts 3 dont workout 4 not showing enough skin like forearm’s , triceps upper chest 5 shopping in same basic stores 6 you smell average 7 weak body language

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

8 grow some balls

[@CryptocurrencyInsider]

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[@dhruvarora1273]

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[@DJFreeway-DJDeltoid-DJZales]

Facial hair is overrated. I wish I had no face hair, I am fine with having body hair but not face hair.

[@DJFreeway-DJDeltoid-DJZales]

And I love baggy shorts because of comfort.

[@abidnessman]

Confession...after following you, happened yesterday. Woman picked up on me! Skincare, polo and nice jeans. Thank you!

[@markbender6763]

He is dead on about the Anson belt. They are so amazing. They look so very classy and I only have one but now Alpha has motivated me to get more.

[@TheVillageBeast]

Happy Saturday ! I hope everyone reading this is chasing their purpose daily !!! Let’s get it 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

[@hugomorales474]

Thank you for always support men in a world that has turn it’s back on us. Appreciated 💙

[@Jim007Bond]

Any man can try 💯% to be the coolest looking dude, he’ll find a lovely lady, and she’ll always try to change him into what she “really” wants....this is why many guys lose their confidence being part of a couple, and the guy ends up back at the beginning “uncool”, and sometimes even friendless.

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

If he entertains the notion of change because she asks for it, he is jeopardizing the burning desire she had for him in the first place. When all the changes are made, she'll leave him and say that he's no longer the guy she was attracted to at the beginning.

[@Mil_Spec_Spartan_]

Never change your persona for your girl. She didn't chose you because you were safe and obedient, she was drawn to your handsome ass because you were stylish, confident, and rebellious, on your own terms. Single, dating, married, it doesn't matter: stay badass, gentlemen 💪

[@johnathantaylor4771]

Yee know too much... 🧐

[@Lycan23beast]

Damn you just describe someone I know

[@shookn]

And then the woman leaves the guy once she changes him is usually how it goes as well

[@arthursheeley1817]

Sizing down isn't always the best advice, especially when tshirts tend to shrink. I hate getting the "right" size then catching a breeze with my shirt hanging too high.

[@Lucaribrix]

It’s really not. I’m tall by the body more than I am the legs so unless the shirt is long length I’m not rocking no medium shirt. It’s comfortable and it hangs high so I’ll stick with my larges and XL depending on the shirt. and pants… very uncomfortable if you challenge to get a size down in pants

[@ottaratliottosson2235]

started watching this channel a few months ago when I was at an all-time low point in my life even tho i'm still dealing with my problems this channel dose help me allot

[@jonathandemelo3075]

Great to hear man just keep pressing the gas

[@litvinovserge]

I am totally Amazed of how this guy making ads integrations. Just totally perfect !

[@ibdstrength]

Biggest mistake anyone makes is caring what others think. Be you, happiness strength and health, the rest is bs.

[@generalkaboom6642]

Being myself is why I'm single

[@charitoabiabi8011]

100% agree

[@forcedanonymity2500]

This type of advice needs to die. It has good intentions but is toxic

[@senadhidic7716]

i agree!!!👍👍👍👍

[@johngonzalez4298]

🎯

[@andrewroland3681]

Bro I’ve been watching your videos and I just realized that you live a few blocks away from me near Marietta Middle School.

[@josephmarshall7549]

Your selling of the belt is amazing dude. It should be part of any marketing and business class in college all the way to MBA's.

[@milesralls7972]

One of your first ads I was actually intrigued by lmao, seems like a legitimately good product.

[@REALzackychan]

I feel like alpha been seeing the hate, his last few vids are much more on point than they have been for a while

[@haunteddreams7856]

Hit a rough patch in life. I've always had a hard time with my emotions, I find it hard to express so I keep them bottled up so the last few days I've been so angry yet just wanting to cry. I had such a bad headache today and nearly just bawled my eyes out at work so I did the right thing..... I did the alpha move and I asked for help, I spoke to a psychologist who is gonna book me in for a meeting. It felt like a very slight relief that I asked but I really do hope this is something I can shake off. Having "men's men" in the family it can be scary to ask for help because it makes you look weak but for all the tough guys out there...... Sometimes just asking for help is what makes you stronger

[@richlrn64]

Good to see you back to normal 👍🏻

[@RainMakeR_Workshop]

It depends on the culture when it comes to facial hair. Try dating in Japan with a beard. You'll either never get a date or you'll be told that you should shave by them. They have this cultural thing where beards are seen a dirty for some reason and the clean cut and almost boyish look is generally preferred. Culturally they also don't like colognes either.

