Man I liked that first line; " when we first start dating, we kind of send out a representative " instead of our authentic selves. LOL!!! Man was that funny -- and TRUE! Salute.
@ernestcarter70733 жыл бұрын
Yeah I like that one. Being your authentic selves!
@richardagee48963 жыл бұрын
He dropped the realest gems. Real truth. Accountability is extremely important 👏
@justchyll20093 жыл бұрын
Accountability is underrated, today’s society only expects men to take on a lot of the blame in any situation. Well said my friend.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
no worries!
@manders86833 жыл бұрын
Dealing with that put now😒
@manders86833 жыл бұрын
This was right on point!!!
@chamboyette8532 жыл бұрын
You are so right unfortunately. It is so difficult to find a woman today who is willing to be held accountable. Huge change in just the last 10 years. Dated a woman before who was relatively willing to take accountability. She then got involved in social media and almost completely stopped taking accountability afterwards. Since then it is very difficult to find women who are willing to take accountability.
@briandortelus80302 жыл бұрын
Jews and Gent-iles smh..🧐😶🌫️
@stevewise16563 жыл бұрын
Excellent and much needed information for men. Seriously, wish I knew this when younger. If a man finds a woman like this, she’s golden and don’t f it up.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Steve!
@poppabear393 жыл бұрын
Jeff you're gonna make me stop reviewing cologne and start giving life lessons. You're dropping heat 🔥 brother. Another great video from The Style O.G.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@RODTX713 жыл бұрын
Situational awareness, considerate, emotionally intelligent (empathy, compassion, humility) and resolving conflicts with mutual interest. Accountability is huge for me. I think the "oh well" mentality was instilled in a lot of women in their upbringing. Not a "quality" that plays well in relationships.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
appreciate the input!
@orthotech97583 жыл бұрын
I've dated ladies with the "Oh well" mentality, or that say, "Whatever," during a conflict, which means end of convo. Man, do I really hate that mentality and at that point I break off the relationship. The lady I've been dating for the past 6 months has no issue looking at herself in the mirror and fixing her flaws. I love that about her. It's a very attractive quality, and if things go well, during the downs as well as the ups, I may be putting a ring on her finger in a few more months.
@RODTX713 жыл бұрын
@@orthotech9758 Indeed. It indicates there is some respect for your input. Rough patch insurance.
@jakefreeman58083 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. I think it's important to watch out for the good signs as much as it is to watch out for the bad ones. Cheers!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@keepsit100atalltime93 жыл бұрын
As a woman I approve this message!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@keepsit100atalltime93 жыл бұрын
@@TheStyleOG You're welcome.
@orthotech97583 жыл бұрын
I've been in a relationship for 6 months now, and brother do I appreciate this lesson. Of course she has her flaws, but she meets all of these qualifications, including accountability which could have easily been #1.
@sunshinesunflowerz16473 жыл бұрын
Then keep her
@chamboyette8532 жыл бұрын
KEEP HER MAN!! Accountability in women is so rare these days, just in the past five or so years.
@enow00492 жыл бұрын
Congratulations you found your self an Alien!! I say keep her!
@b0rn1king3 жыл бұрын
After being married for 18 years to the woman I've been with for 26, I can say I agree 100%!
@ravipeiris43883 жыл бұрын
Gentlemen, Whether you are in your teens or in your 80s, please heed the words of this video. Download this video, tattoo the words of wisdom, write it down in your bathroom, etc., but make sure you hear Style O.G out. I'm 52 years old, have four graduate degrees and am confident approaching women without resorting to online dating. Yet, until recently, I hadn't learned the advice as outlined in this video and I spent two years learning the hard way in a relationship that was going nowhere. This video can serve so many men (& women) throughout many decades and save a lot of heartache and in the end, make dating fun and easy to find that right match, Ravi Peiris M.D.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
appreciate the input Ravi!
@ernestcarter70733 жыл бұрын
Awesome video Jeff! I appreciate it this one! Perfect timing on this one. I agree these green flags are a great sign of a good woman.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Right on!
@glenngray68593 жыл бұрын
What’s up my bro Og. This video described my wife of 35 yrs my G . You are spot on as always with the knowledge my bro. Blessings my friend.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Blessings Glenn!
@jraybay3 жыл бұрын
Wife of 35 years, dang. Congrats. 🤜🏽🤛🏽 I hope I find that kind of love too
@glenngray68593 жыл бұрын
@@jraybay Thank you it takes work and love to last this long. Good luck to you finding that special someone.
@luisw34063 жыл бұрын
Great video OG we men go on about looking for all the red flags 🚩 but to find a decent lady we must know what green flags to look for also for men that want relationship too.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Indeed !
