10 Minimalist Rules That Changed My Life

These rules of minimalism changed my life. As a lot of you know, I love setting up rules for myself; they become guidelines that keep me going in the direction I want to go with little effort because all I need to do is follow the rules I set up for myself.
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[@GabeBult]

What minimalist rule changed your life?

[@LivingProcess]

I do the box up ... if I don't know what to do with an object I put in a box and if I haven't touched it within 30 day I donate or gift them

[@already_not_yet]

1. The enjoyment of a trip is roughly proportional to the amount of stuff you bring. 2. If it doesn't have obvious value in your life, get rid of it. (This applies to way more than possessions.) 3. Minimizing is not decluttering. Decluttering is just moving the junk elsewhere. 4. "Just in case" is not a sufficient reason to keep an item. 5. Minimalism involves way more than just possessions. It involves how you spend your time and what relationships you allow as well.

[@sandrarekker585]

Fire Rule. Would I miss item, if it was lost in a fire. That is a pretty good indication if it needs to be in your life. There are a few other rules I like to use before bringing an item into my home. 1) Do I need it; How will it improve my life 2) Should I wait to get the item that I really want or buy what will do for the moment 3) the 80/20 rule on wardrobe: you wear 20% of your wardrobe 80% of the time (I'm trying to get my wardrobe down to pieces I really love) 4) @GabeBult the channel has opened me up to the potential of having less and doing more with the money I have by investing instead of spending. Thanks,Gabe!

[@geemail369]

Just asking myself _"When did i use this thing last?"_ handling an item that just seemed to pop up out of nowhere.

[@karolinaska6836]

Having my kids follow the one in, one out rule from an early age, as well as the gifting of experiences.

[@TheS0meguy]

No fluff, no unnecessary talking, not hipster or cheese storytelling: just plain down to earth, good to learn tips. Subscribed 😊

[@coachmr.ice717]

Same

[@calisongbird]

What is “cheese storytelling”?

[@QuickSticks8771]

It’s rare isn’t it

[@alisonhendry2928]

Same!

[@Obby_Unsk]

Not hipster but something hipsters would probably enjoy

[@cjhoward409]

When I was growing up, my parents and grand parents didn’t buy us toys. We went on trips. And I remember those trips. Camping, traveling to Europe etc. 👍🏻 Yes, all about those experiences !

[@GabeBult]

Definitely the plan for my kids

[@73cidalia]

We couldn’t afford toys or trips. 🤷🏻‍♀️ But you’re right. Experiences are so much better.

[@cjhoward409]

@@73cidalia And a lot of trips were just going bike riding to our park and my dad played tennis with me. That cost nothing but I remember those times more than any toys I might have received 😊

[@Kristenoyinbo]

I totally relate to that and agree with u

[@chetsenior7253]

I had a lot of great experiences and imagination building with my toys.

[@PeterGuzzardo]

Thanks for the 20/20 rule ! I actually did lose everything I ever owned. I put my entire NYC apartment into a storage locker and the locker was auctioned off because I missed one too many payments. For the 1st week it was devastating, then it became liberating. Minimalism is freedom.

[@MaePhilippe-Levy]

Depend on what to loose.... I would be devastated to loose my library....

[@mmp495]

"Investing in experiences" That got me right there. That's golden ✨️ 💛

[@carebaer]

That’s actually what I’d always asked for as gifts for my kids when they were small too! Like a trip to the Children’s Museum or a pass to a trampoline park! That kind of stuff. That way our house didn’t get as cluttered as it could’ve. :)

[@YuokiuKern]

00:04 The house on fire rule helps you evaluate your attachment to material possessions. 01:13 The 2020 rule is about letting go of items you keep 'just in case' 02:18 Use the two-day rule to develop new habits. 03:15 Consistency is key for forming and maintaining habits. 04:19 Investing money into experiences instead of stuff. 05:25 Focus on needs over wants and stop worrying about what others think 06:26 Implement the 90 rule to determine what to buy and reduce unnecessary expenses 07:29 Implementing the two-minute rule and nightly reset has cleared up my calendar and made a significant positive impact on my life.

[@kenc.9067]

Thank you for taking the time to index this video.

[@ElMona]

House on fire is basically the Marie Kondo method

[@kaitlynkarol4600]

He said he had 10 rules but there are only 8....hmm?

[@purple_circle6612]

Thanks!

[@janemars5225]

​@@kaitlynkarol4600 80:20 rule maybe? He de-cluttered two rules.

