Ppl in my family always try to throw shots at me about not dating broke men and having high standards.. those same ppl are broke, miserable, and wish they were me 😂
@Ericatheinspirer2 жыл бұрын
😆
@djwestbrook362 жыл бұрын
Some people just forgot completely about the concept of being good and moral people.
@queensun60592 жыл бұрын
precisely! men must seen as an investment ONLY of; positive, zero or negative cash flow. if he ain't postive cash flowing U?! boy-bye!
@food4thought6922 жыл бұрын
Mine too, and I don’t gaf!!
@hypertvnow4661 Жыл бұрын
There are other channels about morals... move on
@ivonetorres44342 жыл бұрын
1)high standards💅2)high self-esteem 💅3)perspective💅4)purpose💅5)options💅6)be unapologetic💅7)looks💅8)business plan💅9) knowledge/value of money 💅10)stay unbothered💅 don't forget to like the video ladies 👍
@Softpinkbarbie2 жыл бұрын
𝘚𝘱𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘭𝘦 𝘴𝘱𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘭𝘦.. Pur✨
@sexyblack64862 жыл бұрын
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@rainetravels14102 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@michellemeiburg6392 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@becca40672 жыл бұрын
Sprinkle sprinkle
@PortiaMonique2 жыл бұрын
54:52 When strangers ask what I do, I say “I’m in the arts”, given that I am. When they begin to pry for more information I say, “none of that really matters, unless you’re eager to donate, to help expand my business”… That’s shuts them up real quick 😂.
@heirtothethrone12 жыл бұрын
i love it!
@eternalabundance392 жыл бұрын
Perfect answer
@ChloeLayneXO2 жыл бұрын
I like that
@tothemoon51082 жыл бұрын
im screenshoting this for future references ✋😭💀
@jaistar31892 жыл бұрын
It’s not a lie, if you’re doing this the right way it’s the ‘art of finessing’ and it’s a skill.
@GoddessLifestyleTV2 жыл бұрын
“If you gon be giving it up, you might as well be living it up” I know that’s right Shera!
@stephsteph13382 жыл бұрын
Shera over here dropping 💎 gems: "Your self esteem has to be so high...that you can refuse anything, that doesn't meet YOUR standards, with no regret."- ♥️✨✨
@meep_murp87582 жыл бұрын
Thank you Shera for saving my life. I almost married an old dusty who kept asking me for money. Your videos gave me the courage to run away from trashbag men ✨sprinkle sprinkle ✨
@shasmeen2 жыл бұрын
She saved me too
@Liz-ic6jb2 жыл бұрын
Good for you!
@fancybeingawesome2 жыл бұрын
Oh,gal am happy for you.Almost married a young dusty who was scared of spending money on important stuff like food but would rather go drinking and gambling.Always borrowing money (demanding) with no intent to give it back.
@mmxw22942 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy for you
@mmxw22942 жыл бұрын
Thats how I found her years ago I was with a cheapskate stingy king dusty that had but didn’t want to give boy my entire life changed I will never ever ever do that again I let it be known upfront what I expect
@milliondollarbaby64212 жыл бұрын
Being gold diggers is in our nature 😊
@lindahines93802 жыл бұрын
there's always a price too pay isn't it!
@ImaniTheGoddess Жыл бұрын
Yesss💋
@adw6894 Жыл бұрын
@@lindahines9380 The price is training yourself to have standards
@wolfiecaps_9 ай бұрын
in the words of a famous contemporary philosopher: bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks
@vturner2 жыл бұрын
''act like a lady think like a man'' Shera: Just Ghost! Exactly !!! Funny how they respect you more when you move that way
@Jijita12 жыл бұрын
I am a super gold digger and I love every second of it … ❤ been a gold digger since I was 5, if my family ever need money from my dad they’ll just send me to give him some kisses and tell him I need some cashhh and he will put thousands under my pillow hhhaa my favorite childhood memory
@darksunsh92 жыл бұрын
Heck yes!!!!
@anonamous63202 жыл бұрын
good for u
@ClairesChaine2 жыл бұрын
You've been trained well, I love that
@chocolatechunks072 жыл бұрын
Wait!!! Who is “they”? 🔍🧐😂
@Jijita12 жыл бұрын
@@chocolatechunks07 my family hahaha
@padsgem37362 жыл бұрын
Steve Harvey says it best you keep your fence high (aka standers) if not they will step all in your yard play all kinds of games, until your no longer fun, or get hip to there games, then they will leave with what they got off of you. When your fence is too low your easy Pickens like Bonnetta and Barbara the Builder
@itsabbymarieb2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciated what you said about dealing with childhood trauma. Thank you Shera. I don’t feel bad about completely cutting my father off.
