Got cheated on, and ghosted like I never even existed, then replaced by someone else. I dealt with alcoholism and suicidal thoughts, felt completely alone and worthless. Heck I still feel these things at times, but it DOES get better. As corny and cliche as it is, love yourself like you deserve it, because you do fellas ❤️
@harshitdas20403 жыл бұрын
Ur hobbies and passion comes to rescue in this situation ... Good luck my friend
@TheDobermannnn3 жыл бұрын
Bro, never invest on a girl. Let her invest in you.
@hardwork26663 жыл бұрын
Just so you , she will do the same thing to that other fella, he just doesn't know it yet, how long did it take you to find out? So it will take time for him to find out as well, she is his problem now, let him feel what you felt as well!! KARMA!!! get to know yourself, be who you were before you met her!! Educate yourself on Narcissist women!! It will help!
@harshitdas20403 жыл бұрын
@@hardwork2666 the thing is ... The person who cheats once normally have this tendency of cheating twice or thrice ... And when they go marry somebody cheating comes to their dna and then they even cheats on their partner after marrying .. One thing's for sure they cannot experience true love anywhere in their remaining life
@walterestrada95233 жыл бұрын
Keep ur head up brother . We have all been there at least once .
@syedazmiharoon72633 жыл бұрын
Got cheated on after 8 years, she did every one of these things and I had a gut feeling too, I just made the mistake of giving her benefit of the doubt. We are not together anymore, I got a good paying job, got busy, started working out. I feel amazing after cutting off all ties with her, I confronted her but I didn't fight coz I knew she wasn't gonna show any remorse. I'm better off and happier without that toxic woman
@travismooney4852 жыл бұрын
Good for you brother!! She sounds like vile woman anyways!! Find yourself a real woman!! Girls are nothing but a dumpster fire!!
@patrioticaussiesams85812 жыл бұрын
Always TRUST your gut feeling mate. Don't ignore it. Investigate
@frankiefreemann2 жыл бұрын
She cheated after 8 years? Naah..you only found out she's been cheating after 8 years, she's been cheating all along. Anyways, that doesn't matter now & I'm happy that you're feeling better & doing better. Jah bless✨
@chaucerparks20422 жыл бұрын
I'm afraid this is were I am with my wife, at this point and how I'm about to handle my marriage soon..✌
@frankiefreemann2 жыл бұрын
@@chaucerparks2042 Goodluck Chief..
@anonymousperson83013 жыл бұрын
In case you're in a rush 1. Changes in phone usage 2. She starts dressing sexier and/or working out 4:52 3. She stops inviting you 4. She can't control her urges 5. She can rationalize the behavior 6. She's skilled at deception. You deserve better, brothers.
@earldouglas46452 жыл бұрын
And she starts monitoring you as if you cheating, & or she gets super annoying
@z31rider242 жыл бұрын
I love being an Alpha Male. Life is amazing.
@justinrobertson55162 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro.
@larrylove61692 жыл бұрын
Pp
@Veheloth2 жыл бұрын
@@z31rider24 lol ok. Alphas dont call themselves alphas. Theyre too busy leading the chaff. Hooah!
@alzedi983 жыл бұрын
If someone’s bound to cheat, you really can’t do anything about it. It’s not about trusting them and being anxious if they exhibit these traits (although it’s good to identify behavior changes), but to trust yourself to handle it properly if they do betray you.
@olzarius3 жыл бұрын
Solid advice. Adding anxiety, possessiveness and distrust might actually ruin something that was good.
@carlosverde-datingtips70013 жыл бұрын
One of the main reasons why women lose attraction for a man is because, attraction is like a plant. If you don’t keep watering it, it dies. Getting a woman attracted to you, that’s the easy part - now keeping her attracted, that’s a whole new ball game. One of the most powerful ways to keep the attraction going is by learning - how to “build a deep emotional connection” with her. Once you have learned that, you won’t have to worry about her cheating on you - because she’ll have too much invested with you, to even think about it. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@olzarius3 жыл бұрын
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 solid for those with low confidence. But the way you find a deep emotional connection with someone, is if you actually like them and they like you. Work on yourself, and add to your life. Happy wife happy life mentality can lead men into a constant fear that their inequities will soon be figured out. Imposter syndrome. Get your confidence up, love yourself, treat your girl they way she deserves and be honest so she does the same. Just my 2¢
@carlosverde-datingtips70013 жыл бұрын
@@olzarius Well said! Lol
@khanhho23933 жыл бұрын
Gitæl
@phill59173 жыл бұрын
Social media and the workplace are the main two places where cheating happens the most. That's why you need to know what kind of women you're dealing with before getting into a relationship.