@proyouservicesltd36523 жыл бұрын
Honesty, trustworthy and reliability are 3 huge green flags that appears to have be missing from this list.
@tylewis893 жыл бұрын
Green Flag…if she’s intentional about your well-being, asking you how are you feeling mentally, physically and spiritually etc. #PhillyPhilly
@shawnwilliams23813 жыл бұрын
Not too many women carry these traits, in these times... social media ruined the dating game. Most of these women want to be Cardi B. Thanks for sharing SALUTE!!!💪
@hereisayana82073 жыл бұрын
There are a lot of these women around... Maybe in a different package then you usually look for
@hudsonbartley2493 Жыл бұрын
Nope, it5 not the reality.
@moveMENtwithmarlon2 жыл бұрын
I’ve shared this with my 20 plus year old sons as a practical guide. Thank you!
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@zepcrazyfre3 жыл бұрын
*”Being right, plus two quarters equals $0.50;* -the Style O.G I love that quote…unfortunately many people men and women alike are far to proud and/or to careless/ignorant to believe and live by that ideology.
@Mr.Edwards2333 жыл бұрын
Good one O.G., authentic reasons here. Very different from the usual red flag vids seen everywhere. I would say another green flag(s); A woman who knows how to have a constructive debate, being objective. A woman who doesn't take herself too seriously, she chooses smile and laugh, without the assistance of a camera.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
great points!
@ronprice43393 жыл бұрын
Jeff thanks for a great vid. I'm in my 60s and in a committed monogamous relationship for 6 years. My lady represents every green flag you highlighted. I feel very fortunate!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
You got it Ron!
@dholmesjr3 жыл бұрын
The first video I've seen on green flags... You covered all the bases. Having respect and believing in my abilities is what I look for in a women... Also as you stated does she inspire you and is she an asset. ThanksagainJeff. Salute.
@jmorgan08293 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! This is great!! You nailed it!! Thanks for sharing bro. I agree with all you said. 💯 ❤
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Sis !
@Arenhammer3 жыл бұрын
That accountability thing is a huge 1, it's a rear limited production find
@honiib76052 жыл бұрын
Approved! 💜 And yet, we're out here and struggle to attract our vibrational match that emits those same frequencies...
@ObeyaCorpsArmory3 жыл бұрын
thanks for this video... definitely good to have educated point of views on video to help confirm your own thoughts. like a voice outside of your own mind saying assuring things like this. Thank you again bro
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@stevengill94423 жыл бұрын
Being right and 2 quarters equals $.50 Facts💪🏿💯
@kingnoely94313 жыл бұрын
Jeff another awesome video!!! Can you do a video on some great things to do (fun/spicy/date ideas) once you have her as your lady I am married but can always learn ways to keep her happy and the relationship strong!!!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the idea!
@DrDoomBloom3 жыл бұрын
Either I’m too young or haven’t lived enough but this was the very first time hearing “being right plus two quarters equals fifty cents” 😂😂 I appreciate you Jeff
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Ha! Salute Seth
@melvinmckinney91203 жыл бұрын
Great video Jeff. There is not a lot of good women in the world today. A gentleman who finds a good woman is great and very fortunate and should cherish and respect that woman just like she should respect and cherish the gentleman.
@hereisayana82073 жыл бұрын
When men find these nice women, they usually cheat on and use them
@jgbuff043 жыл бұрын
I was married to a narcissist for 20 years......never again
@Citrussun7553 жыл бұрын
I’m watching with great interest!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
let me know what you think!
@virtuouswoman18463 жыл бұрын
Spot on OG!!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@djdamage753 жыл бұрын
Gentlemen, if she can take accountability then you need to wife her up. You definitely have a unicorn on your hands. HUGE 🇸🇦
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Ha !
@djdamage753 жыл бұрын
@The commentor green flag. Really???
@bigrambizzy3 жыл бұрын
If she has a good credit, thats definitely a green flag 😉
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Yup!
@jazzfusionbop3 жыл бұрын
Right. When I was single, I wanted to see your resume and credit report.
@dr.garynelson46873 жыл бұрын
Great advice, as always. Jeff, gotta' know, who designed the suit jacket you're wearing? I'm really feeling the jacket, shirt and handkerchief combination. Simple, but classy and elegant. Salute!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
J Crew
@markmitchell84302 жыл бұрын
I can tell you OG the first and most important thing is she got to Respect me. Can't nothing get going if that respect is not there.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Indeed!
