10 BIGGEST Relationship Mistakes MOST Men Make!

[@alpham]

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[@geremiaa1065]

Now you need to do a second part to this when you mested up on some or all of this issues and then how to fix it if its fixable!!!

[@khushalsharma2639]

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[@TyUrLacez]

Make a video about skinny fat

[@danpeters3258]

Right it's always the guys fault

[@jaguaresed]

Yeahhhhh, its always the guys fault

[@supersingledoy3263]

1. Talking to your ex girlfriend 2. Comparing your ex to your girlfriend 3. Lack of trust 4. Refusal to commit 5. Lack of continuation after getting the girl 6. Not able to keep it up, 'one min man' 7. Lack of words of affirmation 8. Not Considering her feelings 9. taking off in confrontation 10. can't do laundry Bonus Emotional cheating

[@joshua.ducao168]

Hero-san

[@divyangdesai4593]

Many thanks 😊

[@PrestigeWorldWidePWW]

I bet you're fun at parties

[@supersingledoy3263]

@@PrestigeWorldWidePWW w'd u invite me hahaha

[@4xdblack]

@@supersingledoy3263 I'd invite you, Hero.

[@fahadahmed9503]

Relationship requires efforts from both sides it’s unnatural only to expect guys maintaining the relationship. And Yes respect your partner and be the help he/she needs.

[@fahadahmed9503]

Thanks Alpha!!

[@adityakulkarni7871]

Absolutely agreed..👍👍

[@Rockstar-jl4ri]

I agree with you

[@Alwalou]

شكرا فهد بالتوفيق

[@21stCenturySpaceOdyssey]

Indeed....most of the media and everyone else think it's all up to the men to maintain the relationship, with no accountability from the women.....this is bullshit.

[@scottharris2537]

Only ONE woman addressed the fact that it goes both ways in a relationship. BOTH need to put in the work. 💯💯💯

[@gromswowguide7927]

well, only one woman was also asked for this video, as far as i can see.

[@GabrielZ.]

This is no excuse to fall into the things all the girls talked about in this video, but of course I agree that both should put in an equal amount of work. You have to acknowledge that this video is targeted at man specifically, not about what girls should do.

[@xXDarthKushGoonerXx]

@@gromswowguide7927 what???

[@cpsea15]

@@gromswowguide7927 comment of the year

[@beastlyboi1294]

@bill ted Pretty much, very self absorbed

[@NostalgiaMan]

And how does Alpha M know how to act in a relationship? Because this man goes right to the source.

[@filhanislamictv8712]

My man

[@darrinmiller5664]

Thanks so much for the heads it's the truth.

[@mattl7424]

He still had no fruit. Just a cat

[@duynhat638]

the emotional cheating is so real, I end an relationship because of it and i just kept thinking if i let that pass maybe we can still work it out, but NO, now i know i did a right thing. Thank u alpha

[@randomdudeonyoutube.]

Before entering a relationship let's see what we ourselves have to offer. Yes, it's a mutual matter. But let's focus on being the best we ourselves can be.

[@phoenix-king779]

Exactly

[@RedDawn1324]

A lot of women nowadays want you to do all the work in the relationship. They've watched too many Disney films and now want you to simp to their every need. Relationships are 50/50

[@zeseanisart9243]

uhmm. Men been doing that for centuries lol. Why do you think women marry the Duke or prince before? because Men are the provider and Women are the Nurturer. It has nothing to do with Disney.

[@RedDawn1324]

@@zeseanisart9243 who said men had to provide? In case you haven't noticed it's 2022. Relationships are a 50/50 basis. If the woman makes more, I see no reason why the man can't stay home.

[@zeseanisart9243]

@@RedDawn1324 Thats the problem with the modern world now. Everything’s inverted.

[@JohnMarston-wd7tv]

@@RedDawn132450/50 relationships basically never work. Women still want the man to pay and provide.