@firstedition10832 жыл бұрын
It is almost impossible to know a woman that you are dealing with. They can fool you for about 5 years and maybe even longer
@charleschin26122 жыл бұрын
Yeah in some way you're right but know this you can't know a female if she doesn't know and respect herself and you at the same time even the ones that go to church and claims to be a Christians will cheat on her man and I'm speaking from experience with that one , a female can have her man and 11 other men comes at her and she managed to stay firm with her one man but then comes number 12 man and he doesn't have nothing to give her or take care of her or love and respect her for her and that is the man she will cheat on her man with and when he done with here then she wants to blame someone else like her man for her cheating and make up stories as if he was cheating and she did it to get revenge on him a female will cheat with even her man's enemy so we men just need to stop pretending it can't happen to any of us females cheat more than men it's a fact just have strong faith in yourself and God to help you get pass it quick and fast
@michaelweston4092 жыл бұрын
Social media has made it so easy now. All a woman has to do is post a sexy pic & she's got 50 options available in her DMs all within 30 miles. In this day & age I don't even know how relationships exist. & best believe while she's with you she's chatting up boatloads of other men.
@andersnielsen6044 Жыл бұрын
So before the social medias and the women on the working market - cheating never happened? OMG some of you guys are naive!
@beathaknockturnal85553 жыл бұрын
Yeah, having a person cheat on you has got to be one of the most painful damaging experiences a person can go through. Thanks for the video Alpha as always.
@mkoprc2 жыл бұрын
It literally feels like a stab in the back. Or the heart. It's not so much the actual act, but the betrayal that makes you want to implode. Or maybe that was just me.
@AzraelPercussionNEO2 жыл бұрын
Actually I am used to it. I don't even feel anything anymore. There is not such thing as forever love anymore.
@uunz44352 жыл бұрын
The first two times it happens is devastating. By the third time, you’re on to them and just sit back and watch them dig the hole themselves. When they want to leave, tell them okay and they are thrown for a loop. The power is yours at that point but it’s better to leave opposite directions
@jameshomschek81552 жыл бұрын
I'll let everyone know that the more it happens to you the less it hurts until it doesnt hurt any more. The more it happens, the more you see those signs. The less you ignore your gut feeling. The less crazy you become. You remain calm cool and collected while you gather your evidence. And yes watch for a change in her behavior. Simply be you in the mean time and be who your are to her. She will begin to hate you.
@isaiahld92952 жыл бұрын
I learned to always trust your gut. Even if they say your over thinking or to trust them, trust your gut above all. Never lets you down.
@mariuszsobieraj17693 жыл бұрын
I’m surprised you didn’t mention the guilty conscience. When she starts accusing you constantly of cheating on her when you’re not doing anything.
@GabrielXDrums3 жыл бұрын
Blaming you, ahhh victim mentality. Love it
@MrTimjm0093 жыл бұрын
The projection onto you trick . Yes . You get accused of things but really , chances are they did it already to you or they will do it . Its sort of like a paranoia where if you do it to them , doesnt matter because they already did it first. There is a saying that if you point your finger at someone you point back at yourself 3 times . ie , it means they are the guilty ones ( hipocrites ) Its isnt you doing things , its actually them.
@pedrotinho2 жыл бұрын
The fembot 3000 shows no remorse, doesn’t care about your feelings and will blame you for their cheating ways.
@Moneytrainfamily-fr7os2 жыл бұрын
Just cause you don't have self respect don't mean I don't Everytime I catch em they tryda switch it
@ladyviking892 жыл бұрын
Ha my ex boyfriend did it.
@dandandan61283 жыл бұрын
Getting defensive is the key trait for every lie.
@keshavomnipotent3 жыл бұрын
I've seen so much news, read so much about cheating and infidelity, it just seems that this is just how the world works. If I walk on the street and feed a cow/dog that passes me by, it just accepts and never stabs you in the back. The kind of love nature offers is just blissful. I may sound nuts, but from where I see things, I think I'm tired of all this romance and stuff. Introspection is what helps me grow and mature.
@_joeshantaram_3 жыл бұрын
You have a very interesting point of view.
@samuelmahesa80452 жыл бұрын
What are you saying is pretty much me too
@TCY-jn9nw3 жыл бұрын
It is the most terrible thing a person can do to another person. The ultimate betrayal
@TCY-jn9nw3 жыл бұрын
At least with murder you don't have to live afterwards.
@skyizfalling3 жыл бұрын
That's why it's the deepest, lowest level of hell.
@virtualworld22313 жыл бұрын
@@TCY-jn9nw well if you are a man you have nothing to fear about if you love a girl and she starts acting as if she is bored with you just think like this ( im better than her she does not dserve me ) work on youreself have fun workout just don't prioritize her a man i mean a real man is a complete being while woman was created from man the key is to love youreself and belive me you will be better
@TCY-jn9nw3 жыл бұрын
@@virtualworld2231 yeah no shit but if you've ever been in love you feel an intense connection. And when the other half of the connection cheats it's like something in you breaks. Even the most stoic person will feel intense pain from that.
@midhunrajkuzhingara3 жыл бұрын
@@TCY-jn9nw Feel you Bro. Get out from there if you are still going through it though❣️.
@cdrmt32293 жыл бұрын
Gents, your power is in the ability to calmly walk away. Walking away without getting upset and completely ignoring her is the way to go. She wants what she cannot have. So walk. She can’t have you. Move on.
@bernardking7752 жыл бұрын
FACTS!!! All FACTS!!!
