How To Approach Women You Don't Know

[@igriffith30921]

1:16 - Have the right attitude 2:23 - Initiate eye contact 2:53 - Approach right away after eye contact 4:08 - Approach with confident body language 5:15 - What to say/conversation starter 6:35 - No heavy topics/keep convo light 7:31 - Sprinkle in compliments 8:23 - How to get in and get out of convo 9:24 - Make sure you’re ok with rejection/handle with class Appreciate it OG

[@rolondorivas6562]

🏆 The option is Appreciated.

[@sbusisiweshaba1715]

As a woman, I agree.

[@f.k.6151]

@@sbusisiweshaba1715 I am surprised you are watching what we watch; maybe you can give us some advice about approaching women 🙂😊

[@sbusisiweshaba1715]

@@f.k.6151 As for me personally, I just like a man to come over, smile, say hi, give me a compliment, ask how my day is going, let's get into a light conversation and ask for my number. 🙂

[@f.k.6151]

@@sbusisiweshaba1715 Thanks, I will keep that in mind. I am going to a concert next week - wish me luck🙂

[@ravishingrookrude]

Creep up from behind, ask her what her interests are, who she be with, things that make her smile, what numbers to dial.

[@daniellee1722]

Lol Biggie

[@Gundice_the_cryomancer]

In a few, wo gon do what what we came to do a'int that right boo(true).

[@user-uj1cc7po8s]

😂 😂 😂 it worked for me

[@donellhowell6954]

😂😂🤣 Big poppa

[@lilithdemonia74]

1:14 Guys need to understand, its nerve racking for us too. We're not keen on being rejected either. Sometimes what guys see as "arrogance" in women is actually shyness. If you automatically decide we're "stuck up", or on the other hand out of your league, then you've automatically set things up to fail. However the best way to approach us (I try not to speak for every woman lol) is be POLITE, and also be confidant. Be sure of yourself. A sense of humor goes a long way. Compliments are always welcome (give genuine, non-physical ones) and of course have good hygiene. Try it!

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the input!

[@johneta7665]

When I meet a woman the first thing I usually do is smack her in the face. That way if we do develop a relationship she can never tell me I don’t treat her as well as I used to. 🤣

[@averyt6521]

@@johneta7665lol

[@mantistoboggan7228]

@@johneta7665 always some jackass in the crowd.

[@mGsr-pr6hh]

@@mantistoboggan7228 yeah and he wonders why he only dates his left hand. Lol

[@lildudefromacrossdastreet7038]

Man this might be the most valuable video out of all the gems you’ve dropped on us already!!! #salute

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@dbev-ql3xr]

Thanks for the big shot out, greatly appreciated!

[@pierregeorge9050]

Style OG, there were some great tips for both young and older OG’s. Bottom line you must be confident in your approach. Salute to the family.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@XhosaShinobi01]

but bro I'm not confident, so the next best thing is to tell me how to look like like I'm confident. That would help me a bit more.

[@michaelveiloursecuredcredit]

You definitely hit on 100% guarantee with this one, chief. Top notch.

[@misterlexx2721]

I wouldn't ask a woman to chat her up a bit a social event . There are some women who instantly think of certain approaches as a " player's approach ". Maybe I would if it's just a one night stand booty call kind of woman. There are some women who are looking for a serious soul mate not just a booty call. I would be very social without getting deep. I wouldn't ask for numbers also. I prefer women giving me their numbers after 3 days or so I would call to say hello. You don't want to sound or appear desperate. No need to be,you have good things going on for you. You are important too.🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦

[@richjohn11]

I have recently heard on another video that the thing to work on is courage; be brave approach the job, girl or any task or project with a here goes courage; after a while competency will develope, which in turn bring confidence. A bit like a child learning to ride a bicycle. First he or she gets the here goes attitude (courage), gets on the bike and after a while...give or take a few times falling off gets it and can now cycle (competence). Finally after a while competence grows and cycling becomes second nature (confidence) is achieved.

[@darveyp]

I like this analogy.

[@ernestcarter7073]

Great advices and video bro. Salute to you on this one! 👊👊

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Ernest !

[@artcan3829]

I never really thought about that aspect of making eye contact first on a cold approach. That'll mitigate her feeling ambushed and give her a small chance to evaluate you first. Even giving you a choosing signal.

