10 Hair Secrets EVERY Girl Should Know in 2023

[@bethanyleonardo]

Here are the links to everything mentioned in today's video! scalp scrub: go.magik.ly/ml/1phre/ shampoo for soft waves: go.magik.ly/ml/1pr2f/ shampoo for sleek hair: go.magik.ly/ml/1phrf/ conditioner for soft waves: go.magik.ly/ml/1phrj/ conditioner for sleek hair: go.magik.ly/ml/1phrn/ brush: go.magik.ly/ml/1pr3v/ AM hair oil: go.magik.ly/ml/1ew6j/ PM hair oil: go.magik.ly/ml/1ew7e/ Hair dryer: go.magik.ly/ml/1pr3o/ Shea butter: go.magik.ly/ml/1pr3a/ * This video is sponsored by Kérastase, a brand I was already using every day. When you shop these items, you are supporting this channel by using affiliate links. Shop all Kerastase here: go.magik.ly/ml/1pr33/ Today is the last day of Kerastase sale! Use code MERRY22 for: 20% off + Bag with $85. PLUS 2 Travel Sizes with $100.

[@joannmclean6406]

Thanks for this information! :)

[@abigaileunicesison-ramos8002]

Hi! Says shea butter no longer available :( anything else you recommend?

[@imsorryforarguingbut4555]

I see this AFTER I shave my head

[@julias5980]

Hey, at least if you decide to grow it out again, you're starting from a totally clean slate! No damage to work against you.

[@ABSG7]

Hahaha

[@winterbear8266]

😂😂😂 you can start all over

[@martinedevergnies7319]

Haha 😂

[@blinkeuisaswiftie8397]

I relate to your name ya

[@julias5980]

I used to have waist-length hair and used Kerastase whenever I could. One tip for washing thick hair is to dilute the shampoo: my strands are fine but extremely dense (like, ten per follicle), so shampoo almost never reaches my scalp on its own. I keep a small cup in the shower, squirt in however much shampoo I want to use, and swirl in half a cup or so of water. If I pour the diluted shampoo right onto my scalp through soaked hair, it reaches the scalp easily and I can actually get the benefits of the shampoo. Flipping my hair over and shampooing from the nape of my neck helps, too - I used to miss the back of my head when washing b/c all the product would get stuck at my crown. I have short hair now but seeing your lovely hair growth progress does give me a twinge of nostalgia for long, flowing hair.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Totally agree with flipping the hair over 🙌

[@felicitygrace5113]

Such a great tip! Will put it to practice! Thanks👌

[@awildthatcher]

I'm transitioning from belly button length to hip length and I have you to thank for how long my hair has gotten. A while ago you said you keep your hair your natural color and that inspired me to stop coloring mine and I feel that made all the difference. Can't wait to try out these products and see how long my hair will grow to next!

[@bethanyleonardo]

Love that, Alyssa! Thanks for sharing that with me!

[@samirasufi8837]

I dyed my hair in 2020, and did not put any color in my hair for 2.5 years and than I finally decided to go lighter about 3 months ago and bleached my hair to get a light brown and it caused so much damage to my hair. I just cut my hair a month ago and now I am also on a journey to recover my hair, and I think that was a sign for me to actually take care of my hair and I appreciate this video. I am learning more and more about maintaining a healthy hair. This journey will def teach me to appreciate my hair more and to be a little more gentle on it.

[@ZeoArgentine]

I also cut my hair short and will never be doing it again, it's amazing how much I missed even the weight of it. Will be looking into this Kerastase stuff too as I'm always on the look out for great haircare brands to try and support! Hope you had a great Christmas Bethany 🥰

[@MonicadaSilva]

Great advice. Thank you! My hair is a lot like yours, and I have grown mine out over the past few years. I do many of the same things that have worked for you. One other thing that I've found works well, is washing and conditioning my hair upside down in the shower. While the conditioner is on it, I comb through it, rinse, then wrap it in a microfiber towel/turban. Washing it upside down, adds so much volume to my hair. If you haven't tried it, I highly recommend it.