@brownpunk17943 жыл бұрын
Im probably one of the older guys here..37. Let me give you young guys some advice and maybe save u some heartache.. Once a woman cheats..never ever ever take her back..it will never be the same..ever. Its like breaking a glass..sure u can put it back together but it will never be the same. Hope this helps
@jeffersonroth16383 жыл бұрын
I’ve said it many times, but I really don’t know where I would be without Alpha. I tagged him in a Facebook post a bit ago. It’d be so awesome he he liked an commented.
@justin_g61873 жыл бұрын
You're a real blessing for boys growing up without dads. I'm going shopping for clothes today, let's see if I paid any attention to what you've been preaching :)
@youngzoo223 жыл бұрын
Yes I needed a cool uncle role model
@sketchflix64253 жыл бұрын
Nice❤🍻. Great to hear this.
@trendingonyoutube98893 жыл бұрын
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@shawnheileman11003 жыл бұрын
Yeah no cap I ain’t have a dad so I was clueless in situations like this
@Abdullah_00832 жыл бұрын
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@breckenridgelong76922 жыл бұрын
If you're in a long term relationship demand to be able to look through her phone at any time. If this is unacceptable to her then start looking for another girlfriend.
@Brinkofinsanity7 ай бұрын
My mistake was letting her go through my phone and not caring enough to go through hers , got mixed feelings and dipped 3 years in like a week ago. The worst part is once it happens it’s so clear to see the signs
@KamiX913 жыл бұрын
Ah our chad Alpha. A dad we never had but deserved.
@almostmade8013 жыл бұрын
Honestly dude he’s the anti-Chad. He’s in touch with his feelings and honest.
@KamiX913 жыл бұрын
@@almostmade801 i thought real chads are just like that, not like the fake ones. Researching about that i came to such conclusion. 😐 Ah the internet
@BDW00002 жыл бұрын
Yeah who do you think all these women are cheating with?
@benjaminfranklin43392 жыл бұрын
Dated a woman i met online for 3 months. I didn't realize what she was doing until after we broke up she would start a fight with me to see another guy then come back to me when it wasn't working out with him. I thought we were just fighting but now I realize what was going on.
@LowkeyHundo3 жыл бұрын
Got cheated on recently so let’s see how this goes. UPDATE: she did every one of these
@FarBeyondDriven-xu8od3 жыл бұрын
Same bro. The first and last girl to yes to me cheated. F this life
@romeomama3 жыл бұрын
Do the same you will be chill. Do things which can make you the so so so so coolest person !
@FarBeyondDriven-xu8od3 жыл бұрын
Update! I found a really nice girl who actually gives sh*t about me :)
@mering52982 жыл бұрын
@@FarBeyondDriven-xu8od get in there king 👑
@Archangel08042 жыл бұрын
@@FarBeyondDriven-xu8od Dude, there are other, better women. Don't be a Karen
@RippednBuff2 жыл бұрын
Most obvious and clear sign is if you live with your girl and she picks fights for no reason. Deflects on to you with intent to make you feel bad and then gets dolled up and leaves. Its her way of making it ok to go out and cheat.
@invisibletosociety83382 жыл бұрын
Yeah been cheated on, simply stopped dating and just concentrate on improving myself and enjoying my hobbies. The best revenge is living well.
@BDW00002 жыл бұрын
Sucks man. Just keep doing your thing. Hope it works out for you.
@18yzfr663 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I just left. Literally everything you've just said. We talked about starting a family and I Found out she was messing with her ex and was talking about aborting my child and keeping his. Now I'm not perfect, but I would call out these red flags and was told I was insecure all this nonsense when I was just pointing out red flags. Anyways, gentlemen.. Do not accept less than what you deserve, even if you feel you aren't worth much and she's a beautiful woman, let her go. The emotional trauma, games, and manipulation is not worth it but, I found out a lot about myself and relationships in general going through this.
@zero11883 жыл бұрын
Here is a huge one men miss, you lose influence over her and her routine changes. And rejection of sex. Those are the primary ones
@callanc39252 жыл бұрын
or she suddenly starts initiating sex more often. Some women use it as a tool to throw you off their scent because youll think "wow were having so much great sex she must really be into me right now!"
@michaelweston4092 жыл бұрын
If she's rejecting sex its because she's tired from having sex with other guy. Holes been filled & she don't want anymore inside her for a while.
@jaimereupert42473 жыл бұрын
The moment you question what she's doing and she says "don't you trust me?", she's cheating. #Facts
@Its__Jason3 жыл бұрын
My ex girlfriend whom I lasted 7 years with had all these signs that you spoke about I feel stupid that I never notice it eventually she just ghosted me and I never got closer about what was going on or anything thank you alpha for you vids you are the man!
@IsawAcowBro3 жыл бұрын
Ghosted you after 7 years??! Thats a trash human being, youre better than that
@Its__Jason3 жыл бұрын
@@IsawAcowBro thanks man after all that I just want to work on my self and do better !
@LowkeyHundo3 жыл бұрын
I noticed signs but she gaslighted me and made me feel like everything is my fault. She got caught by her sister. I’m working on myself this too bro 🙏🏻 you’ve got this and deserve better
@slammaland64643 жыл бұрын
Bro same!