[@Starlight-qr7cq]

..."Just in case I need to make 18 cups of coffee at once..."🤣

[@burnt_toast]

As a person with ADHD, I feel like minimalism is the way to go. Loved the tips and I'm confident it'll change the quality of my life drastically if I follow it right. I'm commenting here so that someone can keep reminding me to watch this video. That way it won't just stay in my saved videos playlist.

[@DadJuniorVideos]

As a fellow person with ADHD don’t let this go away just because another activity took over and gets invested into heavily. I’m on board with this as well. Too much going on in my head as it is and trying to concentrate on and all the stuff I have just sitting around doesn’t help. It’s got to go

[@JimmyMoultray]

Adhd here too.. agreed. Commenting so I have more invested in re-watching this video when it's not 4am lol

[@bullockclive]

As a fellow ADHD person, it would be great to be able to actively do these 10 things, I wonder whether there is a ADHD compatible way to achieve the same outcomes? @@DadJuniorVideos

[@bradenchamberlain9217]

Commenting for the other adhd commenters.

[@jacobbenton9500]

Yes, let this be help for all the folks with ADHD! I always find that the less my space is cluttered, the less it takes up space in my brain. Definitely going to implement some of the tips

[@BikesNBeers]

This is ace! Two rules I've really adopted lately for more general household living is... 1) Don't leave a room with empty hands - Helps keep things tidy with little extra effort. 2) One touch rule - If you pick something up to move it or tidy up, make sure you won't have to address it again. You sort the problem rather than just pushing it to another time.

[@glendahunt8013]

I would be relieved if they told me my $200/mo storage unit burned to the ground. Wow...I just realized that at this moment. Thank you.

[@zerbinauto]

Its literally a money shredder. Unless you have piles of gold hidden in there. 😂

[@tronskywalker]

For real!! I’m paying $200 a month for items I visit twice a year. In the process of clearing it out. It will be amazing. $200 extra cash into Bitcoin 🙌

[@BrinnerDang]

I've been hand washing the dishes before bed. It's a nice way to begin winding down and it's sooo refreshing waking up to a clean and clutter free kitchen every morning. Subscribed.

[@seandelaney1700]

Agreed, It stinks to wake up to having to clean before you can even make coffee. Sounds like you discovered the key, to enjoy the process.

[@BL-rb7jm]

My son is someone whooh put a lot of effort into getting me to think about experiences rather than material things. He's sort of a reflection of what I used to be before life took a lot of life out of me. He has taken me to mexico. New york city. And places i've never seen before. And it feels so awesome to feel like you're young again. He says mom I want you to enjoy life. I want you to experience things that you need to experience and that you missed out. So it doesn't matter what age you are start experiencing life. Leave the past behind because you're not going back direction.

[@AScrapOfKindness]

Bless you both. This speaks to what a solid and loving mother you have been to raise such a wonderful son. May you have many more priceless experiences and moments together.

[@Kelly_Ben]

❤ I'm taking my mom to Ireland soon. We've been talking about it since I was 7 years old, but she's always spent every second and every dime taking care of others. I've started a fund for 2024, and told her to research our roots so we can choose an itinerary. She's earned it, and I don't want her to die without experiencing her #1 bucket list item, after giving up so much for her family.

[@leahkarp29]

So precious!

[@criminyworldriseedify8962]

That’s beautiful

[@BL-rb7jm]

@AScrapOfKindness Life is so short. Enjoy family while you're still alive.

[@annamarie2849]

Thank you for sharing such great tips that I have not heard from other minimalists channels. I appreciate how your communication style is direct and concise!

[@Gumby1978]

I am a minimalist but you have cleared my vision. I am humbled by your discipline. I subscribed to learn more so that I will do better.

[@BRACubSP]

That is one excellent video. I rented my place in NJ and moved to TX. left 95% of my stuff in a storage unit in Hoboken. Came back and reopened all those boxes just to find out that say 80% of the stuff I had stored (and paid storage) had no real use or emotional connection. Unplanned act, but ended up helping me figure out I really didn't need so many jackets, small collectables, old laptops, sweaters, old or broken gadgets....all things I didn't really need. So I donated some, threw away some. And only kept what I really liked and USED. Excellent video. I feel so much better now, and ready for new things in my life!

[@manuelacacciato6729]

You choosed Italy for your trip! As italian i’m proud for this. Thank you for your preference!

[@mohamednassef6079]

Living a simple life is beautiful, thank you for sharing that 20/20 rule.

[@BL-rb7jm]

Status symbol is a form of control. Knowing who you are inside and living by your own principles is the best control that you can have over your life.

[@deejay-it1dv]

This video is a total eye-opener. The rules are so simple to follow, and I've already decluttered my space using the tips. It's amazing how a minimalist approach can make life less chaotic and more fulfilling!