[@foqthisshet]

Kérastase is definitely a game changer for me. I switched my cheap conditioner for a hair mask (to give it a try before buying more products since it is kind of expensive) and my hair looks amazing! No more frizz, no more hair loss. I can't believe is the same hair. Thank you so much for your video! 💖

[@vj8396]

Honestly, whenever I watch your content.... Unusually i am drawn towards the spiritual side of beauty... How easily you convey the ability to observe your body, your hair, your nails how they react and respond... How personalised and calm it is... You make us indirectly observe every detail how our body behaves... 🤗🎈 Don't know if whatever i am saying is making sense.... 😊

[@wikwika]

Totally agree with u… the same feeling here

[@rachaelr8044]

This is a fantastic observation. I love the idea of "spiritual beauty". ❤

[@Jordè1222]

You are going to be an amazing mama and your child is going to grow up surrounded by beauty and love ❤️

[@Moon-lt5bi]

I have fine hair that is silvering now as I stopped coloring it but I want to grow it long and healthy. I got a trim recently and she cut off two inches, and now it’s closer to shoulder length and I miss the length! I love this video! I think diet plays a huge role in hair health. I like to wash my hair every other day though. My scalp starts to get oily if I go longer between washes. ❤

[@lilacblue3331]

I think that would look gorgeous

[@luci5414]

"Overwash hair" it really depends on each hair. Like very oil hair... if you do not wash it once, everyday, can be complicated. Oil makes the hair weak and it falls a lot (of course it depends also on other facts). anyway, still the tips are super good 😊 sorry for the bad english and Hello from 🇧🇷

[@saphirsimorgh3082]

i have curly hair and castor oil and coconut oil on the ends works really good for me. Also clay as a shampoo once a month To get rid of ant build upps, egg yolk and olive oil once a week to nurture the hair and always oatmeal boiled and filtered after the shampoo (it can be egg and Apple cider vinaigre homemade shampoo with rosemary essential oil) to hydrate.

[@yotubeuser7606]

She is the example of beautiful , nice , sweet , etc 😊

[@calissatreat36]

Would love a few meal ideas or a what I eat in a day video!

[@penultimateh766]

Of course it helps to start out with stunningly beautiful hair and face like our host!

[@DetsCrissy]

I thought this video was posted yesterday 🤔 totally agree with the nutrition! Our hair is mainly made out of protein! This past year, when trying to lose weight, I added more protein to my diet, and I saw so much benefit on my hair and skin! And also I've been taking salmon oil capsules for muscle and joint pain because of an injury! I guess I'm just missing the hair oils!

[@bethanyleonardo]

Hi Crissy! Wow love hearing your experience! Yep my power was out and the video draft made a brief appearance on its own. Everything is linked and updated now though!

[@jsam78]

Came back to re-watch this as I also have thick, non-colour treated hair and oily skin! Most products these days are marketed towards colour treated hair, damaged hair, thinning hair, hydration, etc, so it’s so hard to find products for my hair type 😅

[@annleci372]

I saw this video before Christmas and disappeared.. I started using these products when you posted that video the first time years back. I love how my hair looks now.. I have a very long hair (belly length) and have been trimming it myself to keep it healthy looking.. Your hair looks gorgeous! Mine is supper straight..(was born to have staright hair). Haven't tried to color it. I like my hair color..blackest of black.

[@theezzia]

The way you describe you describe hair kind of sounds like you have a natural curl pattern. If you have frizzy hair that probably means you do. You should look into the curly girl method. You don’t have to follow everything but it might help a lot with your hair. ❤

[@EVEE_Rose-3]

The shoulder hair length looks nice on you.

[@wenadeligero3615]

Literally my goal next year.

[@RachelDee]

Yes to a good wash regimen! It took me FOREVER to figure out no styling products/tricks would help if a single shampoo wasn't cutting it in between washes.

[@cynTH95i]

Thank you so much for sharing those tips with us! I shaved my head in last August and I'm trying to have a fresh start

[@DoeRaeMe]

Thanx again Bethany one of my 2023 goals is healthier hair❤

[@bethanyleonardo]

Oh awesome! ❤️

[@mia4759]

Hey, Bethany! This was a lovely video. I’m always amazed by your speaking and presentation skills. I am aware that this is not part of your usual agenda, but could you make a video on how to become a confident speaker? The way you carry yourself is magnetic and I take inspiration from that.

[@67kurtcobainfan27]

I might just as well let mines grow out to it fully volume and potential length but in 2024. By 2027, it might just change its natural color, etc. My hair is my hair. 💕💞

[@natashaapril5563]

Brilliant, thank you so much for these tips! My favourite is: *adding oil to the sectioned hair for blow-drying. I have long hair too and do my blowout in sections, but only apply a little oil once my hair is completely dry. I'll be changing that! 😀😊👌

[@oliviaknight1123]

Your hair is looking stunning in this video, you're definitely doing all the right things!🥰 I also love Kerastase and swear by the Discipline Keratin Thermique, it really is so amazing and the scent.... dreamy. HOW HAS YOUR HAIR GROWN THAT MUCH SINCE 2019 ??? It's grown about 6 inches! How is this possible??? What is the secret to this amount of growth??!! I MUST KNOW! 😘💋❤

[@blueseptember2174]

2019 was 3-4 years ago. That's a long time lol.