@sethsantoscapadngan43813 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up King 👑 You're a great person and you deserve better
@ToneGTran3 жыл бұрын
This video is 6/6 and it’s actually resurfaced some painful and uneasy feelings, but this information is real helpful for people foretell signs and we appreciated you for the guidances. Looking forward for part 2.
@ayushsoni40353 жыл бұрын
i felt the same
@justinyancey95713 жыл бұрын
Give them the benefit of the doubt. But if they give you a reason to be suspicious, listen to your gut. Unfortunately there’s no way to stop them. Making the mistake of “trying harder” doesn’t seem to help either. One key point that alpha made that is so true… people cheat because of issues with them not you. If it was you they’d break up with you beforehand.
@latinaalma19473 жыл бұрын
All the psychological.research says something else sorry...I am a woman female clinical psychologist so hate to reveal this about my gender BUT women often use the strategy of keeping another guy on a back burner even happy women do this and may not be aware WHY they are doing it...not talking affairs here..but like a guy they are "interested in". Most women leaving relationships have another guy lined up already. Nothing you can do about this..its human behavior.Of course the majority of women at any given time are satisfied with their relationships...
@_joeshantaram_2 жыл бұрын
@@latinaalma1947 how is your answer related to the comment above? a professional but you don't seem to have logical skills
@latinaalma19472 жыл бұрын
@@_joeshantaram_ Giuseppe Sorry I wrote a summary of the research on the differences :WHY men cheat versus why WOMEN cheat. But it was long and most men dont want to know. Most people dont care enough to think about the subject . They dont want a partner cheat on them. Most, male or female, will do nothing to prevent it happening. If it does happen they then are angry often at the entire opposite sex and from then on want only USE the opposite sex. Men who are like that then ONLY want sex and never trust women again...women then only men for $$ or fun and dont ever trust men again. Some people live the rest of their lives that way...others heal.
@callanc39252 жыл бұрын
@@latinaalma1947 Yeah thats a problem with the cheater, not the person theyre dating. If theyre not happy in the relationship and they dont leave they are the fucked dup one.
@BillyVatcher2 жыл бұрын
Be careful not to get in this nightmarish mindset of catastrophizing. The only thing you can fix is you. You can’t control someone else.
@Jz-sv1ju3 жыл бұрын
If a woman ever ghosts you then years later attempts to contact you, absolutely never ever respond. If she didn't respect you and your time then, she doesn't deserve it again. Respect yourself, you deserve someone better. Peace ✌
@alpha.anshuman3 жыл бұрын
My gf cheated on me too after two years of relationship. I trusted her.. Just broke up a few months ago. Now focusing on myself
@TheVillageBeast3 жыл бұрын
Focus on yourself > chase ur purpose not women. They will come
@vishesh24113 жыл бұрын
They will come but who's gonna stay without faking it? That's the real part.
@The1CroNe Жыл бұрын
phone is the most important part. Everybody has their phone on them. If that person is interested in you, she/he will always reply or text you. If she/he tells you that she/he was too busy to message you.. that is 100% a lie. Sending a message only takes 5 seconds. If that person is with you.. just notice her/his phone is always in their hand..
@techno66833 жыл бұрын
There shouldn't be signs that they are about to cheat on you. Cheating just shouldn't be a thing. There's a reason why relationships are called relationships because when you date someone, it means to be committed to each other. Love your videos alpha m, I've learned so much from them!!
@bigbadvicHo3 жыл бұрын
The love of my life literally broke something inside me I can’t put back together. When you’re in love you don’t see things until it all hits you at once. Then your world is destroyed.
@forbiddenbeard22103 жыл бұрын
12 years I was with her. She cheated. I packed my bags. After attacking me she called the cops and I am facing felonies. Took my kids and everything I own. Court made her pack one suitcase. The clothes were drenched in dog piss and she put a 357 magnum with rounds in it. I haven't seen my kids in a month
@bigbadvicHo3 жыл бұрын
@@forbiddenbeard2210 I’m facing felony charges also because of an awkward confrontation with me her, and her new guy led to me almost knocking him out then him pressing charges on me thanks to her insisting.She also lied and abused her HR position to get me fired once I got out of jail and went back to work. She smiled in my face when I was escorted out by 2 cops at the parking lot. Never did anything but love this woman.
@madias18842 жыл бұрын
@@bigbadvicHo that sucks dude hope u find someone who truly cares for ya and hope u get a good job
@trooly76212 жыл бұрын
@@forbiddenbeard2210 damn brother keep your head up
@clydebevi63932 жыл бұрын
She broke up with me. Said I need some time to myself but always kept me on the hook. Found out she was seeing at least two different guys. You have to come to the realization if you can't TRUST them let them go. Ask yourself can I trust her and most often the answer is NO! Actually got back together for a short time with her and she refused to block them on her phone. I told her bye bye. Get somebody that loves you and you can trust.
@IntegraDIY2 жыл бұрын
The main reason women cheat is because some other guy is giving them incredible attention and validation.. something they no longer get with their bf or husband.. worst part about this, it never starts off physical.. she gets attracted to him mentally and emotionally.. she starts to care for him and almost love him.. then she gives up her body behind the husbands back. This is much worst than having sex with someone else, emotional connection is far more disrespectful, then her body being given to the guy is the nail in the coffin.