[@Nigeen100]

Thank you Gabe. Your videos have been very inspiring and changed my life positively. 😊❤

[@veronicastewart7875]

Thank you for sharing this video Gabe! ☺️🙏🏽

[@gailtester8749]

The two minute rule turned me into a neat and tidy person! The nightly reset makes me start my day with a smile. Been doing them both for a while now. Playing the minimalist game with a couple of friends...going to use the house on fire question. Good stuff!

[@queenzummo]

I have a 3 second rule when I’m trying something on in a dressing room, which is usually in a thrift store. If I don’t love it in the first 3 seconds, it goes back on the rack. That way everything I own is something that I loved in 3 seconds.

[@Kelly_Ben]

I love thrift shipping, and I love your 3 second rule! Thanks!

[@darnitthelma4247]

I won’t shop the week my period is due! I’m bloated and make wrong choices 😮😂

[@sscbkr48]

In other words, you're an impulse shopper!

[@drivinfool9902]

Love your mellow voice and approach. I can definitely use your items in my life. Thanks for sharing. 🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@rob.taylor]

I've watched a lot of videos on this subject. I appreciate the way you approach the topic and your laid-back style. The minimalist rule that began to change my life was the 2 Year Rule. It was a way to begin, or to ease my way into something like de-cluttering a closet or garage. For example, I go through the clothes and if I haven't worn it within 2 years, I donate it. Same with my tools, books, and so on. Then when I see the results, it acts as encouragement to take bolder steps.

[@deetrvl4life875]

Really enjoyed this video! Straight on point with no fluff! I have a rule I would call the Daily Touch Rule. When I’m getting ready for a trip to the VA, usually 4 days, I open a suitcase and everything I actually USE in a day, goes into the suitcase (minus gadgets). When I return home I know what I did NOT need and declutter some from that point. I’m going to incorporate some of your tips! Thank you!! PS the ‘Just in Case’ was a big realization!

[@nr7701]

In regards to your last rule, when I was teaching I found it helpful to layout not only my clothes, but even what I was going to need to put into my pockets the next day. One less decision that I had to make in the morning before going out the door!

[@andersnielsen6044]

Well any normal human being it brought up to do so. Always pack up and be ready for tomorrow - before you go to sleep. ;)

[@michah7214]

It's not particularly painful for me to make small decisions and they are easier in the morning than at night when I'm tired and it's one more task keeping me from going to bed at a decent hour. Shaming people for not having the same routine as you isn't cool

[@cbrashsorensen]

A breath of fresh air post on minimalism. One worth jotting down a couple of notes. I remember my last trip to Europe in a carry-on and THAT was the beginning of my final steps into simple minimal living. Thank you.

[@sparkle9482]

AWESOME! Helpful Tips Definitely going to do the 2 minute rule🙏❤

[@dougchat]

The 2 minute rule is the best. Amazing how many "things" get done immediately.

[@LifeAfter208]

The 2 minute rule has been a game changer for me, and I learned it from you. So thank you so much for that. I'm now able to make small shifts that are making big changes in my life .

[@grtoocool]

100%. I used to have this bad habit, especially during the weekend when I'd wake up and just lay back down on my bed scrolling through my phone for 20 minutes and sometimes it ends up being 30 minutes! While the 2 minute rule sounded extreme.. it really helped so much.

[@kidb1998]

Had to take notes. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾

[@sandrajunkin4416]

Your calm demeanour grabbed my attention, and I enjoyed the video. And great tips. ( I am on the old side, and happily have been living this way for a while).

[@KatarinaWestRE]

These tips are great! My house really did burn down last year and we lost everything. It was a great lesson to know that our happiness wasn't tied to our material possessions like you said. And honestly it was a bit relieving because we got a fresh start to live more minimally with less stuff.

[@kenc.9067]

To a degree, it's not what happens to you, it's how you react to what happens to you, that determines your outcome in life.

[@KatarinaWestRE]

@@kenc.9067 so true!

[@philippamayall2091]

Me too. 35 years ago. But I lost my family too. That’s still a hard pill to swallow cos the fire took all their photos. I hate that part. Everything else is an inconvenience at best

[@KatarinaWestRE]

@@philippamayall2091 I’m so sorry for your losses, I can’t imagine going through that. ❤️‍🩹

[@tarablue4472]

I have a back pack at the ready to take during an evacuation. In it is a micro SD card and a couple of readers for it. Also a small collection of favourite photos, some clothes, water bottles, toiletries, first aid kit. I feel I have everything I need in there for such a scenario. I also have a mobile HDD offsite at a family members house.