[@ManovSteelo]

All great tips -- be CONFIDENT, Y'all! One thing to add: when looking to make eye contact, if you haven't already done a body scan, etc., you need to check for any wedding rings/engagement rings -- especially for older women (i.e, over 30). Will save you instant rejection (if she is faithful) and a lot less smoke if you do.

[@TheStyleOG]

Great tip!

[@db4419]

That's almost "automatic" for me to check, regardless of ages. Still a great tip 👍

[@Barber747]

I also like to take a deep breath before I approach. Cleans any lingering confusion and doubt out of my head.

[@remuspierre7573]

Excellent advice

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you think so!

[@neodaltiair8624]

Great video. It really helps when you take the pressure off yourself and say hello and make yourself know and that you are interested.

[@marcrucker3852]

Best breakdown I’ve heard on this topic. Great work!

[@cliftonsledge962]

Always on point, great video and salute 👍🏾

[@Shawntraci]

This was on time good Sir. I have learned all of those advice tips and so much more through trial and error. The main one I think is in approaching women is to remember your not going to be every ladies cup of tea and therefore you will be rejected, but as O.G. stated "don't take it personally." The more you conquer rejection the easier it becomes to approach women, because you won't feel so uneasy about your pride being hurt due to her not wanting to get to know you. Great topic and fantastic work good Sir!!!

[@misterlexx2721]

Sometimes she becomes the hunter when a man is sharp, well attired , groomed, not bad looking, has a nice job, lives in a nice neighborhood. I don't have time to chase women. I will be social, professional but I am not going to talk on anything deep.She has to show interest. I am not looking for a 1 night stand. After years of my late teens and 20s, I realized I was pursuing the wrong type of young women. I realize that I should just have a female friendship with someone from similar backgrounds ( social, educational etc) and some who genuinely likes me not for money, job or status.

[@Barber747]

If she doesn't want to get to know you or enable you to insert yourself in her life--especially if she's single and struggling to find a man herself--then hey, that's her loss, not yours!! Oh well!!!

[@dretaylor7148]

I needed this one

[@TheStyleOG]

Hope it helps !

[@dretaylor7148]

I'm going to a costume party this weekend, so I'll be sure to put this tips to use

[@mp3_yt]

Banger as always Jeff. I think this is a terrific start for me to improve. SA-LUTE!

[@LostChildOfTime]

Losing is learning. Stay grounded, fellas.

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed !

[@bethel2143]

Style OG, you are on point as always!!! Appreciate the knowledge transfer. I am sending this video out.

[@TheStyleOG]

Much appreciated!

[@gregorytoomer7864]

Preach 0G!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Gregory !

[@jaeboston9228]

Great tips. I will try these tips on my trip to Portugal.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@cuthbertwchance9045]

Yes Jeff, just be yourself, well Dress and everything will come to play, Hooyah

[@SLGreen979]

Great dialogue OG. For my entrepreneurs One thing that really helped me with the exchange was keeping business cards, especially in the right settings. If she interested she’ll reach out

[@jamestownsend8808]

Just smile is the key. Salute OG Style. Keep it simple.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@ricardocorbie6803]

My Guy ( Jeff) I shared this video with my youngest son!! All truths ‼️❤️

[@donalddavenport7136]

Whats up jeff how are you doing this is Donald from Cincinnati once again great advice as always you are the truth keep up the great work and as always Salute

[@alannabors]

Nawl approaching women you don’t know is way easier than the ones you do know💯

[@garytheflexer6358]

King been putting me on game for 2years now s/o to you and your channel

[@SanMan_22]

Practice makes perfect.

[@wacojohnnydean1777]

Say look out there homie! I’m digging that combination you sporting! Baby blue shirt and brown coat…👊

[@johnstokes9219]

Thanks good advice I needed that

[@carljhardy79]

Thanks again. These are some great tips in approaching women. Best channel on KZbin.

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you think so!

[@narcissistabusefreegameonr2782]

Appreciate your videos my boi. I like your channel. Salute!!!

[@jimmyejohnson1187]

THE hardest thing about dating! Love, love the blazer!!

[@sbusisiweshaba1715]

As a woman, I agree, great tips.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the feedback!

[@Jebro439]

Great Tips. Keep them coming

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks! Will do!

[@nalansmartt5901]

Awesome , Wish I had this information fifty years ago, you are saving men.from a world of hurt if they listen . Thank you Sir.