@autoacoustics49382 жыл бұрын
You can never have a happy relationship with someone who cheats , if it happens once it will happen again
@MedicCop2 жыл бұрын
The time to leave is when you start thinking it isn’t right. It may be super hard to do, but you should respect yourself, and them, enough to not waste your time. TRUST YOUR GUT. The flow of energy doesn’t lie.
@AZrakoon3 жыл бұрын
If someone bragged about sleeping with my significant other, I wouldn't get mad. I'd tell them she is yours now, but your looking at your future now.
@letssee93 жыл бұрын
that's the best!
@hittingtax26703 жыл бұрын
Would you get mad if circle K ran out of coffee?
@AZrakoon3 жыл бұрын
@@hittingtax2670 I dont like their coffee.
@hittingtax26703 жыл бұрын
@@AZrakoon Exactly. So why would you lose it if someone brags about sleeping with your spouse?
@williamclayton95663 жыл бұрын
She's not yours. It's just your turn.
@danreddits37963 жыл бұрын
Me and my girl have access to each other's phones. Not really for snooping purposes but rather for practical reasons. Like for example I'm driving and I need her to answer a text for me or change the music. Or when we're together and she's asleep but my phone is charging. We don't snoop but we got nothing go hide so everything is out in the open for us. I guess it varies from couple to couple but this system works for us.
@harismansoor57333 жыл бұрын
What do you do usually to maintain her interest in you
@danreddits37963 жыл бұрын
@@harismansoor5733 I don't have to do anything in particular. I just treat her right and be myself.
@harismansoor57333 жыл бұрын
@@danreddits3796 Well that's not enough to maintain your influence over her, Respect and right treatment is not enough bcz you also have to be confident, mysterious, challenging and unpredictable and women love these traits
@chatwithaninja3 жыл бұрын
@@harismansoor5733 Who is to say all of those behaviors listed are not him "being himself"
@danreddits37963 жыл бұрын
@@harismansoor5733 Maybe for casual dating but we're technically engaged so stuff like mystery and unpredictability arent really necessary.
@jjxx053 жыл бұрын
Thank you Alpha, I've never had anyone tell me this kind of things, not even my parents. You are a life saver, I have been subbed since 2016.
@chrismktgpsu3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with the picking more fights and not talking about future anymore....2 biggest signs imo....besides not having time for you and slow to reply to texts.
@vestele3 жыл бұрын
its good to hear that i‘m not alone with a lot of my problems. maybe i don‘t have someone to talk to, but its a releave that this community is here.
@akhtars96023 жыл бұрын
Yes bro. We dudes are here to support each other
@joehathaway19822 жыл бұрын
I saw some of these signs with my wife. I told her told her if she was gonna cheat she might as well just leave. So she left and I'm looking for someone new. life is to short to put up with that.
@mitchellmullettt36213 жыл бұрын
When you realize everything he talked about happened to you but you didn't know it till after watching the video. How could I have been so blind?
@jackyroberson22293 жыл бұрын
Q
@jfo30003 жыл бұрын
Maybe you were ignoring the situation, thinking she had integrity. It's easy to do.
@RS-kt6bo3 жыл бұрын
I was in a 6 year relationship. Thought things were great. Although I always choose to see the best in people, especially if it's someone I love. Turns out she was cheating on me. I feel like trash.
@ri0679533 жыл бұрын
Don't feel like trash because you probably weren't the first one she cheated on. These people are horrible people and it isnt a reflection of you as a person. Cheaters are spineless. If they had backbone, they would have ended the relationship so it is ultimately their character flaw and you're better off without them in your life
@B1GK1NG3 жыл бұрын
Remember she was never yours, it was just your turn for the ride and now it’s over. Delete and block her number and move on.
@RS-kt6bo3 жыл бұрын
@@B1GK1NG ☹️
@Elfunatsu3 жыл бұрын
How dos You find out?
@RS-kt6bo3 жыл бұрын
@@Elfunatsu From friends.
@FlOwGeTiCsPoEtRy3 жыл бұрын
The way I look at it is why contemplate over something that hasn't even already happened yet, even in the event of cheating, you may as well not even ponder what you have no control over.
@evensnapoleon70612 жыл бұрын
All of a sudden phone on silent, face down all the time. They don't return or pick up calls in your presence unless it's a mutual Friend or family member.
@erics85243 жыл бұрын
My ex gf said some guy in this movie we were watching was cute. 🚩 so I cheated on her before she cheated on me.
@BOWDOWN2JESSE3 жыл бұрын
You dropped this king 👑
@jbeef243 жыл бұрын
@@BOWDOWN2JESSE Amen
@ehsan-68353 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you gotta cheat to see if you still love her 😂🤝
@NMEofdaST82 жыл бұрын
how it go?
@LG-tw5vm2 жыл бұрын
Cheating is always about the cheater. If someone isn't happy in a relationship they can always end it and leave. They don't have to cheat, it's just what cheaters do.
@matty82722 жыл бұрын
If she wants to cheat it's on her. Won't be the first time. Won't be the last time. Relationships are only out of convenience. They change when the convenience changes.