@ramonpineda75143 жыл бұрын
My ex covered most of the bulleted points I looked up on a spousal abuse website. Fast forward to today the love of my life has covered all of these green flags. 😊🙏🏼✌🏽
@priesttv87442 жыл бұрын
This is literally the best videos I've ever seen on KZbin.
@jr1profesor3 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely sharing this episode because it hit on so many points that's a good signs for a future wife too!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Please do!
@melanieelliott84173 жыл бұрын
My son is very shy . I share your videos to him. Thanks for the help .
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@xBlackSeedxghost3 жыл бұрын
Great vid as usual OG. One thing a lot of blue pilled guys bring into the dating environment even after they've done the work on themselves is too much naivete on what to expect from the woman. The woman is supposed to bring more than a cute face and phat... yall already know. Lots of good material for the brother to ruminate on. Salute.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@timothyjohnson84173 жыл бұрын
Nice I think some of the green flags are can you handle when she gets angry,can you handle when she gets sad,can you handle the way she spends money.
@danadane25012 жыл бұрын
The woman you just described I've never met . Other than my Mom and Grandmother . Chances are I passed up a few really good ones without even knowing it . Live and learn .
@kennethyoung48922 жыл бұрын
Thank you this is good stuff and very helpful
@kimseay71353 жыл бұрын
Great video Jeff. This Green Flags apply to us ladies to look for in a guy as well. Thank you for sharing
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Kim!
@ronnieracollins87093 жыл бұрын
Always on point bro! Wisdom for all.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ronnie!
@michaelbullock80113 жыл бұрын
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@alannabors3 жыл бұрын
This is never talked about. Everybody always talks about the red flags
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Gotta talk both sides !
@chamboyette8532 жыл бұрын
I like that he talked about this too.
@nazinabelle3 жыл бұрын
I love everything you discussed in this video! Awesome video! Yes, a major green flag in a woman - does she listen to you?
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@geechie-don71573 жыл бұрын
FACTS OG! Accountability should be #1!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@laurajones12112 жыл бұрын
Very Good video!! Well done!! Really appreciative of green flags, positive outlook and perspective that is much needed!! Breath of fresh air!!! Thank you so much!!❤
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@rodneybrewster92893 жыл бұрын
Allright OG u good man like this resolving conflicts green flag we will make it and she nice lady
@keyboardfreedomfighter57343 жыл бұрын
I think more women are getting better than worse. Life is a learning lesson and we all gotta make mistakes before we get it right. Remember no one is perfect. I forget this because I subconsciously believe im perfect and expect perfection too much. Causes me to miss opportunities in alot, including women. N watch out spending time on the internet men because it is still a source of media, which has a tendency to display negativity alot before positivity.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
great input!
@paulevers35383 жыл бұрын
What's goin Jeff!!! Great video!!! Thank you so much for this!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!!
@elijahselbicky36393 жыл бұрын
There is hope to get my future queen. Thanks OG Jeff!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@modalsoul65113 жыл бұрын
ACCOUNTABILITY…… my favorite word in the English language.
@1koolkat13 жыл бұрын
Word! 🔥 Style OG I’m looking forward to seeing you on the “best seller” list 📚
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
One day !
@tojusote48963 жыл бұрын
Very true
@carljhardy793 жыл бұрын
My man.....Once again on point.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Carl!
@jasonmiller63823 жыл бұрын
Keep on evolving O.G!!!👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Will do!!
@thatguyfromny2 жыл бұрын
Bobby B checking in. ✊🏾
@imperialkevin11133 жыл бұрын
First let me say great video great topic. I’ve never looked at it from a green flag perspective. 👍 The hardest task in a relationship is keeping the green flags up. The green flags may change over years/decades and depending on the chemistry those green flags my not still be there after certain time (10 years 5 years, 2 years, etc). I want to say a women with this many green flags is fictional, but I’m willing to work to keep those green flags up. What would you say is the most important green flag?
@timothyburke39712 жыл бұрын
I’m thinking respects you #1 for sure, but similar values is definitely a close cousin as it could be #1. However, for the sake of ranking is #2 but definitely just as important as #1 respecting you for sure!😎👊🏽💯
@QueQuentillionaire3 жыл бұрын
Another great video from the style OG 😎✊🏾
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@lauramendez51733 жыл бұрын
I like you!!! Sent this to my husband, he needs to send this to his friends! New subscriber!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Thank you!
@cw83652 жыл бұрын
New subscriber here! Great points. Will definitely share your videos. Thank you!
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Welcome!
@june0120062 жыл бұрын
Dating a girl now that is showing signs of 7 and 10, 6 hasn't come up yet, and has fully exhibited all the others. After going through a marriage to a covert narcissist, it is truly refreshing to date someone with so many green flags.
