10 mindset habits that improved my life! (self-confidence, anxiety, future career, etc)

[@ImJem]

If you’ve watched this video to the very end i love u:') what are some new mindset habits that you've picked up on throughout this year?

[@christinanovelle]

My mindset has completely changed this year. After being in a mental hospital and being on medication for the first time, my goals for life have become a little more positive.

[@secretdreamervlogs3358]

@@christinanovelle I'm so proud of you🌠❤

[@secretdreamervlogs3358]

@@rameninicindekimiku1877 realluh?? Where will you put it? I"ll surely read it 🙌if not too long◐.̃◐

[@channelingmovies]

Skipping on social medias and work on what's gonna get me far.

[@mefaithstudio]

💗💗💗

[@p3arlcasket3706]

therapy: expensive and risky bc of covid-19 jem's videos: free and 100% works

[@ImJem]

providing some free internet therapy 😌✨

[@hilalaydn7941]

yesss!!!

[@marina6833]

Therapy costs money? In which country do you live?

[@ashiexs]

Mar ina Shit expensive af in my country. Most of us can’t afford it

[@annavitoria3962]

@@marina6833 in your country therapy is free? Where are you from?

[@hails6753]

People are like flowers. You wouldn't compare a daisy to a petunia because they are different types of flowers. Instead, we appreciate how unique each flower is. We should do the same with people :)

[@yaenzski]

Yes :)

[@chellingchelling]

🗿

[@sofiamartinez9217]

i feel like quarantine has made me address all my deep rooted issues and it’s both a blessing and a curse lol

[@nats.1149]

Omg same

[@nourrehan6650]

Yeah same , its really a blessing and a curse

[@ohdeardeer804]

just know youre not alone!

[@KathrynElizabeth_]

what i say instead of “i have anxiety” is “i’m overcoming anxiety”. i think it’s definitely good to acknowledge and comfort yourself through the fact that you have some battles, but you don’t have to accept it as a part of you. once you accept it, you start convincing yourself that you’re stuck with it and you’ll never change. i use to turn down any social situation or public speaking and say “i can’t, i have anxiety.” now i tell myself “i can, i’m overcoming my anxiety.” obviously everyone has different levels of anxiety and some may need to take smaller steps than others. this may not be the best method for everyone, but i wanted to share in case someone found some insight

[@zinzibam]

Sometimes I forget that people project their insecurities on me.

[@QueenCNow]

Getting older sometime feels like a curse you need to stop, specialy if you feel like you are not where you "suppose" to be, and sometime where you suppose to be is goal made by the society, be marriage by this age, have kind at that age, finish you education at that age, know what you want to do with your life and that deadline is teenager, and thats something im trying to shake of me, since i just found out what i want to do with my life, and i feel like im so late to party, but im trying to be kinder to my self. thank you for the video, you definity made me think of certain things.

[@Funnyowl69]

the self-victimizing part really hit home bc of my bipolar and then i felt guilty that i was blaming my bipolar for my own flaws :)

[@suhaniology]

going into finals, ending the year - i totally needed this. the amount of reflection i did with this video I'M GETTING CLEANSED

[@oh_say_it_ditto]

u got this god bless

[@girluwu873]

so motivating n beautiful. it's the trying to help others and being kind for me.

[@ImJem]

love u🥺💕 ty for watching!

[@girluwu873]

@@ImJem ur always so kind to us... motivating us when maybe u dont feel doing it for urself. ly 🤍

[@cassidycass6509]

Depression and others is and can be negative, you don't have to limit yourself to certain realities It can be different if you want it to

[@AudreyVlogs]

What you said about not wanting to read or write for fun because it can’t generate income in our capitalist society was SO relatable. I’m also working on overcoming that way of thinking and just doing things for myself and my own growth and happiness. Also you’re totally right that nobody has it all figured out and we shouldn’t put so much pressure on ourselves to always know what’s next. This was such a lovely video, you’re super inspirational and have such a calming vibe! 💛

[@jellyfishcorpseschannel01]

you looked like a cozy grandma in the thumbnail and i mean this with so much love omg.