[@oliviaknight1123]

@@blueseptember2174 a long time or not, I wish my hair would grow that much in as many years! 😊

[@frayabelle8457]

Hi Bethany! I absolutely love this video and your tips are so helpful for me wanting to grow my hair much healthier! I have a quick question though: How do you wear your hair at night, to prevent damage? I want to keep my style from the previous day, but it becomes so tangled and messy!

[@dcherry9752]

❤You have gorgeous hair ^.^ I lost a lot of hair due to ulcerative colitis flair ups =/ I can't wait for my hair to look fuller and healthy again.

[@theailona]

I've always loved looking at your hair. Such a glorious mane! I was about to join your course a few weeks ago in time for my trip next February but I missed out :( Would you ever do a video on your fitness journey and routine as well please? Merry Christmas and hope you have a fantastic 2023!

[@mariacarlacabrera]

Thanks for your advice, your hair is a dream

[@denise7344]

Your hair is so gorgeous 🥰 Congrats from Brazil 🇧🇷

[@themellowmama]

This top is so beautiful! 🥲

[@stephaniel678]

You mentioned your hormones Bethany. How do you find hair products you know won’t give you hormone trouble? I struggled to get pregnant years ago because of hormone trouble. Praise God, I have three precious boys now and more in the future Lord willing. But I’m really cautious about products of any kind. How do you decide what to put on your skin?

[@bethanyleonardo]

Hi Stephanie! I track my cycles and morning temps so I have a general idea in that way how I react to certain things. For me, chicken made my cycles and temps very inconsistent so I cut it out 5 years ago. Replaced it with fish which has some amazing oils in it for my hormones. I personally don’t have issues with beauty products on a hormone level but recently cut out retinol and salicylic acid in case I get pregnant.

[@stephaniel678]

@@bethanyleonardo I remember tracking my temps. You already have the makings of a great mom. I remember working so hard to get my body to figure out it can get pregnant! It's a labor of love. I've been asking God to bless you with a baby since you've mentioned your desire to be pregnant throughout your past videos. I'm hoping for some good pregnancy styling videos someday too. ;) That will be so fun.

[@TheZeyre]

Really enjoy the sensible, metered out approach for long hair. Long hair is complex enough esp in cold weather. What a great tip for the drying in sections!! Will definitely try that. Thank you. 🌲🎁🌲 Xo Joanne

[@bethanyleonardo]

For sure! Drying hair properly really makes all the difference. Merry Christmas Joanne!

[@noorasakhri6027]

Your hair is really pretty!!

[@imaginator2635]

Your videos are always so lovely and calming to watch. And the music at the end! I love it!

[@khelix23]

If you’re not allergic to cinnamon. You can add 1/4 teaspoon into a new bottle of shampoo. (Regular size) your hair is going to grow faster. But for me longer hair makes me look smaller in height. So I need to have medium to short hair to look balanced😅 also I don’t like layers. I like it simple too.

[@Liveisgood12]

I m not allergic to cinnamon how to use?

[@joannmclean6406]

I love your hair! Please tell us what supplements you take. And what your diet looks like. Thank you. Happy new year! ♥️

[@taehyungsabandonedshoes7625]

Please give details on how to use it ?

[@dinahassan4320]

I was waiting for that video, your hair is gorgeous as you 😊

[@minihappysewing]

My hair doesn't usually like oils but I will give them another chance. Thanks for the tips!

[@MonikaSharma-gc3sm]

Great video ...keep going😊😊

[@biancamonteiro5367]

your hair is gorgeous, love your videos ❤️ happy new year everybody ❤️ much love from Brazil

[@bethanyleonardo]

Happy new year! Much love Bianca

[@avika9475]

Can u please make a routine on low porosity hair?😊

[@courtneyfalconer9526]

Just realized you’re back on your DearlyBethany channel! So that must mean you got your access back then, which is great news!

[@bethanyleonardo]

I did! I had some followers from Meta who very kindly helped me! 🙏

[@courtneyfalconer9526]

@@bethanyleonardo that’s so great, I’m glad to hear that! A true blessing 😊

[@ACAC-ll5jh]

You have great hair! I do prefer you with a lob...suits you!!