@chamboyette8532 жыл бұрын
Great channel. My favorite compared to all the other channels I have heard. Only issue I have is the strict division between men and women as if all 3 billion men want respect and all 3 billion women want love. Yes there is almost definitely more of a tendance for men to want respect and women to want love, but it isn't always the case. Other than that, for the most part I really like his stuff.
@pauljaikaran97903 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother Jeff...Salute!...🙏🏿👌🏿👍🏿
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Very welcome!
@lestergaldamez-ostorga Жыл бұрын
🙋♂️😉👍😎😑😑🤔🤔👏👏👏🤳📲🤞👉✍🙏 Thanks For Your Videos O.G.! 👉🤜🤛🤝. I'm a 39 Years Old Guy and Have "Never" been Married in my Life. But Your Videos Really Help Me a Lot, Since I Subscribed to Your Channel a Few Months ago, to Understand The Relationship Topic So I don't just Jump into a Relationship Chance, that I Get in the Future. "Thank You Sir" 🙏😉 and my Respects to You for Sure. Have a Good Day there Man.
@TheStyleOG Жыл бұрын
Salute!
@ty27043 жыл бұрын
This is one amazing message! Great info!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@ty27043 жыл бұрын
@@TheStyleOG Salute!!!
@brianpeaks93363 жыл бұрын
All facts O.G!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Brian!
@punchiechalmers3 жыл бұрын
Good video fam - I’d like to speak to the two cats that gave this vid a thumbs down.. Need to understand where they think brother Jeff is wrong..
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Kenny!
@Victorfeshley3 жыл бұрын
Well said O.G!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Victor!
@kenarmstrong1282 жыл бұрын
Very informative.
@TheStyleOG2 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@everettyoung65963 жыл бұрын
I needed a reminder
@mariusstabbforsmo24933 жыл бұрын
Salute OG, I really appreciate the video :)
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Marius!
@abdul-hakeemaminu753 жыл бұрын
Salute! O.G
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@temibobo61473 жыл бұрын
If you are with a woman that blames you for everything...bro please borrow some shoes from Bolt and ...bolt!
@adekunlefajana20373 жыл бұрын
ACCOUNTABILITY!
@bobbyibitoye39783 жыл бұрын
true
@famouslexxx3 жыл бұрын
Pure gems 💎 thanks 🙏🏾
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@smokingtiger3 жыл бұрын
This reminds me off when ross made that list about rachel
@bryanbutchersr.42293 жыл бұрын
Very nice My Brother, Very Nice!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Cheers!
@marvinspencer78583 жыл бұрын
Respect is giving not own.
@jamesmurray28763 жыл бұрын
Awesome video OG salute
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute James!
@ericbush61243 жыл бұрын
Man Accountable Accountable is hard to find always someone else's fault We need respect that is being loved to us she needs to be Cherished great conflict resolution important and challenging not a yes person good stuff
@m.t71093 жыл бұрын
Great advice!!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mike!
@roadtoscratchgolf34813 жыл бұрын
Great list, Style OG. I’d put accountability and respect near the top. Rarely see that from women.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@spiritualt20043 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna watch more of this instead of watching what I don’t want in a woman.
@nanakwabena613 жыл бұрын
Salute brother and thanks
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@kbsickler2 жыл бұрын
Really like what this guy has to say
@ericmeyer13733 жыл бұрын
This was a great vid OG
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks as always !
@allenstokes11783 жыл бұрын
Great video very valuable content
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Allen!
@uneditedlife22083 жыл бұрын
Thanks man. 🙏🏻
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No worries!
@bbuck29173 жыл бұрын
Great video! Salute!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Brady!
@JoelManers3 жыл бұрын
I would add, can you discuss differences of opinion without getting upset or frustrated with each other? Do you BOTH have a growth mindset?
@jamestownsend88083 жыл бұрын
That the truth OG salute👍👍👍👍👍👍
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute James !
@sinjint133 жыл бұрын
Lol! You just described a unicorn 🦄.
@ronprice43393 жыл бұрын
Welp! Looks like I found that unicorn...
@jholliday32 жыл бұрын
Your first point hit it on the head.
@MikoArkamei3 жыл бұрын
That background music is sic vicious
@hovadeuce65713 жыл бұрын
👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 great video
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it!
@brownpunk17943 жыл бұрын
GUYS...need advice..i started dating a girl and she hasn't texted / called me in days...things went so well..i liked her By the way she is blind and deaf..am i being too needy?
@nikidale90923 жыл бұрын
Try reaching her one way or another, something could’ve happened to her, nowadays you never know till you know for sure the person you truly like/care about is okay.