[@lern2swim]

"don't talk to your ex" "lack of trust" LOL... K

[@Schorling]

LOVED to see a video for those of us already in a relationship instead of only dating and pick-up videos

[@ShadowRunner73]

THANK YOU for addressing the EMOTIONAL CHEATING. I've heard so many stories from guys about how their girl left them because they were spending time with and flirting with other girls (never sleeping with but constantly flirting and messaging)

[@troytruong8246]

Jusy dont tell them shits about what is in your head. Honestly is good but being too honest will backfire. You must be dumb to speak your mind in a relationship.

[@ThePremiumChicken]

Sometimes, when I get really upset, I learned it's sometimes best to walk away. I have said very hurtful things which I severely regret when in the heat of the moment. Some words, once spoken, cannot be taken back. So I walk away until my temper has subsided.

[@johnbroadway4196]

In my 56 years of living, loving, And knowing that no relationship can last if neither partners will try helping each other.

[@khademislam685]

You should do a video on happy , healthy married life in every aspect of life.Thank you.

[@thirdyiii2448]

My first ever relationship ended. I hope these advices will help me become a better person for my next significant other. Thank you, my internet dad! 💯

[@Mr.Rogers91]

Make sure you watch the other video about being an Alpha too. Women still want MEN ya you what I mean ?

[@twitteruser818]

I'm not God but you probably deserve it

[@shadyb1449]

It’s your first ever relationship lmao. Ofc it’s gonna end. You aren’t gonna marry the first person you ever date. Your gonna date a million girls and eventually find the right one. That’s life lmao.

[@chris_abazas]

@@twitteruser818 Yeah cause its easy to find a loyal woman nowadays 😒🤨

[@zaink7037]

Sorry to hear that brother. Hurt over my first relationship too finding out she got married to some guy in her family relative. Found out things about her which made me realise she wasn't the one for me

[@iluvcoffee346]

7:15 “Communication is key.” “Hey is something wrong?” “No, I’m fine” “Okay” “OMFG YOU NEVER LISTEN TO ME!”

[@roy6672]

Broooo everytime, women can’t communicate. They say one thing and mean another, that shit always piss me off. Like I have millions things going on in my head tell me straight up what you want or don’t waste my time.

[@iluvcoffee346]

@@roy6672 right bro

[@sleepwalkinpyro]

“Im fine” in a women’s mind means fucked up, insecure, neurotic, and emotional.

[@andrejz8954]

Ain't that the truth!

[@ReplyIfUrR374rd3d]

@@roy6672 depends what women you interact with. My wife is always to the point.

[@pmbluemoon]

3:45 OMG that goes for ANY type of relationship! Not caring/taking care of your partner/leaving them hanging, NOT GOOD!!! Thank you ladies for putting that out there for sure, your embarrassment for making the "mission" comment was worth watching! 🥰👍

[@terrancemitchell3681]

At 3:55 that Lady said it straight it's a 2 way Road. You got to keep it like it's the beginning. Dont change her. Dont change for her.

[@sidgupta426]

Alpha is the dad a lot of us never had! Thanks Alpha! 😎

[@Stophey]

Cameron is a SPICY SENOR! (all great advice, thanks!)

[@CosplayForge2024]

I been there with that comment about not thinking about her. Most the time I think about her but the other day she wasn't feeling well when we where out shopping and I was stupid and didn't think of her and take her home right away. I regretted my actions because I was willing to let her relax while I take care of her, but I didn't follow her cues and take her home. The worst part is it wasn't her subtle cues that I missed it was straight out comments. So guys pay attention!

[@hoiendehe]

After seeing this video, i dont want a girlfriend anymore 😂

[@learnpianofastonline]

Watch red pill videos on relationships rather than blue pill vids like this one.

[@amanbhakta4524]

@Tech Hybrid good luck brother, don't get happy too soon 🙃

[@amanbhakta4524]

@Tech Hybrid 2 months is way too short of a period to decide that you've found the one .

[@andrejz8954]

@Tech Hybrid how old r u?

[@amanbhakta4524]

@Tech Hybrid bro, people change like seasons, I just mean don't keep your hopes high

[@Lucifarian]

I’ve seen your Chanel in my recommended a lot so decided to check it out, I’ve since subscribed and I want to thank you for all the great advice in your videos🙏

[@jeetsarma9656]

I'm watching you from last 3 years and my life becomes better

[@nickclanton6275]

Love the advice... LOVE THE FACT WE CAN SEE THERE FACES... its wonderfull to see a smiling face... Be safe everyone

[@Tony_Z__]

Always enjoying hearing from the women at the salon and sharing their viewpoint. Also helps that they're really easy on the eyes!