[@almeralicehe6169]

Bethany, how do you "suffer" through those 3-4 days without washing your hair? The sweats!! I go to gym frequently like you and find it really hard to not wash my hair once every two days. The best I can do is once every 3 days.

[@divyajoyce4880]

Same.....

[@dubb3292]

i know right? if i don't wash my hair after gym my scalp gets itchy....so i guess everybody is different lol So do what works for you!!

[@p.sonalifashiontrends7591]

I just trimmed my hair, I'll follow your tips, thank you very much

[@Emilygregoire9]

I have a seven month old baby and I am so tempted to cut my hair because he is always pulling on it. I need to remember how much more beautiful I feel with longer hair though and it helps to put all of the work long hair takes into perspective.😂

[@joannmclean6406]

I love your hair! Please tell us what supplements you take and what your diet looks like. Thanks so much! Happy new year! I ❤

[@jillianpeterkovich9565]

Hey lovely I can only imagine what has recently happened in your life. A lot of girls are going through it, I did a little too. So I understand taking prenatal supplements but it might be good to pick up another alternative, I take Zinc. Have you ever tried a derma roller? The smallest size is 0.25 and can be used at night before going to bed. Works well with hyaluronic acid (although I find the acid tends to leave a smile line for me). Trust me pick up a derma roller and it will work wonders! Ps. Your hair is gorgeous! Love love love.

[@kimberlynorton4403]

I enjoyed this video! Your hair is very lovely, I have always admired how you wear it simply yet elegantly. In 2019 I started the curly girl method and stuck to it for two years. In that time I also learned a lot about caring for my hair differently and in a more healthy way. I ultimately decided I do prefer my hair blown out but have carried over a lot of the techniques like you’ve mentioned in the video! The best part, besides having much healthier hair, is that I can go 5 days between washes now as opposed to 2 days pre CGM. My go-to hair care products are from Under Luna. ☺️

[@lazybones2070]

My favorite beauty content creator😍

[@sweetvicky]

Thank you for this inspiring video, Bethany!❤ Could you tell what’s your hairstyle for the night?

[@bethanyleonardo]

Hi Vicky! I usually do a loose low bun 👌

[@ishikayadav9311]

You said you've oily skin, can u do a skincare/makeup video for oily skin please

[@kashishnagpal6715]

I love such kind of videos from you. Would love to see more of such content 😍

[@quitelyxie2893]

Perfect timing! 🥰 Been following your hair tips from your previous hair care vid and it has done wonders to my hair. Grateful! ☺️

[@bethanyleonardo]

Oh awesome!

[@ellied.ananayo7116]

I really really love your hair color 😃 what shade/color is it? Your hair is so healthy.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Thanks Ellie! It’s just my natural color. It’s more of a chestnut brown ❤️

[@PS-ww4uw]

We want a video on how do you curl you hair. Basically this video hair look i love 💕

[@Nehayadav3_]

You look amazing with your hairstyle. ❤

[@iblecca]

Could you post a video on how you style your hair? ❤️

[@wolftownesque]

static is what kills me in winter 😫

[@alexalex-rj1qv]

In 2022 I've already cut my hair three or 4 times I dont remember exactly and it's around 20 to 25 inches and now watching this 😭

[@AdityaSingh-hs6tg9vu3u]

Please make hairstyles video tutorials also with details. Thank you 💚💙

[@cynTH95i]

I have the same hair texture as you!👀

[@iiannyy]

Your voice is so soothing❤

[@caramelgirl6962]

I really like your channel, really Thanks for uploading ma'am

[@ecegonul1103]

Can you share with us the name of the supplement brands you take ? Thanks 😊

[@mackmaloney3776]

OMG...Christmas just arrived a day late.

[@weallwonderwhy]

holaa! im new to your channel and i just subscribed because you are super clear and concise!! thank you for thaat you are so straight forward and love the information. thank you!!!!! new fan! love from mexicoooo

[@elisechandler6486]

Heyy where is your top from?? I love it!

[@lilaaB]

Your so pretty and your hair looks so healthy and beautiful too❤️😍💕

[@ccc4102]

Love Kerastase!!

[@rookmanikaur6170]

Bethany, So nice to see you again. Thank you fir these tips. Can you share what brand of prenatal vitamins you used? Because the brand makes all the difference because most vitamins are full of fillers.