@Mayo_Lawrence3 жыл бұрын
If learning from mistakes is an art,then alpha m is a Picasso in it. Glad he bounce back real quick and advice his fellow alpha mens to be better.
@RealJayNice3 жыл бұрын
You can be the most perfect man for majority of these women and you will still get played. I seen alpha males, nice guys, and dudes in the middle who do everything right and still get played for no reason. Men should stop worrying about women and be focusing on there purpose and go overseas and look for a woman who have not been influenced by the Social Media feminist men hating agenda. There’s a why reason why the Red Pill content has been growing very fast in the past year or so men are escaping the Matrix and going where they are appreciated more.
@vince2nd3 жыл бұрын
I was with you until you said go overseas and look for women not influenced by social media blah blah. We aint living in the 80s bro.
@manilanoakes39663 жыл бұрын
I knew a colleague met a woman in Thailand or mail order married her had 2 children after he brought her home she could not get on with her in laws fast forward about 5 years they went back to Thailand and she had enough of him he came home with no wife no children only his tail between his legs. So when are you going to get one Jay.
@RealJayNice3 жыл бұрын
@@vince2nd you don’t know what your talking about.
@RealJayNice3 жыл бұрын
@@manilanoakes3966 Thailand is not the only place to travel to and successful men are not looking for “mail order brides” to take care of a woman and her whole family.there’s many successful men who can find successful women overseas and have good marriages without all this toxic men hating feminist agenda. Get educated more.
@vince2nd3 жыл бұрын
@@RealJayNice lol you're living in a dream man. Even if you're in China behind the great firewall, blocked off from everything they're still being influenced. N Korea maybe you'll find your ideal. Idk what's with you and the feminist movement but they've all been influenced. Maybe in America its at it's peak but running from it won't solve shit.
@Milad.Nrifar2 жыл бұрын
respect yourself so much that even if she cheats on you, you will not break
@BDW00002 жыл бұрын
Good advice
@Geewunner4life3 жыл бұрын
You don't need 5 signs to know she's about to cheat. You only need one and that's when the sex slowly starts to lessen.
@michaelweston4092 жыл бұрын
Means she's getting it from somewhere else.
@dzontravolta39523 жыл бұрын
My showed 16 signs , but when you are in love even things you know are not possible ,you try to find a way to make it possible ,to believe in it .
@TheNatemega3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been recently cheated on. Shit hurts deep. I haven’t come to forgive her yet and I know I won’t be able to fully move on until then
@GHIBaal3 жыл бұрын
She is for the Streets
@selinawinder19983 жыл бұрын
Don't forgive her. Move on
@TheNatemega3 жыл бұрын
@@jackreisewitz7219 thank you man, couldn’t have said it any better ❤️
@doublea1253 жыл бұрын
"I'm going to see a friend." Okay. Who you seeing? "A friend...."
@less_concerned12213 жыл бұрын
And if they stay over…. You’ll hear their phone go off several times in the middle of the night. On silent, it’ll still light up. My ex -wife would say it was people posting comments on Facebook. Don’t fall for it.
@JquanRAID3 жыл бұрын
What’s crazy is that all this happened to my boy , most of these signs happened before he found out that he was being cheated on, i kinda wished i knew these signs before he found out that way he can somewhat mentally prepare when he actually went thru her iPad (Which was connected to her phone and everything was there and he was right) but damn this is spot on.
@michaelpease62113 жыл бұрын
What's crazy is that they will do you wrong and she get angry at you for moving on.
@filippo4803 жыл бұрын
I would add one more just because yes. If you feel like she is cheating or is about to do it, you are 99% right. If you cant trust somebody, no matter what, then there is a reason. You are not superhuman and you cant read minds or see the future, but your mind just subconciously seek some sort of acting and speaking of a person, that just give you that feeling
@diegofonseca67082 жыл бұрын
It’s the energy they give off. We and everyone else and everything in this universe is made up of energy. That’s why we sense things like gut feeling. It’s our bodies letting us know something is not right or someone is not to be trusted.
@_joeshantaram_2 жыл бұрын
Not always, sometimes our instincts or gut feelings could just reflect our insecurities.
@callanc39252 жыл бұрын
gut feeling is a reason to be vigilant, not to be accusing someone. If something feels off then look for more concrete signs that it is otherwise you could just be projecting your insecurities onto someone
@koushikraj74873 жыл бұрын
Where is the summary guy ?
@mr.u19123 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💃💃
@Mo-wq1oq3 жыл бұрын
Lol, I'm looking for them too
@davidvelasco-godinez64803 жыл бұрын
Getting cheated on lol
@dragngt2 жыл бұрын
For any dude out there with ED, PE or any other issue... Spend 10 minutes being uncomfortable with your urologist, get a fix or something to help you along and then spend hours upon hours being happy you did. It's the smallest amount of time to be "uncomfortable" but then have your life, heart, confidence and mindset improved forever. So worth it.