[@vicepresidentmikepence889]

Beards are generally for men with Baby faces, double chins, or ugly faces If you have a handsome, chiseled face, you shouldn't grow a beard

[@gustavsorensen9301]

I look old and homeless with a beard. Without a beard, I look young and look like I take care of myself

[@Kostas_Dikefalaios]

@@vicepresidentmikepence889 A chiseled face looks even better with a short stubble.

[@herzi8372]

I quess masculinity is seen as bad thing

[@RainMakeR_Workshop]

@@herzi8372 Not at all, its just their concept of masculinity is different.

[@ChristopherCologneASMR]

Yeah Alpha I hate I can't workout anymore. I used to beast every workout but chiari and syringomyelia changed that. Now I feel like shit about myself cuz I can't get myself in the shape I want to be. The other thing to make yourself look better is raising confidence and working out definitely helps that.

[@tomjamison3126]

I can only look good if I have facial hair?!? OK, I' calling bullshit. Did George Clooney look like bad when he was clean-shaven? How about Matt Damon? Cary Grant, Jimmy Stewart, Paul Newman, Steve McQueen.... did those guys look average?? Sorry Alpha, I have to call you out on this one. It doesn't matter whether or not you wear facial hair. The real trick is having confidence with whichever way you choose to rock it.

[@XS69]

All these people are rather good looking as they are. But if your facial structure is lacking facial hair will compensate for that quite a bit.

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

If you have weak chin or don't have a chiseled jawline, then facial hair can help cut the facial edges some guys lack. I'd say you're both right. It depends on the face.

[@vastorus]

All those guy you mentioned had style and confidence and over cool. M’s talking about regular peeps who haven’t reached that yet

[@coastalartistlivingonislan8395]

Many women prefer a guy who shaves his face and gets his hair cut every few months. Look neat and clean. Take a damn shower with good soap. Be clean and neat.

[@groovesan]

also, you forgot Ryan Gosling. Now look me in the eye and say he looked average when shaved lmao. I call that "hair" thing a BS, too. Not to mention, some people aren't capable of growing facial hair even if they want to

[@Thadnill]

Actually, as a somewhat attractive looking man, I have to say that I do look best shaved, lot's of women also agree with this, now don't get me wrong I don't look bad with beard, but it definitely doesn't give me any sort of "make up", but rather the contrary.

[@luyandothando]

he just like me for real.

[@miahconnell23]

In some cultures, the “norm” of what is handsome means you must lose the beard. It’s unfortunate, but I dare you to try having a beard in Taiwan or Korea. Go ahead, try it out and see what women say.

[@Thadnill]

@@miahconnell23 Yeah, I have lived in Japan and I know what you mean, it's the same there, and I actually believe that beard only makes me look more "sloppy and lazy", honestly. Some people really look better with beard, but it's just the contrary for me really so I always shave to look fresh and sharp.

[@Trend_Thirsty]

Just signed up for skill share, thanks for the discount bro👌

[@Official_Torey]

My man Alpha never misses!

[@jeffreyryan9750]

I am bald and facially clean shaven. I personally feel good about both. So, I have to disagree on those two points. I get my shirts a size bigger in case of shrinkage. I think your advice is great and listen to it but, I also think a person should do what makes them feel confident also.

[@bassimprovjams3772]

If your just bald because you lost or we’re losing your hair that’s fine, but to many men are going for that bald with a beard and muscles and tattoos look to try and appear to be intimidating and that look is getting old quick. And it’s shown that women like a 10 day growth of facial hair the best.

[@tonymarinelli7304]

I agree

[@MydasNeomagie]

Feeling personally good about styling choices is not everything. How people perceive you is important, too.

[@FranJav507]

Us ea derma roller and Minoxidil. And slso use your correct size, Its not about you its about a better version of you. Dont Be average

[@jeferssonmontoya2177]

I'm bald and hell no I will shave my face absolutely not, is 100% better being bald with some beard. And big clothes absolutely not either

[@malone4735]

“The average man does not want to be free. He simply wants to be safe.” -H L Mencken

[@jpjp9111]

Anson is the BEST belt over all. I have many.