[@TheStyleOG]

My pleasure!

[@moo1654]

My best attribute is humor. Women love subtle approaches mixed with the ability to laugh and compliments like the OG said. I appreciate your channel I'm gonna utilize your tips

[@mckinli26]

wow! I'm First again! Love the videos and the background music is FIRE!!! Thanks OG! Can I get a Shoutout ? PEACE!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

I got you !

[@tomcaldwell5750]

Jeff. Thanks for this vital information. Very helpful.

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem Tom!

[@raylewis2121]

Good advice, as always. Most of my successes have been with substantially younger women. I make eye contact and smile. You know-the “our eyes met across a crowded room” scenario. In order to NOT look like a “dirty ol’ man”, I don’t approach or send a drink. Give her the decision/choice/power to initiate. If the woman is more near my age, or older, game on.

[@JohnBeezy3]

Once you do this a few times, you will have some success if you have style and are confident. With that being said, it doesn’t mean much for you just to get a phone number. Many girls will flake after you reach out. It’s the same as online dating. A match doesn’t really mean much.

[@cjstats1514]

If you meet in person and have a good conversation w her. It's a lot better chance than online to get that first date. You can tell if she's into you, or just being nice in person.

[@JohnBeezy3]

@@cjstats1514 Its not always that simple bro. Women can change how they feel at the drop of a hat. Yes, you can better tell if a woman likes you in person. But it’s not full proof. Women have so many “options” these days that if you just don’t call for a couple of days, they could lose interest.

[@cjstats1514]

@@JohnBeezy3 Def didn't say it was full proof. It's not full proof no matter who you are. But it gives you a better chance. You prob at least get that first date. Yes, woman def change their mind a lot. But if you play it right, and they are attracted to you. The ball is in your court as much as anyone else's. Most guys push too hard and fast. Let them slowly get actual feelings for you. You just show up and have her enjoy a good time and enjoy being around you. Let her bring up the going more serious part.

[@JohnBeezy3]

@@cjstats1514 I agree with everything you said. You typically can lock up a first date if you have your ducks in a row. But from there, it’s anyones guess. I’ve had chicks be hardcore into me one day and then lose interest a week or two later. They get bored easily and have a short attention span.

[@cjstats1514]

@@JohnBeezy3 Oh I def agree w that lol. I've had females tell me males do that also. But in my experience. And my male friends experience. Females do that more. But that's where the part of taking it slow and having other options come in. That way your not pursuing too hard. And also not playing games and doing it on purpose. You just have fun w her and let her fall in love w you. Then they won't leave so easy. And don't be boring or be around her too much, so she won't be bored. Of she's emotionally available and a secure attachment. She will stick around. It's about seeing the red flags. Knowing how to spot the Narcs, borderline personalities and avoidant personality traits woman. Stay away from them.

[@mborges2133]

Another excellent episode, thank you OG

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it!

[@randomloverboy]

Exactly! Eye contact is key! If she breaks it too soon and don’t look again she may not be interested.

[@TheStyleOG]

For real !

[@anndiestephen7671]

Wrong. I'm a woman and shy types like me who aren't comfortable with attention will often look away.

[@randomloverboy]

@@anndiestephen7671 have you ever looked back after adverting your eyes? That shows interest. But adverting your eyes and not looking back shows avoiding eye contact. May not be the body language you intend to put off, but you definitely are, if you don’t take a second glance.

[@michaelanderson5975]

Great great advice I'm going through this now even though I just met a beautiful Portuguese woman about a week and a half ago and we've really been hitting it off I love intelligent women and she fits the bill I live the fitness lifestyle so at the gym there are tons of women literally all nationalities shapes and sizes but I don't approach them I'm an introvert when it comes to the gym because I'm focused on my workout always have been but they tend to come around me and use the machine right next to me I'll walk right in front of me with their tight outfits on most of them are well built and in shape it's a great atmosphere for a gentleman like myself anyway thanks Jeff great advice keep up the good work and continue to give us tips they're very helpful God bless brother I'm a big fan 🙏👍💪😎🇺🇲

[@bigboymajic4067]

Salute OG! 💯🤙🏽

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@LifethruRen]

The line I like to use is "Excuse me, I don't mean to interrupt what you're doing but I think you're attractive. Can I get your number?". Short, polite, and to the point

[@TheStyleOG]

I like it!