@xoxosisihere2 жыл бұрын
My fave song as a 90s child was “Rich Girl by Gwen Stephanie” Sprinkle ✨ sprinkle ✨
@shona.60042 жыл бұрын
My favorite song from the 80's was "Aint Nothing going on but the Rent" by Gwen Guthrie. I guess Gwen's really like money. LOL
@Tomorrowandtomorrowandtomorrow Жыл бұрын
think of it like this: amazon puts a different price on things depending on your zip code, right? it knows that if you live in a dusty neighborhood to only charge you $25 for that ring light. But if you from that ritch neiborhood, it's gonna make that price be $100. so do it like that - make your standards go even HIGHER around that ritch dude. not lower! never lower your standards, only raise them!
@tq3252 жыл бұрын
Them standards do not move!
@michellemeiburg6392 жыл бұрын
Angry at their bank accounts 😂😂😂
@jesminetaoufik25572 жыл бұрын
Zero regrets… she is so right every time…
@Liz-ic6jb2 жыл бұрын
So true about gay men beard situation. As soon as I saw Tyler Perry's baby mama I knew she was a beard. She is exceptionally beautiful, perfect background, spends her time helping nonprofit charities, this was before she dated Tyler P. And she was not part of the Hollywood crowd.
@nedamalovic8981 Жыл бұрын
SheRa, I have been listening and learning from you and i feel so empowered and grateful for you.
@goodlashvibes63122 жыл бұрын
Love watching Shera when I’m at work 🤩
@cheyennestephens94172 жыл бұрын
You always give me the energy to stay on track and focused! I Was about to have some down time, but I'm ready be a problem💅the level up continues
@pinky93134 Жыл бұрын
"im ready to be a problem", words to live by 🎉🎉
@Anna-yd1zj2 жыл бұрын
let things go with no regrets
@Cookiedesigns2542 жыл бұрын
Shera on 100 today with this video!! Spitting nothing but bars
@JewelJones-kj1bo2 жыл бұрын
58:32 Shera's handwriting and doodlingm of CATS. Lol that is too cute
@queenrecovery2 жыл бұрын
Looking so beautiful! Thanks I NEED the recap from the IBNTTT ❤
@french_daily_cupcake172 жыл бұрын
The illusion of money book is a good book to the value/invest of money.
@numertrzy51084 ай бұрын
1. high self esteem high standards many options purpose
@katiataggarta19146 ай бұрын
Shera is so hilarious 😂 “ratchet lollipop” 😂😂
@darionnjones53752 жыл бұрын
The second live i was able to watch live!! 🎉
@Laurie-RenéeVoltaire6 ай бұрын
Taking mental notes !! ❤
@brendacrawford3432 жыл бұрын
You are SO GOOD!!!! Taking more moneys for me now!!!!
@brendacrawford3432 жыл бұрын
I’ll buy books from you now!!!
@a.rafaelaparrales9729 Жыл бұрын
Sheraaa please upload these as podcastsss💟7️⃣
@Ericatheinspirer2 жыл бұрын
Great advice as always! 💜 Sprinkle Sprinkle
@nanostar7660 Жыл бұрын
33:10-tips for answering questions from family about level up
@paulferrante46322 жыл бұрын
You sound like an expert on the subject. Teach professor
@brendacrawford3432 жыл бұрын
Ok thanks lil sis !!! You’re as INTELLIGENT!!!!! Love ya❤❤LOVE you
@honeydove_48442 жыл бұрын
“ It ain’t no Gotstabe, it’s Gorilla glue😂😂😂😂” (standards)…refuse any offer that doesn’t meet my standards with no regrets.
@5thdimensio2842 жыл бұрын
Would love to connect with leveled up ladies in South Africa. Sprinkle sprinkle 🌞
@mthandazomoyo6592 Жыл бұрын
Hey girl 🎉❤
@constancenunn2 жыл бұрын
Hey Shera.. sprinkle. Sprinkle 😀😀🤩
@SiviweK Жыл бұрын
I've been doing this all wrong 😂😂 having conversations about business with men😮😮 my business minded a*s always getting played😢😢
@Postmortementrails Жыл бұрын
This will be my morning affirmation video and I’m going to play this while I sleep. Thank you.