[@9FatraBbits]

I love the 20/20 and box rules. I’m a “pile” person. When you said “just in case” that’s me!!! (Little piles here and there and everywhere.) And you’re right anything I have for “just in case” is not needed and easily replaced. Thanks! 🍁🍂

[@carmenalabat8425]

Definitely will try some of these. Awesome Gabe😊

[@donaldknapik2706]

Great getting started video. Simplifying your life is a journey not an event. My new rule is no more than two projects on my workbench at any one time. It forces me to finish what I start.

[@rachelmckoskybennett8285]

The Minimalist Mom calls that the Time Will Tell Box. It’s brilliant. So is that 20 20 rule - I hadn’t heard that one before and it is a great guide that I will put to use.

[@krishnakumarraghu]

I stumbled upon your video by chance and I have to say, it resonates with everthing that I am trying to do with my life now. Especially, now that my wife and I are juggling between our jobs, household chores, taking care of a toddler etc. The 2 minute rule combined with have a home rule is how I try to keep my sanity around the house for a while now. Also recenty sold my secondary laptop. Downsizing feels really good. Great content. Keep posting.

[@elisadelgado176]

I Love them all!! I found out I am practicing at least one of your ideas!!! THANK you!!

[@RoderickBahe-uo2qg]

Thanks for the tips. Definitely will try some out and hopefully help me to take a load off and focus on what I need, not what want.

[@kenc.9067]

"The stuff we own, ends up owning us. " There is so much truth and wisdom in this statement. I am in a constant war against clutter, and it has led to numerous arguments with my wife. I wish she would learn the 20/20 rule.

[@OwenVachell]

This is great. Particularly like the 20/20 rule. I have so much stuff I could throw out under this rule. I have a similar rule for buying clothes. I tell myself that if don’t absolutely LOVE IT when I look at it in the shop, I probably won’t like it that much when I get it home, or in a couple of weeks. So it’s a no. 👌🏻subscribed

[@sarahslan4548]

New 🇬🇧 Subscriber here. I really enjoyed this video - thank you for the tips; all really useful. I already live quite a minimalist lifestyle but you’ve added fresh ideas to my repertoire. The 2 minute anti-procrastination rule is new to me and I’m adding that in. I also like the Nighttime Reset; I’ve been trying to get more set up before bed time but it’s not an ideal routine. I’m going to work on this over the coming weeks to form what I think will be a very good new habit. Thank you for sharing your ideas!

[@terrastone1173]

I needed this today. My daughter and my best friend keep trying to get me to get rid of STUFF. I am not materialistic but since a major life change has happened I have bought more things like clothes and cups. I have realized I am slowly becoming a hoarder because of this life change. I am going to take everything you said and start making this change today. Thank you so much for the inspiration.

[@g.m.4877]

I wish i had heard this 40 years ago. Bloody brilliant, such succinct wisdom!

[@essaysbyken]

Minimalism clicked for me whenever I heard Joshua Fields Milburn say, "I dont have a lot of clothes, but all of my clothes are my favorite clothes." It's quite nice to be able to blindly reach into your closet, pull out an article of clothing, and be able to think, "Yep, this is what I'll wear" without even needing to take a second glance if you didn't need to. Everything should be that way in regards to our stuff. Life is too short to settle for second-string underwear.

[@TheSoloist1Alone]

Great, great advice bro. I’m definitely adding most to my arsenal ✊🏾💯

[@eviek3809]

You were reading Save the Cat! 🙂 And I couldn't agree more about the experience rule, we've started moving towards this as well.

[@djellisdee]

One rule that has worked out well for me is "Cost per wear" or "Cost per use". So for a clothing example: if you wear the item a lot and it lasts a long time, then the "cost per wear" keeps going down over time, so even if it's kind of an expensive purchase at first, the "cost per wear" is what really should be considered. For a nice jacket, a nice pair of jeans, a nice pair of shoes etc., the "cost per wear" can actually be quite low, and that's a good thing. The worst scenario is if you buy a pricey item and you only wear/use it a few times, purchases like this should be avoided.

[@yu-ger-bloob-highway3521]

Yeah for sure! I used to buy Buckle jeans cause they tailor them and they look nice. They were also very durable and lasted a long time. I had finally busted 2 of my 3 pairs and went back to replace them and they must have changed the quality because both started getting holes and ripping with minimal use. Still wear my OG ones to this day without any problems, so definitely be careful if it’s been a while. Some companies start cutting corners in the time it takes to replace what you like.

[@shanebattistv2165]

Yes! I used to think stores like lulu lemon were ridiculous but here I am still wearing items I bought from them almost ten years ago and they still look great. Plus, fewer shopping trips means less opportunity to get sucked into impulse buying. For awhile I bought cheap clothes from target but they always shrunk or frayed within a few months

[@ianmarsden8568]

That resonants.