[@manishakc215]

I really like the how your hair look.. is it your natural hair colour.. could you please share!! Happy new year 🎉 ✨️

[@bethanyleonardo]

Yep! My natural color: chestnut brown.

[@carolinebevans]

ah I use Kerastase! So glad my hair dresser put me on their products, wouldn’t use anything else now. I use the clay mask as well! so good.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Oh wow Caroline! That’s awesome

[@katheryng.4070]

Hello, can you kindly share the name of the Dôen cardigan you are wearing? Thank you!

[@VARTIKAGUPTA-tj7kt]

hey! Could you name the supplement (brand, product) that you use? or possibly share the link?

[@maysaraali5772]

Thanks for the beautiful video Bethany❤ Can you share the brands of the supplements you take plz?

[@bethanyleonardo]

Sure! I just switched to Ritual and I’m very pleased with them.

[@kvorah]

Love it thank you for sharing! On my healing hair girl journey myself. Also where did you get your top if you don’t mind me asking.. it’s so cute!

[@jessiiii0830]

loveeeee the boat neck white crop u wear!!!! may i ask where it is from?

[@catherinegioia3634]

Could you share with us how you go to bed with your hair?

[@stellashepherd3229]

I think one big tip for healthy hair is not to color/bleach it. First do no harm. If you want to color/bleach that’s fine, but it will be harder to have healthy longer hair.

[@Sonyacita]

Hey! Question about your am and pm oil treatment - is that literally every day and night? Is this just a little dollop- not a mask? And it doesn’t make your hair oily? Thanks!

[@bethanyleonardo]

Hi Sonya, I use the am and pm oils daily on dry hair. I don’t apply it to the roots, just the rest which gets dry from sun, curling irons, styling, etc.

[@imnoemit]

Could we use cocoa butter instead of shea?🙏💜

[@pheberejas3327]

Hi Bethany, can you please tell me the supplements you are takings and its brand?

[@bethanyleonardo]

Hi! I take the prenatal by Ritual, and I take biotin but I can’t remember the brand at the moment. I also take astaxanthin

[@caitlinpatrick3610]

Hi Bethany! Ahhhh, thank you so much for this video. Out of curiosity, what prenatal and what biotin brand supplements do you use? ☺️

[@bethanyleonardo]

Hi Caitlin! I use Ritual prenatals and Neocell Biotin

[@nini5484]

Please do not recommend to people to wash their hair every 3-4 days. This is NOT a rule for everyone and it can be damaging for those with an actually oily scalp. Every dermatologist and trichologist will say it's absolutely fine to wash you hair every single day if your hair gets oily a day after washing. So if you're reading this and like me you have an oily scalp and you need to wash every (other) day - please do so! It's healthy for your scalp and therefore hair.

[@realproperty1012]

0:06 hair should never be combed while it’s wet. That’s when it’s at its weakest! Not washing your hair, only damages your hair!

[@alvindekvinde8906]

Wavy is more beautiful on you! 🙂

[@stelamarcheva9670]

Hii. I have been watching your videos for quite a while and this one popped on my screen. In terms of hair care, how often do you get trims? I feel like I cut mine too often so that is why it is not growing as much.

[@keylaayala9836]

Hi could you please share in detail the supplements you mentioned in this video? can we take pre-natal in a regular basis? are those supplements 'Ritual'? thank you!

[@dampanaboinadurgabhavani6044]

Have U had a keratine treatment for U r hair plz tell me mam

[@cristinamnl6662]

Hi Bethany! Do you place the AM and PM serums on your hair just after washing? Not everyday, right? 🙏🏻

[@bethanyleonardo]

Hi Cristina, I actually use them every day personally 😊

[@cristinamnl6662]

@@bethanyleonardo Ohhhh I see ☺️ Merry Christmas to you and Zack, Bethany! 🎄🎅🏽

[@faith042179]

Can you please share what top you wearin in this video? Thank you

[@jberry1767]

Looks like there maybe some extensions in there too.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Hehe nope

[@lolmakeup5786]

Where is your sweater from

[@seznamginb]

Great video! How do you style it at night? ❤️

[@bethanyleonardo]

I usually put it in a low bun these days ❤️

[@guadalupenavarro8706]

I love this video about your hair ritual!!! Thank you so much for sharing it!!! ❤ I am in love with your gorgeous hair!!!!💕 How are you liking your Dyson hair dryer? Also, is there any discount code for it?

[@bethanyleonardo]

Love it! Zack and I both have a lot of thick hair, so it was worth the splurge. I don’t have a discount for it, sorry!