@ninawestlake142 жыл бұрын
AND have a plan A to Z!!! Always!
@kaylah-x8o Жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo @ you ain’t gotta worry about no gold digger sir
@thevixenxiii2 жыл бұрын
I love you so much you have no idea
@samanthadodd1408 Жыл бұрын
I like the advice or wisdom you are sharing. Keep it coming.
@lademonhunter2 жыл бұрын
Lma🤣 welcome sir…he gettin ready to write down like he’s a target.. no body wants yours money if you’re in here sir … lmao I’m boogie rached rn lol
@Mars-yg8go6 ай бұрын
Watching this video on the bus so in a year I can be in a car😭😭😭
@DanielleStarr2 жыл бұрын
Shera say "His chemistry gone be bubbling and boiling". The truth though.
@Thebettermanbysak2 жыл бұрын
Dusties here bright and early! Lmao
@melaninbae33822 жыл бұрын
What’s the first thing I should ask money for?
@Wealthwith.hannah Жыл бұрын
Can we get a template pleasssseeeee how high is not high enough
@makeupjourney3402 жыл бұрын
I liked this video as soon as I clicked on it❤
@brendacrawford3432 жыл бұрын
My purpose is be an Actress / singer
@prettygirlrocks2 жыл бұрын
Shera goddess is here to stay and not croaking after a hot night full of Viagra🎃. As ladies we can keep our looks up in many ways that don’t require popping a pill only to croak 🐸 a few hours later😂
@weliveloveandlaugh22 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@Gold_gyrl2 жыл бұрын
Between YOU and Onlyfans my life have changed so drastically thanks love 💋💋💋💜💜💜
@Softpinkbarbie2 жыл бұрын
Go girl💫
@Rontlc33172 жыл бұрын
Only fans ain’t it mama
@clauaome25 Жыл бұрын
You do you. Take care.
@yoshis-m9s Жыл бұрын
Thank you Shera ❤
@femininebritaneyburnett89042 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much Lovely ❤❤🥰🥰
@roroachievedall81842 жыл бұрын
I’m thinking of signing up to the patreon . Is it worth it?
@queensun60592 жыл бұрын
Queen Shera changed my life forever! For me; she's worth it!!!
@Wealthybaby2 жыл бұрын
42:02 I can literally do the same 😂 like you will literally not exist to me
@k.s8887 Жыл бұрын
great video Shera
@wendypope96682 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video 🙂how many times would you ask a man for money before giving up?
@YungTsundere5 ай бұрын
And still stay unbothered with your family making comments! Some of us don’t want to be single mothers on section 8 and they hate that
@tashlaw92932 жыл бұрын
Good to be a Goal Digger
@makedafindlay93982 жыл бұрын
Hello Shera, I am dyslexic so I find it hard to take down notes 📝. So could you please put subtitles down in this video and the one from yesterday 😊❤.
@eternalabundance392 жыл бұрын
It probably will in a few days or tomorrow. Sometimes not available when video is very new.
@makedafindlay93982 жыл бұрын
@@eternalabundance39 thank you 🎉❤ for your comment. 😊
@eternalabundance392 жыл бұрын
@@makedafindlay9398 you are welcome
@numertrzy51084 ай бұрын
your owb perspective don't feel bad about it don't apologize
@NajaRants2 жыл бұрын
I notice alot of rich people are selling their stocks I wonder why
@naiya.nicole__2 жыл бұрын
Stock market is on hold and crashed. Definitely start reading up on stock market. Great generational wealth if you know what your doing.
@marthap.5178 Жыл бұрын
Most importantly…Don’t smack ladies!!! You have to sound intelligent!!!
@JewelJones-kj1bo2 жыл бұрын
1:51:42 Shera's story of checking out and seducing the personal trainer!!! AAAAAAAAA girl you are so fckin funny lmao
@brendacrawford3432 жыл бұрын
Love your lashes gurl- you got more??😊❤❤❤
@Noname-u9x6g11 ай бұрын
Such an amazing woman ❤❤
@lc-il6wr4 ай бұрын
The fake eviction wouldnt work if a man keeps up with his bills. Thats just wasting housing time.