[@alisonhendry2928]

Totally agree! I was almost embarrassed when I had to admit to someone I was wearing a shirt that was over 27 years old! And it still looked fabulous! Thank you Ralph Lauren cotton men’s button down!

[@dsa2591]

Good rule! I recently decided to stop buying clothes at WalMart because they don't last or they lose their shape. I'd rather have fewer clothes of better quality, although I have very few clothes now, and know I can wear them for years than to have a bunch of WalMart stuff I'll have to toss out in a year or two at the most.

[@weekendexplorist]

Great content! That 2 days rule is awesome. For the past couple of years I’ve been really struggling to make time to read more. Although I really want that, somehow I always end up in bed at the end of the day without doing it. And this rule might really help. Thanks!

[@Terirn65]

This has been the best video I’ve seen in a long time. I will be sure to share with all my friends.

[@lisadenlinger9964]

Awesome Channel!!! I have watched 2 videos so far and am subscribed! Thank you for being real and making VERY relatable videos.

[@Nigeen100]

Love your videos. I was considering minimalism, all the benefits you explained made me go for it. ❤❤

[@sscbkr48]

Minimalism isn't a purchase, it's a philosophy. You have to live, eat and breathe it. Switching your consumption from stuff to a big house and euro vacations isn't minimalism!

[@Nigeen100]

@@sscbkr48 who said anything about euro vacations and switching to big house? What you talking about?

[@cjhoward409]

We sold our 2700 sf house and moved into a 150 sf class C motorhome. We lived in it for 3 years. Didn’t miss all the stuff we packed away. Then we settled on 5 acres and started building a house. As we were unpacking all that stuff, I honestly forgot about 90% of it. 😮😊

[@zeeinvest9473]

I just love your videos. As someone in my 20s, you’re educating me and saving me from making so many mistakes in the future. This content is so valuable, you deserve every bit of monetisation you gain from it. This is the kind of content I live for. I really love your philosophy on life btw. I never had good parents, I kind of look to you as a father figure.

[@sharpenrightservicesllc]

I really like your channel. Great practical tips. I know you are focused towards young people but an old guy like me always get some great tips from you. You are never too old to learn to live better. Thanks for sharing. 🙂

[@alexxbaudwhyn7572]

I watch way too many minimalist videos

[@TanyaPoort]

Time to minimize

[@user-vx7vi3vq1c]

Savage comment.

[@VMVarga-yf6eg]

Maybe incorporate your consumption of minimalist videos into your minimalist routine??

[@joja2568]

I learn alot from your channel. Thank you.

[@GabeBult]

Thanks for watching! I learn a lot from making it lol

[@honeysucklemotherhood]

Wonderful content! Thanks so much for all your hard work on this. Excited to apply these rules, especially the 90 percent rule.

[@DUDE72341]

gabes been, taking inventory good job! All well said

[@Lilybakesandcooks]

As someone who lost all my clothes three years ago, yes it did effectively make me sad and depressed. The memories of this green shirt with a leaf on it is always something I can’t forget has it was a hammy down shirt. From my brother to my sister to me.

[@user-bx6gv8zm3s]

No fluff, no unnecessary talking, not hipster or cheese storytelling: just plain down to earth, good to learn tips. Subscribed

[@GabeBult]

Thanks !

[@swampcastle8142]

Good stuff. I do the sharpie method, kind of like the box rule. I write the year on an item when I buy it. Helps me know how long something lasted. Helps me put into context how often I've needed it. If I'm not sure if I still need it I write the current month and year. If another 6-12 months go by and it hasn't been used out the door it goes.

[@fredamariebrown4727]

This is great! I'm WITH ya!

[@kimedick3999]

For 35yrs. I've always asked 3 questions when shopping-- Do I want it, Yes - Do I need it, No but I want it - Do I want to dust it - Yeah, it stays on the store shelf!

[@Mk56b]

When I moved I lost 2/3 of my stuff I lived in my rental from a suitcase and basic dishes. That period changed my life. Now I just don’t shop and my house has little storage but just enough to keep me happy.

[@solangeherault7038]

Love it it makes so much sense and easier. You’re right on

[@bernadettealabin2738]

A straightfprward video! Thanks so much, Gabe!

[@sableann4255]

We are moving after 22 years. The amount of STUFF that is collected is insane! And I am a cleaner, I purge and sell allot. I had a big moving sale on Saturday. Sold 80% of what I had purged, the rest went to Habitat & Good will. It's just stuff....you can get more stuff! Now , I want less. It makes life calmer, less stressful. I spend money on experiences now, not things.