[@anillchandi]

Hey Alpha, should you shave your forearms if their hairy?? Or not? Advice would be great and what’s the best way to shave them? Cheers love from 🇬🇧

[@One_Eleven111]

I burn mine, before a shower I run a bic lighter up and down it. It shortens the hair so it's not all hairy but also doesn't give off the shaved looked. It looks like you naturally have shorter arm hair

[@mrdeathclaw66]

You know, I agree with some of the points, but it depends where you live, what culture you belong to, what's your social status, your job is, etc.

[@azcue]

Thanks for your videos, I've been watching and learning for a while now, but since I live outside the US, In Honduras, there is no way to get the amazing products you recommend.

[@Bbernard14]

This is very simple, useful info. Good alpha M

[@amandeep4300]

Thank you ALPHA for always being there by my side Lots 0f love and respect from INDIA.

[@amandeep4300]

@Abigel_____08 🍑 need attention?

[@karimfitnessshredder9830]

I've always worked out but ever I started working at my new place I've been losing track of my my work outs but because of your words am getting back into my work outs

[@jerryrichards8172]

I live in a part of northern California that is 110+ three months out of the year. A snug fitting pair of clothing is very uncomfortable. We need room to get that heat moving. If in a air condition rooms are bit more comfortable. The problem is the females get cold and the temperature is more set for them. So a nice cool white office shirt that's a tad bigger can help.

[@jeffstevens9463]

this guy gives off that vibe of "i'm trying really really hard to look cool look at me!''. The best way to look good and confident is to pull it off without looking like you're trying so damn hard.

[@zachseabass7414]

Couldn't agree more. What's the use of applying a certain style if you feel awkward in it? Not everyone is comfortable acting like a combination of peacock and a juvenile with severe ADHD in order to get extra attention. It's like a living hell for introverts. Doesn't mean that one shouldn't take care of their looks being decent though.

[@zeblackboi]

You're the type to give others no competition. Thanks!

[@tuhindas6745]

Alpha giving solid advices since 1000 BC.. RESPECT !

[@LinkaFPV]

Aplha is yelling at me every time 😳

[@fmj_556]

Good vid! I have so many suites it would take me a month to wear them all. But I’m reality they just collect dust in my closets.

[@prashantnz]

Thanks Alpha. Agree with all than facial hair .

[@lewjones3]

These are great tips.. my main struggle is, I'm 6'2, 225 lbs.. I have the extreme "athletic build".. so my tops and outerwear fits do weird.. I can barely but long sleeves cuz it it fits my chest and shoulders, it's too baggy in my torso.. if i get it to fit my torso correctly, then the sleeves are too tight and short, and too tight in the chest. Lol.. it's so wierd.. I make it work tho.. going to tailors is so time consuming and out the way

[@airieplay8134]

Frankly i love this guy. Lots of useful tips for men. Love from Malaysia ❤️

[@meditationforthesoul9775]

You the truth for this my dude👌🏽

[@Shivris]

Nah bro. In Florida you want baggy shorts. The humidity is for real down here and so is swamp a$$.

[@theblackdiamondtm3395]

I love how Alpha constantly talks about tricks and tips that are uncomfortable to talk about. "you shouldn't care about what others think about you" is very similar to what keeps people's potential hidden. It's when we challenge and experiment new ideas and apply adversity is when we truly grow. Keep teaching and preaching brother. Appreciate your content and your amazing Pete and Pedro colognes 😁

[@WurmisD]

I'm 6'5", 330 lbs - not too average - however most of the time I feel less than noteworthy. So I've got a bunch of Anson belts, I'm using Tiege Hanley, and I've got Alpha M in my corner... I'd say I'm on the right track.

[@c.1211]

Dude! Your 6'5! Your winning!

[@BeardyAirways]

You’ve got a fantastic starting point / startup capital at 6’5”, Chris! Just out of curiosity - what’s your muscle mass out of those 330lbs? I’m working on significantly increasing muscle mass - currently 6’3” 245lbs with a shoe size US13 - to maximise the return on genetics capital 😎 I’ll definitely attest to the whole “over 6’” thing being an important factor in todays world.

[@deusvultpictures6550]

5'9" gang holla at me

[@Noir0rioN]

You're NOT winning at 6'5" if you're NOT hitting the GYM 4-5 days a week. Religiously. Like... I'm 5'10" and good looking, and in really good shape. Would I TRADE that to be 6'3"? No. BUT-there isn't really any amount of money that I WOULDN'T PAY for that huge fkng edge. So...(tl;dr) : CAPITALIZE, my brotha! •1ne.