[@alexandergriffith1825]

When it comes to a romantic partner, the love isn't unconditional. If you just stop trying, its over.

[@NDK0]

Can we talk about the fact that it's still okay to shame men for things they can't control? "Can't get it up"... What if you let it all go? We can reverse it and say. "She's too loose and can't get wet. Get it together, woman!"

[@sleepwalkinpyro]

Truth. It breaks a woman when you call them out on something like this.

[@mad5210]

THANK YOU! Hey Alpha I think you need to reconsider some of the women you put in these videos. Some things in men and women are controllable and some are not but I'm wondering if it was purposely done to Seque into the Video sponsor on ED.

[@amirpenkar947]

Yep my thoughts exactly

[@nicklopez8004]

also the fact that when your doing it, how are you just supposed to release it on command after the woman is pleased, it doesn’t work just on command, it releases when most aroused and there would be no holding back so i dont get how they want us to please them first and then release, we could please them in other ways if we release too early anyways such as foreplay for them in the beginning

[@funsizejacobs1426]

Thought the same thing. Women expect us to last an hour and they do nothing but lay there. Like girl if your going for more than 15-30 min you have a problem not me. Stop watching adult videos thinking it's going to be like 30 mins+ of non stop pound town.

[@hungcao919]

I made some of these mistakes in the past relationship now when I’m looking back it gives me nauseous I have to stay away from relationship for a while it takes too much effort to be with someone instead of being yourself 😢

[@bobbyaffet1710]

Cameron: 💯 correct.

[@cbar6537]

Really enjoy when you drop by the office or whatever and ask the ladies

[@frenchtoastmafia1]

Refusal to commit goes both ways. That ruined my last relationship. We were together, broke up, and tried to get back together. She wouldn’t be loyal to me when we tried to get back together. Her going out with another guy when we were talking was the last straw for me

[@NickNotas]

I see these two pretty often... *1) The guy doesn't communicate his expectations early on.* For example, the fact that he wants regular alone time to recharge or to have a weekly guys' night. But doesn't want to upset his new girlfriend, so he buries his needs. Over time, his needs aren't met so he starts trying to change that and builds resentment. The woman feels this sudden adjustment and believes he's unhappy. They fight about it. She gets frustrated and also builds resentment. *2) The man stops trying as hard to date her and sex becomes routine.* He stops flirting to build anticipation. They don't set up romantic days/nights out as much. He doesn't leave time for foreplay and warming her up. So every night they do the same thing like: watch TV, just before bed he tries for 1 minute to get her going, and they have the same old vanilla intimacy. Eventually, sex feels like an expectation, Once we feel like we HAVE to do something rather than we WANT to, it loses its excitement.

[@manoftomorrow5987]

Communication, communication, having the same goals, always chosing your partner(romantic date nights, love, appreciation), have respect for your partner and not doing things you know you wouldn't want to be done to you (liking pics, talking to exes, talking to girls). Once you're able to master those things you will have a healthy happy relationship. Of course they will be arguments here and there, those are healthy, but don't let it fester and become disrespectful.

[@jandegonzales]

How often do you ask women these questions?

[@richardramfire3971]

Can definitely relate with no 1

[@jandegonzales]

It should all be a given, and most women do the same things too. My ex-wife never once had to tell me not to talk girls, but she talked to guys all the time, and let them know our problems. It was hard being blue pill.

[@909bkaby]

This relate to me so much

[@patrickwentzell4638]

I might be a little clueless sometimes about what many are thinking what to do or anything relationships can be tough now a days. high expectations would drive any person difficult and many are treated like obligations I don't wanna get married but also don't wanna be alone forever I know this friend she dated no commitment at all. as a kid if I talked was told shut up when I am silent people think that I'm shallow way too quiet and don't seem to really care about others. then where the hell is the middle ground balance?