[@Midwest51344]

Some good ass tips you got. my approach when I do get the confidence to Holla at somebody I be like my name Chris how you doing what's your name then be like I don't want to take up too much of your time you got a number so I can get to know you better then I say it was nice meeting you. I just always assume woman be in a rush so I try to keep it short and sweet until we talk at a later time

[@robwelch1]

ive done this...works well. thanks O.G.

[@TheStyleOG]

Good to hear!

[@Victorfeshley]

You're on point sir. Salute!

[@TheStyleOG]

Much appreciated!

[@alfronzodeanii6872]

Salute 👍🏾💯💥

[@mngkyouGoD]

Great to know👍🏾👍🏾

[@stevengill9442]

Great tips and advice Salute!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@mzacchini007]

Very well said.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Mario!

[@yomzydee6825]

Just right when I was thinking of a pick up line you said no, don't use...😊

[@TheStyleOG]

Ha!

[@dawnnburwell3491]

Great subject!!!! 🙏🏽

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks !

[@dawnnburwell3491]

@@TheStyleOG Salute!!!!!🥰

[@jmorgan0829]

Love your approach tips 👍🏻 👌 💯❤

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Sis!

[@patbeverly881]

Thanks for the tips awesome

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@juniortoussaint8696]

style O.G. i gotta say you are speaking facts man about style how to what to say appoach women and how man act man this was a greatest wake up call for all bless u man😇🙏

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@rayologyxm]

Excellent points

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you think so!

[@Rashaadthegr8]

Making sure you are looking your best that day especially if you see her regularly.

[@TheStyleOG]

Truth!

[@raylewis2121]

I usually don’t dress for da Klub. I often go to more elegant restaurant or hotel bars where I dine (so I know some staff by name), charity or the arts events to find types of women I prefer. What are your thoughts on meet-up environments?

[@db4419]

Sounds like a topic for a whole other video..!🤔☝

[@raylewis2121]

That’s the hope :)

[@maxtorque5329]

The eye contact part would be tough nowadays lol everybody's face is in their phones

[@ericrobinson1789]

Some pretty good tips here my brother. 👍

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks 👍

[@kevindavis9862]

Good stuff!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@Yahtemallah-thegoodgod]

I'm here baby o.g style

[@TheStyleOG]

Ha !

[@robertbonner8074]

Great video..

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@danielrus7117]

Excellent video! Thanks! I really like those salutes, how can I get one?

[@TheStyleOG]

Consider yourself on the list!

[@mrwill1779]

If there's no eye contact I don't bother her eyes will say Hey handsome...great video

[@sbusisiweshaba1715]

Some women are just shy or they don't know how to show you that, they are interested.

[@alonzogreen8625]

What is that music that is playing I love it

[@Kingwolf_Nj]

Salute OG

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@dragosavo]

Good advice however I think it is possible that if you are in a setting where the woman is receptive to the conversation there is no reason to dash away.

[@TheDapperAristocrat]

Whats good Jeff. I just wanted to say thank you for the brand referral . I really appreciate it. I emailed your biz email to thank you as well just in case you missed it. I'm not trying to spam you. Just wanted to say thank you. Awesome video as always.

[@ronniemiller349]

Hey style OG, give me a Salute! I’m ron Miller 😁

[@TheStyleOG]

I got you !

[@ronniemiller349]

Ok thanks

[@tone2106]

Thanks for the advice G. My main problem is I look too serious most of the time, I think it's the Scorpio in me 🤣

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@unlimitedsociety6421]

This guy is the Real Deal

[@bertyadventures]

Been with the same women since I was 14 thank God I don’t gotta due this good luck fellas 🤙🏿

[@jasonwashington3557]

💯💪🏿 I gotta work on immediate approach and smile when gettin eye contact, other than that I m good. #Salute

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Jason!

[@cortezwonhunnit8582]

SALUTE MY BROTHER REALLY GOOD ADVICE AS USUAL

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@soldieroffortunate1296]

True OG Wisdom

[@JwalkZer0]

Great tips and thank you! I have a question, I agree that you should not be in a woman's face upon greeting her the first time for too long and to exchange contact info if she's interested. But what if the event that we are both at requires me to stay there for a long time after I greet her, especially if I came to the event by myself without friends or associates? Should I still keep my distance from her for the rest of the event, and if so, is it possible for me to still appear high in my masculinity if I came to the event alone with no friends and associates? If it's a small event where there's not much people there the chances are high that we'll notice each other again.

