Female Ego Is Worse Than Male Ego

[@mimiappiah57]

Isn’t this woman the smartest woman you’ve ever seen online ? Don’t lie

[@meghanr.7144]

Feel mimi Facts!

[@shebamooncat9162]

Yes!

[@prettyandyoung7028]

I already thought she possibly has a rather high IQ.

[@mimiappiah57]

pretty and young , it’s high up there..even when you listen to how she breaks things down on her spiritual channel too.

[@VisionVoyagersOG]

She's amazing

[@Dutchess8-8]

The women who are understanding this young are at such an advantage. This information is invaluable even if you’re single and done dating. Prioritize yourself.

[@jessicaselenecenteno]

Exactly.

[@ravenpriestess3789]

Shera, thank you for just being 100% real 100% of the time. You will say what needs to be said. Your advice may not be received well, but it just needs to be said. These men do what we allow them to do. Some women are too concerned with pleasing the man rather than doing what will be good for them and/or their children. The biggest regret that a lot of women are having is putting a man's wants and needs in front of their own.

[@corsicanlulu]

we women like a "project". we like to say "he changed for ME! MY love made him change and that makes me better than any other woman" thats women's ego at play and why we invest so much in aint shit dudes in a nutshell

[@gypsymoon9553]

I wish I came into your channel 5 years ago this would’ve helped me out so much

[@lc-il6wr]

White girls R not allowed. .

[@opheliad7452]

You right on that dog love you more Than a man. My dog will not eat her food till I get home. Then she is happy. Everyday she sit by the door till I get back from work. Which man in this earth will love you like that no men.

[@user-og8ii5dc4l]

LOL, so sweet. My dog literally stares at my feet to see when I move, so she can come with me.

[@starwallsh9279]

Don’t waste precious time being upset find ye another man. 😂

[@AlainaNorton]

Dust Diamond okaaay💯

[@brittanys505]

I take time to grieve over my stupidity and try move the hell on.

[@Honeyiroseupfromthedead]

​​@@brittanys505me too.

[@dayinibatrisyia5424]

😂😂😂 because of this I has almost more than 10 man line up😮😂

[@GoddessAries]

@@dayinibatrisyia5424 it’s necessary nowadays lol

[@dutchessofcreativity9397]

That's why trophy wives go from one marriage to another cause he invested she didn't... no years and years of tears...

[@staywinning3299]

you suppose to love your child but a good 70percent of people do not give a dam about their children that's y so many children are neglected and abuse in the foster care system like u said women have to learn to love themselves first because if they don't they can have a bunch a children and not give a dam about them see it all the time

[@serenityserenity9829]

By far one of the best topics really made it clear on where my focus in my new marriage needs to be my husband provides protects and respects but at times Ive felt like that's not enough but recently Ive been loving myself, upgrading in all areas of my life and watching the look on his face as he's trying to figure me out and seeking my validation, had to turn them tables mental alchemy!!!

[@T.a.s.h.o.n.n.a]

I accidently told a man recently what I did for a living and he made a lil statement saying, "oh yeah I heard they make good money " Smh

[@hypnotechno]

what do u do?

[@lc-il6wr]

​@@hypnotechno the Heffa isn't saying..

[@TheGozoland]

Preach sister. There’s this lady who has been building her husband at the detriment of her own happiness for over 25 years. She’s proud to call that dusty husband of hers faithful but he’s far from it. Husband has been cheated on her for years and she’s still standing by him. I wish she will listen to this video. That will surely wake her up from her slumbering party. You are my Ten Commandments and I live by it. I validate most of your videos from the stupid experiences that I’ve made In my twenties. If I had not found you , I’ll still be making stupid mistakes over and over until I get into my grave.

[@azucenakennedy4850]

I saw Sheera's videos like 6 years ago and I did not like them but years later my situation is worse, I wish I had listened to her and not be a pickme, like I was, now, I'm leveled up all the way, and I can see the difference, I have choices

[@October3074]

😂😂😂

[@aliajohnson470]

So true. Thanks SheRa, your changing women's world. Amazing.