[@ianl.gutierre1341]

2:45 If she starts dating your best friend, then you were right on being unsure about her. And you should probably get better friends too.

[@dandanndannnnnn]

The only sound piece of advice in this video was from the lady with short white hair at 3:13. The rest of the advice given has to come from both parties. It's no use if the guy is doing his part, but, the girl isn't reciprocating. From my observations of girls that I know personally and just in general, many of them don't give back what they ask for and expect from a man. Also, when you give them what they want and expect, many of them get "bored" and leave you to find another guy. For the younger guys here, ask older gentlemen, whether that be your father, uncle, guys at work etc about the mistakes you want to avoid in relationships with women. You should refrain from taking dating/relationship advice from women because it will come from a biased point of view.

[@warrioreon11]

This deserves WAY more likes!

[@learnpianofastonline]

Exactly. These points are extremely blue pill.

[@andrejz8954]

Smart words right here, people!

[@angerslay3r371]

Wise words right here!!

[@TomGF7]

Hmm… guilty of a few of those points. I know what I need to work on now!

[@BDAShadow1]

Can't agree with 9 more. You've got to address things and talk, but if the situation is heated it's almost always better to take some space to cool off - a few minutes, an hour, maybe overnight. I try to address things before going to bed though, better nights sleep.

[@JVIT_TV]

All great points, thank you Alpha and Salon Posta crew! Also… the commitment girl you were talking with on the steps is breathtaking! She’ll probably never see this, but if you do, please let her know!

[@cristiano0755]

Thank you so much Alpha M! Greetings from 🇵🇭

[@ThePoeticGuy]

Alpha, bring back weird uncle Barry! It's been a while we haven't seen him. 👀 Also, let's not forget his grey kitten!

[@rohanfearon4225]

GOOD job bro keep on educating, never too old to learn peace

[@Whit3D4rkn3ss]

You’re awesome Alpha! Thanks for helping tons of people on internet giving advices that we could only get from experience. Keep being the best friend!

[@vanilittlestar6357]

Just goes to show you that some guys actually believe they're so good in bed but they're the ones who finish first & leave you hanging. Guys who stop working on the relationship once they have you. Taking the person for granted. Thinking you can get someone better. Talking out any issues without getting angry & storming out. Do your own housework & clean after yourself. If you're not happy don't cheat just break up because it'll only get nasty. I swear Brian, you give great advice...wish some of these guys would just listen to you.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Yes some guys actually do believe that and ironically it's the worst sex ever

[@m.f.jones90]

Her: Communication is key. Me:… ok. What’s wrong? Her: Nothing Me: OK I’m gone🚶🏾‍♂️ Her: *pikachu face*

[@alshareefahmed327]

Alpha Alpha you always bring the stuff that I really need although not on purpose

[@coletenbass4086]

Your hair tip for people with red hair like salt and pepper ideas or any ideas for Irish people

[@jaskell2057]

Its a reason why we don't commit but they never take accountability. You have to earn it. They expect for us to give them the world and have nothing to bring to the table

[@theejpp]

Time heals all wounds. If you’re mad about something, waiting 20mins will usually make you realize how little said thing matters. If you’re still upset, then you can address it with a more level head. But the things you do and the places you go while you’re taking that time is the problem. Don’t go to a bar and get drunk or something, just enter a different room or go for a drive or something.

[@rebekahjette6304]

Doing favors for the crush you had before you started dating me...and then telling me to stop being jealous when I confront you about it.

[@FarazKhan-oz8he]

Now this is some unique and gr8 shit i was waiting for...

[@aroshmtv1121]

This mans energy never changes ever young man alive on Earth 😉

[@richardramfire3971]

Alpha nailed it. Im a 44 year old married guy with kids. If you wanna keep a woman you gotta up your game. I made many mistakes

[@Mista559]

I’ve done at least two of those thing. But you live and learn.

[@HighIvan]

Thank you ALPHA. I used to watch you religiously. Now I am going to watch your old videos and catch up

[@timothysalinas37]

Theres another part of this video that should be made which is what do these women bring to the table?