@mohamedazzouz51133 жыл бұрын
if you think your partner is cheating ( of course your girlfriend, not your wife) the best thing to do is to treat her as someone temporary that you will have fun with for a period of time. So, I definitely think that it is not worth the effort of overthinking about someone who is not even faithful in the first place. If you are okay with her cheating, stay with her and have fun. if not, dump her because there are so many faithful girls out there that deserve your attention kings.
@Rbhawk3rd2 жыл бұрын
He also forgot the elite level of gaslighting or of nowhere. Provoking arguments to have an excuse to leave the house.
@justxenosenpai3 жыл бұрын
they always say,betrayal does more damage to u than ur actual enemy/rival.
@michiahethington31422 жыл бұрын
There is no "about to". If she takes on secretive behavior, she's already there
@Wh0mie2 жыл бұрын
2 weeks ago I had a break up and she said I wanna have s*x last time... That was weird 💔
@rck3993 жыл бұрын
So true, always ignored these red flags and I’m sure everyone see’s and notices but ignores them.
@Neknesch3 жыл бұрын
Or if she is on her phone and as soon as you come near her she puts it away or turns it of and is extremly nervous or alert when you are near her phone.
@michaelweston4092 жыл бұрын
Yup she puts the phone down super quick & acts like nothing's wrong. Then when you confront her what she was doing she says none of your business to stop being nosey. That means she was talking to the other guy just immediately locked her phone, her secrets.
@SuperlativeCatalyst2 жыл бұрын
All where things that I noticed just didn't want to believe the implications. She "suggested a break" and I called bullshit, then got knocked up less than month later with an old ex. In summary, listen to this guy and most importantly... ALWAYS TRUST YOUR INSTINCT!!!
@thebeesknees7452 жыл бұрын
I became wise to cheating women after my sons mother. After her, I guess I became sensitive to women's routines. I found myself picking up the slightest changes. The biggest change is phone, as described. The second is the sex stops, or rapidly decreases. The third is activity. She will start to do fewer and fewer things with you. Another sign is how her friends treat you. Pay attention to them. They always know more than you and you can always get an awkward smile or conversation from them while she's venturing around. Every woman I have been with either cheated on me, or cheated on someone else with me. Its hard to cheat on guys that get laid a lot. We know ladies. We know. And thats why we won't commit.
@getmoney90612 жыл бұрын
Amen 💪🏾Playa fo Life
@michaelweston4092 жыл бұрын
Facts! Their friends always no alot more than you. They probably show her around to other guys & entice her to cheat. If her friends are hoes, 9 out 10 times she's alright there with them.
@dailydoselaughter2686 Жыл бұрын
Only facts❤❤
@TechnoMageB52 жыл бұрын
The phone one: 🎯 on the point re: change in phone behavior. Side note: Generally, friends and friends with benefits: do not share phone access. Girlfriend/Boyfriend level: depends on the couple. Engagement/Marriage: should be openly shared, because committed relationships are based on open [i.e. not hidden] communications. Securing your phone activity from your spouse is conducive to an UNtrustworthy relationship as it signals "I have communications on here that I don't want you to see/hear". Not saying it can't work, but as someone married 24 years to a woman who's still jumping up and down happy to see me when I come home from work, and as someone who have had other men and women wish they had a relationship like ours, I am simply communicating what I've found to work and why.
@FaserTazer3 жыл бұрын
This is so accurate it’s scary.
@nairb93212 жыл бұрын
All these signs are right on. Everyone of these my ex wife did. She coded her boyfriends name with letters and girls names.
@sebastianrex66973 жыл бұрын
Screw em just hustle the best revenge is MASSIVE SUCCESS just go enjoy your life knowing that cheater left your life early so you realize she's not worth your love and start living your life to it's fullest
@rogelioramirez52742 жыл бұрын
I've been cheated on and left in every God dam relationship I've ever been in, and literally all these signs were present before it ends each time Wish I knew about this KZbin channel years sooner
@bigneiltoo3 жыл бұрын
Here's the warning I got from a girl who would be married, pregnant and 1000 miles away within 6 months (after we dated 4 years): "You know, a LOT of guys want me". I think that was her saying "sh1t or get off the pot". I never proposed.
@Csab023 жыл бұрын
Thank God
@mannarmylie41952 жыл бұрын
I actually GOT the shit or get off the pot statement! I wiped and left.😄
@bigneiltoo2 жыл бұрын
@@mannarmylie4195 - We all made the right move. For girls, getting married to someone else is their best move. For us, staying single. But it's not all cut and dry. A girl who makes you wonder was a good one.
@michaelweston4092 жыл бұрын
Women love saying that phrase. "You know a lot of guys want me" Well bitch they can have you
@BillyBob-dv1rd2 жыл бұрын
My current GF went on a 2 day trip to her hometown, came back not herself. She was homesick I think. She has her phone on vibrate now (never used to go that), re-download snap, got a multiple pregnancy test kits. Came out negative. I already have deep trust issues from being cheated on in the past and she said that no one touched her while she was away. I pay for literally everything. Is she cheating do you think? I am going to get a forensic program and hook it up to my computer when she’s sleeping and extract everything.
@Has7e2 жыл бұрын
Hi bro. how are you now? Any update?