[@celticsoul2850]

Leaving these vids on autoplay when I sleep so I feed my subconscious, as well as when I’m awake. I have so much to undo. I’m on board but blowing it in the moment. Behavior has to match the mind. Building skills not ego. Thanks and love to you and the tribe.

[@rollinggstonee]

I’m on that right now. Just put this on before bed. I hope you’re thriving, as you should ✨✨ I was listening earlier before the gym and just started bawling. I began thinking of all my mistakes. But I’m so ready to let that old me go forever. She’s dead

[@gabyyaby.9928]

Samee❤❤ 2024

[@Elitta325]

Female ego divides and oppresses other women. That’s why it’s so bad. Thanks for another honest video and starting a different convo. Same with kanye, they might criticize him for some of his comments, but he opened a new dialogue. I’ll be giving a ted talk at my job and ego and women’s empowerment is the topic. This is so inspirational and your timing is awesome.

[@seds94]

Dont compare any woman to kanye. Certainly not this one

[@dulaman]

​@@seds94you homosexuals need to get out of women spaces. Just because you like dick doesn't mean you belong with us.

[@tinachristine4573]

Kanye is an idiot.

[@hiyorioh]

Girl what

[@User-rg9wj]

6years later the message is still important

[@DarlingAngel666]

How come no on ever told me this?????????????????? Thank you Shera ❤️

[@TexasGirl-Z71]

Right girl I know,wished I could have known this 20 yrs ago.

[@LaBellezaMorena]

This information is one of your golden topics. More women need to hear this.

[@TheGozoland]

I just started the video and I am already agreeing with what you are saying. No need to keep our ego intact because it will destroy you in the long run. It’s good to keep our ego in check but we can’t let our life be dictated by our ego. Be free from our ego and life will be freer.

[@baddestalivecom]

This video changed my perspective on everything I thought I knew about marriage. I'll be in a winning position from now on thanks to you. You're out of this world, words can never express my gratitude for what your videos have done for me. Thank you

[@truthexposed839]

Deep words: some women know that with a child they will not prosper.

[@soulnspired888]

Yes, the only thing i agree about with you is Marry a man that loves you more. I did.

[@samehmke3396]

Who is this man so I can wake him up

[@4rmwestcoastmagsonia]

at 1:44 u went in n these men KNOW they would get an aborting every 60 seconds. " A Mans heart does not have the capacity to grow like a mother's womb."

[@capriclark8749]

Wow #truth

[@starwallsh9279]

I got to get me a 👶 baby voice...😂

[@memyselfandi8537]

So very true , some women don't know that their husband is a ticking time bomb he can leave or cheat on you any minute , don't help them let them pay for almost everything ..I have my secret stash :)

[@MaRiAm936]

Motivation Empires well said

[@azucenakennedy4850]

Awesome

[@DOMiNOUKAE]

Mgtow fuel. Thanks

[@taylor7326]

@@DOMiNOUKAE mgtow is a gay men's movement for men who don't measure up to date women?

[@dulaman]

​@@DOMiNOUKAEplease get a job, homosexual

[@starwallsh9279]

Bob the builders. 😂

[@ervinmontaque2084]

Exactly why I stay single with my own everything

[@nylaspeaks7272]

I think you are spot on men love you more when they lose you....but then again it might be their ego

[@seds94]

If you could move mountains wouldnt you have a big ego too

[@taylor7326]

@@seds94 How do men "move mountains"???

[@norlavine]

Betty Broderick is prime example of ego gone crazy.after divorce.....x

[@girlnextdoor2836]

Norla Vine Exactly..She is still bitter to this day.She said "They are dead (referring to her exhusband and his new young wife) and I'm still alive "

[@nishamack586]

She was a bob the builder also. She supported him through medical school. Raised the kids alone. He thanked her for all her hard work with a younger upgrade

[@October3074]

I busted out laughing at this bc I remember her Lifetime movie how crazy she was 😂

[@memyselfandi8537]

Always have your own stash especially if you have children remember your children when your doing this

[@DOMiNOUKAE]

Men, have your own stash and lie to the wife. NOTED. Sharing this with the homies.