[@c.1211]

@@Noir0rioN great point.👍

[@Jmortonvids]

Had a goatee for 20+ years, it made me look better than clean-shaven. But at the age of 46, I grew a (10 day growth) beard and the looks & attention I got was insane. Even dudes complimenting me! I like your advice. Being healthy, Feeling good about the way you look, and your appearance is so crucial toward your self-esteem and sexual prowess as a human, whether male or female.

[@a.j.clause5714]

Not sure if you do this intentionally but I thoroughly enjoy your use of alliteration. Feels fun to find facts for faithful friends 😜 Thanks for yet another badass video! 👊😎

[@hittingtax2670]

I’m just thankful not to be ugly!

[@CRUSH71]

I agree with most of what you say with the exception of facial hair. To me, so many dudes are growing beards that it's starting to look average to me.

[@cosmicrenegade369]

I agree. It's become a trend and I don't follow trends.

[@faceman7966]

Good morning great stuff

[@MrCJR86]

I’m proud to say I smash this list!

[@charlesborel8493]

Alpha’s video are nostalgic to me and bring a level of comfort knowing that my fashion sense is in good hands. Thanks man you are awesome

[@cj5273]

You just know this guy is on grindr

[@laurenceholland8465]

Good ones alpha!

[@anthonyw3828]

So where can I find a long sleeve button down shirt that won't break the bank? Finally getting my mojo back. I have all these things minus athe shirt I'm looking for. Casual wear type for the weather here in NC

[@DigitalDiaries525]

YOUR VIDEO HELP ME A LOT

[@supay6537]

Lord Aaron has spoken! 👏🏼

[@chillipepperenthooziest3730]

I agree with most of this but the facial hair is a no go zone for me, i've tried to grow a beard heaps of times in the past and it always ends up being way too fucking itchy, it drives me ape shit. Clean shaven keeps me looking young and well kempt, especially since I gave up the grog.

[@timmyd800]

Facial hair helps hide a bad jawline/chin, not everyone needs it depending on face structure.

[@cosmicrenegade369]

Exactly. I rock a buzz cut zero guard with a 5 o'clock shadow and it's my preferred look.

[@marlonargueta]

Working out will not only make you look better but it really helps you look younger. Or at least keeps you from looking 70 when you're 40.

[@user-nw1pv8di3h]

Discus.s ⬆️

[@behzadahmadi8133]

Alpha i get what ur saying, but i am jacket but feel super uncomfterble with my arm's showing,

[@joeplem5329]

While I'm all for being the absolute best version of yourself you can be there is nothing wrong with blending in or as some would call it "being the grey man " especially in today's society 🤷

[@eloquentsarcasm]

I've followed the "Grey Man" method since my Army days, I always wear all black, or sometimes black/grey with a military OD gunbelt, and can't help blousing my pants over a good pair of Danners. A properly fitted tee shirt is all you need to really highlight your upper body, everything else is just window dressing. I've worn a Casio Pathfinder solar watch since the Army, it has everything I need, compass/barometer/altimiter/temp gauge, everything I use hiking and camping. Good quality clothing/boots, with a watch that is functional gives the vibe that you look for substance over "flash" and that you live a life that isn't useless, but competent and interesting.

[@filipeortega2128]

@@eloquentsarcasm I agree, less is more

[@deusvultpictures6550]

Aye I love being low profile. I slip through life like a ghost, and beards aren't always better

[@Jmortonvids]

There is a saying in Japanese culture "The nail that sticks up gets the hammer"

[@InfiniteEchos]

I slouch and look at my phone when I don't wanna talk to anyone. Works every time

[@alessandrosciappi7190]

Hey Alpha.m, I am 15 almost 16 years old and watch your videos and I was wondering if I should work out? I am 5'9 and 230lbs and I don't look fat, but I have always wanted to get muscular. I heard I could stunt my growth lifting weights at my age so I have been iffy about it. I am about to apply for a job but want to work on myself first. Thank you for the educational content!

[@ScottyR951]

Thank you sir great vid

[@McGregorZky]

How much for the belts?

[@TylerWallace26]

What type of pants are you wearing in the video? Chinos, slacks??

[@samtsang8471]

Love the pattern suit advice.

[@donschenck2466]

Anson belt: CAN CONFIRM. I LOVE mine.

[@SaisMoon]

Due to the freak draw of genetics, i don’t grow facial hair well. Due to mutation of my DNA. However, I don’t car for it. So it a win win for me. Also I wear specs so I can I change my style game that way, when comes to facial sexiness. Also facial hair is 50/50 thing for me. If a guy has it or don’t. Will not be the deciding factor on me saying “not interested.”