[@TheStyleOG]

Don’t go out of your way to avoid her after exchanging numbers but don’t force it either

[@BigShaw954]

Salute 💪🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@dholmesjr]

Awesome tips on approaching women... You gave us all the steps to approaching women the right way. Thanks again Jeff. Salute.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@Barber747]

I've followed some of this advice for years. When it comes to rejection, I have been turned down so many times over the past 7 years that it hardly ever bothers me anymore, even though several times in 2019 I have shattered through the ice quite deeply. What I mean by that is that I've mingled with several women, danced with them, had coffee dates or dinner dates with them, and even got laid for the first time ever (although it was with a woman in her 50s)! Despite this, my ultimate goal is to in this segment of my life is to upgrade to a younger, prettier woman, whether it's to pursue a romantic relationship, date casually, or at least get laid. Also, what you could have added in was the inclusion of icebreakers to get a conversation going. For example, compliment her on her shoes if you wish. Also, whatever may be going on at a certain point, like the song that may be playing in whatever location you're at, whatever's on TV at any given point, and so on.

[@TheStyleOG]

great input!

[@misterlexx2721]

You are definitely not a family man. You are not looking for a life partner or soulmate, you are just playing around. When health starts to decline, it's your soulmate who will be there for you. Younger, prettier girls will always love a younger and handsome guy. Play in your lane brotha.

[@Barber747]

​​​@@misterlexx2721I don't think anyone asked you anything, smart aleck. You obviously don't know me personally or my situation, so you better stay in YOUR lane and out of my business, PAT'NA.

[@donalddavenport7136]

Whats up jeff how are you doing tonight got a question for you.why does it seem like the good guys always finish last.but the bad boys get the girls? I'm asking this because I'm interested in a young lady who has been though a lot but won't give me a chance to show her how she should be treated.i hope you have time to answer my question as always keep up the great advice Ind SALUTE

[@TheStyleOG]

if she is not showing interest in giving you a chance move on, you are not likely going to change her mind..

[@anndiestephen7671]

Build trust through patient and empathetic communication. Be her friend, be there for her. Don't impose yourself and be ready to date others if she's not responding.

[@donalddavenport7136]

@@TheStyleOG that is what I did and thanks for replying and keep up the great work as always Salute

[@donalddavenport7136]

@@anndiestephen7671 thank you for that advice

[@MyAlishka]

I go to the gym and have a pretty good physique. But the thing is that women don't seem to be excited and impressed about it. It is not about that the only reason for me to work out is to impress women. The main reason is of course myself ( feeling good), but anyway we all love being an object of interest of the opposite gender, don't we? So what would you recommend? Maybe the problem is in my way of thinking.

[@therealcommodoremccrary]

Also OG’s- Do not forget her name during your conversation!!

[@greedydee1244]

Yeah I’ve been using pick up lines and that shit has not been working.

[@thelegendarykevininsales7589]

Concerning your wardrobe: If I were to buy that coat and shirt you’re wearing, what pants and pant color and shoes would go well with it?

[@era_emissary]

Modeeeeeeee oneeeeeee approach Shout-out to ARC

[@mrnewandimprovedman7260]

How do you make eye contact with someone when nowadays people have their heads down staring at their phones?.

[@eugenefontenot7898]

I thought the cold approaching was dead.

[@sarablackwolfdancer9359]

Tip - do not EVER tell a woman you just met that she's "so pretty", especially if she's not really that pretty. To me, "you're so pretty" means "I'm drunk and my beer goggles are fogged up". "I like your eyes", or "your smile was really compelling" or something like that is good.

[@lilrolla93]

😅 @ 4:43

[@BearFaceTV]

Gotta have a sense humor..you don’t have to be a funny guy but if you make it to a convo and you can make her laugh chances are your in there

[@mlukubone7134]

Me at a funeral: do u come here often?

[@matthoffman8162]

Gentlemen, we are the value. They are worthless without us.

[@scholageemusic9373]

Mixed looking dudes already got the upper hand.

[@Suspect333]

If they like me they can talk to me, why do I have to?

[@timothyslaughter476]

Don't be all wound up to tell them all about you.. especially if they ask all about you...ask all about them and tell them they have beautiful hair.....see if that don't work