[@taylor7326]

@@DOMiNOUKAE A provider doesn't need a "stash" lol...You're obviously not one so you wouldn't know that.

[@charismakas4011]

Beautiful voice and LMFAO "we both know you cannot afford me" 2:58:02

[@bernadettejackson7304]

"Self love stash" Come thru Shera! 🖤

[@sabounji]

Usually, Egos destroys anyones who lives by it.

[@fia8006]

Amazighia Amazigh ❤❤❤ I'm Amazigh too

[@kayleeanderson9046]

I finally got over my ex when I truly saw him as pathetic, physically unhealthy, over the hill, broke, and seeing him have a third child by a third woman, and then abandoned the situation. Not the hot model / actor, sexiest man alive lol.

[@thecrazyfam6789]

Painful truth. My ego hurt but physical and mental obtuse made me run away. But I still think I love him. Stupid me. The love stash was gone the love was gone. Women don’t believe just keep ur money to yourself. One day you will only find it nothing and nobody else.

[@najeebahhill]

Pretend she's senile like it ain't her fault". Omg shera you had me laughing so hard.....🤣🤣🤣

[@prettyandyoung7028]

One thing while I was in my relationship it felt good because I had extra money to buy my kids many crafts and activities to do which I feel builds self-esteem. .even this can prevent future pick me chicks in kids because they have self interests besides men. with that said seeing that your daughter has hobbies is another reason to value money...you can invest in supplies for hobbies that build self-esteem. I think your daughter did a really good job on your headband plus it's supportive and cute that you wear it in your video..underneath it all we do mostly practice this lifestyle for our children...you're a good mommy.

[@prettyandyoung7028]

I notice you put an emphasis on the unconditional love for your children. .which I love that focus about you. Looking back on my life no memory is more to me than the ones with my children even though in t moments I "thought" the relationship I was in was extremely significant ..I see your point as very valid and I've become even more focused on my children. .already was but now it's all about them and me. They (my kids) are everything to me. A man can only enhance my, and my children's life. I've been disappointed from expecting a man to love me the way I loved him..this new perspective is helping me.

[@lc-il6wr]

It's a negative point of view that a man can't luv you like u want him to..

[@AlainaNorton]

You’re dimples 🙌🏽

[@etiquetteconnoisseur6184]

That's what I'm talkin about. Shera, dresses. I always wear dresses. I almost never wear pants, except for two pairs of jeans, and two pairs of black slacks

[@lc-il6wr]

Dresses R so uncomfortable!

[@robingchester]

Once again...preaching the painful truth. What I allowed is what happened! I take responsibility for my mistakes and have learned the hard way. Never again!

[@opheliad7452]

You the best am learning a lot from you. Thank you

[@missball404]

Looking drop dead gorgeous SheRa!!! I love that blue on you👍😊💙

[@olliasilvaollia9389]

the truth hurts but needs to be told

[@prettyandyoung7028]

you brought up that you should already be confident before you get married so that you can't be brought down by him. ..do you have any suggestions for someone that has a better self-esteem single than in a relationship.. .maybe better to have sugar daddy (ies) and mostly be alone (I notice I am more confident when I am single) I can deal with a man in short spurts. I'm wondering if I'm better off to have my own life but be spoiled by an outside source..such as have my own home but have an investor(s)

[@LoveMinnie1102]

pretty and young an investor is not long term unless he buys properties in your name. Solid Things that you can hold on to... a husband is a better bet for long term.

[@PoweredbyJESUS7]

Do you even realize how insane you sound. Talking about sugar daddy’s and all that nonsense you wrote. That’s the life you want? That’s the self worth you have....sad. Perfect example The insanity of what I see written on internet.

[@madmystic3457]

Baby I was that woman. I only learnt from experience. I just realized it or you may say totally unleashed all the lairs of it lately throughout some years and honey it's tough. But I also love my man so I was forced to look at myself. And I don't care about what people think or expect of me... If you really love a man who has left you (be it for anything or anyone) you will never ever want him back. You are off to love yourself than your ego which was built upon the relationship with the man. I love your videos especially the contents.