[@monikapaudel9353]

Dear Jem, i listen your coffee shop podcast and videos.idk your voice is so soothing and positive. You cheer me up everytime i am with you.Strange how we connect being so far away from you.Lots of love from 🇳🇵❤️

[@secretdreamervlogs3358]

1 point..the quotes part...the comparing myself part ..so many parts soo much relatable ! :( thanks for this❤

[@hellocharlieebarley]

4:14 this is how I feel about the quote "get so far out of your comfort zone, you don't remember how to get back" because I know that it's meant to empower you to try new experiences - but it has this weird aftertaste of degrading having a "comfort zone." Your comfort zone is still the home base for your boundaries and if you forget how to get back to those, then you'll kind if lose yourself?

[@improvewithsoo-selfdevelop1219]

#2 really inspired me. I resonated so much with the fact that the things I love such as blogging and film seem "useless." But this was such a great reminder to keep pursuing those passions!

[@nikithamukherjee1825]

your voice is so pleasing :)

[@insence016]

number 3 is SO true... i honestly appreciate you putting it on there :') i honestly didn't take this into account until covid

[@rajshreepardeshi_]

Omg, Thank you soo much for these beautiful reminders and lessons !! I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THISS VIDEO, MY LOVEE !! I LOVEE YOU SOO MUCH MY ANGEL !! SENDING YOU LOADS OF LOVEE, BLESSINGS, POSITIVE ENERGY AND HUGSS !! ❤️❤️❤️🦋

[@mmsquiggles]

wow! that bit about feeling that your hobbies don’t matter really resonated with me. I always feel like, if what i’m doing isn’t really gonna get me anywhere in the future, then it’s a waste of time. this was super insightful, and made me realize that doing things that make me happy should be enough!! Thanks Jem 💗

[@chioneychiba8375]

this video really means a lot, every detail you said is really things that i went through, It motivates me to fight my fears and its enable to find myself to show my truth capabilities to change my life...

[@ayaaaat]

You really made me feel well. I have a great anxiety disorder and when I your videos i feel so comfy, relaxed and safe. Thank you i love you so so much i feel like you are my older sister that i have never had❤ love from Italy🇮🇹

[@__ralph11]

Look at you! Growing out of your negative mindset! Ahh I’m more proud than a proud mom fr fr. 💞💞 you deserve the world!

[@onlyunjin]

i have quiz tomorrow and i'm glad i'm watching this before reviewing my notes. thank you so much

[@ImJem]

Good luck on your quiz!

[@aneilg.6546]

This video really spoke to me. I learned so much, and at the same time, you gave me the chance to reflect on myself and what I've learned throughout quarantine. If you have time, could you please do a video on how to deal with failure? I just feel like there's always a fear of failing for everyone, and it would be wonderful if you could address it and give your thoughts and opinions. Lots of Love

[@hanumsalsabila4461]

The number four is really relatable for me. I’ve been following one of my fav youtuber and she’s in my age, more or less. She’s recently married and right now she is building her new house and it is super big, and i was like, wth is wrong with me? I even don’t have a job because of this pandemic (recently graduated from uni) and it make me really sad to watch someone around my age that can afford big house 😥 Love you btw Jem, one of the most honest and real youtuber ever 🥰

[@lilacberry5667]

why would you be sad because of someone else affording a bigger house... this is kinda fucked up

[@maryoop7920]

It's okay, everyone has their one pace. The right opportunities will appear someday, and then you can look forward to make your dreams come true. Everyone's life is different, some of us buy a house sooner than others, but that doesn't mean that you can't do it! You just need to wait a little longer and I promess things will be better ♡ please stay healthy and strong

[@saixvi]

it's 3am right now in my country but 💖✨priorities✨💖

[@emaanmushtaq6512]

Thank u so much for this video. After everything we all went through this past year what u said was really needed. This 18 minutes long video might have not completely changed my mindset but I picked up a lot of good things from it especially things that would help me deal with anxiety in the future. Truly felt like my older sister giving life advices to me. Hope u have the best year ahead Jem I love u !

[@lizzye1952]

nothing like a Jem video to make me do my work and feel better

[@nenes24]

really, REALLY loved this video... i love habits and self-improvement content... and Ive been with you for years now and watching you grow has been a pleasure! love your podcast too, i love listening to it when im washing up or just preparing for bed ^-^ here's some of the 2020 lessons i picked up and would like to share!: ""It's alright to not be happy for a day." At some point, I realised that it was even more tiring to be obsessed about happiness. You end up feeling anxious too." - IU You can't make any choices if you're afraid of criticism. Whatever choice you do you'll be criticized. Everything is as it should be and only later in life you can connect the dots. You can't always find comfort. Sometimes, you must create it. The search for blame is meaningless. Having somewhere, someone to blame doesn't extinguish pain - rather it lets it rest and gives it a place to grow. "There is no such thing as the right answer in life, just choices." - Odd Girl Out (webtoon)