[@elcilove]

Can you talk about minimalism and also staying prepared for emergencies like natural disasters? I find myself holding onto a lot of things "just in case" of an emergency

[@venpeddapalli7189]

His mantra is not set in stone. If you need some stuff in emergencies then keep it. You can adopt his principle to what suits you.

[@shaymaabdulshakour5347]

Love this thank you for sharing all this information. What really stuck were these: The 2 day rule for not missing a new habit The nightly reset Starting today 👏🏻 thanks

[@MsLucianaM]

Thank you from Brazil! Very clear tips, and easy to apply, too !I loved them! Subscribed!

[@azannah]

I couldn't have stumbled onto this video at a better time! I just retired and moved from a fully (overstuffed) furnished home I lived in for 22 years to another fully furnished home. I am trying to go through all the boxes I brought and decide what to keep and what to part with. The home I moved into was my mother's home. It is filled with family photos and mementos from a 90-year life. So much I need to part with but so, so hard.

[@megatuanis]

Have someone help you. Oftentimes, having a neutral person who is not attached to those memories (and who loves decluttering) makes the process less painful.

[@Pokefitdad]

Thank you, definitely needed this.

[@louisphilip_s]

You’re awesome dude! I loved this video. Can’t wait to see what else you can teach me ❤

[@CeeJay2.O]

Been going through depression and anxiety over the last few years and through therapy I've come to realise that I am in need of closure on circumstances that have affected me for a long time, I'm in a transistional period of my life and been binge watching alot of these types of videos, came across your channel and am appreciative of your pov... Am just saying thank you for the content you put out and helping me out by decluttering not only my things but decluttering my mind too, take care and have a safe Christmas and new year into 2024... To those that think it's ok to harrass others pov you can stfu and crawl under the rock you came from

[@garydorfner6695]

Get over it. Move on. Geez. Stop thinking about yourself and what you need to do.

[@stephanijeopdevelt5600]

@@garydorfner6695What the hell is wrong with you? I think it would be best to take your own advice and leave others alone. Are you that much hurting that you have to take others down to your level of hurt? Wouldn’t it be feeling great, if someone would reach out to you and show their appreciation? Be the change you want to experience. I wish you love and peace - and healing of whatever is darkening your mind and soul.

[@AlGrant-bh9or]

To CeeJay2.0: I wish the best for you during your time of despair. I've been there. It's the worst. I'll bet you can make it out. Warmth to you.

[@solidworks7]

The key is balance...pretty well every self declared minimalist I know is hyper focused on this thinking and takes this too far, it often becomes an obsession. Those that are overwhelmed in stuff, can certainly find that reductions in the amount of their stuff is freeing. Good principles overall.

[@heidiho3089]

Good point. Becoming obsessed with the process is not exactly freeing. Good reminder. Balance.

[@JornadaTraderCS]

the fact that u gave so much quality tips in less than 10 minutes shows how ur really used to apply these tips ur giving away, thats incredible!

[@paritoshbhatt]

Thanks for Sharing this ! Nice Editing.

[@joegagliardi3965]

I’m lying in my bed and I’m realizing that 95% of the “things” around me have no substantive meaning to me.

[@L.Fontein7]

...But hopefully not your bedmate though, right? 😉

[@greenalien3857]

Ditto

[@sarairvin9727]

The house on fire rule is great for people who have not sufgered from house fires personally. Earlier this year 90% of my stuff got damaged from my whole apt bldg burning down and as someone who already had nothing and was displaced over an hour away it was absolutely devastating. Especially cause most of the things I cared about were things like my personal art collection, books, etc. So most of the paper or cloth products either burned or molded away from the water used. I also had a lot of heirloom things that were just unable to be found. Lots of precious memories and items that I genuinely treasured and adored from my family out the window, and I mourn everyday 😞

[@swlc5555]

I agree with you completely on this. I could get over a house fire if all I had was basic furniture, clothes, a tv, and computer. I'd also add that the structural house was insured so I wouldn't go into massive debt. I imagine most people who like the fire rule are people in that scenario. Like you, I have many family heirlooms and personal family items that have deep meaning for me. If they went up in flames, I would be devastated. The furniture and TV I wouldn't care about, but those priceless items I would. I'm very sorry that happened to you.

[@roseeze166]

This is one of the best meaningful videos ive seen on KZbin in a long time

[@autobotdiva9268]

been decluttering since may. lifechaning!!!