@Wiseblood20123 жыл бұрын
Sad to say, I was accused of cheating because I started dressing better and working out, and working late…..there is no pleasing some people.
@Jontfs3002 жыл бұрын
Same here, saying you acting different. It’s no, before you met me I worked out, you never have worked out a day in your life. Now I’m it’s I’m happy for you!!
@rhysbb21012 жыл бұрын
Alpha these were the exact signs my ex showed I wish I saw this video sooner. But I’m doing amazing in life now. Alpha you are such an inspiration
@berenddevries743 жыл бұрын
If a girl cheats on me; she knows where the door is. She doesn't have to come crawling back either. Trust is a big pilar in a relation and she has broken it.
@Ndrangheta.M52 жыл бұрын
First you have to ask yourself why would she cheat on me.. has she cheated in the past.. is she more distance she doesn't care where I go or what I do... she has no interest in the things I like.. she doesn't talk about her day at work... forget about cheating she fell out of love with you
@leninkoren94453 жыл бұрын
I really really really love the way how Mr. Alpha adds a bit of side jokes every now and thn in his videos 😆
@30minutesLess2 жыл бұрын
The only way to deter this is to not care. With my girl i just figured she was about to so when the inevitable argument came up i just verbally busted her ass up sure wnough tho within a week of being gone she got herself a square dude with the nice job and the nice car.
@divik76163 жыл бұрын
So relatable man. Ive been following you past couple of years now and you are really a blessing. Keep spreading love and confidence
@ReaperGang2x2 жыл бұрын
Don't be dismissive of the change in her patterns if the energy isn't reciprocated , and the disrespects at an all time high you lost her.... Ultimately if you feel like she's doing it and you're not just overbearing and insecure she's cheating on you bro. Focus on urself in the relationship and you'll always keep it in tact.
@officiallyrory3 жыл бұрын
These are some powerful tips and everyone needs to listen up!
@NakedAvanger2 жыл бұрын
I don't understand how people can cheat on their partners... It's such a huge disrespect bomb It's like, this person who you've spent years with all of a sudden isn't enough for you and instead of just breaking up you rather crush them like they never meant anything to you in the first place What kind of a monster do you have to be to do these things I will never understand I don't think I'll survive getting cheated on again.
@XianEricXPROD3 жыл бұрын
Truth! I mean for real. Yes from experience. Getting them has honestly been easy. Keeping them? Well that's another story.
@MikeMiller-sn2zr2 жыл бұрын
Over in other countries they would throw you off a 10-story building for cheating
@brandonjordan25163 жыл бұрын
Phew its rough but the truth is, it's happened to all of us. It's almost a right of passage.
@ozymandias89882 жыл бұрын
Trust your ears. Memorize your partner's moods and voice frequencies. If you do this nobody can ever deceive you. As soon as you detect the the frequent disrespect in her voice no matter how little. Leave. When women are in love their voice will be laced with respect. My parents were monsters. I had to gauge their moods,had to prepare for their strike depending on their voice frequency. I am glad now that I have developed this survival instinct.
@marcus7163 жыл бұрын
7:55 another reason why i wouldn't wanna date a girl who is active on social media. I have never had any of these kinds of problems with girls who just don't use any social media.
@youngchriswild2 жыл бұрын
Bro don’t make them lie you✋ . Whetter on social media or not They all cheat 🥺
@michaelweston4092 жыл бұрын
Social media has made it so easy now. All a woman has to do is post a sexy pic & she's got 50 options available in her DMs all within 30 miles. In this day & age I don't even know how relationships exist. & best believe while she's with you she's chatting up boatloads of other men.
@charlesbrunkhorst98222 жыл бұрын
Yep seen all this and when I called my wife out on it blammm now I'm getting a divorce and she is with him..
@bealltho13 жыл бұрын
I might have missed this but what about no longer arguing/ contributing to the relationship? Like she becomes noticably calm about things that used to be important to her about the relationship.
@stuartlincoln13032 жыл бұрын
Being switched off emotionally you mean ? Complete lack of caring in things she would normally be very opinionated about ? Sure that’s a sign
@agamerscoven2 жыл бұрын
At that point she’s checked out emotionally and the relationship is already over; she just hasn’t left yet. Happened to me.
@callanc39252 жыл бұрын
emotionally checking out is a real thing, doesnt necessarily mean shes cheating but it does signal the end of a relationship.
@oliver12242 жыл бұрын
I've had it done to me. Its not a nice thing to go through. There are warning signs to look for & I already noticed some of the ones that were mentioned in the video. Try & see if she's done it before.. earlier relationships... sometimes there can be a pattern that repeats itself this is what I discovered.. I found this out but it was a red flag I ignored which I won't repeat. She tried to get me fixed up with her Sister as a way of dealing with her guilt.. & trying to see if I would take the bait of forbidden fruit which I did not. I chucked all my stuff into my Car then went back for my Dog when she was at work... I drove off & never returned... blocked deleted her number & email & made a new life for myself...
@neddistanz3 жыл бұрын
Once you have to ask your girlfriend or wife to look into their phone it's over at that point
@timshanemelton3 жыл бұрын
I've read Syphilis Sucks & keeps returning to the fore-front of The Medical Journal