[@ImJem]

I absolutely LOVE these lessons!! Thank u so much for sharing them with us :’)

[@onionyam5231]

i always go back to this video when i feeling myself slipping into a bad state of mind and it always does the trick!!! tysm for this jem

[@130pixie]

jem, i can't even tell u how much im grateful for u for doing this video. im at a crucial step in my student life right now and i needed this so much. thank u thank u thank u

[@ImJem]

🥺💕

[@ayeshagel]

We love u too! My favorite youtuber:>

[@faizafaruque3472]

i loved how realistic this video was and how much i could relate to it.

[@hannawaleed]

I'm proud of how you improve yourself

[@khadijamasood6580]

I needed this video and I’m literally going through the same , so thank you ❤️

[@precious5848]

needed to take notes bcs THIS IS WAY ACCURATE TO BE NOT TAKEN 🤧 thank you for this Jem! check her podcast guys, it soul saving. 🤍✨

[@keiaaa]

Thank you so much for this video. I love how open you were and I definitely needed to hear these things, so I can better my own life too. 💖

[@raylimbu6042]

Lots of love from Nepal❤️🇳🇵 You are my favorite KZbinr😊

[@ImJem]

Honoured to be ur fav youtuber! Tysm for watching 😊

[@maithileegarg5766]

Jem I really loved the whole video. I am a huge fan of yours. Thanks for posting, love your editing🎅🌲💜

[@sarahrosehassan]

Your videos are a breath of fresh air ❤️ Also your makeup looks so pretty 😍

[@ImJem]

Thank you so much! You’re the absolute sweetest!🥺

[@destiny536]

I never clicked on a notification this fast ahaha

[@ImJem]

☺️💕💕

[@jacobsablan3787]

great video omg. i love how calming yet educational your videos are. it legitimately feels like I'm talking to a friend tysm for making our weekends!

[@eventhough5482]

the timing of this is so great!!! exactly what I needed. thank you so much

[@gracieeeeeeeeeeee]

bro i love you tysm 🥺

[@ImJem]

🥺💕 love u too

[@nats.1149]

SUCH AN AMAZING VIDEO. Love your mentality. Love you, Jem 🌟

[@agamu2090]

honestly u r so motivational like dude, u keep it so real. ty and luv u ! 🤍

[@ImJem]

Ty🥺🥺

[@asma-i3i]

I love all your vids so much Jen they help me think back and reflect and thank you so much for that . I hope you have a good rest of your day :)

[@ms.gsimone444]

Thank you so much for this video! The tips are insightful and speak to the areas I’m actively working on!

[@HM-eo1hy]

I love watching these type of videos as you navigate life. I'm struggling with similar things as you and it's nice to see such a driven women who's being proactive about her problems. Edit: When are uploading your next podcast? 💞

[@exohsxx3432]

Damn, this is spot on! Especially on the optimistic part!!

[@lofidump]

hi jem!! i just wanted to thank you for your videos and podcasts :] i really love hearing you talk about life bcs it makes me feel much more at ease. i also tend to feel down on the days that u upload, so having new videos to come and relax to make me feel so much better!! so thank u so much

[@summertaylor8907]

the rain in the background was so soothing 🥰

[@speakvedder1331]

Gurl, thanks so much for this video, I think it rocks and I know it’s gonna help people out there. A lot of people need to hear this advice (including me) :)

[@misoletters]

Jem giving me the validation I really needed for the past few days :( I really appreciate this! ♥

[@nintaro-]

thank you for the free therapy session

[@timtim2247]

Your points were very valid 🙂 And may I say I love your make up and hair 😍

[@rennalynocana5042]

I love listening to your voice and insights about things! Rooting 4 you Jem😊😊 I have also listened to some of your podcasts!

[@sophiebts8733]

U change my life thanks u sooooooooo much your videos make me a human🙏💜

[@gordonramsm3]

i just came from your podcast, i love the way you think oh my god.

[@tictactoe5161]

I love you Jem!! You have inspired me so much, and ur vids have helped me so much to get out of studying slumps and pull out a great mind set!!! Thank you so much!!!!!!

[@nowelnoorenzerin4600]

loved loved LOVED this video

[@ImJem]

love u so much!! really glad u enjoyed this video!