[@zeitgeist888]

I have used most of the rules at one point in my life or another and they all have been of value depending on the circumstances. If there is emotional attachment some work better than others as does stopping procrastination or building a new habit. I went from $20K in debt to retiring at 46 debt free with minimalism and haven't had a regret of getting rid of anything nor living happily with what I have. The epiphany of how little I need also came from taking a 2 month trip to the middle east with just a carry on and enjoying how light and easy it was. Another 3 month trip to Europe sealed the deal. Now I try to think what would I grab and carry out of the house in one trip if some natural disaster was heading my way and everything would be destroyed. Everything else is probably not needed. I haven't quite got there with tools as I work on cars as a hobby but everything else is one trip moveable.

[@irbeliaespinosa6622]

Your story is quite inspirational. Kudos for you.👍

[@13gondolla37]

I would add to the box rule. I keep a tote bag by the kitchen. If I come across something I don't use and realize I really don't need it, it goes into the tote. When the tote fills up I donate it. The tote is always there so as soon as I know I don't want the thing I can get it out of my space. I have ADHD and before the tote it felt like I would find a thing and think about getting rid of it but then fully conceptualize the process and immediately become overwhelmed. Now its just something that I can pop in the car every few months and have a little less clutter in my house.

[@vanessabrumage6277]

HOW have I been watching you over the past two years or so, that I recall, and I only JUST clicked subscribed? Hopefully you hit 500k soon, you're journey has been awesome to watch, and I love how you invite others to try habits that worked for you and what ones didn't and what you did to trouble shoot when positive habits weren't sticking and why. It makes the process of adjusting my lifestyle even easier when I can see what others have tried in success and failure, and what to consider when things failed rather it was me or just not a good time to adapt it to my life yet.

[@merschel]

I really enjoy your channel. Keep up the good work! I was watching this video and you mentioned the house on fire rule, which is ironic, because my house burned down in a wildfire two years ago. I wasn't that upset about all the possessions that I lost because I have a similar mindset as you.

[@usernametaken799]

I love reading books, so I decluttered a lot of those I was sure I wouldn’t read or re-read. I tried buying only e-books for a while, but I don’t really like reading on a tablet as much as a physical book. So now I have a rule that I will only buy and read one book at a time, and will sell/donate/gift it before I buy a new one. This rule is actually making me read a lot more than before I implemented it 😅 And I don’t buy a lot of books I never read anymore 😃👏🏻

[@witchypoo3535]

That's why I use the library cos I can just return the books when read 😊

[@usernametaken799]

@@witchypoo3535 I also love the library, but unfortunately they don't have all the books I would like to read. I live in a small town, and I don't want to ask them to buy new books all the time 😅

[@witchypoo3535]

@@usernametaken799 Awww yes I understand 😀 I'm lucky to have a large library in the next town. I do buy some in charity shops aswell... Reading is great! 😍

[@usernametaken799]

@@witchypoo3535 That sounds amazing! I used to love the big library when I lived in a bigger city. I totally agree, reading is great! Forever grateful to the people who invented books! 😍

[@aaronag7876]

As a ADHD / Dyslexic / Depressive with OCD and hoarding lol, I had so many issues letting go of "Stuff" and after a massive life changing event, well 3 of them, I stepped back and looked at what I had. You are right, probably 90% of what I had could go, but it was the emotional attachment to the objects or "Things". I couldn't get over letting them go but it was adding to the emotional baggage keeping them. After the 3 life changing events (yes I know you want to know what they were lol - my last suicide attempt, My diagnosis that I had ADHD and my doctor telling me I had prostrate cancer). Clearly I didn't complete the suicide attempt, which was my 3rd. My ADHD I now have meds for and the Prostrate cancer ? Medical mistake when my records were updated, took 3 days to confirm it was a mistake. The thing is it took the life changing events to change my view of the "material assets", which I will lose, when I "leave this mortal coil". So why not take action now and start letting go. I does really help and I feel more at peace, less likely to be thinking about the items and feel more positive. Thank you for the video

[@karinam4115]

Don’t give up, have faith in Jesus Christ for a positive outcome and healing as there’s nothing impossible for God. There are herbal supplements that can add to your treatment with hospital treatment like cats claw, other supplements , our minds are powerful so our words with faith can change outcome , I speak life in abundance in Jesus Mighty name 🙏 amen!

[@sherbear2016]

Glad you’re still here with us! We never realize how many people we will affect if we end our lives (ourselves). It’s devastating! So keep up the good fight. Trust in the Lord and ask for His help to endure life’s challenges. You are a valuable son of God with infinite worth! ❤️

[@aaronag7876]

@@sherbear2016 thanks for your words but I'm not a believer in God or Jesus Christ. I didn't ask for their help and I endured it on my own. I'm not going to ask for help when Im already better

[@sherbear2016]

@@aaronag7876 Ok. Do what you think is best. If you don’t think you will ever feel that way again and need help in any way, then you are doing better than most of us.