[@nightmaster6381]

So glad I checked to make sure the grass was greener on the other side! It is!! Can you imagine if you just settled for the first person you loved?! That means I'd be married not to my high school sweetheart, but my middle school sweetheart..... no thanks!!!

[@karimtawbeh8793]

For the woman that said that she doesn’t like waiting for a guy to make up his mind. A lot of the times what happens is she’s the one who wants the relationship, and he doesn’t. So he keeps her around for the sex, and milks it as much possible, until she gets fed up and walks away. If the guy doesn’t want a relationship with you, then you’re clearly lacking something that is essential for him to be in a relationship with you.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Truth. Those men aren't worth it

[@adasoariicho]

No more making this mistakes 😤 Thank you Alpha 😂 And guys don't forget alpha helping us so drop one of this 👍

[@marlonrubiosmith1470]

Great video, Alpha! Been a while since I saw one and nothing’s changed 🏆🤩

[@ortolaza91]

"the grass is not spicier on the other side of the fence" 😂 I love this guy! Also, I could never ever get mad at alpha's product placement spots, they're always necessary and never forced

[@johnmivule-novabow8143]

Hell yeah, Back with some FIRE, keep it up as always

[@ishaanhodge3495]

Thanks ladies

[@topnotch4564]

I ❤️ This Channel, Soo Much.

[@prakharsinghpundhir8133]

I respect Alpha like a dad and I've trusted his every advice until now but I can't take advice from a spicy senorita because they just don't know what they even want.

[@prakharsinghpundhir8133]

@James Hawksworth typical forty niners.

[@kingbb911]

@James Hawksworth they’re all well put together, but yeah…. was attracted to 3 of them

[@21stCenturySpaceOdyssey]

@James Hawksworth *"most of these spicey señoritas aren't even spicey"* That's also the first thing I noticed too.

[@sleepwalkinpyro]

Hairdressers are literally the most high maintenance and craziest ones that expect everything and bring so little to the table. They essentially make their money gossiping all day long.

[@21stCenturySpaceOdyssey]

@@prakharsinghpundhir8133 What's a "forty niner"? I like that expression.

[@theclown9293]

Great vid as always Alpha 👌👌👌 I used to 1 a lot I stopped now after this.

[@AdityaSharma-ge3ul]

Alpha you rock as always 🤘

[@georgeapostolou8046]

Look at Aaron man, so inspirational!

[@lordytsunita6311]

My Parents: What are you doing ? Me : I am collecting Blessings for you and me 😂😂😂😂😂

[@brandonledesma5054]

Damn alpha I definitely needed this!! Just lost a great girl just cause of some of these 10 things..

[@PLANTBAT]

I'm getting married, thanks Aaron. I appreciate you brother. I'll keep watching everyday and keep my mind open. 💪🤠

[@savagebeafy]

Congrats my dude

[@munashekarundika]

congrats.....congrats heyyyyy

[@ginorusselwilliams9461]

Some of these things are simple common sense, however, women say this and do the complete opposite. To hell with them.

[@danielpittijr6283]

A relationship is 50/50, a man in his purpose won't make the new girl feel less than #2. Because you should be #1 no matter what.

[@diamant6304]

Its wrong, its should be 75/25

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Exactly. Never compare

[@coletenbass4086]

Mix rebel and villain together it smells amazing

[@Gio-un4wh]

Help around the house 🏡 I think I’m helping enough when I’m the one paying everything thank you very much

[@prajwalchavan4781]

Wtf? after watching this, I really don't wanna get into a relationship. That's a lot of work man 🤨

[@sauce2514]

Make sure you're with someone willing to put in as much work as you are.