[@nibaronchandraroy9746]

Summary please ...

[@spacejamgaming]

THANK YOU!! ❤️

[@melodyman8484]

Another cool thing about the Anson belts is that when you eat too much you can easily adjust the belt to make it a little bigger without anyone noticing. One touch and bang! You can breath again..lol

[@laschan5434]

Alpha s making me alpha ❤️

[@paramrm]

oh okay

[@uptone12111]

I liked your makeover series-dont know if you got enough view- but it was helpful ..coming from a dude who owns cargo shorts and crocs

[@sircefiro]

Thoughts on slim fitting jackets? I have an awesome jacket that fits well across the shoulders & arm length but it's a bit slim in terms of you can only wear a shirt underneath & you wouldn't really button it up, you can but only just really

[@SaisMoon]

I like solid color when come business or business casual. Maybe a flair of plaid, or some unique or minimal bling. Patterns aren’t my thing, in fact I find polka dots appealing. I have a grey collar shirt. That has square dots all over it. I normally wear it with burgundy or tan chino paints. I not particularly fond of ties. Not even in a business setting. I tend wear 20 inch chocker length leather necklaces, with a natural stone pendant around my neck. I like wearing vest with tails and only combat boots. You can dress them up or down. I’m 6’5, I like my clothing to be able to move as I do. No matter the occasion. My professional look, it steampunk. I’ve had a ton of people say I look like a magician or someone slightly dress for a cosplay. Average I care not, fine, fresh, or extraordinary, I care not. I will express me down to what some people may define as normal, boring, brave, or cuckoo, to the last molecule.

[@leeadkins2289]

Question, not tryna be a hater, but what opportunities am i missing? Getting "spicy senõritas".. im taken, jobs? Im going into the marins then joing the rodeo.. my outfits are fine, red flannel tucked in, with a denim jacket over top, blue jeans with cowboy boots(not square toe, even i hate those). Im good

[@scottprince4506]

not sold on the facial hair, in the og a prisoner has a beard, a soldier has the discipline to shave everyday

[@gaddbajsarn]

hey alpha! What fragance and watch whould you recommend for a 14 year old guy?

[@Lewisevans1618]

Agree with all except facial hair stubble short beard or clean shave whatever you feel like.clean shave if got full beard for example but don’t grow a crap beard if can’t grow one.

[@mohamedalkaboom]

Yes you are correct pizan

[@shreeplays]

Alpha Your suits are so so sooo awesome

[@TheNamronTV]

I have gyno so I can’t size down. That sucks

[@DarkStarGSK22]

"Don't workout? Congratulations you look average" 👏👏👏😂

[@jacobberry461]

Thanks AlphaM I have been dealing with depression and ptsd , the ptsd came from verbally being bullied back it my middle school year of 7th grade and it was almost everyday I was actually thinking of doing suicide and it made me miss my senior graduation because of it

[@Lonesniper41]

Be hard

[@jacobberry461]

@@Lonesniper41 thanks but I’m a humble person by default

[@gururajangara3653]

Hey Alpha, why don't make your workout routine. It's been a while since we got your workout routine video 😍

[@soryn1989]

subscribed!

[@robodonnell6072]

As a heavier guy, I can't size down 😂 would love a video with tips on how to dress being a bigger guy

[@llcooljeff3067]

Hey. I'm kind of in a rut rn bc I seem to have trouble finding a girl I like who likes me back. Heck, even keeping friendships with girls is a struggle as I've been ghosted 3 times. I would like to put out there that I'm not desperate bc I haven't lowered my standards and I don't ask out every girl I see. I hope anyone has any advice for me

[@r.4259]

love u alpha

[@thembp4sho]

5 fragrances that will make you smell different from anyone. Boadicea blue sapphire, xerjoff erba pura, kilian intoxicated, roja danger and creed royal oud 😋

[@RahulYadav-ws9yq]

Love you brother from India

[@Warshuk]

We can all agree that he never disappoints us with his content

[@austinjohnson3452]

where's the guy with the timestamps?

[@danieljoemagallanes8558]

Where’s your watch from?

[@LeroyCReed]

patterns, good tip

[@tritsav1017]

Alpha be carrying me all these years 💪

[@justinorlando9594]

He forgot to mention height! Don't be a basic height, be taller than 6 foot.