[@healthyfreesoul]

@@karinam4115 Do you realize how arrogant it is to assume that someone is or should be Christian? Maybe try being supportive of someone who has had great struggle without need to make it about you and your personal ways.

[@ThinKtakeNotes]

"Set up for Success the Night Before"-- I really like that. Awesome video was also trying to find out the song around 6:40 mark, it was super zenful. Great video, clear speaking as well... I gotta work on that myself.

[@TheGregPerry]

I cannot BELIEVE I never knew about you sooner. You are amazingly good. I've only watched a few so far (oh yes, I subscribed and now get notifications on every video you post), and when I see the title of many, I think, "He is great, but I don't care about this subject" and then you DRAW me right in and I get some tip I didn't expect, want, or think I needed. Like minimalism - that doesn't interest me... until I hear YOU discuss it! Gabe, please continue what you do. Thank you SO MUCH for not being ashamed of Scriptural wisdom and not being hesitant to use it as your absolute source for truth.

[@YourMissMarianne]

I had to put a large percentage of my belongings into storage for 3.5 years. When I was finally in a position to put it all in my new place, I realized that I'd lived without all those things for so long and didn't miss any of it. Some of this stuff I'd been carrying around for 40 years. So, I only grabbed what was essential like a few cooking pots, then I reboxed everything and took it to a resale shop. I actually have cabinets that have nothing in them! I have surface space without knickknacks on them. I also want it to be as easy as possible on my son when I pass away, to unload my things. Less is better and so freeing.

[@bananaanna1373]

I have quoted the 20/20 rule for the last 3 yrs but have now decided it doesn’t quite apply anymore. Yes, things are mostly back in stock since covid but now things that cost $20 often cost $30+ and we aren’t bringing in much more income (btwn higher taxes, etc). So the 20/20 rule needs to be updated and we all need to carefully think about what we get rid of and bring in a LOT less.

[@jadedelarge8929]

I feel the same way after the pandemic. I am not buying anything that I don't need anymore, but I am holding on to some things "just in case" because I know I will be paying a lot more money for them when the time comes to use them. You might have an item put away for years and not use it, but the minute you get rid of it, it's the moment you will need it. It has happened to me many times. I will use the box idea and put them out of sight. That I like.

[@Andgilablemeb]

I agree. I am a minimalist - however - I have gone shopping in my closet of clothes and I always find something that will work for all those post covid weddings. I also agree that if you purchase good quality items that you love, you will reuse them many years.

[@heatherdavidson8801]

Love it. Great tips. Starting w 2 min rule now. And factoring in the others bit by bit. Thanks.

[@Dirk80241]

This is a 90%+ video, I am keeping it! (= I subscribed) I love the straightforwardness of your presentation, no fluffy talk, straight to the point with usefull footage. Makes a lot of sense, thank you!

[@GabeBult]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@anthonylanzellotta7505]

4 years ago I was working 2 jobs full time and in the winter of 2020 I quit and went snowboarding all through California and the Rockies. Best thing I ever did. One of the valuable lessons I learned, as I am someone with no children and no desire to have any, is I loved only owning the gear I was using to board. I didnt own the places I was staying. The car I had was a lease and I had all my clothes in my bag. I only owned the gear, my phone, laptop and some clothes. It all fit in my car and I LOVED IT!!! I then aspired from then to live that life. But living like that you realize you do a lot of this stuff on this list naturally. While I have since gone back to work and have a more permanent residence my goal in the end is to live out of a hotel room with a kitchen. This way if I wanna move I just gotta pack a few bags. I dont even want the furniture. I do have a lot of expensive hobbies (ice hockey, snow boarding, and mountain biking) with a lot of expensive gear so it'll take a while. But a man can dream.

[@cindybogard8684]

My inlaws lived very happily in an extended stay hotel for several years. When they wanted to visit relatives or travel, they packed up, put the stuff in their car, put their car (with the stuff in it) into a storage locker, and went to the airport. When they returned, they got the car back, moved back into the hotel, unloaded the car, and that was it.

[@ImaReader-hb2tv]

I do think you can enjoy a home and make good memories without much stuff. A pool is fun to center memories around.

[@michaelhawke9036]

She is really amazing with her skills. She changed my 0.5BTC to 2.1BTC

[@MrCabimero]

Well done! Thank you for this I found it very helpful

[@YourMissMarianne]

The other thing I do now, is if I have to give someone a gift, I try to make it something edible. I think food gifts are better than knick-knack gifts, by far.