[@chadsharpe7213]

The girls gotta make the man happy to. It's a two way street and you gotta have respect and honesty between each other. I work, she has to work. So you can combine each other's money and build our own kingdom. 😎 And help each other out around the kingdom. Don't be played. 😎

[@alijahcordova8359]

This video is a very great 👍 peace of Advice Alpha your the best 💯

[@shamx27]

Promoting his salon with a completely unrelated video. Marketing skills 🔥🔥

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[@laylow1033]

Its not just emotional or physically cheating alpha.. How about financial, and status. Especially as a parent, or the head of household. How they treat you around friends, family, kids. Big one here that I see a lot of modern day spicy ppl oversee

[@lamebrane6474]

I can understand why a woman wouldn't want you talking to your ex's, but i find the reasons given to be insecure and conceded. Doing it in secret or constantly, I can see that. It all varies on how your relationships ended. Mine happened to be mutual for the most part. They all have a piece of my heart because they were a piece of the time line of this one life I get. I don't hold grudges, those are for people who feel the need to hold onto their past and their victimhood. I'm not saying be their best friend, but you can still be kind and cordial with a human being that I assume at one point meant a lot to you or cared about.

[@ShinyArjunSingh]

Nice one, Subscribed, Please keep it coming..

[@GoodNews-px2im]

“Bangin’ ‘em in the parking lot, in your Bronco.” Uh, are we talking about O.J? 😳😂

[@jb1876]

There should be no rules in a healthy relationship. If the person is right for you things should run smoothly.

[@danninagy6895]

Thank you!

[@markcuban3691]

The girl from the thumbnail is soooo cuuuute 😭

[@peggydickson4431]

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[@peggydickson4431]

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[@Mr.Rogers91]

Emotional cheating is just as bad because the only place for it to go is to a physical relationship so.... makes sense

[@stevetwilling1499]

Alpha M when I’m in relationships I don’t watch porn cause I feel if I watched porn while dating someone it’s like cheating on them . I’m glad I gave it up cause I truly was not enjoying watching it anymore

[@itsDjjayyArt]

Exactly

[@elijf22]

Bro your videos don't suck, great as always😎👉🏻

[@AnkitDasture]

*STAY SINGLE* ! *LIVE HAPPY*

[@mountolympus5002]

Yo! Alpha enjoyed your podcast with beerbiceps, Love from India Brother!

[@hamidelhmouz6767]

Spicy? There's no spicy senorita in this video 😂😂😂😂😂

[@adrianjosephsenerpida2423]

Thanks so much Alpha. I learned a lot from this video. God bless!

[@markzajac4198]

Great advice from the Senioritas!! ☺

[@cowboy8681]

If you dont have trust ,you have nothing,why are you together? And once a cheater ,always a cheater physically or mentally you will never be happy or trust that person ever again!No matter how great you think that person is ,its not worth your time or worry and headache!!

[@rebiceman100584]

I will be assuming that number 1 refers to short term partners .... for example, I have my ex and we have had kids I cannot stop talking to her ever due to parental communicational needs.. so my question is, please elaborate on not talking to your ex

[@DROPKICK_MURPH]

This is all a two way streak as well!

[@surriyajabeen2646]

Its matter of trust and friendship

[@xenocide2519]

The trust one is a big one. I gave my trust to my ex. To be honest I never wanted to be toxic and demand to know who she's talking too. Big mistake. She fell in love with some other dude, cheated on me, and left me for him. This truly hurt because she's literally not like other girls. She has cute mannerisms, friendly, stands for others rights, sweet, caring, she was so tiny, so adorable looking that even girls were after her, in all she looked like an adorable angel. I'm not good looking and I know it. But she made me feel so comfortable so it hurt more because she's someone I always thought would never do such a thing. Not only that, but she was the only person I had left in my mind. Anyway, I went through so much pain. A 10 year relationship. Thats a 3rd of my life that she was in it. I say this because it doesn't matter who it is, I'm giving yall a warning to not love at 100%. Reserve a little for a just in case. Nothing will guarantee someone will stay with you. No ring, child, time, items, or love can guarantee it. So focus on the one that matters. Yourself. Of course, try with her/him, show them the amazing person you are. Supposedly thats what I didn't do, but cheaters always have an excuse and thats their to go one. So if you see that they are being suspicious, calmly study the situation. Be patient. If you feel like you can't trust them, then like alpha said, break it off. In short, Dont fully love just in case Show them what a catch you are (sometimes I wonder if its true that I just didn't try hard enough and I still beat myself over it. Seriously, losing the best thing ever is something you'll regret forever) If there's no trust, then it's not going to work out.