[@esliz6499]

Shera thank you so much for this video, only four minutes in but it's the closure I needed for why I can't move on and it all making more sense now. Thank you 💖🙏

[@janinehema90]

Your videos come right on time! Thanks for this

[@codyosborne8926]

You're brilliant! So many people talk about ego thinking it means cocky and conceded, but ego can be the opposite too! New subscriber here!

[@bbygrlclr]

so true, so so true. we don't speak about this ego thing enough

[@TheNdiBabe]

Shera you deserve a hug, & a box of chocolates

[@MaRiAm936]

This video is a real eye Opener for me.thank you She Ra😚

[@njos315]

Can you please do a video on how to cope with breakup/divorce. The hair band is really amazing...your daughter is indeed creative...

[@lc-il6wr]

What does she know about divorce..she's not divorced..

[@CherimoSusan]

She has answers for everything 😂😂😂​@@lc-il6wr

[@drummerjeroensimons]

A big sign of ego is also projecting, blaming others I saw in women, but I believe a man need to take responsibility too for choosing the right women suited for him by working hard on himself and vice versa... So, I,m not putting any women down, it,s about the sum of the two people sharing real love and love is feeling free with yourself and eachother, fear is the enemy... (I believe every human should work on their weaknesses and see that we all have male/female qualities eventually, anima/animus)

[@mikailabdal-jamiil9624]

Right! Believe actions , not words. Actions speak louder than words. The economy now is great for female entrepreneurs.

[@ShallieAbbiusi]

This is one of your BEST videos ever! So full of gems 💎 whewwww

[@glownaturally2475]

I swear I always thought like this ...but not as bold as you but always was told I’m crazy...

[@avona14]

Wow what a powerful message!

[@screentake01]

Thank you for another truthful video. Yes your daughter is talented. 👍

[@Stellabyestarlight]

Gold 🤩 Thank You 🙏🏼

[@ejstrawberry9659]

45:30 🤣🤣 "he-only-love-his-bed-and-his-momma-He-Sawreeey" lolololol

[@taylorlauren8151]

The egos!- i have a big ego my moon is in leo. A man should always love you more than you love him

[@seds94]

We are superior though. We have the seed

[@MSJEFF-ly9cl]

Honey I needed this!!!

[@dianataylorlive3317]

GO!! LAILA i WANNA ORDER ONE ! in any color

[@starwallsh9279]

That makes a lot of sense. .....

[@SophieDulce]

This was a great video! You give the best advice

[@anonymousbee]

I am blessed to have found your channel! The insights you have are so powerful. Thanks Goddess 🌌

[@elizabeth0813]

Lela needs to start an online business

[@havegrace9111]

Wow, Layla has talent, what a beautiful headband goes so nice with the dress,, which I love as well. Where'd you get it ? Skin glowing too, girl you always look good ! Very motivational person inside and out 🤗

[@BlessedVivi]

Wow. This video was s punch in the gut!!

[@TexasGirl-Z71]

Same girl!

[@T.a.s.h.o.n.n.a]

I definitely know to lie next time

[@shebamooncat9162]

You are the truth

[@siesies000]

1:48:40 "I'mma come in just incase I got one" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👏

[@nlamb76]

1:48:36 - 1:50:00 reasoning is on on point! You may not consider yourself a feminist, but we definitely would love to have you on our side! lol Loved your singing at 3:04!

[@MSJEFF-ly9cl]

"You know the law exists" .I get it now. This is where natural law meets maritime law. Makes perfect sense.

[@rashedal.weaverphd1005]

Thank you for your wisdom.

[@peacenlove]

When l was 10, l couldn't probably hold a yarn properly :p She's really talented. Am really bad at all this

[@byroidlanier9653]

She actually made sense in this one.