[@Avant402]

Thank You so much for this!! Just yesterday I was feeling really down on myself. And the gaslighting of yourself is real!!. But as of today that stops. I am going to celebrate the positive in my life and I will be working on the negative. And once again Jem thank you so much, and as always you are the best❤️

[@ramandeepkaur3675]

Thanks a lot for posting for this video.❤ 🎄🎇♥️ I can't explain in words that how much it helped me!‼ BTW UR VOICE IS SO CALMING THAT I CAN HEAR IT FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS 🎧🎧😍

[@emalix]

thank you SO much ! this was r e a l l y inspiring :,)

[@sakinahimani5888]

i love how u can simply put everything into words beautifully and i can relate to it as right now and in my current situation. And i somehow feel like youre like a sister to me cus i dont have one lol . This feels really nice. Thank you jem

[@turtleby]

omg i can relate so much thank you for making this :)

[@ImJem]

thank you so much for watching! glad u enjoyed the video :')

[@an_gel_707]

Bruh thank you for posting this video, I gotta fix this lazy and anxious mind of mine 😭

[@lamermavale]

This was very helpful, I, like many others in today's time, have a hard time just having the motivation or self love when we wake up in the morning. I will definitely implicate these methods into my life, thank you so much. I have been in a really dark place lately and this really made me think, and feel so much better about what is to come in life! thank you and stay safe. :^)

[@Luluu23-w3j]

Thank you for this video🤍

[@devonolvera5099]

We love you, Jem.

[@helen-ey3hx]

thank you a lot for this video ✨💕

[@lynnettie]

i love u sm jem! you're the best 💕

[@ImJem]

Love u!! Ty for watching😊

[@raquellandgraf2039]

Your videos just help me a lot, Thank you.

[@lilyedits9709]

thank you i really needed this

[@eunice808]

OHMIGOD EARLY IVE BEEN BINGE WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS LOL

[@ImJem]

💕💕💕

[@ArtDiariess]

Saaaammmmee

[@maheenmohammed7318]

Really needed this video Jem thanks for posting it! I really loved how open you were being in the video and that it was longer than most of ur videos too

[@clouds5547]

Happy #AdoreYouDay !! And i adore you jem :D

[@Sofia-ssn]

two days late but i love the video ! thank you for the advice once again jem

[@extraiceplease2093]

I really needed this. Thank you!! 🥰

[@aneesa5462]

thank you for uploading this! it really means a lot and is super helpful!

[@jahanarasiddiki8186]

Aahh😍😍 My favourite youtuber❤️❤️ Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩

wow someone served truth tea and its delicious 😋

[@mayamufti983]

i needed this, thanks boo

[@zaraa6747]

Please watch the full video and subscribe to her channel , she's a love !!!! Free therapy ❤❤

[@ravenebe]

what is in background sound, it is kinda make me concentrating. crazy

[@kauealves7261]

Have you ever read the books from OSHO? He’s amazing and the subject’s what he’s treat it’s about fear, confidence, intelligence, love etc, and it has one book for each subject. I think you should try it to deal with emotions including anxiety, helped me to look inside of me and see myself and besides that knowing me, having a good look about people around me and figure out what’s goin on in my life and what kinda person I want to be... just think about it and give it a try 😊☺️☺️ luv u ✨

[@mettabel8097]

Thank you so much for this video, I really needed these tips! I hope I'm able to use them in practice

[@masterstrawberry6093]

thank you, i needed this video rn

[@anushkabhattarai3209]

yay finally first i love u jem 🥰🥰🥰🥰ur videos are so soothing 🙂

[@najd9087]

ahhhhh i love love love you for this :')

[@Joe-ew2gf]

i love how you changed your mindset from this capitalist "24h of your time = 24h of bill gates" to a more aware and "real" perception of productivity and healthy living!

[@anadiaz4020]

Love you, sis❤️🙏 thank u so much 💖

[@lissysebastian7904]

Ooh it's amzinggg tips thank u so much ❤😍

[@joannacasimiro3438]

I just love her and this really helped me. :)

[@em-wi6gm]

i love this, thank you

[@SuperNintendowiz]

i love this omg this is just what i needed 🥺💖luv u sm

[@ImJem]

love u more 🥺💕

[@nancypamelacolonespinal4054]

I LOVE SO MUCH THIS VIDEO ♥

[@atsumihikari1086]

I love your videos they are so advisable and helpful, and relatable. : )