@makedafindlay93982 жыл бұрын
Is a woman’s business plan also to help the men she’s working with expand there money and also to help us get our own money from him to. Is this the whole purpose of a gold digger to help the man shine more in front of other men so they take him more seriously and respect him more also drive his money up. 😊
@caribbean98292 жыл бұрын
Is that building with him? I see frequently women helping men to "expand" their money a.ka. "build" that when they have more money they go and find another women. I will be very careful about helping a man to shine more. Helping him is my problem. He should be motivated by himself. I don't wanna help anybody shine more to then move to find another woman.
@chocolatechunks072 жыл бұрын
The purpose of a gold digger is to RECEIVE....to live a life of leisure, to save the money you’ve received for your own purposes (like starting a business), to collect valuable items that you don’t want to spend your own money on, and to remain the prize to a “high value man” (🙄 the term is overused, but it is what it is) so you can keep receiving. Helping a man “build” makes you vulnerable to being used and to him moving on to someone else with what you’ve given/taught him. Did you watch the video? Because Shera explained that a man is supposed to give you money because you’re YOU, not for practical reasons. Keep your business to yourself with these men, don’t try to validate what you need the money for with things like “I’m starting my own business” or something that can benefit him.
@divinefeminineoracle58252 жыл бұрын
@@chocolatechunks07 Thank you for that wisdom sis 💜
@hillsideonly Жыл бұрын
@@chocolatechunks07 lol, your sisters are gonna be single for long.
@paulferrante46322 жыл бұрын
Do you get any clams t
@Luver4lyfe2 жыл бұрын
I have been watching you for years Shera and you’ve remained consistent ❤️ always blessing us with insights, that have really worked in my dating life. Did u know that your term Pickmeisha has been trending , I hope you have some intellectual property protections in place on that term. Because of platforms like IG and TikTok, people are recognizing the pickemisha and bob the builder chicks running amok 😂. Much love ❤️
@Wokeafricantvs2 жыл бұрын
Love your hair, how many inches is it
@veronikisha2 жыл бұрын
Amazing ❤
@SimmonsQ2 жыл бұрын
Hi shera! when u fina come back on live ?
@sheaNERD2 жыл бұрын
Great video! ❤
@brendacrawford3432 жыл бұрын
How to become a member pls😊
@vanessaosagie5572 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you baby more blessings
@makedafindlay93982 жыл бұрын
Hello Shera, could you please give women examples of how we should speak to men of means. If we want to work with them to get money from them. For example what strategies should we come with ect.
@makedafindlay93982 жыл бұрын
@@jamieburnett9092 Does she give examples in that video? That I am looking for?
@christiandavis48982 жыл бұрын
@@makedafindlay9398 possibly , she does a video on how to get men to give u money u just gotta scope through her catalog
@chocolatechunks072 жыл бұрын
You should probably just go back 3 years and watch all of her videos. It’s like a GOLDMINE.
@makedafindlay93982 жыл бұрын
@@jamieburnett9092 oh yes I remember her saying this.
@numertrzy51084 ай бұрын
your look business plan
@ShesMongolianASMR2 жыл бұрын
21:08 FACTS
@nataliesksksksk99562 жыл бұрын
Gold digging is just the female version of macking
@clauaome25 Жыл бұрын
What is macking??
@Inlaylawetrust Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@paulferrante46322 жыл бұрын
In Quincy
@vturner2 жыл бұрын
to the 18 year old who asked for advice : Get an iud !
@paulferrante46322 жыл бұрын
Except for me. Nobody can refuse what i offer
@brendacrawford3432 жыл бұрын
AMAZON RIGHT ❤
@brendacrawford3432 жыл бұрын
Song writing too
@paulferrante46322 жыл бұрын
SI clams are NG
@soggycookie3459 ай бұрын
naw this one was powerful
@Gisellexo9 ай бұрын
You look so pretty :)
@numertrzy51084 ай бұрын
knowledge of money
@paulferrante46322 жыл бұрын
Your nickname is now Barnacles
@TrudyGivyan Жыл бұрын
Am boujie ratchet today 😂😂😂
@jovane9402 Жыл бұрын
57:26
@brendacrawford3432 жыл бұрын
So thinking God gave me 9 more” cat lives “!!! Should been dead- a long time ago!!i Gotta get this quick!!!!! help!!!
@paulferrante46322 жыл бұрын
I purifiy my metals
@lc-il6wr4 ай бұрын
Dont have a child just because a dr says u need to have one.