[@DIGITALEMPRESS]

I really needed this video.. omg

[@chenal7445]

Wow, so so true and powerful

[@anonymousanonymous870]

no one is pure

[@seds94]

Some men are at the extremes

[@EmperorHero1]

*No one* is pure

[@stormy3131]

I Fucking love you Shera! Keep doing your thing!!🌹💋💕

[@Keiiii8732]

Are y'all selling the headbands I'd love one

[@Roseberrylove]

you right i want my status and stuff back but if im with him again i will be miserable wow your so smarr shit hurts

[@IamKarryanne]

"Imma come in juss in case I got one " 😂😂 "on standing appointment set up "

[@Cookiescornertarot]

I saw SA in the live chat a lot I would just STAY OFF. We have new laws! And I had the same situation but we actually divorced. So I’m getting more with these guys doing nothing. Plus the child support my ex still doesn’t want to be shit.

[@ABRASILERA17]

Only because we're so beyond ego that we seem worse than men when we are in our ego because ego is masculine in its making

[@corsicanlulu]

advising women to have a baby in order to get love is a recipe for disaster and hardly ever works out for the mother or the child. the child is a NEEDY creature and needs more love and care than a person who lacks love in themselves can ever give. a person who doesnt like or love themselves cant give any to that child and so what do u think happens? she abuses and/or neglects the needy child because they didnt do what they were "supposed" to do. thats what usually happens in those situations. if ur not mentally and emotionally healthy and dont have money enough to have a child then DONT have them. in fact if ur not married in addition to everythign i just said dont have kids either. its completely unfair to bring up a child w/out a father when tehy suffer so much because of it. its extremely selfish. a child shouldnt be born w/a job ever! matter of fact dont even have a pet either because the same thing will happen. work on yourself, heal yourself and then u will have enough love to give and u will receive it back too. i generally like ur advice but this part was horrible

[@genevalivingstone1929]

She never preaches have a baby...she cares about the future life of that little one... But I am not fully finished the video...

[@tinasnow2006]

Clean out your ears. She says in every video never have kids outside wedlock

[@October3074]

I didn't take that literally. I think she meant to illustrate that the magnitude of love most women r desiring/ expecting from a man is unrealistic but comparable 2 the love of a child. Shera does not advocate 4 single parenthood.

[@jessicaselenecenteno]

True but it’s also circumstantial. Subjective and objective. ⚖️

[@AshaMaat]

Powerful message

[@celestegarcia923]

I definitely went for the car lol.

[@TheFactsofLife237]

Hi Shera. I'm catching up on all of these great topics!Someone spoke about falling into the girlfriend trap. Can you speak about this topic in a video? Thanks!

[@bangelic6471]

Hey booo boo! I like the boho look ❤️

[@antoinettecollins8079]

I was always the one who left first 😜. 7:18 My ex’s hate me 😂😂.

[@lc-il6wr]

I would not cater to his mama. U r crazy shera..

[@Roseberrylove]

you so right though i needed to bulid my own future. not bulid a man!!! bc he left me anwyways!!! wow. at least we didnt get married. and yeah i am still super mad but its only because your right. im upset our potential image is gone, i was working for that ideal to be satisfied but it isnt and its what i bulit myself on instead of lookinf beautiful and beinf THEEEE PRIZEEEEE. smh

[@Eva.Collins]

Preach!

[@MaryMagdalene1201_]

🤣🤣🤣her cussing whew!!! That was funny 1:01:05

[@IamKarryanne]

I enjoyed this child support talk 👏🏾👏🏾

[@starwallsh9279]

This video is long Shera I don’t have 3 hours. Will you make more drive thue videos. Short and sweet..

[@meme-qg2gq]

Dust Diamond you can change the video speed to go faster. click the 3 dots in the top right of the video and then choose “playback speed.”

[@alexo1792]

This is happening with me and my bosss 😂 the funny part I started realising once he got promoted to his highest position.. I wasn't going anywhere 😂 being the star employee I am no pulling out and demanding a 70% increase or else I'm out .. married man not sure what his intentions are since there's quite alot of sexual tension however not buying into any of it .. put your money where your mouth is and I might come along 😊